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DISCUSSIONhating-life/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:28 AM
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CMVhating-life/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:54 PM
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Question for RedPillhating-life/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 12:09 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:51 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:08 PM
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CMVhating-life/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:31 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:13 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:03 AM
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Discussionhating-life/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:30 AM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:08 PM
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hating-life/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:58 AM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:59 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 09:25 PM
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Discussionhating-life/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:04 AM
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CMVhating-life/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:16 AM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:46 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:25 AM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:36 PM
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hating-life/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:03 AM
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NAH, SIShating-life/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:35 PM
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My question is how do you maintain mystery but be in a long term relationship with someone? I know that moving in with someone kills a lot of desire in relationships because you are comfortable... too comfortable and your partner stimulates you less. I feel like separate rooms, separate friend groups, interests you don’t share would help, but is it enough? I don’t have any experience so I’m just shooting ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:36 PM
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I think that in modern times, the role of a spouse has started to encompass too much. People believe your spouse should be able to do everything for you and take over roles that your parents, friends, relatives and acquaintances fulfill, which is why a lot of people distance themselves from these people once they do get married and that’s a huge mistake. Before modern times, humans were collectivist. They lived in large groups of friends and family, raised children together, and did not isolate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:24 AM
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Most people in FWB situations are not even friends. People are too quick to call anyone a friend just because you’re kind of cool and text sometimes. A friend cares about you, respects you and is there for you. This is a “fuckbuddy” or whatever you want to call it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:29 PM
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13 year old me is screaming! I love Marina 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:33 AM
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She’s pretty much a human fleshlight...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:54 AM
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You don’t have abundance mindset and know no HVM. Maybe if you dated more and stopped focusing on Toast, you wouldn’t be preoccupied with what his relationship is like. Also, you don’t know everything that goes on in their relationship. He might not be as HV as you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:27 PM
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I can say that the men in my culture are trash, but I know of women from various other cultures who say their men are trash. I just know that all men are trash. Interracial and intercultural dating probably won’t help because HVM are not common in all groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:02 AM
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Sounds like Joe from “You”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:26 PM
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My parents taught me nothing. They’re immigrants and I think they just don’t think it’s important because they feel sex should be for marriage. The thing is though that my mother won’t even talk about periods. She thinks it’s shameful and something you should hide. I don’t understand how parents expect their kids to mature without knowledge like this. They haven’t said anything about guys. I’m kind of glad that I’m a late bloomer because I didn’t get into any potentially abusive relationships. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:01 AM
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I used to be subscribed to her because I love watching hoe tales and trashy youtubers even tho I’m the complete opposite. Anyone else like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:04 PM
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My mother is a pickmeisha who chose an abuser over her children, yet complains about him and her life all the time. I don’t feel pity for her... she holds very misogynistic beliefs that she tried to push on me, but I know better. She’s the prime example in my life of wanting a title and the social benefits of being married despite it being a terrible relationship. Very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:06 PM
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Why do women always say he’s a great person BUT...? Like this post is just terrible. It’s obvious he’s not a great person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:08 PM
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You will start to think that attention or lack there of from bottom feeders actually means something. Girls who crave validation from them get doxxed, have their nudes leaked, get harassed. I don’t see why you care for their attention. So... some 20 year old kid who spends his time on Reddit and Discord 24/7 finds you fuckable... how does that help you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:18 PM
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As someone who used to talk to incels... just don’t get sucked into their world. It’s not reality. The validation from there will not help you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:58 PM
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This is scary and very unattractive behavior. He will switch up when you are a more established couple. He will become controlling and possibly abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:00 AM
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My culture has it that MILs basically rule over their sons and their sons wives. They usually make their daughter in laws lives hell. I have some indirect PTSD from all the hell women in my family go through because of mother in laws. I won’t allow that for myself. Of course I want to make a good impression, but I won’t break my back trying to make HIS parents love me. They just need to respect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:57 AM
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Men need to taste their own cum and shove a dildo up their ass before they make requests like swallowing, trying anal... at the end of the day though, no means no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:54 AM
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They do. In a lot of men’s eyes, a woman’s beauty or lack thereof determines her value. So when a woman is not physically appealing to a douche, he will see her as not worthy of respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:20 PM
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People into poly and nontraditional relationships tend to look unusual from what I’ve observed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:34 PM
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This is literally how women get “used” for sex or attention or whatever when he blatantly told you he wasn’t looking tor anything. Anyway, you have to take some of the blame for not believing him when he said he didn’t want a relationship and take the knowledge into your next interactions with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:11 PM
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Why were you dating a guy who did not want a relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:51 PM
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You’ll never know. Even if you did know, it wouldn’t magically make any difference. They would still be a “happy couple.” Sometimes LVM get what they see as a happy ending. Life doesn’t only condemn the bad and reward the good. We only have power over ourselves and our own lives so you need to continue to work on leaving this man in the past. Don’t lurk on his social media. Don’t put any mental energy in his present situation. You guys ended years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:49 PM
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He’s treating her how he treated you. Men like him don’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:55 PM
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She literally did all of the work. She rode him. She rubbed her own clit. He just slapped her and touched her asshole and he came after a while. The end 🤣 I can’t believe this is what good sex is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:36 PM
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There’s no helping this situation. You’re 19 and have been together for 1.5 years. Look at your age gap. Do you think he sees you as an equal? Do you think this man will get over his lifelong pornsickness for you? He is pornsick and also sick for marrying someone your age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:12 PM
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Why do men think the options are $5 coffee, cheap drinks at a bar or an expensive dinner? Why don’t they be creative and stop pretending a date costs 1 whole paycheck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:45 PM
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I don’t understand what women get from hyping up random men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:40 PM
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I don’t think poor men should be dating seriously or getting married. I think financial stability and the ability to be able to provide is important. Even if single, a man should be working on stability and getting his income to a point where he is comfortable and not living paycheck to paycheck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:25 PM
