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Great post. I’m going to look into creatine for myself. Feed yourself high quality foods - eggs, white rice, beef, fruits, vegetables, dairy products and so on. I assume this was just a very quick and in-exhaustive list. But I wanted to follow up to ask whether there was a reason you didn’t include chicken or fish. Perhaps they would make the list but are a tier below beef, can you explain why?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/25 09:06 PM
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Well done and great report. By the way, what’s the hand of god?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 05:43 PM
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Of course all men do the same. We all have standards, which are not always a list of boxes to check. Two girls may be pretty much the same, but for some reason you’re only interested in one of them. Same from the girls’ perspectives. If they’re not getting tingles from me in that instance, it doesn’t mean they never tingle. All it means is I haven’t made them tingle. Could mean I pretty never will or that I need to work harder at building attraction… or simply move on to a girl where it’ll be mo…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 04:06 PM
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Great advice and specific plan. For anyone with severe approach anxiety, alternate days of talking to a girl you like and talking to a random stranger for longer than 1 minute.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 02:31 PM
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Ignore and consider the friendship and taxi money as completely gone. Don’t contact her at all. Maybe she’ll try to rekindle things in a few days, weeks, months, or never. She was manipulative to skeez her way out of paying you back and making you feel bad about it. You are better off without her toxicity in your life.
/r/newTRP27/04/22 01:07 AM
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That’s fair. I thought you were suggesting that their only difference is that Bezos is richer. Totally agree that everyone has different measures of accomplishment.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 02:17 AM
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Is that a serious question? He has created thousands upon thousands of jobs, controls a multi billion dollar company, and consequently leverages massive amounts of political and societal power. Do we need to go on?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/21 11:39 PM
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100% on that approach. Once the girls are exposed to the teacher for being lying shit-talking assholes, the teacher may even start undermining the petty shit they say out loud. The teacher sometimes has the power to turn the whole class against those girls.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:27 PM
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That’s in a one-on-one interaction. In this case at least the leader has a serious problem with OP (maybe or maybe not the others), and the others are falling in line.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:23 PM
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For real, it’s completely blue pill to believe in something based on societal indoctrination and feels. If it were rational to believe in a particular religion, then you’d find something like at least half the population in every country believing in it too. Instead, it’s based largely on whatever religion one’s parents rammed down the believer’s throat at any early age. Inability to relinquish that indoctrination is understandable... but also blue pill as fuck.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:07 AM
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You scraped together this panicky as fuck post in which you’re freaking the fuck out about whether you might get arrested and charged with statutory rape. And now you’re asking, “if the authorities get involved, I really have to go through the trouble of finding evidence to corroborate my side of the case?” No, you don’t have to do shit. But innocent guys have gotten in trouble with the police and their schools countless times before you. Maybe you have nothing to worry about. But if you do have…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:18 PM
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Why block her??? You want to receive the message if she says anything at all that corroborates your story. Even if it’s just “fuck you, I’m still mad” because that is some kind of evidence if you go down that path.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:23 PM
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If there is any way to text again in such a way that will get a positive response from her, then that would be helpful. Better if it’s something that backs up your story: “So... has it been 2 weeks yet? 🙃” And make sure to screenshot that. Even better if she replies in a friendly way while acknowledging that you two didn’t do anything sexual. Of course, screenshot that as well. Some kind of fun text from you might even make her feel better and less like you dumped her. Also, check your state’s l…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:20 PM
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The crazier stuff was sex and blowjobs in discreet public places, bending her over her balcony railing at night where any neighbor could see her if they happened to be outside or look out their window, taking videos of our various sexcapades. These are common things for me, but I certainly don’t do them with every girl. This girl was all in favor of anything I brought up. So it’s not like I was going beyond my normal sexual interests. I got pleasure out of pushing her beyond her normal sexual in…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:51 PM
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I’m mostly seeing stuff about the flip switching for women, which causes the guy to come on here complaining about how quickly she moved on. I’d actually like to know more about what causes the switch to flip for me. Your brief summary sounds pretty accurate so I’d like to know more. Maybe it’s something I can change and improve upon, or maybe it’s just me and I need to deal with it.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:02 PM
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I’ve had this with plates that were semi-serious. It is great not having to worry and also with her being down to do or try anything I wanted. One girl was willing to try crazier and crazier bedroom stuff with me. However, I was only wanting to try the crazier bedroom stuff because I needed something else to keep me sexually interested. She was cute enough and had a nice body, but the fact that I knew she’d just do whatever I wanted actually made it less fun. Take this with a grain of salt becau…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:40 PM
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Maybe the point is that even if you get much richer during the marriage, to the extent it is largely thanks to the marriage, then giving away half of those earnings in divorce is slightly less painful?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:34 PM
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Two women I dated in the past had told me while we were consistently dating/FWBing that they had really wanted to fuck on the first date but they stopped themselves because they wanted to leave open the possibility that we become serious. Basically, in their minds they felt that a first date hookup is only for ransoms who they will try to forget or guys they know will only be good as a fuck buddy. Also, other girls have made comments about being more willing to try out wild shit with random guys…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:52 PM
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Fair enough. Maybe I got lucky that one time and missed out on many other decent girls because of that pic. I’m willing to remove it and change things up to see whether the results are noticeably different.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:24 AM
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Great idea. Would still be interested in any subreddits that or online sources. For example, maybe there’s a SFW ladyboners type of subreddit where women just gawk at stylish men.
