harmlessdjango Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	Guys that are not "conventional ", how do you talk yourself out of disappointment?	Inner Game	harmlessdjango	/r/seduction	24/05/24 10:23 PM

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4	Does anyone approach at the gym? I think this is a typo and he meant "rapport " aka they'll sorta acknowledge that you are in the space	/r/seduction	29/06/24 03:34 AM
3	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Thanks sharing. It does make sense that they would have arcane knowledge of what women like, since clearly a penis isn't what a "butch" lesbian has to offer How's lesbian flirting different from straight men's flirting?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 11:27 PM
3	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? You can't mention you learned seduction from lesbians and not go into details 😳	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:44 PM
6	Feeling like i'm in a slump But then there are some girls who i regrettably hooked up with who are well beneath my league and they get obsessive. Maybe they are your league. That's something to consider. Maybe the reason why you're hung up on your ex and have been feeling bummed out is because deep down, you know that she was "above your league" and you don't think you can replicate that success. That could explain the feeling of unattractiveness. "She was 1 in a million and I fucked it up. Now I can't even get someone who…	/r/seduction	18/06/24 03:41 PM
1	there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone Sincerely, you don't seem to enjoy people in general. Maybe that's what is holding you back.	/r/seduction	12/06/24 04:00 PM
2	there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone I think it's lethal with anyone, really. It's only in the modern era with electronic that being a loner/recluse is not shunned. And it's not because people have stop seeing it as weird, but because people who are loners can stay out of sight. About the stock comment, listen man: that's not a social activity, come on. You can do that on your phone. Think of something social By the way, I noticed that you never answered my very first comment on your post: do you have a group of guy friends that yo…	/r/seduction	12/06/24 03:42 PM
1	there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone I think you should look for something that you're passionate about. Not work related but not solitary either. Something that you enjoy so much that you would rather miss a potential date with a woman instead of not doing it. In my case, it's been improv and stand-up. I fucking love these. They're life giving to me. I'm not trashing on you man. When you wrote that post, I could feel like it was myself typing it. I would be walking around and seeing teenagers, old people, men who have hair/no hair…	/r/seduction	12/06/24 03:21 PM
1	there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone Dude, I'm on your side here. That feeling of not belonging, I know it very well. At some point, you even start to feel defective But believe me on this: there's something in you that's causing this. Maybe you're not dressed in a way that fits you or you are not fit. Maybe it's the way you talk to people (subjects, mannerism, tone). But you're not defective. And your lack of success has influenced your mental state and it seeps through your interaction. In my case, I am neurodivergent and tried t…	/r/seduction	12/06/24 02:55 PM
3	there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone Do you have any guy friends that you can hang out with without any fear of holding back who you are? I am trying to get back out there and find someone I click with. I realize that the only times I was able to get not-so-subtle interest(in the past) was when I was just being myself with the Bros. Now they've all either moved, gotten married or very busy careers and I noticed that I don't get a chance as easily to display my strong points (humor, wit, knowledge). Maybe find some friends where you…	/r/seduction	12/06/24 12:59 PM
3	Where do I begin? I need to start looking for a partner again That's interesting. Why "need"?	/r/seduction	08/06/24 08:54 PM
3	Is this hopeless while you aren’t who you want to be Man, I relate to your struggle. I, too, am currently in a career that I would like to change. And I can't change it easily because too many people depend on me. I understand this feeling of being stuck and having sometimes this feeling of disassociation while at work What I decided to do was find something after work that excites me. The way someone in this sub out it "Something you enjoy so much that you would rather skip a date with a cute woman than miss it." It's been theater and comedy clas…	/r/seduction	08/06/24 03:04 AM
1	I Always Assume All Women Find me Hideous You really need therapy man. Sounds like you really have it rough	/r/seduction	07/06/24 03:43 PM
8	How to stop being perceived as husband material? So what is the definition of emotional availability then?	/r/seduction	07/06/24 10:29 AM
5	The biggest problem here is... While we're ranting, am I the only one who has some sort of reaction when someone here casually calls their friends "unattractive"? Maybe I'm the odd one out, but I wouldn't never say that about one of my homeboys to anyone. Not even online hidden behind a screen I noticed that they are usually doing so in a comment where they mention that said-friend is pulling women whiletheycan't. Maybe their judgmental vibe is what's holding them back	/r/seduction	03/06/24 01:11 AM
1	She likes me, now what? Lead a conversation and activities so you can get to know each other, have fun, get closer, experience emotions, create connection. What are some good ones? I'm thinking of sip-&-paint but I'm drawing blank for anything else	/r/seduction	01/06/24 05:30 PM
25	How do you guys stop having every girl you have sex with to stop falling for you and keep it as just fwb? Or maybe you are not good in bed That's a serious possibility to consider. Maybe you should reach out to some of them and see if that's the issue	/r/seduction	29/05/24 04:37 PM
17	Women must feel like they can win you over if they put enough effort, but also feel that they can lose you if they don’t measure up to your standards. In other words your mentality, should be: “I’m going to cold approach her to evaluate whether she deserves my number or a date with me or not”, rather than “Oh i like that girl over there, let me approach her and see if i can win her over and get her number. This whole post is built on the assumption that YOU FEEL that you are a catch to begin with. You can only think that way if you feel like you yourself are the type of man who will not just sleep with any woman who shows him attention. The ma…	/r/seduction	27/05/24 09:30 PM
3	Guys that are not "conventional ", how do you talk yourself out of disappointment? No How can that help me?	/r/seduction	25/05/24 01:05 AM
8	Guys that are not "conventional ", how do you talk yourself out of disappointment? You're very helpful. Thanks	/r/seduction	25/05/24 12:35 AM
2	Guys that are not "conventional ", how do you talk yourself out of disappointment? Thanks man. I think I should just try therapy	/r/seduction	25/05/24 12:26 AM
18	Clubs are the worst place to start conversations. I'm sorry I'm not good at this seductive thing, but I just wanna let you know that I relate to you. I too don't like loud spaces (neurodivergent). My main strength is my wordplay and humor and it doesn't come off well in a loud club	/r/seduction	23/05/24 05:14 PM
1	How many girls do you talk to at a time? Just saw the pics. Great progress 👏	/r/seduction	22/05/24 02:54 PM
6	[DISCUSSION] The WhiteKnights of ANTIFA Where does it end?	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/09/17 05:51 PM