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I am not buying anything of this, you are not even a woman. Why even give this advice? It is cheap and pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:39 AM
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Monkey see monkey do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:46 AM
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If you said a good looking woman it would be around the same if we are talking about more of a local/niche celebrity that is not internationally recognised. Average looking, definitely doesn’t have as much options as that but it would not be too far off either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:45 AM
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What I just explained, If she is not superficial and wants a deeper connection the guy who she doensn't know who DMs her is not as relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:36 PM
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well I have seen the first VR machine dating back to the 1950's but anyway YES, its not about solving its about profit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:35 PM
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Of course, I am just saying that if people expect you to take part in the online part, you are also competiting with lots of other individuals getting in her inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:31 PM
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Definitely agree with this very much. It was considered normal in a tribe for an elder person to be the relationship arranger, and this just does not happen anymore. We are left to ourselves to find these opportunities and they are very diffuclt setup in a modern enveiroment in a way that is effective. The ones who are inventing the technologies that are supposed to be the 'solution' to this are actually making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:30 PM
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What I meant with different is that I do not see myself taking part of the modern dating style and just want to find someone who thinks the same about that. Yes you need to know someone, but online thats almost just like doing an interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:25 PM
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Women get tons of attention in their inbox and engagement online. Men have to slither their way into someone's life and hope that you can get some scrapes of this attention so I've been seeing IRL contact is the only way forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:24 PM
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Thank you for the reply, it’s a really long one and I see you took your time to have a deeper understanding of my post. So I am 26 now and this is sort of the age where college years are over and everyone is just starting a career and being less social. I do take part in social gatherings, however I used to have way more friends before Covid. I actually moved from a small town to a big city a couple years ago and I’ve been working hard on reinforcing my social life here, either way good that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:13 PM
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Yes of course can't disagree with fact of nature that we all start as strangers but I am talking about how in modern dating connecting often happens with romance in mind but then being disappointed. Because unfortunatly for many strangers are the only options. My problem is that ''The ones we grow attracted to, we try to date''. It is this that almost never happens from a longer term source
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:28 AM
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Only seeing straight facts here, the only time I was able to get a relationship was before the times of Tinder/social media corruption took over with Covid (it was pretty bad before then too). We were both still naive about life, I have not experienced a single version of modern dating working since then and it has been 6 years, there’s just not many paths that lead to these methods that you said do work. From a certain point in life you are forced to be more individualistic, and having only onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:13 AM
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Anything other than monogamy promotes individual happiness above all else. If you want your offspring to thrive you do not choose your own needs, its about the child and the community you nurture around it. Historically being part of a community is what made marriage this bond where you tell everyone in the village we are taken, and shall not tolerate any sexual activity out of this bond. This was a social contract that benefits everyone who follows it, in society. When you have more family memb…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:32 PM
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I agree, the nuclear family is the only inhert proof of a functioning society that got us to where we are today. It's one of the most important lessons from religions, not that you need to be religious to understand this. You can agree or disagree with monogamy but it does not change the fact that you are here thanks to ~2000 years of monogamy, trying something else is just a dangerous experiment at large at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:21 PM
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ChatGPT can give better answers than all of you: "Proponents of monogamy often argue that it provides stability, consistency, and a strong family structure, which they believe are beneficial for children's development. They may argue that having two committed parents who are focused on raising a child together can provide a nurturing environment that fosters emotional security, support, and guidance. However, it's essential to recognize that the quality of parenting, the strength of the relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:18 PM
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Because you stop laughing when a kid with a different colour than expected comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:57 AM
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I don't get it, as a man who has a job, I cook and clean, why shoot my shot at a woman who thinks men are boring and claims she has everything that she needs? You speak as if men don't have everything that they need/are incapable of achieving it without a woman. The truth is that you love your comfort zone or have trust issues, or might not even be attracted to men in the first place (or the other way around). I don't know much about you at all, and even if I did I don't like judging people. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:48 PM
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I can think of a few reasons: Free therapy for women. Free protection from men. Free dates for women. Having access to regular sex without commitment. Easy access to ego boosting from simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:59 AM
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Imo not only is online dating hard and superficial, it's also very bad for society. It creates this notion that at any given moment. A woman can have validation from men from pictures saved in her phone. (It's almost like the female equavalent of men who watch porn and say they don't 'need' women) She wants revenge on someone? She can just pick up her phone and make someone come over. Everything would just way more fun and spontaneous knowing these apps wouldn't exist. I don't think I could ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:59 AM
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Because let's say a woman is 18 years old. Not only will all 18-21 year old men be interested, even ones that are much older. Now let's say a guy is 18 years old. There's not gonna be many women above his age that he or them are interested in. This all seems very simple imo. Younger women specially good looking ones are highly sought after
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:49 AM
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Imo I don't want to sound mean but most men are looking for thin or regular sized women. A women that is heavier than us is a turnoff knowing that weight is an insucrity for us men, we often want to be heavier ourselves by muscle mass and the ones that are heavy it's usually too much fat that they're trying to get rid off.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/21 12:58 PM
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You're the reason why some women start to hate men as a whole. Literally go fuck yourself OP and think about what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:30 AM
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My theory is that chasing women only works on a very specific type of woman that wants attention, on the rest it doesn't work much. Also I think that women that seek attention are seen as attention whores because among women to been seen as a high value target is to get attention from men without having to do things that indicate they're looking for attention, yet on the polar opposite side a man who plays into this giving attention and constantly chasing is seen as a simp which the male equival…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:05 AM
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So what is the first thing you say then? And idk man, do what you want but I'd say go in it with the lowest possible expectations because you're going to be disappointed a lot.