/r/seduction22/05/21 07:27 PM
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For those guys who have made some impressive progress like OP, what if one of their later pics was basically a side-by-side before and after to show the progress he's made? How would you perceive seeing that in a profile and how do you think other fit/attractive women would perceive it?
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:21 PM
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Some women swipe left, some women don't care much, and some women swipe right. It blows my mind that they have unique personalities and tastes! My most recent long term girlfriend told me that she was intrigued by my first few pics, but the shirtless pic at the very end sealed it for an immediate right swipe. She was a well-educated hard-working professional who loved intellectual things, but she's also a woman who loves sex.
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:16 PM
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Male Fashion Advice is mostly composed of men talking about other men's outfits and style. What would be some good subreddits in which you find women talking about men's outfits and style? Don't get me wrong, you get really awesome advice in MFA. But, I sort of feel like I want to combine that type of help with some insight about what women are especially attracted to.
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:09 PM
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Yes, they truly are friends. Perhaps I’m not a good friend because I stand aside and let them do that? Since I’m not married, I honestly don’t feel that I have an informed perspective to say whether they should or shouldn’t do that. Life isn’t black and white, and at the end of the day, if there is a path that they’ve determined for themselves to be happy while maintaining a happy home, then cheating in these rare, brief, and unemotional ways could very well be a way for that to happen. To your …
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:39 PM
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I’ve got some happily married buddies who partake on bachelor parties and such. They are definitely careful and make sure all guys are on the same page about keeping everything discreet. But ultimately, I think many women know but just don’t want to be specifically aware of it. Mentally, I think those guys consider their time with the hooker on the same level as merely getting a lap dance from a stripper.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:53 PM
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I want to have kids but really don’t care to get married. What’s the best way to make that happen while maximizing the chances that the kids will grow up healthy and happy?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:48 PM
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That’s essentially what it is when you can get it whenever you want. Just a better feeling, but not as versatile and agile while in the moment. The excitement of a gaming and banging a new girl usually triggers the hyper-horniness of yesteryear.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:26 AM
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What’s that?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:21 AM
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If you are living and looking like a 40-50 year old, then maybe you should be dating 30-45 year old women. You’ll probably have way more in common.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:55 PM
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That makes sense. Have you ever reached out to a girl you already know (former plate or not) and brought up the idea with her?
