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I was referring to the NLP based seduction methods and routines. I've tried them a couple of times as a young guy and it didn't go down well. Just some simple advice to stay clear if you're just getting into this and you're young.
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:49 AM
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Ask yourself this: "Do I really need all this drama?" If the answer is yes, keep on that shit and knock yourself out buddy because there's plenty more drama to come from someone who flakes like that and is just out of a relationship.
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:45 AM
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You don't get rid of it. It never goes. You just need to channel it into momentum.
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:19 AM
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I started reading seduction material when I was about 15 years old. I'm 22 now. Many of the concepts you will be reading are redundant. This is because when you use them around people who already know you, they detect the incongruences, or are unhappy you want to change or don't want to accept a new you. I still found the logic helpful and more importantly, gained a great deal of comfort knowing I wasn't the only one thinking 'How the fuck do I talk to chicks?!' A year later, by the time I went …
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:06 AM
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Believe me you can find people. It may take a few hours but I suggest looking over all the popular PUA forums.
/r/seduction25/07/12 05:02 PM
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If you're really into the game, try meeting people in your area that are too and join a lair. This will help your self improvement because you will see both really successful guys and complete freaks that will keep you in check. Stepping out of comfort zone and doing something you haven't done before will also help - try new bars, try day game instead of night game, give yourself some new material. It might also be a possibility that you're just burnt out from doing it so long. It's a pretty emo…
/r/seduction25/07/12 10:05 AM
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I don't have a gripe with Buddhism, just people that shamelessly plagiarise it and pass it off as "seduction" advice for impressionable guys to misinterpret it and apply it to life. I've met one too many pua guys that take this kind of advice too literally and the results are horrendous.
/r/seduction24/07/12 04:51 PM
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Self help bollocks. You don't gain happiness disassociating yourself everything external. Your attachments aren't holding you back, they just hurt a little. EDIT: Just before I get down-voted to oblivion I want to clarify that I'm not advocating being a needy, clingy guy that attaches himself to every woman and every emotion that comes along with getting laid. I'm just not agreeing with this article in so much as some attachments are good, and we experience them for a reason.
/r/seduction24/07/12 03:58 PM
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You shouldn't really think about it. It should be a part of your game - not because escalating is a means to an end, but because escalating is attractive. It's attractive that you're confident enough to go for the kiss. Girls like that shit. There is no method of doing it, no forumla to get it right, you should just know that you should be moving forward physically with a girl all the time And sure, you're gonna get blown out. There will be times when you go for a kiss and she will turn her head…
/r/seduction13/07/12 03:40 PM
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You had a bad night but you don't have any inner game issues. Whenever you start feeling that way you should just force yourself into social interactions until you build that momentum up again. It isn't really a question of "state" or "inner game" but rather the social momentum you are building.
/r/seduction13/07/12 02:45 PM
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i was going to kiss her, and was looking for an opening to do so. You shouldn't be doing this. Waiting for the perfect moment or opportunity is very poor game. Truth is those moments don't come around that often. You need to create them for yourself. It's very similar to opening. Many guys wait for that perfect opportunity to say hello, and by the time they do they've rehearsed it internally so many times it never works out.
/r/seduction13/07/12 02:29 PM
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It sounds like you're really strung up on her. She is going to hurt you brother, listen from experience. You might think that you were great together but you wasn't. You can't change her. She doesn't want a relationship with you. Please, please, please move on. Being stuck in this kind of situation will greatly impact on your game and living a healthy life.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:10 PM
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You shouldn't be friends with her. Worst option. If you still want her to be interested in you then you need to remind her what made her interested in the first place, not what drove her away. What I'm saying is you need to remind her of the guy that she was having fun with, who was mysterious and exciting, not the guy that went all mushy when things got serious. Saying that, my advice is to cut your losses. There some red flags here that she is damaged and she will mostly likely break you at ev…
/r/seduction11/07/12 01:12 PM
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Rookie mistake brother. You didn't need to prove anything to her.
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:11 AM
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It is all in the eyes.
/r/seduction10/07/12 01:00 PM
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There should only be one step and that's to go for it. The moment you start talking to her you should be trying to move things along physically. Lots of eye contact helps, being direct helps. The old ways of A) High Five B) Thumb War C) Touch Arm D) Kiss Routine are kind of redundant now.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:36 PM
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Yeah, nobody does that shit anymore.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:20 PM
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Your message doesn't really seem that needy. I would have tried to have a conversation on facebook messenger first before I got her number but that's just me. You didn't but who gives a fuck? What's worrying about this post is that you're reflecting on the interaction too much. She might get back in touch, she might not. Over-analysing your approach here isn't good for you.
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:06 PM
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I've been sarging with the exception of breaks from relationships and some financial difficulties for about four years. Bottom line is girls usually know what you're up to and uncommonly they will call you out on it. Sometimes as a shit test "Is that you're pick-up line?" or sometimes it's a compliment "That was pretty smooth what you did back there..." Sometimes they've had a boyfriend that's read Strauss and they're more specific. It's no big deal though. You just plough on. It's never been a …
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:17 PM
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From a statistical point of view, I would move on. You will receive many IOIs from many women, but only a moderate amount will you sleep with or form relationships with. Also, she's a works in a bar so it is likely that she has interactions like the one you described 3-4 times a night.
/r/seduction21/06/10 03:36 PM
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I've been called out over a dozen times, sometimes during the interaction and sometimes after a close. From my experience girls are probably more aware that our interactions with them are less organic than we'd like to think. "Have you read The Game?", "Are you a pickup artist?", "I know what you're doing", "Have you seen the film Hitch?" are some of things that have been said to me.
/r/seduction21/06/10 03:25 PM
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not even once? Im from a smaller city in England and have been called out several times.
/r/seduction21/06/10 02:01 AM
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