hardworkingalphamale Archive

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37	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet?		hardworkingalphamale	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 02:22 AM

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1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? My only advice is try not to shoot yourself in the foot and forego the learning process that comes with the early stages. I'm more open to embracing this period after reading everyone's comments, and thanks for the physician's perspective.	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/15 12:59 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? Go to a medical school that does not require class attendance, (they put all the lectures online) and make your own schedule for the first two years. (I'm assuming you are a US student, so do everything you can to get into a US MD school; I went DO (actually chose this initially over a couple MD schools - like I said - legit reetarded at that point in my life), and although I landed a great university residency spot, this is not the norm. Do not, under any circumstances, regardless of what anyon…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 07:59 PM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? You're not supposed to be a dickhead. You've got to be as much a priest as a scientist as you are a surgeon. well-said. Medicine is almost exempt from TRP; it's its own lifestyle. Blasphemy. lol. This does seem to be true the more I think on it, and especially in regards to direct patient care, I totally agree. But there are plenty of other aspects of the career to which TRP philosphy could likely be applied effectively.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 07:35 PM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? The reason it's important to remember this is that while it's helpful to cultivate, externally, the image of being a highly educated, elite professional who always knows what he's doing, you are going to burn out if you expect yourself to actually be that, because you can't. I agree with your above points, and cultivating this sort of external image (professionalism) is reinforced to no end in school for us. I think it is a legitimately useful tool to build rapport and confidence from patients/ …	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 07:22 PM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? "Huh, I've never dealt with that before, give me 5 minutes to look into it. Is there anything else I can helpyou with?" earns respect. Sounds like a good phrase to stick in my pocket.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 07:04 PM
0	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? I do intend to get a good mentor in the new hospital. Quite honestly, the attitude you set forth by denying your own insecurities in your post are going to make you a bad doctor. I looked at the post as admitting a particular insecurity and asking how to approach it.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 04:57 PM
6	Why maintaining Frame is as important as lifting, proof from "Dad Bod" analysis Agreed. I think the dad bod support is just another attempt to reign us in. More betas around = more security for females.. they will even lower the standards of "marriage material" to lock someone into it. You're going to be looking at more, obviously unmarried, red-pillers than ever before in conjunction with a lower quality of married beta-bux guys than ever before. The dynamic will surely get FUCKING INTERESTING.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 04:07 PM
2	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? I only keep the penis pump on hand for questions. Hope they make a similar device for balls.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 06:27 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? "Quiet Observant Guy Who Thinks Wise Thoughts and Speaks Seldom"> Cries out to my inner introvert definitely (my natural inclination), but it seems like a passive strength. Forcing myself to be selectively extroverted in addition to this has seemed to yield better results in almost every aspect of my life. Seems like its the right formula for me. it's just hype.> 90% hype, but what about the guesswork. haha.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 06:21 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? haha. I was going for Ghandi. Yes, it is 3 years of training minimum, and I understand it is definitely a process toward competency.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 05:30 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? I truly appreciate the help man. "The next few years are going to be awesome. And let me tell you: it gets even better after that." I believe both parts of this to be true.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 05:05 AM
2	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? This is good advice as well, and luckily the place I'm going has awesome support. Ultimately, I do know I can make this work, and I appreciate your thoughts.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 04:19 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? Good points. Where is the quote from?	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 04:07 AM
7	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? Proactive.. I like it. I think viewing the job as LEARNING whatever I can initially, rather than KNOWING or even being a productive resident, will be a helpful frame of mind. Good luck to you too, brotha.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 03:58 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? This is probably solid advice, and it's not what I wanted to hear.. lol. It is a good reminder though that I'm ultimately not doing this so that one day I can strut around or stand at the top of the heap with a wad of cash in my pocket. If I look at it as service, in which I am genuinely interested, a humble outlook is easier to wrap my mind around for some reason. Did you cultivate confidence at the hospital only through knowledge acquisition or did you have a particular thought process that he…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 03:47 AM
2	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? lol. Yes, my flaws were that minor. This is actually thought provoking I'll admit though. Learning every piece of information should not be a prerequisite for confidence- very few professionals, at any level, could remain confident if that were the case. This does not answer my original question necessarily though. Link to the bathroom video will probably prove helpful if you can find it.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 03:27 AM
2	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? Reaching the top in of this hierarchy of academic medicine can only be reached through time. Once you've met the "x years qualifying standard" there is a good bit of politics (perhaps TRP-style would be beneficial), like anything else. My ambition is not to work in academia ultimately, but my question really revolves around remaining confident during the "underling" period, which I cannot circumvent.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 03:06 AM
1	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? I appreciate your point. By chance, a former paramedic was the best intern I've ever seen.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 02:59 AM
5	New Doctor- How do you maintain confidence in a situation at work that you can't fake and don't know how to do yet? There would be little point of being here if not to learn from other people's life experience. I am the 1%.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/15 02:46 AM