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Wow you got me.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 02:52 AM
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I probably didn't do a good job at conveying my feelings well in my comment. This is coming from someone with an extemely high body count... when I was sleeping around, I had no business being in a committed relationship. My behavior was reckless, unhealthy and mentally taxing. It was more addictive than it was anything. I wouldn't have wanted to date myself... and I definitely wouldnt want to date someone who is actively sleeping with multiple people. For people to tell me im unwell for wanting…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 01:05 AM
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I'm mid 30s, married, and almost a decade ex red pill. Having extremely high body count is unsafe physically and mentally for both men and women. Its high risk behavior. Being okay with a partner who has had high body count In the past and realized how its not a healthy behavior is fine for me. Would you really want to commit to someome who has slept with 10 different people in the last 30 days? Man or woman?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:06 PM
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I actually care so little about this topic that I made an entire reddit post and have been arguing with people in the comments all afternoon. That's how unimportant this topic is to men (me).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:48 PM
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It's definitely not patronizing. My wife is very petite but definitely more than capable of opening jars. She still always asks me, and I happily open them. I know it sounds silly, but small things like this are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:12 PM
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This is incorrect for reddit. I've experimented with this with several new accounts on new ip addresses. The reddit algorithm is heavily manipulated to show political posts. You can literally try everything possible to stop it, but you can't. The fact that this post is in your feed shows that you're getting political content
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:22 PM
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Literally, everyone labels that as ridiculous. I know more men with absurd physical standards than I do women. Some people are too picky, and some people would rather be single than date people that add no value to their life. Have you ever met a person that complains about being single and actually been surprised that they're single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:12 AM
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OPs post should read, "undesirable men believe they are desirable, but are delusional." Literally, if these men are desirable, then women would desire them... it's that simple. Im an extremely average man, and had literally 0 issues dating when I was single. Same with nearly every guy in my core friend group. My friends that struggle with OPs mentality; everyone external to them understands why they struggle with dating. It's truly not a surprise to anyone. I've truly never in my life met a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:06 AM
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Completely agree. Men are absolutely as shallow as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:02 PM
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I actually became like the woman who turned me onto the red pill. I didn't get an answers of why she behaved the way she did and the red pill gives me answers (mostly wrong ones). I generalized half the population and became a pretty shitty person to women. Very happy to have grown out of that shit. I have friends in their 30s who are still on the manosphere bullshit and they're miserable for it
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 09:53 PM
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I completely understand why you feel this way, especially at your age. To the comment above: did I need a 5 day coke fueled bender bachelor party in Colombia to know coke wasn't my thing? Definitely not, but I'm glad as hell I did it. As far as dating multiple women goes, the only real "pros" are it's fun and exciting. The "cons" are , I've gotten STDs, I was sick ALL the time, I've hurt a lot of people and myself quite often, I've had pregnancy scares, I've had a fake rape claim, I've had a gir…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 05:15 AM
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It really depends on what you a defining as a "choice". Is someone age 21 choosing to not make 100k while they are in college trying to earn a degree to earn a better salary? Is the public school teacher choosing to not make 100k even though they absolutely love their job and wouldn't want to do anything else? If you have a goal of making 100k/yr and you aren't doing anything to try and achieve that goal, then yes, you are choosing to not make 100k. If you are young, no one is going to hand you …
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 12:42 AM
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I'm genuinely curious; you would find a partner attractive if they had no ambition, no friends, and didn't take care of their body?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 10:54 PM
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do you think that making 100k is a choice? This is tough. 85% yes I do think it's a choice. There are definitely edge cases where some men will never have this option, but those are rare. There are many cases where men are born into shitty situations that are way harder to escape than others (i.e. born in a coal mining town single parent household vs born into a middle class 2 parent household). The people born into environments not conducive to success can still achieve success, but with much m…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 10:00 PM
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Men at least have the option to become more attractive. Women's attractiveness doesn't change much if they have a really good career or the other things I mentioned. They are judged almost purely on looks.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:35 PM
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I'm not setting standards, I was trying to provide an example that men have an advantage in the dating market. A horribly, physically unattractive men have the option to become more attractive through hard work and discipline.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:25 PM
