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| 3 | is it healthy to have access to significant others phone? | happyplumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 07:22 PM | |
| 2 | In a relationship how much porn is acceptable? What is crossing a boundary/when does it become a problem? | Discussion | happyplumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | boyfriend messages girls on reddit & porn sites. advice? | Question For Men | happyplumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 07:43 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | In a relationship how much porn is acceptable? What is crossing a boundary/when does it become a problem?Or what if he's on cam sites or messaging other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship how much porn is acceptable? What is crossing a boundary/when does it become a problem?Ok what if he uses cam sites or starts messaging with people. Are you still ok with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship how much porn is acceptable? What is crossing a boundary/when does it become a problem?I did tell him my boundaries. He crossed them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship how much porn is acceptable? What is crossing a boundary/when does it become a problem?We'll he has multiple emails and is on many porn sites. I think he may be camming or chatting with others. He also has less sex with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He lied about seeing other people while we were talking. Like lie after lie. And he has a porn reddit account & has multiple emails I didn't know about. I don't believe him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I'm concerned he's message people on reddit porn & other sites. I found several email addresses I didn't know he had. But isn't he entitled to privacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He watches porn and has less sex with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?The fighting I think is because I don't trust him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?What makes you say it's done regardless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?So you think all the fighting means we are not compatible & I should end it? He does so many good things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?No because he was seeing other people & lying. Then after I caught him the lies continued. I don't think people just stop lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Is reddit porn real people or just clips from porn movies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I don't think he's cheating. I think he may be lying about the porn sites he goes to. And I'm worried he's messaging other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?You're saying people who look at porn aren't into their partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Just getting perspective. My choice at the end of the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Oh that's so sad. What makes you say that?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I agree. And if he lied so extremely in the beginning he'll lie again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Ok but the actual porn webpage was closed. If he's looking at reddit porn do you think he's messaging people on reddit as well or just looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:55 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Yeah we did that in Aug. I have to move on. Would you be weirded out if you're partner was looking at reddit porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He told me he loved me within the first month. Wanted me to move in after 4 months & is talking about marriage. It's confusing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:46 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?What other sites can you message people on related to sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Because I caught him in some big lies about other women. Once I caught him he kept lying. This was on Aug so I have to let it go but I don't think people just stop lying. He also looks at reddit porn & a lot of porn sites. I saw some cam sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He also liked some girls pic but denies liking it. I think that's bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Yes. When we were dating he was seeing his ex & other girls. He lied to me about it. I found out 2 months later & even after I caught him he kept lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He uses a different account for reddit porn. I don't know what it is and it's not on his reddit app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:35 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?How do you know if they are messaging people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:34 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?If it's just lust when does that fade? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:32 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I don't know. His phone is always on silent. He mutes his conversations. You really have no idea what someone is doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:31 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?What makes you say he's messaging girls on reddit just because he looks at porn on reddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:30 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Because I understand where he's coming from. We dated in Jan & I ended things. I came back in June. I think he was protecting himself. But I don't think people stop lying. It's a habit. It happened in Aug so I have to let it go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:29 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Yes it was insecurity. We dated in Jan & I ended things. I came back in June & I understand he was scared. But he lied about so much. And people can't just stop lying. But it was in Aug. I have to let it go. I don't want to let him go. I want it to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Well he lied about some pretty serious things at the beginning. I don't think people just stop lying. He also wanted to move fast: move in after a month & said he loved me less than a month in. So I'm confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:24 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He lied in the beginning of our relationship & I think I'm having trouble trusting him. It took months to get the truth & I don't know if people just stop lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:21 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I think it's good to hear all perspectives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Well when we were dating (not official) he lied to me about a lot of serious things (like other people). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Yeah I might be fucking it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?How many fights are normal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:16 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Lol what's your thought on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 06:14 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?You don't think some amount of fighting is normal? Relationships ebb & flow. Are you saying jump ship when it gets hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:58 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He also had cam sites open. He said they just open a new tab when he watches porn. I don't believe it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:54 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Also he looks at the reddit porn. Has multiple email accounts. It's just weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:53 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?My issues are around trusting him. And that he's honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?It's been 4 months. That's earlier for a therapist! But I do like your suggestions & will try them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:51 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?He doesn't call me names or yell. He is very respectful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:50 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?You're right. I think I don't trust he's being honest & I'm getting resentful & pushing him away. He's afraid to communicate because he thinks I'll get upset. He hasn't messaged anyone. Or go on cam sites. I did go through his phone which is totally wrong. I know that's hurting vs helping things. Do you think if I stop bitching at every little thing & give him some space & not bite his head off if he does something to bother me we can work it out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?What's normal to fight in a relationship? Once a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:45 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?How do you know when you're at that point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:42 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Yeah I totally agree. It's the communication. I'm just struggling how to fix it. Suggestions? Books? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:41 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I tried a repair attempt & it's not working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Ok so are what point do you just say we're not compatible? I think he needs to communicate more & not think I'm going to get mad at him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Earlier this week we were supposed to see each other after work. Normally he texts me to come as soon as I'm done (normally around 2). I didn't hear from him at all & then called him at 5pm & it escalated. I don't feel desired or like he wants to see me. We fought over if going to a cam site was ok or not. Or if meeting someone & going out for drinks with them was ok (opposite sex). He said he wouldn't mind if I did but I was like wtf how would you not care if I went to drinks with a guy I met? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:35 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?You know I had to really think about this. What exactly we fight about. Different things. Not sure if it's my insecurities or actually an issue. He lied in the beginning of our relationship about seeing other people (we weren't official but he lied) a few months ago & it's hard to trust him. He posts me in social media, I meet his family & friends. He wants to move in & get married. Plans date nights. Is there emotionally. But his phone is always on silent & he mutes his texts. I do feel like I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:28 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?I agree you shouldn't fight all the time. But relationships also take work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:26 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?How do you know when it's normal couple arguments vs just a tough patch vs incompatibly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:21 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?Ok...a rut that's lasted 3 weeks. Normally we are good. Do you try harder or is it a sign of incompatibly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Ok so are we saying that if a guy has a chance to cheat without his gf finding out he will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:17 PM |
| – | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?You don't think every relationship has some type of tension sometimes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:14 PM |
| – | Loyalty should be deliberately searched for in a partner, not assumed and taken for grantedBut what counts as cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: one simple trick to not have a shitty relationshipHow do you know if arguing is part of a healthy relationship or means you're not compatible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?What would make a guy cheat for the first time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion - A relationship lasts longer when the girl is more obsessed with the guy than the other way round (which is the popular opinion)How long does it take for the obsession to fade in a new relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider cheating if a man have a wife/girlfriend and also like to see a lot of pics and videos of attractive women that is stored on his computer?Yes I'd consider that a boundary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsActually I take that back. Most women are too afraid of the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsHow long can a guy keep a lie up for until you see the real him or the truth comes out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsBullshit. Women want honest men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:03 AM |
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