/r/seduction27/06/20 01:38 PM
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A decent looking girl will normally get more matches than that in just a day. And getting the matches is just the first obstacle. She's not going to talk to every single guy she gets matched with so you pretty much have to prove her that you're worth her time. It's a constant battle between you and the other guys to keep her attention.
/r/seduction27/06/20 01:23 PM
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When you're 18 your dating pool is very limited on tinder. Also there are waaaaay more guys than girls on tinder. It's really hard to stand out these days. Even if you're a good looking guy I wouldn't waste time on it.
/r/seduction27/06/20 01:09 PM
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I really think this is true what you say for the most part but I don't believe it is an exception. I feel like 90% of guys who go out of their way to date woman do this, specially on dating apps. They're constantly trying to prove themseleves to them instead of just being themseleves like they would be with friends. I think there's something wrong with not trying to be boring because it doesn't reflect how you truly are. You'll be constantly under pressure to get your desired reactions because i…
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:38 AM
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It worked once for me, on the first match I got. I guess I got lucky because I never had more success with it so I gave up on it because it took too much effort. I don't want to constantly have to prove myself to girls. I'm also tired of always having to lead the conversations.
/r/seduction22/06/20 12:24 AM
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What country did you move to?
/r/seduction17/05/20 12:53 AM
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How to win friends and influence people is a manipulative book more than it is a book about genuine friendships as it claims to be imo... It's said to teach you about how lasting friendships work but in reality it's used to win favours in business environments sales people for instance... You don't need this book unless you want to gain something but not make it seem that way because if you have these techniques in the back of your head you are just pretending to be something you're not.
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:43 PM
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Also don't forget to work on your posture, it can certainly add up to looking more confident above other guys
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:39 PM
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(I've never had kids but here's my two cents) It's not delusional at all, there are lots of those who want just that, it's just a matter of being lucky enough to come across one. You just have to make your intentions clear early in the relationship not to waste time, not too early though because you don't want to scare them off. If you don't present yourself as typical fuck buddy or a sugar daddy and stick to your roots she will know and eventually you will attract that kind of woman you're look…
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:14 PM
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I think you make some good points, it's very relatable to an older girlfriend I've had. Although even at an old age they like to act innocent even after seeing so much stuff. An older woman wants both stability and also passionate sex so they gotta play both sides.
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:48 PM
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Isn't it biologically obvious enough?
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:37 PM
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Finally a useful post
/r/seduction21/01/20 03:07 PM
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Biological difference doesn't invalidate their opinion. If the woman is somewhat attractive men try to seduce them all the time, this puts them in a spot where they can tell us what they like and don't like, how is this so hard to understand? Seeing some real misogynist shit here, I'm done with this discussion. Women are not going to leave this subreddit because of you guys.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:59 PM
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No that doesn't make sense, not listening to women is the worst advice there is. Unless you're a complete faggot and you're only seducing men you should only take guy's advice because there are no other parties involved. You need to swallow your pride and understand that seducing is not a monologue. If you want to know how to be confident/funny/good looking a woman can give you just as much information. They are also aware about the things they fell for. Relationships and seduction ties in TOGET…
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:51 PM
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It's not just about advice it is about understanding another perspective and knowing how their minds think, and the best way to so such a thing is to listen to them.
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:20 PM
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You're wrong, it has nothing to do with being a man or a woman, but with being inexperienced. Experienced women give good advise just like men do. If you don't listen to them how can you truly understand their perspective? You will just get rejected and you don't even know why. Maybe the pickup line you used she already heard 5 times the past couple of months (just an example). When I was with an 11 year older woman when I was 22 I learned more about relationships than I did with everything I pr…
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:16 PM
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My best advice is to always listen to someone who's more experienced than you, or better yet, try to be with someone more experienced as a friend/partner. It shouldn't be that hard to find.
/r/seduction14/01/20 08:55 PM
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go to a quieter place
/r/seduction11/01/20 05:05 PM
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