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I'm happily married and happily ex red pill. My wife supports and understands my crazy schedule and ambition, and i make compromises and plan quality time often to support her needs. We have a very strong relationship. You're not even close. We were talking about attraction, not relationship success. You are projecting.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:21 PM
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Damn I can feel the trauma, lol.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 07:12 PM
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Completely agree about compatibility. Regardless of personal lifestyle, ambition and discipline are attractive traits but definitely not indicative of relationships success. It will certainly help for getting a date.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 07:06 PM
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Tiring to be? Or be around? Some people get off on discipline. It's an attractive trait.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 05:20 PM
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It's also an easy cope to blame your inability to find a partner on factors completely out of your control. How many guys do you know that are sub 10% body fat with high muscle mass (close to overweight bmi), have a good career that makes 100k+ annually, have a lot of friends and a very active social life, have active hobbies and very little free time, and still struggle to get a partner?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 02:25 PM
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100% this. After my divorce I was fully bought into the red pill because my ex wife didn't give me any answers, so I went and found an answer. The red pill definitely helped me get laid a lot more but also made me a really shitty person and made me look at potential partners as adversaries and not an actual partner. You can not have a healthy relationship if you believe in red pill theory of women... it's just not possible. Took a long time and a lot of hard lessons learned, but eventually, I've…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 03:59 PM
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I don't disagree with you. It takes 2 people to have a child, but I think where people feel it's unfair is that it only takes 1 persons decision to terminate a pregnancy caused by 2 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:52 PM
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Yes, but only one gender has the right to decide on the abortion. Would equality be a financial abortion for the man? I believe this is the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:58 PM
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Can't imagine anyone lying about their life on an anonymous forum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:50 AM
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Just own assets bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:43 AM
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I'd imagine it's somewhere around 1%...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:28 PM
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This is actually counterintuitive but for my guy friends that I'm actively winging , I'll tell women that he's trouble and a bit of a player so be careful. Works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:20 PM
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I've had a few when I was younger say they'd wing for me. The 2 times I've been out with them they ended up actively cock blocking me. In college a female friend who had a boyfriend actually sabotaged my chances with one of her friends. We both had crushes on eachother she told her friend some lies about me to turn her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:03 PM
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This is a really good comment. I slipped hard into the red pill because my ex wife never had a conversation with me (I'm not blaming her for my slip at all). One day she was just gone, then I find out through rumors that she's living in our old place with that guy who was just a friend and I shouldn't worry about. No explanation, no communication, nothing. The red pill gave me answers for her actions. AWALT made sense because nothing else in my mind did. The red pill made me a stronger man but a…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 04:22 PM
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If this post is real OP message me and I can tell you how I handled a false rape claim and got out unscathed.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:46 PM
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This is true. I actually had a friend in college who's mom would ground him if he didn't pee sitting down
/r/MensRights17/03/23 02:46 PM
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Just curious. What do you think you'll lose if you act yourself?
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:20 AM
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What's the best single piece of advice you can give? My close friend who is a lawyer told me literally never talk to cops because anything you say will ONLY be used against you and never to help you.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 09:39 PM
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Cut a small piece of my liver.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:14 PM
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Very rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:51 PM
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Should an abortion come with a tubal ligation as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:43 PM
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Someone doesn't sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:43 PM
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Interesting. I didn't know that at. Not really something I spend a lot of time thinking about or researching.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:26 PM
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He's managed to make it 16 years without paying child support. He's gonna take over his dad's company fairly soon too. Life hack: be born into a well off family and take over the family business without ever taking responsibility for your actions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:10 PM
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Shouldn't the mother provide the resources then if abortion is a woman's right and a choice? Men have no place in that choice, therefore the burden of financial responsibility should also be on the woman. Freedom at the expense of men isn't true freedom or quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:16 PM
