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What about people who are unworthy? You just help anyone regardless of context. Their need means that you have to help them? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:00 PM
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This is just being a people pleasure. I want my partner to be generous and help me not necessarily other people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:51 PM
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Bulking shakes and mass gainer stuff may help if you can't eat a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:04 PM
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You need to eat more to bulk up a bit. All the training isn't going to help if you can't put on any muscle weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:27 PM
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Low neuroticism pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:26 PM
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A hot metal head guy will probably be attracted to the look so if that is who you are aiming for then keep at it :) Maybe go to some more concerts! Whether he will be conservative is another question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:10 AM
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It feels like the look is directly opposite to what you are trying to attract though. If I as a guy dressed in ghetto clothes, wearing a tonne of bling and stuff with the latest haircuts people would be forgiven for thinking I'm a fuckboy. But if I were actually wanting a long term relationship then the women I were attracting would just be confused and it wouldn't do me any good either since I wouldn't want the kinds of women who were after that look. ​ Not saying that your look can't be sexy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:59 AM
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The alt girl look is probably confusing people, those kind of girls are not classically conservative. Maybe you are attracting very liberal free spirited type of girls based on that look
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:40 AM
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You should probably slow down if you want something long term. When meeting someone for a first date you don't them very well and if you jump into bed right away it's not conducive to forming something long term. Online dating is pretty terrible for both sexes. The connections I have formed are with women I've interacted with in a real life social environment and built a connection over time. Rather than forcing something in the few hours I might meet someone for a date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:34 AM
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Stop trying to push this notion that tall women should be attracted to short guys. I find it extremely offputting along with fat acceptance, trying to force women with guys they are not attracted to. If a woman is attracted to a short guy then fine, I don't get why she would be but it's their choice. It weirds me out when a woman is with a short guy, find someone your own height or taller preferably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:28 PM
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Leave, you are disgusting
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:42 PM
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Absolute creep
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:19 PM
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You say you were getting laid too. This means you are more attractive than the vast majority of guys by that fact alone. The fact that push pull worked says less about the technique and more about the fact that you are already probably attractive if you are getting laid and so the woman was still attracted to you "despite" push and pull
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:15 PM
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I would say it would be good to talk about any issues you might be having in therapy because such a reaction is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:12 PM
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Sounds like an absolutely horrible idea. There are good men out there, why subject yourself to raising a child on your own when you can have someone who you form a relationship with to help raise them with you. Having children is very natural, I'm quite shocked at your conclusion the only way forward is a sperm bank
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:48 AM
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What you are describing is just trait openness in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:14 AM
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Great answer, this is best explained evolutionarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:22 AM
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Biologically men have no way of knowing if a child born from their partner is theirs genetically. The woman 100% knows when she has a child that it is her genes. Therefore there is an evolutionary difference in strategy for both sexes. Men display jealousy (mate guarding behaviour) to keep other males away from their wives and ensure the paternity of their child. The woman displays similar mate guarding behaviour but it is to keep the male from investing emotionally in other women. If the man ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:20 AM
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You have to put yourself through some kind of exposure therapy. Make it a days goal to go out and ask the time from 10 random people as you are out on your day. Then 10 girls specifically. Then extend the conversation to ask if they know a good place to go to eat. Then do that 10 times. Over time you slowly increase the exposure to the thing you are afraid of.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:30 AM
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No one here is going to know what that kind of anxiety is like and understand why it stops your interactions. Everyone takes things for granted which is where a lot of the advice generally on attracting people and socialising comes from: "just lift bro", "just say hi to girls bro". If you have a therapist that is a good first step to start doing some exposure training. Getting some friends somehow is important too
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:28 PM
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an attractive body is very important to the opposite sex. The most important thing actually I would say. Being confident and having nice hobbies will get you nowhe6if you are fat. I would try and lose 20lb and see where that gets you first of all.