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:54 AM
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There are girls from my past, some I’ve hooked up with and some I never really dated but have stayed on good terms with. Do you think there is a way to bring up the idea with those girls to see if they’d consider something like this? Also, you mentioned having a dating app account for ourself and one for your OLTR. What was the purpose of having both? Are they connected in some way? I feel like the woman’s account is naturally going to get way more hits, or perhaps that’s more the case for me du…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:44 PM
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Thanks man, this is fantastic advice. Life is short indeed. Time to have some fun.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 04:07 AM
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4 months exclusive. No fucking around at all even while drunk. She has never even kissed a woman, and only fondled tits at a strip club. We set her bumble profile to seeking women and quickly had an assortment of matches. She would text me the convos so I could text back to tell her how to respond. This seemed to get tiring for her, and she said she would just prefer that I set it up. I was tempted to set up her profile on my phone so I could do the texting, but I feel like that crosses the line…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:48 AM
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I’ve got an LTR who seems interested in finding another girl, but it seems like she wants me to do most of the work setting it up or creating the situation in which it happens. Any advice on how to go about it? My nagging suspicion is that she has merely agreed so she can seem like a fun and adventurous gf while laying enough rules to make it virtually impossible that it could ever happen. Nonetheless, I certainly want to give it a proper try so that I don’t spend too much time in a relationship…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:31 PM
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It’s not so much that they’re dismissing this guy for being unfixable. I think they’re pointing out to the original commenters that OP’s path forward is not as directly related to his perception of being the “runt” as it would seem by the title. OP is clearly ignoring other TRP and seduction teachings, and found some ludicrous feature to blame for his inability to get women rather than looking introspectively.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 11:52 AM
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Any luck? I’m in a similar situation with my gf. She’s bi-curious. At first we were using dating apps, but she decided she didn’t like being the person communicating with the potential girls. So she wants me to essentially create the opportunities.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:23 PM
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She’s 28. Way too old to be so immature
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:04 PM
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In what way does it sound like she wants a train?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:26 PM
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Just to add to this, in my mind no girl is going to be long term material unless she is cool with threesomes or some type of open relationship. As for right now, I’m just trying to ensure that it starts with a threesome so I don’t lose my chances for a threesome completely.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:49 PM
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Best move is to dread game and dial it up to 8 or 11. Be prepared that she munches some box and honestly, why act cool about it if you weren’t in the first place. I actually probably would be cool with that, but now I’ve gotten myself all excited for a threesome. Maybe I need to let her lez out before I’ll have that opportunity. And of course, like you said, that risks losing her completely. Because of our lifestyles, we only see each other on the weekends, from Friday thru Monday morning. Basic…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:44 PM
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It’s good advice to keep the skills up. This girl knows I can get girls, and she genuinely seems to be turned on by that knowledge. I don’t see anything wrong with putting that skill on display every now and then, which also helps me keep in practice if the LTR ever dissolves.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:53 PM
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LTR and I agreed to be monogamous. Maybe that was the wrong move, but I believe her that she would’ve ended things if I didn’t agree to it. She’s someone I want to keep because I think there’s real potential if I’m ever going to find the right girl to settle down with. I don’t want to cheat.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:12 PM
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Because I’m going to be monogamous with LTR. Plate lives in California and was already planning another visit to see me.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:10 PM
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If a plate asks me out for drinks or a fuck, then I need to say something back as to why I can’t or don’t want to. Or should I just ghost any plates who text me saying they want to fuck?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:57 PM
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My OP must have been confusing. My LTR isn’t the same girl who sent those texts. Those texts are an example of why I want a better response when a plate (or former plate) asks me out for a day or a fuck.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:55 PM
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Yes, you can in some LTRs, but not all are the same. Let’s assume that this is an LTR in which I don’t want to or can’t spin plates.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:54 PM
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Why mention the “ex” rather than just saying another girl?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:52 PM
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So my OP question is all about being single again one day. I feel like everyone is ignoring that with half of you saying “yo, you should worship this pussy and only this pussy” and pure saying “bro don’t get married!” Well I’m not trying to get married! I’m just trying to find the best way to maintain a good standing with girls I may want to circle back to if/when this relationship ends.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:51 PM
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I responded to this in other comments. Honest question: Why would I approach a brand new LTR as if she is 100% going to become my wife? Shouldn’t I be realistic since we’ve only been dating a couple months?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:17 PM
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Yeah, this is a huge internal struggle for me right now, which is why I’m trying to stay realistic rather than approach this LTR as if she’s my future wife.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:34 PM
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It was early stages of dating the plate, and she was already hinting that she wanted something serious. Several days later I tell her (the plate) I’m going to be serious with this other girl (new LTR).
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:28 PM
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An analogous question is how many of us enter an LTR feeling 100% confident she will become our wife? Honestly, I think there’s a greater than 50% chance she becomes my wife, but it’s only been 2 months so far.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:27 PM
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