harrymcutd Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
55	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend?		harrymcutd	/r/seduction	12/05/17 06:39 PM
6	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend?		harrymcutd	/r/askTRP	12/05/17 07:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? Yeah that's fair I see your point. I suppose I see a lot of advice that says dress well/get in good shape/have lots of friends/have hobbies etc and I've done that but I haven't seen an improvement in results like I thought I would. You're right, perhaps I need to get rid of that attitude and need to start connecting with these girls on a deeper level. Thanks	/r/seduction	13/05/17 12:26 PM
2	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? Haha good point. Any ideas?	/r/seduction	12/05/17 08:36 PM
2	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? As I emphasised in my blurb I don't feel entitled, I want to know where I'm going wrong and why it feels that no girl wants to be in my life. I have an interesting life- I captain a soccer team, I play piano to an advanced level, i volunteer at a mental health hospital, I went travelling around asia last summer, and last year I spent the whole of it living in the Netherlands- is that not interesting?	/r/seduction	12/05/17 08:23 PM
2	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? It wasn't 4 dates, it was 4 girls in 7 months. 9 dates between those 4 girls.	/r/seduction	12/05/17 07:38 PM
2	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? all This mindset change could definitely help me. Are there any ways I can go about cultivating this abundance mindset? Thanks!	/r/seduction	12/05/17 07:33 PM
8	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? Yes this sounds about right and it is something I've tried to work on. 2 those girls I went on dates with I kissed, and they seemed to be quite into it. I think I have a problem escalating. I'll go through the date with little physical contact and then right at the end I'll think "I need to do something quick!" and go to kiss them which can be a bit forced. But as I said they responded reasonably positively. Escalating physically is definitely something I need to work on though.	/r/seduction	12/05/17 07:16 PM
3	Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend? I'm not even necessarily looking for a super serious super long term commitment with a girl though, so I'm not expecting to meet my soulmate. Just someone I can hang out with who finds me mutually attractive. My friends seem to have no problem obtaining such a relationship and I don't see what they're doing that I'm not. Ok I'll talk you through each girl and what I did with them. Girl 1- first date we went for drinks at a local bar. Brief and casual. Second date (which she set up by the way) we…	/r/seduction	12/05/17 07:09 PM