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Promise rings are for teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:17 AM
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Could you imagine learning that your boyfriend of 12 years is “just not that into you”? That would shatter me. All of my 20s gone 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:12 AM
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These girls do it for money. They couldn’t care less about the guys individually if there was no money involved. They are profiting from being female and from the gross coomers that watch them. Being a pickme is more about investing energy, feelings, etc. into a man who is not your boyfriend and isn’t doing anything in return...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:10 PM
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She threw her life away over NBA Youngboy 🤣 I hope the other girl makes a speedy recovery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:19 PM
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Some women are such clowns. (Sorry if this is harsh, but prioritizing sex over your life and other people’s lives... no.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:00 PM
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Men don’t age like fine wine LOL When I go on Tinder, the men 27+ are fat, balding and have wrinkles... that’s why my range ends at 27.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:27 PM
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Yeah. I had to learn through experience that men love the insults and burns. It means you care. Some even find it to be a positive thing- shows them you are “feisty” or “sassy” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:26 PM
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Anal virginity is such a joke term. Nothing should be going up there. Do you want anal tears? Fecal incontinence? Do women have prostates? We are too young to have to wear diapers because of anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:06 PM
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The traditional family unit is just inherently oppressive. I don’t want to be a dutiful feminine wife, homemaker and mother and also work 40 hours a week to appease a LVM. I won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:29 PM
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No contact enrages them. They find the insults cute or “sassy” from my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:59 AM
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This is a question that should be asked by someone who has been in a relationship for years... not weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:16 AM
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It’s time for you to take legal action. When I was like 19, a NVM spread my number on various sites claiming I was looking for sex and also called and texted me over 100 times. I went to the police station but couldn’t bring myself to press charges. I still felt sorry for him and I thought I was being too extreme. I wish I would have went through with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:38 PM
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I’m pretty sure he’s jacking off to them. He probably has or had pictures of other girls he finds hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:43 PM
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Yup. My mother is the same way, but I simply tell her I don’t care. He can cook for himself. I do try to learn how to cook, but it’s for me, not my hypothetical future family. A man will marry a girl who doesn’t even know how to boil an egg. It won’t keep you from getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:44 PM
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I don’t know why Reddit men worry about divorce rape so much as if they have any assets in the first place? Also, if they fear the system fucking them over to that extent, just stay away from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:31 AM
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Clown mentality. Sorry if that’s offensive :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:08 PM
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Okay. So what does she plan to do? It doesn't sound like she'll leave so I don't understand the rant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:16 PM
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These kinds of threads make me tear up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:11 AM
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Most men do not go to the gym, buy supplements for the gym, get surgery, use anything but bar soap on their face as a skincare routine... I don't know why you assume they do. I don't even think most men shower daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:53 PM
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Men overrate themselves a lot. It’s why the average 4/10 man thinks his match is a 6+.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:52 PM
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I feel stressed at 22 because I’ve never had a boyfriend and lack experience. I know I am not missing out on much, but I guess I feel pressure from myself and outside because of expectations that I should have dating experience already. I was even told I should try hookups and see if it leads to a boyfriend. I vehemently refuse, but I still feel behind. I want a husband one day. Sorry for the rant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:11 AM
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I have no business in this conversation as I’m a virgin, but I have a few thoughts. I feel like blowjobs should not be demeaning, but porn and men have given them almost a negative connotation. So this makes me hesitant to make them a regular thing when I do become sexually active. Also, I think many men expect a 5 star porn star deep throat/throat fuck (lmaoooo) experience to which normal won’t be enough... I don’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:54 AM
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I stan Lana’s music and yes to be honest the LDR persona is a LVW. I find it highly entertaining and her aesthetic draws me in. However, I do not let her influence my real life. Other young women don’t know how to separate fantasy portrayed in her songs from reality. They want to identify with the mentally ill lolita whore schtick. I don’t know. Where did a fan try to kill herself because of her bf? Never heard that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:39 PM
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This is just straight up emotional cheating. They could even arrange to meet up if it progresses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:47 PM
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It’s so sad that I literally have zero examples of good marriages in my family. I literally got my knowledge of what affectionate and seemingly loving relationships were from YA romance novels and television (these weren’t very good, but I adored them as a teen.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:55 PM
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Selena and Francia are no longer friends because Selena was drinking after her kidney transplant. There’s also a lot of other tea about how Selena is milking the Justin Bieber drama when Justin has been over her for years. He’s married now and she’s still referring to him. Also she was very shady to Bella Hadid when Bella was the one that was crossed as her former friend slept with and dated her ex. I don’t think Selena is a queen at all. a former Selena Gomez fan. I sound so young right now, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:45 PM
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No ma’am. He can go. You will never trust him again. Nothing will fix it. He can work on himself all he wants but 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:37 PM
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Joe isn’t interested in Love in a way that makes him want to stop looking. Love is not the helpless, imperfectly perfect woman that he wants. Love is his counterpart. He wants a woman to save and then sees him as a good man. He doesn’t want his bad parts to be accepted because he hates himself. He hates his life at the end of season 2. It’s like a prison for him. I was in the You subreddit when it first came out talking about this stuff 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:32 AM
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So that means ugly men can compete
/r/BlackPillScience12/07/18 11:17 PM
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Then why don't women go there if this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 04:17 PM
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NO, they don't. Many men peak at 27. The effects of aging hit them like a brick if they never lifted and ate right. You have to do the sexy older guy thing at that point versus just being a sexy guy. Most 30+ year old men are gross. Most men in their twenties are invisible to women and now age is added. Many men don't make up for it with money so they are useless!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:26 AM
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To me, branch swinging is different than the CC. CC is casual sex and branch swinging is trying to find the highest quality guy... but lock it down unlike the post in OP. Being a slut is worthless, yes, but dating around is no problem IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:18 AM
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No. I have explained a million times why I'm a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:16 AM
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Young Johnny Depp. imgur.com/YS2ReTp.png
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:18 PM
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I want to go branch swinging in MYC after I graduate with my Bachelors but I don't want to end up like her :( I had a shitty life and want freedom but these stories are worrisome. I want marriage but I want freedom. She just was dazzled by men she wasn't at the same level with and too much time passed. I think this is normalish...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:54 PM
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Most men after 27 are hideous. They start balding and many of them don't turn into sexy older guys or young looking older guys. I go through Tinder and am literally disgusted by the over 27 options. I live in the NYC area too so supposedly I'm supposed to see more attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:38 PM
