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Im more than happy with my sex toys for that but Id GLADLY take a chadbot who can mow the lawn, take the trash out and give me massages while watchin true crime domentaries with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:26 AM
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I get your point and I know for a fact what you're saying is true as guys have showed me this. Dating is really hard for men nowadays. That said, this dude didn't specify he was talking about the dating experience so it seems he thinks women bring nothing to relationships in general until they apparently reach a certain older age?. That's incel talk Im sorry. What you are saying, however, is just facts. Now this won't make you feel much better about dating, but if I can offer you some perspectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:30 PM
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It's hard for me to give an accurate percentage like this because I don't really check people out that much. I've also noticed that depending on the country or environment I am in, the amount of people I find attractive drastically varies. I've also found that sometimes, I'll be with a 10/10 but as I get to know them they quickly become a 1/10 and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:16 PM
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I can confirm that it does not, in fact, cut my options ahaha. Or if it does, I still have too many than I know what to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:07 PM
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Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:45 AM
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Thanks for the compliment I appreciate it! That aside, I'm sure there are exceptions but having had too much personal experience with people cheating or trying to with their friends, I've become really averse to that risk. If a guy I dated was also uncomfortable with my having male friends, i would prioritize their comfort and cut out the male friends. It's not a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:46 PM
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I think I subscribe to the core ideas behind red pill, however, in practice red pill seems to be more and more associated with mysoginistic men who instead of valueing a woman's contribution and respecting her for what she brings to the relationship, they use red pill concepts to submit women and devalue them. I don't fully buy into blue pill concepts, but blue pill men have treated me way better, so I suppose that is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah I agree and think it's important to have good relationships with colleagues. We spend so much of our lives at work and I'd rather he enjoy his time there! As long as it doesn't cross a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:50 PM
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You're absolutely right! And that's the smart and safe thing to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:47 PM
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Yep if I expect something from a partner, I make sure I'm also willing to hold myself to the same standard. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:45 PM
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I think that's perfectly fine! It's important to keep good relationships with colleagues as long as they stay just colleagues. A spouse's friends is also fine it's not like you would hang out with them separately from your wife much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:42 PM
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Re: open-minded: I can't speak for all women. I have dated a bisexual without a problem before. Re: female friends: perhaps, however it comes from my personal experience of having every heterosexual male friend I've had try to hit on me (even those who were married or had a girlfriend). For this reason I don't believe men are capable of having completely platonic female friends. That's my prerogative. If my partner was uncomfortable with me having male friends I would also prioritize their comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:25 PM
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I may have a personal bias against this, but every single heterosexual male friend I have ever had, without exception, were regularly hitting on me, even when they had girlfriends or wives. For this reason I don't believe men are capable of having 100% platonic female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:16 PM
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Im not redpill but I used to be (now I lean more purple let's say). Since you haven't got replies yet I thought I'd share. Qualities as person: Honest, loyal, open-minded (none of that racist or homophobic bs), capable and willing to engage in intellectual discussions, similar political alignment as me. Religion: If he was extremely religious that would be a no for me. Appearance Importance: I can't say on a scale of 1-10 because I think this is more of a yes or no question for me. Yes - appeara…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:01 PM
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It's both. Women are where we are today because we fought for our rights tooth and nail and also showed that we could run things and step up while the men were away at war during WW1 and WW2. It was also made possible with the help of all the men who were our allies and we are thankful for those. You're entitled to your opinion but give credit where credit is due.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:27 PM
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Women: in the last 100 years we have achieved the right to vote, own property, hold significant spots in the workplace, do sports, achieve an equal or higher level of education than men and some of us even lead entire countries now. Red Pill Man: how have women evolved? They won't pay for first dates? Lmao you can't make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:46 PM
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I'm not much of a conspiracy theorist myself but... I suppose it must be those pesky invisable 40 year old women mmh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:24 PM
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It would then seem as though u guys may want to be picky but can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:39 PM
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I mean it's kind of refreshing to see a take where it's not women being blamed for being too picky causing men to be lonely. Unfortunately I think u might be wrong though. Me, and most other women I know (including older ones btw) get 100s of DMs each week from lonely men desperate to get attention. It's fucking sad tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:19 PM
