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| 16 | How important is "social value"? | hateusernames87 | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 09:08 PM |
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| 1 | How important is "social value"?I totally agree with the "in demand" thing. Right now, with the lack of a social life and friends, I really don't have much going on besides my usually daily routine. So i guess that makes me "too available" which I know isn't attractive. I wouldn't even know how to fake it, girls would probably see right through my excuses of why I would be "busy". | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How important is "social value"?I think i used the term in the wrong context, I was just cracking jokes with her, we were alone and i've already known her for some time at that point. I'm still new to the lingo, sorry. | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How important is "social value"?That makes sense if you look at it that way, and I get the whole popular attraction thing, hence what brought on my post. But how can I possibly change that about me at this point? I really don't see myself gaining a ton a real friends all of a sudden even if i do go out. I honestly wouldn't even know where to start. So if social value is really important in the way you've described, how can i change that? Am I just screwed cause i don't have that many friends? | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How important is "social value"?Truly appreciate the response. Like i said up higher, I am working on myself in other areas and actively trying to gain that internal value. I've always been a scrawny guy so hoping the gym helps out, I believe I dress well enough, been complimented on my style before so I don't believe that's my main problem. I do think I am a generally funny guy, although my humour comes out in more situational times rather than being "on" all the time or at any given moment. Something I could try to work on I… | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 01:57 AM |
| 3 | How important is "social value"?I guess I shouldn't have used the word neg, it was more of a relaxed convo with her and I was just trying to joke with her her. And yes I have been working on myself in other aspects, back to the gym, reading a lot. I actually had that in my post but deleted because I genuinely wanted the opinions of what this sub thought of social value. I understand it's about inner game, but there must be something to social value externally for women? At least from what I've seen recently. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 10:01 PM |
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