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Nope. Cheating is a huge sign of a shitty individual. They are human garbage.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:33 PM
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Cheating is a quality in subhuman individuals. You should cut off any cheaters from your life. There's no reason to cheat. There is no logical reason to not handle your business in a honorable way. It's pathetic to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:19 PM
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Sorry but high value men can be susceptible to this too if the woman is smart.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 07:35 PM
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Women can also train their men by withholding sex and attention. Smart women will read about operant conditioning and apply it to their dog boyfriends and husbands.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 07:00 PM
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She's not very interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:58 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/ppvewv/serial-killer-twitter-teenage-girl-fans
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 11:47 AM
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I'm basing this on the magnitude of women who were obsessed with people like Dahmer, Ramirez and even recently, Jeremy Meeks. Decent looks + alpha action (murder/crime) = Chad criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 11:25 AM
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It's called hybristophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 11:16 AM
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No, I'm asking what specific qualities. Not what women need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:45 AM
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I love XXXTentacion omg It's like he makes more emo music than hip hop. Anyway, people have been complaining about hip hop for years but the masses like listening to it and women like rappers. People are confused if they think Lil Pump is paying for sex lol. Some women are thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:05 AM
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i'll keep this in mind. thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:21 PM
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So you were being thoughtful. I feel like most people are when they like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:10 PM
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How do you show your potential partners how benefitial you would be to their lives? Wouldn't that be just through dating and being nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:52 PM
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Yeah, but not all decisions are fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:32 PM
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Oh, a woman who wants a housewife and a money bringing a significant amount of money to the table is a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:30 PM
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so fools can't agree to bad deals?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:23 PM
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umm my aunt isn't a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:22 PM
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So lots of young women who are college educated, not sluts or anything don't bring enough? It's like women are expected to work full time and pay for a lot and be moms, it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:48 AM
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I am not dumb. I can clearly think objectively about these things since I am not biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:46 AM
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It's NOT lopsided. There are so many households where the woman pays 50%+ of the bills AND does the domestic stuff. Yes, even middle class women. It's UNFAIR and is only fair is the financial arrangement is 70/30 or 80/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:46 AM
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Then that's honestly worthless. All of that to just say you're married. It's too much sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:42 AM
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Pretty worthless if you have to pay 50% for everything AND give up your body for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:40 AM
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Galo? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:39 AM
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Some women are calculating. It just doesn't make any sense to not be. Why isn't this taught?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:38 AM
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Men give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:00 AM
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How are women being left behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:32 AM
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Chads are born with traits that allow them to succeed in the SMV while alphas actually have to do work. I think being a Chad is more passive, more luck while alphas are more of a mixture but is definitely an active thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:31 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:35 PM
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Hmm, that's true. Sooo how should I work on it?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:41 PM
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I'm me
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:31 PM
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Because of frame.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:31 PM
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No I'm not a RP woman.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:24 PM
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No, casual sex is fruitless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:54 PM
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I'm just warning you that I will report you the next time I see a shady comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 12:16 AM
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I am just noticing that from your posts that you have some sort of prejudice or something... idk how to describe it but it's very negative towards non anglo ppl. Not necessarily this post but many posts of yours that I come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 11:59 PM
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Why do you always talk about non anglos in a bad way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 10:55 PM
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No cause there's blue pill alphas and alpha bucks or just men mixed with alpha and beta
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 10:43 PM
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Do most men commit to women who they feel like are the loves of their lives? I don't think so. I think most men settle. When you don't love someone that much, it's not hard to stay normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 09:53 PM
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Men are a mixture of alpha and beta. Just don't get too beta and you're good. I just think that most middle class white men are weak and soft so they don't inspire passion or whatever after infatuation dies down. They get even softer when they're in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 09:46 PM
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Not really. The average woman is in a neutral relationship and playing house or is having casual sex for drinks lol. There are some taking advantage of betas though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:53 AM
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It's what men are supposed to do. They're there to provide
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:20 AM
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I want a relationship but I'm too incel :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:19 AM
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Sex kills the pedestal they put you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:16 AM
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Yes. Why doesn't anyone believe me? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:03 PM
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Were you bitter? Do you have a nice personality? Deviant in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:00 PM
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Maybe. I think it would be nearly impossible to find someone because people don't want to be burdened by incels and mental problems. Especially among young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:55 PM
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I want to but I can't because of mental issues. I can't just make them go away which is the involuntary part. I am bending the popular definition somewhat from a guy who isn't attractive enough for sex to a girl who can't have sex because of mental issues. I hope that makes sense. Plus any girl can get free stuff, even femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:45 PM
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I'm not making up anything. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:41 PM
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No, it's way more extreme than being shy. It's "crippling depression" and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:40 PM
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NO IT DOESN'T. I'm involuntarily celibate. How? Too nervous, too weird. I would like to have a boyfriend but I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:38 PM
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Ugh, I hate the rules here Repost ~ Coquettery, acting like a damsel/baby doll, suggesting that sex will be in the near future, believing that you're a seductress and channeling that. I'm naturally a damsel and I get train tickets, food, money and gifts from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:36 PM
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I'm a virgin because of various things but that's one reason. Anxiety is involuntary. Maladaptive traits are involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:35 PM
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Because when I'm not in control and not acting, I feel very anxious and self conscious. Flirting with some random versus flirting that will lead to sex or some sort of intimacy is impossible for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:33 PM
1

