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What, are all your close friends guys or something? Go make some friends who are girls. Don't just hit on every single girl. If you're seen with some girls in your circle of friends that should help. Also, you can go to those parties with a girl or two which will give some cred off the bat.
/r/seduction19/02/13 11:03 AM
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Depends what you're looking for I guess. I'd much rather have a longer term thing or fwb who I actually enjoy hanging out with. The fact that they're level headed bumps them up quite a bit in my eyes. If you're after a ONS and/or can easily deal with drama and games then go for the crazy.
/r/seduction06/01/13 10:05 PM
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That sounds like a whole lot of effort for a whole lot of likely pain and headache. Personally, I'd rather just move on to a more well-adjusted girl. As others said, don't stick your dick in crazy. It's just not worth it.
/r/seduction06/01/13 09:25 PM
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You can avoid having sex. Or you can educate yourself on the facts and risks of STDs to minimize the risk and decide for yourself where you draw the line on risk.
/r/seduction15/08/12 08:04 PM
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Need to gain work sex experience to get a job laid Need a job sex to gain work sex experience If you asked the good people of /r/sex this question you'd get a universal answer that enthusiasm and confidence (and a fun, open and laid back attitude towards sex) is far far far more important than experience. Don't worry about the level of experience, that'll come along the way. Of course, the more experienced a man is in bed, the better the sex will be. Not necessarily true at all. A guy can have l…
/r/seduction02/06/12 01:36 PM
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Everyone involved is going to be much happier if you stick with your interests and find someone who also likes them. Better to know earlier on if your having a job as a games developer is a dealbreaker for some reason.
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:54 PM
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As a general pro tip, people kiss others how they like to be kissed themselves. Take a second to think about how she's doing it back. If she's not tongue fucking your mouth or going at it hard then you shouldnt either. That isn't to say that you shouldn't slowly up the intensity or vary it up. Just take that as a general guide and any change should be a slow, smooth transition. If you're getting good feedback then keep that change up.
/r/seduction30/03/12 11:57 AM
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If you are being friendly and aloof (mainly staying outcome independent) and others are still being assholes to you and telling you to fuck off, then you're not doing anything wrong. Barring any first impression creepiness or other problem in your approach (seems from your other comments that that's not an issue), then you just had bad luck running into some miserable people. Maybe it was the venue, maybe the area you're in, maybe they had a bit much to drink - but either way doesn't matter. Cal…
/r/seduction01/01/12 09:49 PM
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Except those who get into anal just so that they remain "technically" virgin. But that's a whole other level of crazy to avoid for its own reasons.
/r/seduction31/12/11 05:17 PM
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I unsubbed from that place for this exact reason. People can talk about it online in theory and in a vacuum as much as they want but its just not the same as irl. The worst ones really are the "ladies, what works on you" or "ladies, would this be creepy" and invariably the top response is "just make me laugh". Bullshit. I can get laughs easily. Takes a hell of a lot more than a good punchline to build attraction. /rant
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:47 AM
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I don't think that list is directed at long time friends. Let's keep context in mind. Bottom line is (actually in any context) most of the things on that list signify a level of comfort and closeness. It can very easily be flirty and I think a particular context/backstory would be relevant to make it not flirty.
/r/seduction02/12/11 12:08 AM
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It's both, although the taking out of gene pool aspect wouldn't be their primary concern. They attack the eyes, ears, nose, fingers, hands, feet and genitals because it causes severe pain and makes you unable to fight. But it has the side advantage (to the chimps) that even if you do survive your chances of finding a mate are lowered. But their attack pattern has been to maim and disable first, and then kill second. That's just something I always found a bit unnerving since if humans want to rea…
/r/seduction30/10/11 12:00 PM
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Don't think it applies to monkeys but chimps and apes are pretty brutal fighters. Especially against humans. First thing they mess up is a guy's junk and face to take him out of the gene pool. Shit's messed up.
/r/seduction30/10/11 12:27 AM
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Try mailing her your pubes. I heard that works. I saw it in an askreddit thread.
/r/seduction17/10/11 11:02 PM
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Damn right! Can't get oneitis now! (People downvoting are missing the obvious sarcasm I guess...?)
/r/seduction17/10/11 10:39 PM
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Very smooth.
/r/seduction17/10/11 07:38 PM
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Exactly this! I try as much as possible to live my life with the mentality "I might not like something about another person but to each their own". Just as the first thing that comes to mind (because I'm a fan of video games), I used to really love the high end games I played and looked down on anyone who spent their time playing farmville. Now: fuck it, I can't understand why anyone would enjoy that but to each their own and if they enjoy it then more power to them.
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:24 PM
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OK, let me put it this way: it's too high risk a line without much reward for proper execution. If I heard anyone use this (guy or girl) even with a smile on their face and with light humoured body language I would (or at the very least some part of me would) always think "geez, what's their problem?!". If you've tested it the field and it's been successful then I'd be interested to hear but I think many other approaches can disarm the situation much better. ninja edit: and let's not kid ourselv…
/r/seduction25/09/11 10:54 PM
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Thought I'd actually respond to you rather than blind downvoting for what people disagree with. This is way too hostile a response. It would make anyone think there's something more to it and that the guy has issues.