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Ah. So then it is the men who are too picky, not the women? They only go for women under 40? That is why there is a male loneliness epidemic☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:39 PM
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I get your point, however women don't complain about a women loneliness epidemic do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:11 PM
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I mean, do you feel it is society's responsibility to find you a sexual partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:52 PM
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I mean if that were the case then only Sean O'Pry look alikes would be in relationships rn and that's not the case is it? Women are individuals and don't all want the exact same thing. I've dated several men, only one of which was 6ft + for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:42 PM
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Women are worse than they were 200 years for who exactly? Cause from where I'm sitting, women are now leading countries, are statistically equally or more educated than men in developed countries and can even own homes/cars and vote, all examples of things which were not even conceivable 200 years ago. How have men evolved?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:15 PM
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That was oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:14 PM
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"Comfort and convenience and technology and a more, rightly so, liberal and free society have led to women evolving and men not following." There I fixed it for you. It's time for men to stop blaming women for "becoming too picky" and actually recognize that the issue is with them not having evolved and still expecting to be picked without doing/providing the bare minimum to be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:13 PM
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Dude this goes for all genders. If you see a woman OR a person of another gender getting mugged, you can decide to walk away or help out. Personally I would attempt to help out anyone by at least calling the police…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:49 PM
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Yes but isn’t that the action and legal process of giving your child to other parents? Therefore ensuring that someone else fulfills your responsability for that child?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:39 PM
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I have never donated my eggs, but I believe when people do it, they sign some legal paperwork relieving them of that responsability, unlike people participating in sexual relations and accidentally making someone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:49 PM
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It sounds like you might be giving off “threatening energy” as opposed to be “big dick energy”, and most women would avoid that (your criteria number one). Bottom line we want a man who respects us and it doesn’t matter what kind of energy he gives off as long as it’s not threatening or mysognistic. Men with more feminine energy are neither of those things. So to answer your questions, Yes, it’s totally possible for women to be attracted to men with more feminine energy (to us that’s not negativ…
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:15 PM
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28F here and I have the same problem (only reversed - I seem to intimidate guys and am 5feet small😅). What has worked for me was to make the first move, even though I’m still super shy and do get intimidated. Seems like guys expect to have to do the first move so if I do it, then they feel I must be really interested. My advice for a guy though would be to do the opposite. Perhaps wait for a woman who does have the guts to approach you? That way you’re sure she’s not going to be intimidated if s…
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:25 PM
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Yeah I can understand that! Perhaps try to branch out with girls outside your cycle (if it’s possible for you), but definitely practice to get over your anxiety :)
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:12 PM
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Yeah you do have a point! I tend to hold people’s gazes when im interested, but it’s true that after a couple seconds it becomes weird if no one looks away lol
/r/seduction13/07/20 10:35 PM
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Exactly! And if the person kind of avoids your gaze when you try to make eye contact, you know not to approach her. She could have a boyfriend/girlfriend, she could be with family, she could be not interested or it could be a bad time to go see her.
/r/seduction13/07/20 09:18 PM
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This guy has cracked the code. You get it.
/r/seduction13/07/20 08:14 PM
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My 2 cents, if your conversation skills are a bit lacking, ask her lots of questions about her and get HER talking. She’ll most likely ask you questions back and it will go back and forth. Don’t make it like an interrogation though. You want to ask a question and develop a bit on the answer before you move to the next one. Sounds dumb to say, but I’ve been on dates where it felt like I was in an interrogation and it wasn’t fun. If you can, make her laugh. We love when a man can make us laugh.
/r/seduction13/07/20 08:06 PM
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For me, If it’s out of the blue it can be weird (depending on the setting and the guy). I’m all about eye contact. If we’re let’s say at the beach, and I see you checking me out, and we make eye contact a couple times, I won’t find it weird at all if you approach me. In fact, I’ll be flattered and I’ll think to myself “wow this guy has confidence”. And I like confidence.
/r/seduction13/07/20 07:58 PM
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It’ll never get better if you don’t practice, like all things! My advice, and Im a female, is to let them know beforehand. My second advice is to get them off before the actual sex (ie oral sex and fingering), that way even if the real thing doesn’t last long, no one will be disappointed. This might even put some pressure off of you and help with your performance anxiety.
/r/seduction13/07/20 07:49 PM
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