Suggestion is easy but the thought of having actual sex makes me freeze. I feel like "seductress" me is an alter ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:30 PM
1

I was on the train and I noticed that whenever I put on chapstick, the conductor would smile, try to talk to me and give me a free ride. Laugh along to whatever the guy would say. It's a very simple thing but it makes a guy look at your lips. You just have to be suggestive and nice. Free food just comes from being pretty. I suggest having your hair done but having a fresh face so you're not intimidating. Smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:23 PM
1

Coquettery, acting like a damsel/baby doll, suggesting that sex will be in the near future, believing that you're a seductress and channeling that. I'm naturally a damsel and I get train tickets, food, money and gifts from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:05 PM
0

Why? If a guy goes from Brad to dad (bod) or bigger, I doubt he would be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:00 PM
1

Umm if a wife is hot and slim and the man is fat, he will probably be insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:39 PM
1

keep him fat and happy The guy will just have low self esteem from being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:28 PM
1

You fail at the protector/provider thing husbands are supposed to do. Your indecisiveness when it came to picking a major was foolish or could even be considered feminine by some RP people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:55 PM
1

You're just not husband material to me. Are you a senior?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:47 PM
1

Finish first before you even consider marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:44 PM
1

Why are you so old and pursuing only a bachelors?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:42 PM
2

I have too many issues to get a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:06 PM
1