/r/seduction25/09/11 08:21 PM
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Others have given plenty of good advice but I'd just like to highlight something: I feel like I'm "better" than most of the women at clubs. Stop being judgemental. If you can't respect them then they are better off not hanging out with you. If they're not your type then go hang out in coffee shops or the park and find women there. Or pick up new hobbies or get into tango/salsa dancing.
/r/seduction28/08/11 07:12 PM
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Still funny though, I laughed.
/r/seduction27/08/11 11:05 AM
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I came to this realisation a while ago when I used to get more and more annoyed that 2 really old friends of mine stopped making any real effort to keep in touch. It wasn't till someone said "well, sometimes friends just drift apart" that made me realise I really don't need to put in effort that is not being reciprocated. Much happier for it now.
/r/seduction25/07/11 07:45 PM
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To answer both questions, by being really interesting and having fun conversation. How to be fun and interesting? Plenty of info available but for a general overview, you need to build and maintain confidence, the "I don't really give a fuck" to social scenarios and have good stories and banter. Regarding social status, that's easier to work on. Get hobbies and be passionate about what you like. Regarding money, don't link your self worth to your monetary value. They don't go hand in hand. I'm a…
/r/seduction21/07/11 10:54 PM
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Don't know if this helps you but this was my epiphany moment in small talk: I always hated small talk because I thought it was meaningless and really only proper "academic" discussions had any real purpose. The realisation I came to was that I made the mistake of thinking interview questions were good small talk. They're not. In fact they're pretty terrible. They don't build rapport, are rarely interesting and just don't go very far. I also realised that detailed discussions on politics, religio…
/r/seduction20/07/11 12:48 PM
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Hey bro, everyone knows all you have to do is be yourself and make her laugh /s I'm generally pretty happy with myself and have no trouble getting out a few laughs. If only that was all there was to it...
/r/seduction18/07/11 02:44 PM
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Like any joke, it depends on the delivery. You kind of have to deliver it in the way that shows even you know you're not taking your answer seriously. A hint of seriousness behind it will kill it. Shit tests can be responded to well by giving an answer that is so silly it kind of demonstrates how stupid the shit test question was in the first place.
/r/seduction15/07/11 02:07 PM
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Further spoiler alert: it can be but depends on context.
/r/seduction15/07/11 02:02 PM
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Warning: may come across as really mean when sending via text and not being able to establish context/humour.
/r/seduction08/06/11 09:52 PM
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No man, he only wanted to make out with her because she's ugly as sin of course.
/r/seduction15/05/11 11:48 PM
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I got a guitar on Saturday and have already learnt those 3 very chords! Unfortunately still not getting laid :( Wait, am I supposed to leave my room and talk to women after learning those?
/r/seduction10/05/11 10:34 PM
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Jesus why are so many people fixating on my use of that one word? I have no idea whatsoever what she's like. I only meant her reaction to seduction in general is more normal than other girls I've run across on reddit where they refuse to believe it has any purpose other than to lie to girls to get into their pants. She's more open minded about it, hence seems more sane / normal. I accept I don't know if she is also secretly a serial killer.
/r/seduction25/04/11 01:42 AM
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You're meeting some pretty nasty / rude women then. As long as you're not being creepy or too pushy (i.e. building the attraction first rather than jumping in with the stronger stuff) I'd be surprised if they were offended or reacted badly. Surely you must have got the "I have a boyfriend" line or even just a "sorry, not interested". I'd say both of those are letting one down easy. I'm curious, what kind of reactions are you getting?
/r/seduction24/04/11 07:55 PM
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Mate she's not a mythical creature; you can empathise with her. Imagine if a girl came up to you who you had zero attraction to and weren't interested in. I don't know about you but my reaction would probably be that I'm flattered and open to talking but if there is no attraction then I'll make it clear and let her down easy. There is the chance that personality can create attraction but it depends on the situation. I'd surprised if it was very different for OP (although I am very curious to hea…
/r/seduction24/04/11 03:17 PM
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Great to hear. And nice to see a perfectly normal girl posting here. Every time I try to tell a guy about seddit I get insta-downvotes and girls telling me how PUA "tactics" are pathetic and predatory.
/r/seduction24/04/11 01:22 PM
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I'm clearly doing it wrong. I actually am an attorney but hardly get any responses.
/r/seduction16/02/11 10:58 PM
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Out of genuine curiosity, so what has been the source of AA for you?
/r/seduction07/02/11 06:22 PM
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4.30 am here and I was going to read one last thread before sleep. O.O It will have to be some other thread for now.
/r/seduction01/08/10 03:34 AM
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I'm still reading through that other thread. It's hard to believe someone would be so hateful to everyone trying to help him out. I'm going to have to say he's trolling. My brain refuses to believe people can be that messed up.
/r/seduction31/07/10 01:07 AM
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Wow, why so much hate? I just googled it and started reading within 5 minutes. Are you always this spiteful to people trying to help you out?
/r/seduction31/07/10 01:05 AM
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2:35 onwards is funnier
/r/seduction07/07/10 08:22 PM
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