harrysquatter69 Archive

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0	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? Always go for it—if you’re turned down you know where you stand. If you’re not you’re positioned well to repeat if the second date goes well and potentially escalate further by the third.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 06:50 PM
1	How long do you talk to a girl before you ask for her number? In person, usually ~3-5 mins of conversation. You want to get to know her a bit and have you both be comfortable, while also not lingering around awkwardly and detracting her attention from friends and whatever event/venue you’re both at. Online, I usually try and make some flirtatious/light conversation, but within 3-5 messages too. Spend too long and they think you’re wasting their time, spend too little and it comes across as desperate.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 08:00 PM
13	After what date can you start discussion about exclusivity? As a guy, if I really like the girl, I will try to see her once a week for 3 weeks. After that I’ll have the more “what are you looking for” conversation. And if it’s the same and I want to escalate, I’ll move more for twice a week for another week or two. From there, if I still really like her, I won’t waste much time in asking her for a relationship. So I’d say between 6-8 dates. I wrote the above so you know what’s ~normal. But this guy does not want exclusivity with you.	/r/seduction	24/05/24 04:55 PM
2	What to do after a failed first approach with a girl at work ? I don’t think this came off as an approach, to be honest. Be more direct if you want to move forward (and ideally don’t work together). If she shuts it down when you do approach, just treat her like a semi-friend, say hi and make small talk but do not do anything else.	/r/seduction	23/05/24 05:59 PM
2	What's the most effective approach for initiating conversations with girls on Bumble, Hinge, or Instagram's explore page through DMs? I mean I get a match from ~5-10% of the girls I swipe on. From there maybe half text back. I go on about a date or two a week though, just hasn’t really worked out. But I’m in LA, everyone’s hot. Also I have red hair which isn’t a big help.	/r/seduction	16/05/24 05:57 AM
10	What's the most effective approach for initiating conversations with girls on Bumble, Hinge, or Instagram's explore page through DMs? So facts. And for the record I’m 6’5” with abs and it’s still a grind. Not a face for radio either-most of my women friends tell me I’m a 7-8. It’s a grind for everyone lol.	/r/seduction	15/05/24 07:01 PM
14	What's the most effective approach for initiating conversations with girls on Bumble, Hinge, or Instagram's explore page through DMs? All of this is spot on. I lean on bios/pictures for context clues as to what they’ll be interested in talking about. From there, it’s a tough balance to strike between interesting/flirty enough to interest them, and innocent enough to where you’re “normal” and not just complimenting/being sexual off the bat. It took me a while to find that balance but once you do apps actually start to work. Once you graduate to actually getting dates…congrats you get to the second step of 100. Most girls will n…	/r/seduction	15/05/24 06:34 PM
1	How to respond when a girl suggests dinner “If you want” being the crucial thing here. Too many guys have the seller mindset and allow any girl they go on a date with to dictate the relationship. Maybe stop and decide for yourself if you even like the other person first.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 05:01 PM
91	How to respond when a girl suggests dinner I just say something like “I personally like to keep things low stakes and informal for a first date, I’ve found it’s the best way to get to know someone. How about (XYZ bar/coffee shop) instead?” If she still insists on dinner, stop replying and congrats, you just saved yourself at least $100 on someone using you for a meal ticket.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 12:52 AM
5	When will you be done with pickup/active dating? When I find someone worth the effort a healthy, long-term romantic relationship takes. It’s a beautiful thing, but it takes a LOT of effort, especially for the guy early on. Not to mention they also need to turn on the effort themselves after 3-4 dates of winning them over. So probably not anytime soon but open to it. Until then, party time.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 10:38 PM
1	What’s your Body count? 26 M 22	/r/seduction	22/04/24 04:10 PM
8	Is it okay tell a girl you have been having trouble with errections? I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say your ED problem is a symptom of your porn use. To test a fix-don’t jerk off or watch porn for a week, maybe two. Then, try to jerk off to a (not naked) hot girl—not porn. If you have no problems getting/maintaining an erection after a week of abstinence, you know that’s the reason. Alternate fixes include working out more (naturally higher Testosterone levels) or dieting better (a healthy diet of fruits, veggies and low fat meats like chicken etc). If you’…	/r/seduction	15/04/24 11:07 PM
5	Is it okay tell a girl you have been having trouble with errections? If you’re interested in being in a relationship, it’s imperative to communicate. The girl will either be mature and respect you for it—and even more so if you’re taking steps to fix the problem. Or, will turn you down—in which case they have their reasons, and you tried—but ultimately you’re probably better off without someone who can’t wait a few months for you to get better. If you’re interested in hookups—why are you looking for one when you have problems with an erection? Fix the root cause …	/r/seduction	15/04/24 10:45 PM
2	What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays? Care less. People will come and go. The ones that want to will stay. Also-don’t fall into the modern dating traps of you can. Find someone honest, find someone who likes you, for you. And do the same yourself. If their reaction to your effort into building something meaningful puts them off, they’re not mature enough. Don’t waste your time.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 09:14 PM