I wasn't responding to those things. You should have responded to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:54 AM
1

What does that have to do with my comment. The person said most of the best spouses marry at the end of college. I countered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:50 AM
1

but many incels have loving parents yet still go crazy. I think it's just mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:29 AM
1

Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:22 AM
2

I don't have a good answer. I think a relationship is validation or something? Like how male validation = sex, maybe commitment from a good partner is the equivalent in women. When you have a boyfriend, you do cute relationship stuff with him and it just means more...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:21 AM
1

??? Young feminists are usually promiscuous. Anyway, no. My counter argument is me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:10 AM
2

It's just boring to talk about. I think I want a boyfriend more than I want sex. Sex is just a bonding thing to me so no bf, no care about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:31 AM
1

because I have never had sex before...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 06:26 AM
1

That's what you learned from braincels?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:53 AM
1

How are you RP? You sound like a soyboy with mommy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:39 AM
1

No. You willingly married and divorced two women and one of which was obese and both had some other weird things about them so you have issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:29 AM
1

Go read r/braincels and find out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:17 AM
1

because I am. I'm not ugly. Being an incel is more than about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:16 AM
1

Sir, your life sounds like a mess so don't try to suggest that you're a catch or "the one that got away".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:13 AM
1

I get treated better by men who are attracted to me. I get free stuff, attention... I'm treated "gently" like idk how to explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:54 AM
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Men are thirsty. I think it's pathetic how thirsty they generally are and I feel like a woman's "feminine wiles" could get her very far in her career or from a man she wants or to get money from a man but casual sex is cheapening sex but it's still valuable so from an attractive woman (doesn't have to be an 8), she could use the idea of sex or just selectively have sex to get what she wants. Casual sex as female empowerment is just working in favor of guys most of the time. I'm sorry this is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:42 AM
1

They can when they don't see you as a prize. If they don't think you're cute or fuckable or high status, you are neutral/useless. Some men will respect you and some will be mean. There's just an inherent difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:30 AM
1

I'm just joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:46 AM
1

Sociopath like mommy (me).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:39 PM
2

It's just life to me, nothing RP or AWALT or whatever. It's what I grew up around and the values these people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:36 PM
1

What RP undertones?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:29 PM
1

Don't derail my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:27 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:26 PM
1

Their careers, their parents, the colleges that they went to, being Chad-lites when it comes to appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:23 PM
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No, marrying during college isn't smart. You don't know if a guy will make it through med school or if he'll drop out of law school or if he'll cut it during his consulting job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:09 PM
1

It's multiple women. Like 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:06 PM
1

ugh I have to post this here Most guys don't want to be taking care of a whole household because most men aren't making enough... so I can believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:01 PM
2

Why would someone do that? You need marriage to "secure the bag".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 09:32 PM
1

Childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:43 PM
1

I have social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:41 PM
1

No, im incel because I have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:38 PM
1

Because im a virgin and socially inept. If you go through my post history, it's obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:35 PM
1

What does this have to do with me being a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:46 AM
1

Is he conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:46 AM
1

A slut to me is someone who has a lot of casual sex for nothing in return but "a good time."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:34 PM
1

20
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:55 PM
1

I'm not ugly and don't have autism. I'm just socially anxious and socially inept for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:43 PM
1

Attractive beta bux is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:15 PM
1

I don't really see the point in dating then. Why ask someone out and give up being single for someone you don't really like other than for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:56 PM
1

Female, 20, zero. Ehhh I've suggested to guys that I'm not a virgin from embarrassment lol but never explicitly lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:23 PM
1

I don't think you're whipped, but clearly you're infatuated with your girlfriend and she feels the same way so it's not a problem. I agree with everything you said. It's like the only thing a guy is supposed to give his girlfriend is dick and anything else is too much. (idk I don't think finances of people who aren't family should be intertwined but I'm traditional.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:20 PM
1

Guy is constantly texting you, may send good morning and good night texts every day. Responds quickly to texts even though you know he's at work/school/busy. Would rather hang out with you versus friends. Cries because of you, gets very mushy when he's not a very mushy guy. Tunnel vision when it comes to her. No girl compares. Doesn't matter if other girls are hotter. Consulting girl on your plans to buy things. Wondering what she might think about a major change in appearance like dying hair, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:01 PM
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Huh? This is just a soyboy, not a pussy whipped guy. A guy that's pussy whipped goes from being a normal guy to being infatuated with his partner to the point where there's an imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:58 PM
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2 102 sexual experiences is gross either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:55 PM
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Yes, but usually people aren't talking about people who have had sex before when they use the word incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:50 PM
1

