harperfairy Archive

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1	My marriage is falling apart and I don’t know where to begin to fix it. I love the advice about not venting or ranting. I never thought about it like that. Is there a different want to respond that you would suggest when someone feels like venting? Also how would you distinguish venting verses just regular confiding?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/22 02:14 AM
1	things from the past are tarnishing my boyfriend's image I think my best advice to you that’s not “dump him” is to try and gage where he’s at with it now. What does he think about the sex tourism industry today? What are his views on prostitution and the whole sex industry? Does he regret it at all? IMO this is a pretty serious issue that it’s important to be on the same page as. I personally am anti prostitution and anti porn and made sure my husband didn’t engage in either of those prior to marrying him. However I understand not everyone holds that …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/22 01:03 AM
5	Is it true that couples who move in before marriage are 33% more likely to divorced? “It creates a false sense of relationship progression and intimacy.” This exactly. Women automatically assume moving in together means the man is serious and wants to marry you… which is not the case. Oftentimes men are doing it out of convenience, to save on rent, to have a free maid, unlimited access to sex, etc. while they keep their options open (by not proposing) in case a better woman comes along. OR the man never wanted to get married in the first place but they couple never discussed tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/10/22 02:29 PM
25	Is it true that couples who move in before marriage are 33% more likely to divorced? My theory is that people who move in together before marriage tend to be more progressive/liberal and feminists (especially women) tend to see divorce as a good thing for women. But who knows. I honestly don’t know if there’s a correlation but as a married woman who waited until right before the wedding to move in, I see a mistake my peers make. They move in together then the man never proposes. And if he does it takes way longer than if they held off on living together. Anecdotal, but I know a …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/10/22 08:52 PM
7	What birth control method(s) has been highly effective and comfortable for you? What would you say to a married woman who doesn’t want kids in this scenario? Either due to issues such as not being able to afford them or having genetic/mental health issues or no support…. I do completely agree about hormonal birth control being damaging, but what about condoms if they don’t want kids?	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 07:50 PM
10	Thinking we should try to live on my husband's salary even though I make more Just please be careful not to pressure your husband to earn more… this will make him feel like he’s not doing enough. It will emasculate him. If you want to cut back expenses that’s okay, just make sure you’re on the same page. It can be easy to fall into subtly negging your husband for not making as much as you. Totally not saying you would do that, but I just want to let you know what to be aware of. So things like dropping hints about how he needs to make more, asking him to ask for a raise, …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/22 02:33 AM
11	How many of you guys dye your hair/have alt girl styles yet are still conservative? I don’t have the blue hair (anymore) or dress extremely out there anymore but I am that artsy girl. I dress usually pretty feminine but sometimes edgy/boho. And I’m conservative. Although VERY FEW people know I’m conservative, most just assume I’m liberal because of the circles I run in (all my friends and coworkers are very liberal.) I also subtly project a more liberal persona because I’m afraid of being cancelled. I live in a big, left-leaning city. So yes, we do exist but I’m literally the o…	/r/RedPillWives	30/09/22 02:19 AM
4	Shit Post Saturdays https://me.me/i/dudes-who-pay-the-bills-dudes-who-make-their-girl-c052ddee67fb498483a513fd98e633bd This meme is SO funny to me 😂	/r/RedPillWives	17/09/22 02:34 PM
62	Sharing your husband with other women I’m sorry but why would anyone want this?!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 12:18 AM
1	My father has potentially ruined most men for me That’s an amazing story! Can you go into more details on your glowup and how you got to the point where modeling agencies were scouting you out? Did it cost a whole lot to get to where you are now, and do you think you’ll be able to maintain your beauty with age?	/r/RedPillWomen	11/08/22 10:41 PM
2	How should brands deal with women on instagram pressuring brands to pledge allegiance to BLM I think the best way for them to respond is to ignore it. Or honestly delete the comments. Don’t add any fuel to the fire. If they respond saying they don’t support the movement, they’ll get cancelled. If they respond saying they do support it, they’re giving into the mob. There will always be trolls.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/22 01:26 AM