/r/seduction05/02/22 02:30 PM
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If you are 190lb and 5'10" then you are overweight. That is probably what is leading to the lack of attraction
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:31 AM
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Hobbies aren't going to matter to anyone if you aren't physically attractive
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:44 AM
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You're obese, that's a fact. Cold approach isn't going to work for you if you are obese. It's great that you have the confidence to approach but your time is better spent in the gym to try and lose some weight. It makes a big differences
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:57 PM
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This is not connected at all to this sub. Try and make political points elsewhere
/r/seduction14/11/21 08:43 AM
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What does capitalism have to do with it? Why is everything political suddenly in a dating thread?
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:09 PM
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Everyone here is out of their fucking mind. Someone in a relationship asks your opinion of hookups in a natural conversation and their are comments to ignore the fact that she is in a relationship. This is not a signal. This is conversation between two people who know eachother and nothing more.
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:37 PM
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Those are actual real life problems. Not psychological problems. If you can sort out a stable job and a physique that makes you look and feel more attractive that is tremendous and great.
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:12 AM
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Sure that makes a lot of sense :) , I was coming at it with the view of long term relationship since I'm geared that way but can definitely see the appeal of a revealing top for non serious stuff
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:55 PM
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Fair enough. It seems sometimes though that something like a low cut top can be the reverse where the woman doesn't want it commented on. In a way a test for the man, If he can control his desire and still have a normal conversation. That shows to her she is not just interested in her body. Does that make sense because I have definitely heard of that happening too
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:59 AM
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So sexual desire is good to show outwardly? That seems to go against much of what is taught to men by society
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:30 PM
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I can understand wanting to feel desired and confirm your attractiveness to someone your desire but I can't help but feel it isn't proper behaviour to be oogling someone on a first date like that.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:27 PM
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You don't find that disrespectful to have a date looking at you like that?
/r/seduction03/10/21 08:45 PM
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If you've been day gaming for 4+ years and are still a virgin as you say in your previous posts then you are doing something very wrong
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:34 AM
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This sub attracts some of the worst...
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:30 AM
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3/10
/r/seduction28/09/21 07:47 AM
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The mind works in interesting ways :) Part of us will want one thing but another subpersonality will crave something completely different. You are not one thought all the time, your subconscious pushes thoughts to your awareness which you can't control . You can't make a conscious choice to be interested in something for example
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:19 PM
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What does "usually works out" entail?
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:57 AM
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Filming approaches and was called out on Facebook after approaching a girl who was 14 :p
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:38 AM
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I went through OPs post history and .... what a nightmare. OP if your reading, your are a creep, stop hitting on young girls and you won't get arrested again, get a social circle and some friends. Oh, probably stop hitting on girls period actually, we don't want your posts here
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:29 AM
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Losing weight will make you more attractive period and will give you more confidence but you have to be real with yourself about your weight because you are obese and it is damaging for your health as well as your attractiveness. Start with some small changes and keep going :)
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:10 AM
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This whole post is extremely weird and has a creepy feeling vibe.
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:02 AM
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If your 240lb at 5'11 your obese, no other way to say it. It's a problem. Once you can admit that to yourself you will be more prepared to find a solution.
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:25 AM
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You get stressed out easily and have high levels of negative emotion(neuroticism) most like based on what you are saying. It is insecurity but a deep part of your personality and unlikely to change easily. It probably makes you seem shy and standoffish with people.
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:36 AM
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Go anywhere liberal and you will find less people settling down and more open to that kind of thing. I wouldn't think it is a good thing to still be a loser in your 30s trying to pickup women on the street since you have no social circle
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:29 AM
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Self esteem and confidence is set into your baseline personality. It is extroversion minus neuroticism. There are things you can do to pursue goals in your life and accomplish them which will help to move than needle a little bit more towards confidence but people should understand self esteem is a biological thing and not just "mindset"
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:20 AM
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Just eye contact? No. A kind of blank face stare is quite intimidating and strange so I assume you do it with a smile too!