That's different from the internet incels who are virgins that hang around r/braincels, 4chan, etc. ... there should be a distinction made.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:46 PM
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You can't be an incel if you're not a virgin. What is with people twisting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:34 PM
1

american society doesn't really encourage that though. the creative people are usually poor or are called children... they need to "grow up" and be an adult and commit to a career that defines them and then become a husband/father or wife/mother. it's all about roles and not the person and hobbies. people usually drop hobbies and interests when they get to 12th grade/college-ish. idk im just rambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:26 PM
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People choose partners mostly based off of lust which is why most relationships fail. I don't think most people know what romantic love feels like because it's mostly lust + infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 11:18 PM
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I don't think it's a wall because it's something that can be taken off and isn't set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:38 PM
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I guess. But nobody tells girls this. They're encouraged to just "have fun" because the 20s are for fun then your looks don't matter anyway because you're a mom... which isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:50 PM
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He has been fucking those types of girls for over a decade and he just doesn't find one interesting enough to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:36 PM
1

because he's ran through those women his whole life and Meghan is different. how is he insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:28 PM
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We'll never know because most women don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:22 PM
1

Go with 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:19 PM
1

What about the supposed fiance she left?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:15 PM
1

This sounds ridiculous. Leave the African alone... I don't want her marrying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:14 PM
1

She will probably have at least one kid. She probably already got tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:12 PM
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Her family is white trash. Anyway, where did you find out that she threw away those people? Sounds interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:10 PM
1

No, there's many women in their thirties who are attractive. It's just that most Americans don't care about their looks. If most young women didn't drink so much, didn't have their souls sucked out by random sex and stupid boyfriends, lifted and took care of themselves, they would look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:09 PM
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Most blonde 22 year old British girls are ugly. British people are ugly. Harry SHOULD have married who he loves which is Meghan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:59 PM
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Yeah, but I don't think my opinion is crazy or anything. Meghan would have a better chance with men versus some unattractive 24 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:56 PM
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I don't agree. Post prime doesn't equal wall to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:51 PM
1

So that means she hit the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:36 PM
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The wall is about attractiveness and not about children IMO. I think it's when you have noticeably lost points when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:33 PM
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I always thought the wall was when you've noticeably lost your looks but I don't think that happened to Meghan yet. She's still an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:32 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meghan,_Duchess_of_Sussex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:11 PM
1

Because most women aren't exposed to money or status
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:42 PM
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It's visible in people's actions. There are so many ugly rappers with tons of women because of money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:07 PM
1

No way. It's money > looks > status > game
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:32 PM
1

nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:18 PM
1

no its not. if your wife wanted to have sex, you would have sex. if you wanted to have sex and she didn't, you wouldnt have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:14 PM
1

That's too blunt and you may not be attractive to pull it off. Anyway, I think most men would be okay with it if we were dating and I said that he makes me feel safe and reliable. It would probably make him feel manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:11 PM
1

That's what I was thinking but the guy is suggesting that virgin women are beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:57 PM
1

So go to the university and report it. You could get something out of this.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:20 PM
1

Why is being an adult virgin something to shame but everyone is advocating for slutiness to be normal? Why can't everything be normal? ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:31 PM
1

Who cares if some men don't reproduce though? There's more to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:58 PM
5

Umm, no, they don't. Men dump high maintenance bitches all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:36 AM
5

Yeah, RPW isn't teaching anything that could pull a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:28 PM
1

No, because liberal sex positive feminism just devalues women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:02 PM
1

No. They're victims of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:29 PM
4

I can't stand when normies talk about things they will never understand -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:28 PM
1

Why are you so old as a junior? Anyway, not in high school, no.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 12:58 AM
1

Goodbye old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 11:18 PM
1

Nope. A question isn't answered with a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 11:15 PM
1

Doesn't answer any question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 11:01 PM
1

Past 20, no. A large percentage of ivy league nerds and nerds in general graduate college as virgins according to some article I read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:12 AM
1

Dicks are objectively unattractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:46 PM
1

yeah, but you think that's as easy as taking showers. anyway, you haven't said anything that argues against femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:36 PM
1

It means you're not attractive enough for the attitude you have so tone it down.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:18 PM
1

I have done work. You don't fix mental issues by showering and lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:48 PM
1

Women usually have more social personality ESFJ-ish types and their minds work differently. They're just more equipped for stuff less analytical brainwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:13 PM
1

Many incels have worked on their problems, but things like abuse are hard to work on. It takes more than showers and lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:57 PM
1

No, I mean that you can shave and have long hair but still not care what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:12 PM
1

A lot of women don't do those things and still look feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:09 PM
1

That has little to do with my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:06 PM
1

So women who do this are masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:01 PM
1

omg someone understands. yes, it's more mental than physical. i agree that well-socialized/"normies" can't relate. these mental issues are what make it involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:21 PM
1

I don't feel bad for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 09:34 PM
1

