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Conversationharvey_croat/r/seduction25/10/21 12:48 PM
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Empathetic woman will listen and understand you. Those who wont are not right fit
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:31 PM
6

I understand you. I had two FWBs and after sex I didnt want to stay with them. I canceled that way of doing sex and looking for the gf material
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:08 AM
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I have been on 20 dates. Its all true!
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:28 PM
-1

Hahaha men
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:27 PM
1

Just work on yourself every day and you will be fine
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:25 AM
-23

Two words. Grow up
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:37 PM
2

What I usually say that I would like to go with her since I have another dating options.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:50 PM
2

The same situation with my last ex
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:02 PM
1

This guy should work in sales. Amount of rejections you get is abnormal. It's school of life
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:15 PM
5

This is because you are thinking about yourself. Move the conversation to other people by asking questions and just fxxxxx listen to other people.
/r/seduction27/11/21 09:36 AM
2

Next time you should say to go anal. Sucking dick is inappropriate for the person. PS. Stop looking her as sexual object. She is person like any other, imagine someone says that to your sister. Also mentioning swallow lol
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:50 PM
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Just treat them like any other human. Put some flirting and thats it
/r/seduction22/11/21 12:25 PM
5

Looks like my message when I ghost 🙂
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:46 PM
1

Too old to give you advice
/r/seduction21/11/21 01:35 PM
1

You can't but if you start with some behaviour, it would be continued into the relationship. Look, it depends what you want from girl. If you want sex that you can use those tricks
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:23 PM
3

What about when you get into relationship, you will also ignore her?
/r/seduction19/11/21 03:19 PM
8

Oh shit, what if one if this person lose some of those characteristics over the time, you will just dump her?
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:38 PM
13

I'm picky too, but if I haven't got relationship after 71 dates I would be concerned that I have issues with intimacy
/r/seduction15/11/21 09:48 PM
9

Can I ask you question. How it possible that you haven't found relationship material after 71 dates?
/r/seduction15/11/21 09:46 PM
1

Then you shouldn't text for the year
/r/seduction09/11/21 05:30 PM
1

Just get a cool chat and met yourself little bit and the if you like her ask her on meeting.
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:12 AM
3

Man in the end, imagine having relationship with the woman like that. Constantly chasing and approving her. Find a normal girl
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:16 AM
1

Just lead. You are the man. Do you have apartment to live?
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:23 AM
1

Just talk with any other human being
/r/seduction05/11/21 10:00 AM
1

Just move on
/r/seduction01/11/21 09:00 PM
1

Just chill, enjoy the conversations and show the intent
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:36 AM
3

Yes
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:01 PM
0

To be honest with yourself and ask that girl
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:20 PM
1

In some strange way, I agree with you
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:29 PM
1

There is no other way but continue with life and meet other girls. In majority of cases attraction is not something you can control
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:31 PM
5

But there is a clear reason why are you posting here
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:07 PM
6

Oh shit, you are screwed. You really think that you can win someone over? Lol If she liked you she would be with you
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:56 PM
1

And the question is.....?
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:08 PM
-23

Just be a man and that's it
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:31 PM
19

They have more to risk
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:31 PM
2

In these ages if she cut you she lost interest, and its outside your control to be honest. On the other hand if she has avoidant attachment style then maybe your neediness is too much for her to handle. Look, if someone is not interested just send them message and say: Usually when I have situations like this it sounds to me that girls are not interested anymore. Is this the case with you. You will get your answer 🙂
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:50 AM
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How old are you guys?
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:32 AM
2

There a alot of women on the field
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:32 AM
1

The girls are acting like this. Real woman are communicating like a mature people.
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:32 AM
1

I'm same situation like you. Met girl online, texting now for two weeks due to my covid stuff. But as usual I will know on first date do I like her and does she like me. If I feel it, my chasing it down and finish the job.
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:30 AM
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You are the man and women in that age expect you to lead the game. Be more physical, touch her and arms, shoulders, and see how does she respond. Take a kiss, and have sex. You are mature people man. You are not 14 anymore
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:10 AM
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Tomorrow going to date with one I can connect myself with
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:43 PM
1