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:17 AM
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You like a perfectionist too from some of your other replies. I think all this in combination with your anxiety and more introverted personality will make it tough to find someone unless they tick a lot of boxes for you. Exposure therapy is useful, gradually exposing yourself to more and more things. Here's something I think you should try! Next time you see an attractive guy I want you to go up to them and ask for the time. That's it :) no pressure to carry on a conversation, just ask for the t…
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:46 AM
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Physical attractiveness is always the number 1 thing that helps with getting approached. That said if you are very closed off and introverted + anxious that is not going to be inviting. Your race is irrelevant, your height will put some shorter men off but it's not unattractive. ​ From experience I have found Asian culture is very focussed on looks and attractiveness and that creates a lot of insecurity. My question is what kind of guys do you want to ask you out? The typical guy at the bar? Peo…
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:45 AM
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Eh, I would disagree. Kevin Samuels is just a nicely dressed guy shouting the same manosphere stuff that is prevalent. The content is designed for men to watch to reinforce their own ideas of what women want, not instructing women how to actually attract someone
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:38 AM
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They are creeped out because your a creep. I'm a guy and I'm creeped out reading this post about why teenage girls keep finding you creepy...
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:31 PM
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Great post
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:13 PM
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You'll live till your 90 so have another 70 years on this world. You should probably try and focus on how to make them some good years and the earlier you do that the better
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:06 PM
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Great job!
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:11 AM
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John Anthony is 6 foot 4 helps and it's true he has no game. Choose the ugliest dating coach you can. Then you will know that their methods are actually getting them success instead of looks/height/money/anything else.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:44 PM
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All men aren't like this. It's a selection problem where you only guys you are getting asked out by are the guys approaching other women also. So all the guys you are meeting up with aren't reflective of all guys as a whole. So it's you who need to change, whether that be approaching a guy you like every now and then or something similiar
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:44 AM
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Why are women surprised that if they have sex immediately without an emotional bond then the guy might disappear if he was only interested in sex?
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:21 AM
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I don't think I left her hanging really. She could have just been someone extremely anxious and introverted which would have explained her reaction but to me it was clear she was a bit taken aback and didn't find me attractive at all
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:44 AM
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To clarify we sort of walked up to the supermarket together also :p I only live like 5 minutes away and as I came out of my house I saw her walking in the same direction and she happened to be going to the supermarket also. So it probably looked very weird on my part as she definitely saw me exit my house and maybe thought I was stalking her to the supermarket and then back again...
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:40 AM
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Rub one out and then immediately after think about this girl and what you really feel about her. Then you'll know if it's worth it for a quick fuck even if she is into you
/r/seduction05/07/21 04:03 PM
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Guy sounds like a creep :P I wouldn't advise guys to do that
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:20 AM
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Incorrect. Different personalities are real. Just like you have guys who study hard and are introverted and extroverted party boys out most nights of the week. They are not the same person
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:02 AM
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This is just a recipe for inexperienced guys to be narcissistic and assholes. I don't know what kind of women you are tricking by doing this
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:29 AM
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Not playing games gets you the relationships you want. If you want someone honest and open with their emotions you have to be that with your partner. Definitely don't just say hi, that is the lowest bar for human interaction. If it was me, I would be very intrigued if a woman said mentioned the thing I did that was funny. Guys never get compliments so they are appreciated and unusual when they come
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:22 AM
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Thanks for the support. The plan is to go something like this-> ask for the time from people in public, ask for the time from women who seem busy (to deliberately experience some rejection from that ), strike up conversation, actually ask for numbers. Something like that maybe is what I have in my head. A little everyday if I can
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:24 PM
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If I can get to the point where I can ask for a number at least that will be a massive improvement from my point of view :D
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:22 PM
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Undoubtedly that's true about diving in at the deep end for speed. But what I don't want to happen is to try and go full on then mess it up so badly that I never have the confidence to try again. That's why I'm considering going a little slow for a while, just asking for the time, making casual conversation with no chance of rejection and then actually asking for numbers stuff
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:21 PM
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Yeah letting go of the ego is a big thing. Thinking in your head "I'm to good to be doing this stuff, I don't need to waste my time with this" ect. Well actually I do need to spend time doing it because talking with women is something I am very badly practiced at to the point I can't even think about what to talk about since I am extremely nervous.
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:20 PM
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