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Hard to get child support if the father's income is all off the books or makes no money. An old friend of mine refused to get a job on the books snd worked construction for his dad's company because a one night stand tried to baby trap him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:04 PM
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Or the mother that chose to bring a child to term pays for the child? With abortion being a woman's right issue, they have complete control of whether to bring a child into the world or not. If you have a 1 night stand and use protection and still get a woman pregnant. Should you be on the hook for losing half of your income for 2 decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:03 PM
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In the United States it is not possible. If a woman brings your child to term, you're on the hook for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:22 PM
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Personally the only situation I care about is the opposite. If I get a woman pregnant and we are of the assumption that I did not consent to her conceiving my child, I would like the ability to financially abort that child. Essentially legally separate the right to raise or financially support the child that I did not consent to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:09 PM
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Arrested need to be made with convictions. There need to be laws in place for fake rape claims. It's a powerful tool that women have and will wield. I have my own story of a girl who faked a pregnancy, multiple suicide attempts, and made fake rape claims to try to keep me on the hook. Got off completely free after coming insanely close to permanently ruining my life.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/22 07:12 AM
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You're absolutely correct that there is a shift we are currently witnessing. Younger women are graduating college at a higher rate and selling their beauty, but on average men are still higher earners at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:23 PM
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Well yes. Statistically most people would fall between 4-6. Yet I still think I'm a 7 lmao. The human brain is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:22 PM
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On average, men make more money than women. Since we are no longer hunter/gatherers, our way of providing is through resources (money). If we become super wealthy, we can attract more women. If a woman becomes super wealthy and is still very unattractive, they do not attract significantly more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:11 PM
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Fun fact. The majority of people rate themselves as a 7 if they don't have absolute shit self esteem. I don't think this is a gender specific thing. Both genders are willing to settle on looks for other qualities. I think men have a little more leeway because they can provide security with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah I'm sorry homie. It seems that you've bad a stint of bad luck. Ive easily been on 100+ online dates, maybe more and only 1 girl I've met was clearly using me for free food. It's a shitty feeling, but it does happen. My best advice is to try and screen these girls a but better before meeting with them
/r/MensRights23/02/22 08:33 PM
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A very cheap one.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/22 08:18 PM
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This man said there is a large percentage of burger flippers that make more than electricians. Tell me you're very young, insecure about your job and delusional without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:20 PM
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u/repostsleuthbot
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/21 12:50 AM
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Honestly there's no reason to pay for sex there if you're a 3/10 or above looks wise and speak English with a western accent.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:42 PM
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Yes. A lot of the women I've met in Russia were Ukrainian as well that left due to war.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:19 PM
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American in a country that has a huge population of single women. It's essentially a free selection of model looking women with Philippines standards. I did well there.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:14 PM
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Philippines lays and Russia are steroid numbers. I've seen old crusty fat 60 year old men with young hot girls that they weren't paying for. Your skin color there is the ultimate status symbol.
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:18 PM
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Not even slightly. It took me getting cheated on to realize it's all bullshit. I did every single thing by the book (TRP) and still got cheated on (and the whole point of redpill tactics in a relationship is to prevent them from cheating). The part that opened my eyes and made me realize how toxic my actions were is that my girlfriend of 1.5 years reached a breaking point from never feeling enough, wanted, hot/cold, and feeling like I was talking to other girls. I don't blame her for cheating an…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 05:03 PM
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I'm not sure if there's anything about TRP that is specific to black women. When I was fully red pill following a messy divorce i wasn't even aware that I was at the beginning phases of hating all women. With a year of dating through the lens of red pill confirmation bias , you start really believing that all women are terribly towards men and are not to be trusted. For me it wasn't anything specific about race, just women in general.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 03:36 PM
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The red pill answer is to then go see a doctor and a psychiatrist.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:41 PM
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Get your hormones tested. If you're young, healthy, fit and not a homosexual, you shouldn't be having this issues. You also should be posting this in askdocs and not this sub.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:38 PM
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She's letting you down easily.