Currently 31. I want to find someone who is funny, easy to get and have similiar view of world like I do . I thought I want to have ambitious girl, but it drained my energy, since too much focus was on the business
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:18 AM
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This is valid answer my friend. This is close to truth 🙂
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:29 PM
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This is what I'm figuring out, and my therapist said that I need to expose, since every other girl will have the same fate
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:52 PM
3

Like they are too available, or having different ambition in life... when I write it sounds different
/r/seduction25/10/21 01:41 PM
2

Have you shown by your actions that you want relationship?
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:06 AM
2

My style is to be more direct and funny when interacting and also use my hands to express myself.
/r/seduction23/10/21 07:53 AM
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Thats fine
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:22 PM
1

She is obviously avoidant type of personality. Look she has 30 and it that period of time at least you know what do you or don't want. If you are leader in relationship you should put some rules or boundries and stick to that. If you don't know what is or isn't allowed then she can cross the boundries every single time. Good luck
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:10 PM
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Just give up and move on man
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:40 PM
5

No = Next Opportunity
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:36 PM
5

Lol and you on the Reddit. Loser
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:34 PM
6

Or you have issues to be filled brother
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:21 PM
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Is there anything else to do except dating woman? Thats so crazy
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:20 PM
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I agree. With money comes social status, ability not to depend on women thinking and also freedom of choice. Women sense that vibe and that atrracts them.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:19 PM
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Go for no and find another women who will be exticed same as you
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:03 PM
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Who are your demographics that you are targeting? Behaviours, values too?
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:31 AM
2

Man you can feel the energy on the dating, tension and shit. If you can feel that other person has it go for it. If you get rejection, you will know the answer. Just do it! Go for it!
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:13 PM
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Love on the 4th date? C'mon on man. Next time have some fun but have your own purpose. She wasn't into you
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:50 AM
2

So what is stopping you to ask directly on the date?
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:37 AM
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Mixing work and women is bad combination.
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:44 AM
1

You overthink too much. Girls sense this vibe
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:42 AM
2

Be a man, man. Show her what you want. She doesn’t want it? Fine, move on. Don't waste a time on something where there is no future.
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:31 AM
83

Just look her in the eyes and smile and you will know the rest. Then just put your ugly face in front of hers and that's it
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:46 PM
1

Tell her that you are 7 and want to improve
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:14 PM
1

I totally agree with you. They have delusional expectations and want same treatment but without any responsiblities. Men in the have to invest 10x in every area of life and after 30 have huge value in society especially when dating. Women who are in their 40s and single they usually find perfection or have huge expectations
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:16 PM
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That depends what you want? Do you want to have sex and develop relationship with her or you want to develop relationship with her friends? Be crystal clear and then make decision.
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:06 PM
1

So true. Can't control others
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:24 AM
2

Is she escort or what? LOL
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:20 PM
1

Lol yes
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:24 AM
1

Then he obviously don't have leadership skills and can't give you next step. You should try to initiate second date and see where are you. Don't give a shit about male female who should call whom
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:14 AM
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You're telling truth. Women want excitment and have fun. They want to go over the rollercoaster of emotions.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:50 AM
1

Restaraunts? C'mon man have a little fun, drink a little bit, have sex. Girls wanna have fun in the beginning.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:49 AM
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I remember my friend always asking me: What do YOU want? If told him I want relationship then on dating clearly communicate that and don't waste your time on wrong person.
/r/seduction08/08/21 03:35 PM
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Look there are various attractions. Maybe she was sexually attracted to you, but not in some other ways. This is not something you can control.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:49 PM
4

Well, she is not into you. Good for you man!
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:47 PM
1

Thats what I'm telling you. Is basically like hit of dope in veins. Self esteem and confidence are independent of girls
/r/seduction06/08/21 02:01 PM
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Well you can have alot of girls but it doesn't correlate with confidence. It is probably somewhere subscouncisouly
/r/seduction06/08/21 01:59 PM
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It is simple. Just be focused on what you want and communicate it clear. I usually say to woman I like that I like them. No way around and shit show. It works for me
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:52 PM
2

Put the fence around your house my friend and show the clear rules.
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:30 PM
1

Yep, that's truth. In sales we call it Qualification and you have to qualify hard
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:16 PM
1