I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 09:14 PM
1

I don't pity men that fall for it because if you're so lead by your sex drive that you get played for food or homework, you deserve it. F 20
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:58 PM
1

Sure. There are studies about women finding funny men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:03 AM
1

The thing is that though I have this style, I go to classes with and will be working with smart nerds. There's nothing slutty or sketchy about me and I'm pretty smart... it's just that I like to dress up when I can and hate the assumptions!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:59 PM
1

Just regular Brads. There's not many alternative looking people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:54 PM
1

Why? Appearance doesn't mean they're low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:25 PM
1

I come from a UMC environment too and I still think like most women aren't attractive. Maybe it's because I'm a woman idk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:45 PM
1

IDK. I saw a couple with a girl that was 4/10 and a guy who was 3/10 so maybe my standards are high. I think most people aren't HOT which is true because attractiveness is a bell curve, right? Anyway, maybe not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:25 PM
1

It's honestly very confusing how RP people view women. You block out all the unattractive women subconsciously. I go to a large state university that's known for hot girls and I can tell you that most of the 18-22 year olds here are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 07:39 PM
1

Yeah but bpd girls want men that will attach
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:51 PM
1

I don't get that. Wouldn't someone with ASPD be the first to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:48 PM
1

Date a BPD girl and come back with a report.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:44 PM
1

Huh? I would think that the woman with bpd being obsessed and the man being scared of leaving/attached would be end game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:43 PM
1

Yes, but people with BPD are like mental
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:18 PM
1

I don't understand the without free will part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:18 PM
1

because people with bpd have problems with relationships and their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:12 PM
1

Yeah, but it would be more trouble than the average relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:57 PM
1

Don't you think that will just be a ridiculous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:46 PM
1

I believe that beta genes are more likely to be inherited. Alpha genes come from two alpha parents and most women aren't alphas and most men definitely aren't either. There is a necessity for betas, but there's too many betas these days. Most men are just so weak. Just take a look around Reddit. Chad will always have the best genes and will be able to adapt to almost any environment unless he's autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:23 PM
1

You're the inbecile. I am saying that there's TOO MANY BETAS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:18 PM
1

No. Gigachad doesn't make Chad any less attractive. He's already Chad. Chad is a 8-9 and Gigachad is a 10? 8 is still high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:57 AM
1

None of the arguments you put forth hold much weight Yet, you wrote an essay. I think there's some truth to what I'm saying. There's too many betas in society. None of this incel and OkCupid stuff would be happening if they didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:56 AM
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Women feel comfortable having children with the betas they're married to. Weak men don't test themselves because they don't have to. They think just being themselves is enough. A lot of women aren't effective at keeping men because they don't know how to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:53 AM
1

Oops. I meant for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 09:27 PM
1

What's wrong with a woman's love language being acts of service?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 05:55 PM
1

She's idolized because of HP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:37 AM
1

Being a career woman doesn't have anything to do with my issues because I can be normal for interviews
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 09:38 PM
1

That's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 09:27 PM
1

Holy shit, she's an idiot and needs to run.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:16 PM
1

Judging her career and if she failed as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:03 PM
1

I want to get married in my 20s but have one kid in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:19 PM
1

Well I think that women shouldn't have to pursue men, but maybe they have to make it known that they're interested instead of looking uninterested? I don't think women will ever be pursuers until society becomes totally 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:31 PM
1

It's not. If you have a successful career, you clearly succeeded at life. Is Emma Watson a failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:14 PM
1

I don't really care about the young milestones. If I could give birth to a 7 year old and raise it, I would. Anyway, at least my child will be born to parents who have money and will never struggle unlike most Americans who aren't financially secure, don't have college funds, etc. That's more traumatic than having the nanny quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:05 PM
1

I could marry a successful work at home kind of guy, but a stay at home father would just cheat and feel emasculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:55 PM
1

You can't fail at womaning because these days, being a woman is about existing and wearing feminine clothes and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:50 PM
1

Why? In the past, people were raised by a community, not just a mother. I think help alleviates stress and allows mothers to not be consumed by their children. There's no problem with nannies and grandparents IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:45 PM
1

I know all of that, but I have aunts who just gave birth who are 30 and over and my own mom gave birth to my other siblings after 30. If (when) I do become successful, I can always hire help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:37 PM
1

It's not trolling. It's just a hypothesis of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:25 PM
1

They do, but betas are more likely to die. War is supposed to be a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:00 PM
1

Yes it does. There are many cases of degenerate relationships and BB because there are too many betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:21 PM
1

The hypothesis is very relevant to this situation. The "bull" is alpha and the "husband" is beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:10 PM
1

The sacrifice is having one kid at 30-something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:52 PM
1

No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:41 PM
1

That can't work because the best careers usually are achieved through internships/young people programs. Being out of the workforce for a while and competing against young graduates is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:40 PM
1