/r/seduction14/02/20 02:20 AM
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Definitely Ghengis Khan. A real fact is 1 in 200 people are direct descendants of GK. If that's not alpha, I don't know what is.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:23 PM
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This is the best advice. I doubt you're just going to fix your shit without a major kickstart. I join the military at 18 after a few minor and 1 major fuxkup. Wasnt doing anything productive and was headed down a low smv beta path. 6 years later, I'm a trained air traffic controller, I can get paid to go to college for free, I have a solid friend group, and high smv. Military wont fix your life, but it will give you the tools to do so if that js what you choose. Plus TONs of financial options fo…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:39 PM
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I was being sarcastic. The dudes a complete idiot for saying he would assault a woman blocking a door. Should have /s
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 09:34 PM
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Oh I'm not even arguing that she's right or not being a bitch (she absolutely is). I'm just saying that both parties could have handled things better.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 08:58 PM
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Try putting your fists down for a second. I'm not trying to fight. I'm just trying to have a discussion.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 06:18 PM
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What? How can you possibly presume that about me when you don't even know me. If the races were reversed, I'd feel the same about the situation.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 06:14 PM
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What's easy is calling everyone who disagrees with you a racist. What's difficult is looking at each situation objectively and realizing that there can be many factors in a situation both including and excluding race. Calling people racists doesn't fix anything. Racism is a symptom of ignorance, the only solution to ignorance is education... on all sides.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 06:10 PM
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Wonderful dialogue. I'm glad we worked things out.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 05:20 PM
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Very reasonable
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 05:09 PM
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What would you do if confronted with this woman at your residence? Would you just scan your fob and move on with your day, or whip our your phone and start filming and escalating the situation with poor communication? Just curious to see what type of person you are.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 04:35 PM
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You missed the point I was trying to make.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 04:30 PM
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If I'm at work, there is literally a policy to tell someone to scan their badge if they try to follow you in without scanning. If they refuse to report them to security. How is it unreasonable to ask to see someone's fob? He doesnt havent to comply and he was in his rights to do what he did. Both people communicated horribly. Whole thing could have been avoided with decent human behavior.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 04:21 PM
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Possibly, but that's also an assumption. She didn't seem like she was being overly rude. Just asked to see his fob because it appeared he was following her in without scanning his fob. Is that really unreasonable?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 03:40 PM
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I'll be honest. She just asked if she could see his key fob which he never showed her. If he weren't black and she did the same thing, would there be outrage?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/20 03:30 PM
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Out of curiosity, what the arrangement you have set up? Are you poly and both LTRs on board or are you super busy doing everything in secret ?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:59 AM
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The stability of a LTR or the excitement of spinning plates. You can only pick one.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:55 PM
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Welcome to life in a LTR
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:06 PM
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You broke up with your gf because she had an alcoholic drink? Why is this even posted on mgtow? Try getting some help maybe.
/r/MGTOW21/01/20 04:35 PM
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What's the question here that deals with redpill? You seem pretty terrible to hang out with based on your post, so I'd probably try to fix that.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:35 PM
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Youre not wrong, but that's what I think having your own set of values is import. I've been the guy with the cheating wife pre red pill. I don't wish that on any other man.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:58 AM
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I think you're in the wrong sub. Try r/mentalillness
/r/MGTOW17/12/19 09:29 PM
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A lot of people think RPs ultimate goal is to get pussy at all cost. This is very far off from TRPs core foundation. You can believe in red pill and still have your own set of values. Regardless of having abundance or not, I also wouldn't want to be the guy cucking the milfs poor husband. There's nothing wrong with soft nexting that whore even without abundance. Keep working on yourself and your communication, that is what I'd focus on.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:31 PM
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If this isnt a shitpost , I'm fucking done.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:08 PM
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The sad truth that you need to hear is that if a girl is into you, she will make herself very free to go on a date with you. Sorry my dude.
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:39 PM
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This is the only answer here
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:12 PM
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My dude you NEED to cut this bitch off. 100% dump her. You literally set a boundary saying, I don't date girls who go on dates with other guys. She did exactly that... she already doesn't respect you even slightly. You can stick it out and watch her progressively ramp up the disrespect until she branch swings or you can grow a pair,respect yourself snd break up with her. Set boundaries and respect your own boundaries
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:48 AM
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This guy's asking the real questions.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:24 PM
4

I mean... well fuck. that really is a nice setup.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:12 PM
0

There's no way this isn't a shit post... and for fucks sake, when is going to the gym 4-5x/ week not advice in this sub?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:12 PM
2