My friend always ask me: What do you want? In your case you want opposite of what you want so you are no match. Good decision.
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:39 AM
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It's like in sales. You can't get every client. Focus on one you can close ;)
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:37 PM
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Well, for me it changed some perspective on how I see women and dating. I haven't dates seriously until 25 but after reading this book I got some results. Today I really don't give a fuck about the dating and women. When I see woman I like just ask her for date. If she refuses, great. It is all about beliefs about the women, sex and dating that are giving us breaks. When you change it, you will feel more comfortable with yourself and results will come.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:22 AM
1

Look my brother, I don't know how old are you, but you need to get self respect. I have been in same situations like you in past. Putting women on pedesetal will only bring you misery. You want to date and develop relationships and she doesnt? Fine, move on. There are plenty of high quality of women out there. You can't find answers on Reddit, they all lie inside you. The real you knows what is best for you 🙂
/r/seduction29/03/21 09:13 PM
1

There are two possibilities: She doesnt want commitment She has avoidant personality The main question is: What do YOU want my friend?
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:56 PM
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Usually if you love yourself then other can feel this energy.
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:12 PM
0

No you haven't. You are totally fine
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:42 PM
1

This one is the best one: https://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Great-Revolutionary-Treatment-Depression/dp/168373288X But you have to practice every single day!
/r/seduction03/03/21 01:35 PM
1

My friend, there is lot of suffering inside you. You have to create better reality of yourself. Start with CBT and take action.
/r/seduction02/03/21 10:18 PM
1

Agree.
/r/seduction20/01/21 10:46 AM
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Ah yes, but biology do its own thing in the end. We have to accept it. But look, JLO in her 50's looks better than majority of girls in 20,30's
/r/seduction20/01/21 10:41 AM
26

In the end, if you are looking for long term stuff then this is must. You wont be sexy as in young ages in your whole life
/r/seduction20/01/21 10:38 AM
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Plan things together, initiate some experience which you can talk about. Don't fanatsize that you will have unlimited talk with any person. You should have some attraction, proactiveness and patience
/r/seduction20/01/21 10:37 AM
1

I had the same situation and I found my root cause. Google term attachment theory and you will find Secure, Anxiety and Avoidant personality. I have mixture of Anxiety/Avoidant personality where is situation when woman don't want me I'm trying to prove that I'm worthy and obsessed with her and on the other side when woman gets attached I flee from that relationship. 50% of people are secure, 20/20% are avoidant/anxiety and 10% is mixture. Look, if you want relationship that lasts you have to be …
/r/seduction11/01/21 06:19 AM
2

Totally agree. I'm dating and this time I put my boundries and said that I don't play message games and expect to be equally included since this is foundation of relationship. Look if she doesnt respect that, good luck 🙂
/r/seduction16/12/20 02:16 PM
2

Look on the first date you see where is the buyer on its journey. Looking for friend, date, fuck buddy or marry material 😁
/r/seduction22/11/20 01:47 PM
0

Totally 😁
/r/seduction22/11/20 01:46 PM
0

I always joke with my friend that he doesnt have qualified opportunities since he gets low quality leads on Tinder 😁 Dating and sales are so related
/r/seduction22/11/20 01:45 PM
1

Yes it is. You fear what is going to happen.
/r/seduction06/10/20 06:31 AM
2

Learn to write a post man
/r/seduction29/09/20 07:01 PM
1

I read this on James Clear blog. No means decision, yes means responosbility 🙂
/r/seduction24/08/20 09:35 PM
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I like James Clear building habits based on identities rather on outcomes. If you put a goal I need to be ripped to catch some woman then you will ne totally dissapointed when you dont do it. If you say I'm am athlete, reader, runner, intellectual and you back it up by habits outcomes will come by itself since time is on your side. Now women thing. The more you are vulnerable and transparent and do things you want you will attract more women. Being fit, smart, rich is just bonus.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:54 PM
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You wont 🤣
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:05 AM
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I don't know what to do to change my perspective, any advice is appreciate It's normal. But try to be honest with yourself. What do YOU want? Don't depend on the outcome of that situation, but on the whole process. Listen, I never regret the things I've done, but ones I never done. Let's make Wordjitsu FEAR = Fantasy Experience Appear Real
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:47 AM
1

Your B. S. = Belief system 🙂
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:28 AM
106

But congrats man for being persistent!
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:48 AM
225

You probably need to change something
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:44 AM
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