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That last sentence is the most important of your life if you still love her
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/26 01:55 PM
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Good bless this statement
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 03:29 PM
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She slept with someone else and gets 900k of my retirement. In some universe I guess that makes sense
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 03:26 PM
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I found that actually having a small conversation with the woman helped. “Hey I feel really good about this but please understand I’ve only been with one partner for the last 6 years…so let me know what you like and don’t like.” It really helps take the tension off and lets you tune into what she likes. Focusing on her made it easier on me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 05:48 PM
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Good advice
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/26 11:10 PM
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I agree if we are talking your entire self worth. We’re talking about wanting positive feedback from someone you’re sharing a life with.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/26 12:36 AM
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If I learned anything from this group it’s that anything can happen. Don’t give up!
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 04:51 PM
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I actually bought a couple of slightly more form fitting polos, and a woman around my age at an attorney’s office said “that shirt looks good on you”. And I got butterflies!! I’m like holy shit ONE nice compliment makes me feel like I’m 18 again! That might be a little sad to admit but it is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 04:48 PM
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You could have stopped after the 3rd sentence. Save your sanity. Leave yesterday
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 03:08 PM
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Good to hear there is some upside
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 02:28 AM
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It’s painful. Why is this so hard for them?
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 02:08 AM
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Kids are amazingly resilient. I think it hurts us more. Just keep loving on them.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/26 01:21 AM
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😂
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:31 AM
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Omg! That’s ridiculous, it’s like calling customer service and getting billed for it
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:30 AM
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Yes very true, I learned to only say things to her that are absolutely necessary. No more niceties!
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:25 AM
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😂 that was actually my first thought; what if there were TWO lawyers going back and forth? I know that answer because a client of mine who owns 12 McDonalds got a divorce that took 5 years. They fought over the dumbest things and both paid almost 7 figures to their attorneys. Absolute craziness.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:22 AM
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Everything in our life overwhelmed her. Simple things. What I found that to mean is she has uncontrolled anxiety and only blames the external source that triggers it. I tried like crazy to fix all those “things”. But anxiety will always find something else to trigger it. I didn’t stands a chance. Without her owning her condition all she can figure out to do is run from it, not deal with it. It’s heartbreaking.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 12:19 AM
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Being a great dad is hero work. You’re literally a hero. Don’t ever fucking forget that.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 12:29 AM
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Thank you! And I’m sorry you are going through this as well. Every point you made is exactly right!
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 10:29 PM
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