I've had several random hookups that don't care because they're on 2 forms of BC. Usually the IUD plus something else. A lot of younger people really arent concerned with STIs which is terrifying. Any time a girl is willing to let me hit it raw the first time I've met them, I always think how many other guys she let do that.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:16 PM
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Wawa + plus people yelling bro. I can only assume this is north jerz.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/19 02:55 AM
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I love everything about the way this was handled
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 07:49 PM
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This is straight out of the playbook of another user here faced with a similar situation. The best advice I've seen/used in this situation is to say something along these lines: "Sure it's no problem at all, but just so you know, I don't typically date girls who go on dates with other guys." Then just leave it at that. If she still goes, hard next or ghost. Then again this is only if you have an actual issue with this situation. Personally I wouldn't mind if someone I'm seeing wants to meet an e…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 09:42 PM
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Huge green flag if a girl isn't obsessed with social media and is aware enough to know how wonderful being present in the moment is.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:56 AM
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Too many. Top one that come to mind. Met a date for drinks who's already visibly fucked up when we first meet. She excused herself to the bathroom and ended up taking 20+ minutes. I would have assumed she bailed but she left her stuff at the table. 10 minutes later the cops show up and question/search me because she passed out while shooting up heroin in a stall. Luckily the manager was a bro and comped my drinks after listening to my story. One of the cops got a good laugh.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:52 PM
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Not so much resentment for working out, but I've experienced a lot of people shaming me for being disciplined with my diet at times. I've had coworkers try and make fun of me/ shame me for not getting ice cream or eating donuts or cookies that they brought in. Fuck em... let them get fat.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 07:16 PM
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I agree with all the advice on here to ghost. Be proud of yourself for trusting your gut and not confronting as she'd likely use typical gaslight / manipulation techniques. You have the closure you need, you dont need to know why she is a cheater, you already know the answers. She doesn't deserve any explanation and you will cause her the most pain without actually hurting her by ghosting. Best of luck brotha.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:53 PM
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American women are bad, but Chinese are even worse. Parents don't even attempt to raise their kids in China, they let the maid do everything. Whole generation of daddy issues.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:43 PM
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You're 100% correct. He's a super good guy, just weak unfortunately :(
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:22 AM
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I understand that. It's hard not to feel horrible for him when he constantly talks about it and I genuinely love my guy friend
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:29 PM
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That makes me sad. Is he really just doomed to being a cuck?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:19 PM
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My only experience with an italian citizen is an student in the US while both of us were getting our masters in the same program. She was very pretty, dressed very well and was extremely friendly. Maybe it helped that we weren't in Italy and she wasn't constantly being hit on by guys, but she was very receptive to my advances and didn't play any games. We both knew we were leaving soon and just had casual sex when our schedules allowed.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:36 PM
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If it makes you feel better, my company has the same thing except a mens room and an all gender bathroom
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 06:32 AM
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It seems like you complied a list of a ton of things you can start working on. You're right, at the moment you are a loser, but you don't have to be one forever. It will take time, but start changing things on your list one thing at a time. Take a driver's ed course, start going to the gym daily, and stop smoking. For now just get the gym part of your daily life and the cigarettes out the window, start tackling the other issues after some time.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:01 PM
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I completely agree with this. My most successful relationships have been with girls who were raised in different countries who actually know what struggle is. I grew up very poor (in the US) , but fought to earn everything I have. I've dated girls who also grew up poor that are still entitled. Blows my mind.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 03:13 PM
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Not necessarily looking to settle down. I'm only 29, and I'm certainly not looking to settle down ( as in it's not my goal as women are still plentiful), but if I found a quality woman with traditional values, I don't think I would be so against the idea of a LTR like I am right now.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 04:15 AM
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Depends on the state and whether paperwork js signed or not. As long as there isn't any documentation, it cant be upheld.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 02:39 PM
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I feel your pain man. I will NEVER legally get married again. I made this very clear with my current girlfriend. We can have a wedding and exchange rings, but no one will ever get me to sign a contract in a courthouse that legally fucks a man over.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:07 PM
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Oh I completely know that my ex wife. When my ex-wife left me, I was unemployed and taking way too many classes towards a chemical engineering degree at a competitive school. During that time , money was tight and I guess I wasn't seen as a provider because she had no way of seeing the bigger picture. I now make a nice 6 figure salary , I'm 8% bf (although I've always been lean), I stopped thinking I'm special and I'm totally okay with the fact that in the grand scheme of things I'm fairly meani…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:29 PM
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My ex wife was my first love. We met at 19 and got married at 21. I was naive and insanely insecure. Our relationship was insanely codependent and I derived a lot of my self worth and identity from the relationship. We had our ups and downs but always were committed. When I was 24, she started hanging out with an old friend from high school (guy). Like a light switch, our conversations about the future changed and she was increasingly more disrespectful. 2 months after her reunion she left me fo…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:54 PM
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