It's because there's too many betas around. Because of civilization, betas have not been killed off through war, disease, famine, natural disaster, etc. Betas have these degenerate desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:25 PM
1

A lot of doctors do. A lot of doctors even have kids during residency or get married during med school. It's hard but doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:20 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:14 PM
1

The writing and other things are side stuff, but I love doing it. I don't know. The first thing is to get into medical school and finish everything by 30. Hopefully I can do some writing and stuff along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:13 PM
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I only want one kid! and I'll have a husband too. Anyway, I think the salary will be enough to pay off the loans. I know doctors who paid them off and they're not old. Anyway, the other stuff is unlikely, but I still want to try even though the numbers aren't in my favor. Anyway, thanks for the reply :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:10 PM
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I want to be a doctor and a writer. I also like to blog/monetize my SM because I like photography and videography. I also like doing volunteer work. I love writing with all my heart and I've wanted to be a doctor since I was 5. It's hard, but worth it to me. I want the status and the money. I would be so unhappy if I didn't get close to my goals. There's no point to life if I don't achieve anything. I want to retire early though to enjoy what I have accomplished...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:46 AM
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Wikipedia says: A career woman is known as a woman whose main priority in life is achieving success in her career and profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:34 AM
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I don't want a Chad, I would just want someone like me. If I'm surrounded by people who are like (future) me anyway, they wouldn't be incels and would be successful too. For example, my friend is in pharmacy school and her boyfriend is going to medical school. It just makes sense to date those around you...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:29 AM
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No. I've wanted to be successful at SOMETHING my entire life. Of course my education is my main focus, but I also have creative endeavors and I want everything to work out. I want a relationship too, but a lot of RP posts say that men want women with time, women with feminine interests, more "first mate"/supporter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:10 AM
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Your SMV definitely isn't 8. 8s are instagram models.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:41 PM
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British people are usually just plain ugly, whether fat or thin. The UK has a high rate of overweight and obese people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 12:25 PM
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I don't think sexual attraction is that crippling. Honestly, I just think many people are mentally weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:56 PM
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I am. Sorry, but only an idiot would be waiting for a quality man to lose her virginity to and then just lose it to a hookup because she was "overcome" by lust lol. That's just weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:37 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:31 PM
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I would wait longer than that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:31 PM
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Having one night stands and frivolously having sex doesn't do that. I don't see how doing that gets you an attractive provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:28 PM
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This doesn't appeal to me (virgin) and people like me who don't participate in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:25 PM
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Dating is a gamble anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:24 PM
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I'm not. I just said that I'm a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:22 PM
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Yeah, that's true. Delaying sex does work sometimes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:18 PM
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So waiting will weed out the guys who won't commit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:08 PM
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You must be old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:02 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:58 PM
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How does waiting equal frigid? Being thoughtful and able to control your urges is frigid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:38 PM
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So there is something wrong with it...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:37 PM
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You can't trust anyone easily though. I have gotten advice to develop friendships with guys to see if they're more genuine and then see if more could be possible and that seems safer because you know a friend cares for you and you trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:13 PM
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I understand that guys aren't obligated to wait, but there's stories where guys say they're okay with waiting and then change their mind and leave, sleep with other girls, end up pumping and dumping her, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:00 PM
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because I don't want to have sex with someone I'm not familiar with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:24 AM
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I am an incel after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:39 AM
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They cook, clean, take care of kids. This isn't some meme and happens all the time. Men usually do little to nothing even though they only bring in half the income.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:09 AM
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Expectations are "in between" yet many moms with full time jobs do all the house chores. It's not equal. That's why I say that men want both. There's an expectation that women do domestic duties but YAY!! They get to wage slave too. Sometimes even being the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:03 AM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 09:56 AM
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Men usually turn down advances nicely though? And what's wrong with calling out bad behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:40 PM
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What's wrong with straightforward women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:23 PM
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what's wrong with direct women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:03 PM
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Men want a partner, not a child. then why do they date "bpd" women? feminine = medium-low sex drive feminine = indirect communication style
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:03 PM
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So you like womens' covert and suggestive communication style?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:59 PM
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so masculine = adult and feminine = child? there's feminine women who are attracted to their partners but still don't want sex very often. high sex drive = high testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:55 PM
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wouldn't she be boring to them though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:42 PM
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but why are RP men calling women primitive when they would throw their standards for a hot girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:33 AM
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How does that relate to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:27 AM
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You should specify about age group, race, location...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:30 AM
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I agree, however women can exploit this fact for their own benefit. Men are very thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:53 PM
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No, I'm saying that securing a good partner and making money along the way makes more sense than getting pumped and dumped by Chad or grooming yourself to be a "wife" even though you'll be working and taking care of the kids while being miserable.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 06:41 PM
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Clearly I'm talking about NFL players.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:48 PM
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