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If he tried it once or twice as a teen/in college, that's fine. But beyond that, no way. Just think about it for a minute, especially the harder substances, he's obtaining them illegally for a shady source, he can never be sure these substances are clean/safe (what does that even mean when we are talking about drugs??) he's putting his trust and his health/safety in the hands of a virtual stranger, and for what? A fleeting high? If that doesn't scream poor judgement, and cheap-thrills seeking be…
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Brock, because of Brock Turner. That guy singlehandedly destroyed the name Brock. (And after all the good PR that name got from Pokemon too.)
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Do you mean unhygienic to shave or not shave? I think you might have pasted the wrong link, this one didn't say anything about hygiene? But I guess I can clarify: at the time it became a tradition, there was no running water and people weren't washing their cooters or pits regularly every day let alone every week or month. You were supposed to shave every 40 days or whatever day your period starts. (Nowadays people don't pay attention to this rule.) Imagine living in a desert or an area with lim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:55 PM
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In my country both men and women shave their pits and pubes for hygiene reasons, and because it's an Islamic thing. (IDK if all Muslim countries do it, but in my country it's the normal thing to do.) I've been shaving for so long, I don't even know what it would look like with hair. I just pop in the shower, and if there's stubble, I put some soap on it and shave, takes less than 30 seconds. Never any skin problems because my skin is probably used to it. HOWEVER, this is your body and you need t…
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"Why would I commit myself to someone who calls me a c***?" (don't actually respond. He doesn't deserve it. Just block & ghost. He is not entitled to your time or knowledge.) His behavior is proof that you were doing the right thing. You need to protect your own interests. he sure the fuck isn't.
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And whoever it was that abused her, her father has enough money to destroy him and put him away in prison for life. So why hasn't this happened? Why instead is this daughter suffering like this? There are a lot of things we aren't being told.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:51 PM
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If someone doesn't want to do that for me but is just begrudgingly doing it because they feel obligated to, that's just going to make me feel like a disgusting rapist, so no thanks. (But I also would not date a guy who isn't into that.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:33 PM
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Done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:41 AM
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Wow! I'm so sorry that happened to you! That creep had the nerve to loudly talk about your "really nice big ass" in front of all those people with no shame. Scrotes can't help but announce to the world how worthless they are, can they? I just want you to know that every single person that heard him say that was looking at him like a piece of trash, because that's what he is. No one wants to be out shopping and then hear some young creep talking about a woman's ass loudly on the phone, especially…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 11:37 PM
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I'm not sure if I have any advice because this is a weird situation. From what I know, Playboy is failing as a magazine even before Hugh Hefner died a few years ago. Google tells me their numbers are so bad they they had already gone down to publishing 6 issues a year instead of 12 and now are only going to be putting out an issue 4 times a year moving forward. So Playboy the magazine is basically on its death throes at this point. Which really begs the question, who in the fuck is still buying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 11:23 PM
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Period Poem I just googled it and it's fantastic! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4vu2BsePvoI I highly recommend the Tyra Banks book for your daughter when she's ready, that one has a great period chapter too! It's time girls were allowed to feel good, strong and powerful about their periods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:31 PM
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Oh that's great! Yeah with OLD guys, it's safe to just have a default assumption of booty call unless proven otherwise, but dinner and a movie sounds promising! Just remember, you are the prize, you are in control, it is an honor for him to even be in your presence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:14 PM
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Find out if your school allows you to use the gym facilities for free, some schools do. IIRC, the YMCA/YWCA is also pretty inexpensive. If you have the discipline, you can find videos on youtube and work out to those, but I find that most people need to physically go someplace in order to motivate themselves to actually work out, a lot of people just can't get into the routine of laying out a beach towel on their carpet and doing exercise from YouTube for 30-60 minutes every day, there's just th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:37 PM
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Also he's had narcissistic tendencies in the past and went from love bombing to being cold So you don't recognize what he's doing right now as a form of love-bombing? Also, you can't cure asthma through willpower. I know because I had childhood asthma. It got 'cured' when I grew older and my lungs became stronger, which is what happens to a lot of people with childhood asthma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:30 PM
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You're welcome! If you are able, you should find and watch Season 1 and 2 of Laguna Beach and see how Kristin (a junior) handles her relationship with Stephen (a senior) as he goes off to college in Season 2. She is #teenconfidencegoals for sure so maybe watching her will inspire you a little bit as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:03 PM
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Yeah, and he seemed like such a normal guy, he was very funny like the 'class clown' type, and charismatic. It's amazing that even people you think are normal can end up being sick fucks. Like, I don't care if you're watching that shit to get off or just out of curiosity (well, getting off is extra fucked up) but there comes a point like if you're consistently seeking that content out and seeking out weirder and weirder things because the weird things aren't even weird enough for you anymore, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:27 AM
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This is loooong so I'm watching it in pieces but she has told nothing but the truth so far! Everyone should make some time and give this a watch. Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:18 AM
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It sounds like SSRI's don't work for you. Have you asked your doctor about Wellbutrin? That's the one I use, and although it doesn't work the same for everyone, it does give fantastic orgasms as a side-effect, and helps with weight loss. I've found that the most important thing (again, for me) about tackling depression was to identify and deal with my trauma head on, which was hard, because I grew up in an abusive home with a mentally ill mother so it was basically abuse nonstop 24/7/365. That's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:07 AM
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This is so true! I have sensed within many pickmeishas this emptiness of never having been truly loved by a parent. They are waiting so desperately for a guy to come along who will finally love them the way television and the media promised he would. They are so hungry for this love that they will get on their knees and pick up whatever crumbs of it they can from the predatory men that throw them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:00 AM
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Yeah this can go both ways. The guys who are close with their sisters are the best! They instinctively understand that girls are living breathing human beings who poop and fart and do weird shit just like boys do (and it sounds like I'm describing an 8 year old here, but I'm unfortunately referring to adult men as well. Many of them haven't figured this out yet.) But there are other kinds of brother sister dynamics too that can be toxic. Like the older brother who wants to police his younger sis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:29 PM
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You're absolutely right about the 'woman are weak' thing being near universal, but I'm talking about the extra mile these particular guys went through to re-brand us as literally too delicate/fragile to function all while they themselves were the very ones crippling us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:21 PM
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Imagine being this worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:34 PM
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If any of you want to see an IRL example of hate-fucking (well, a reality TV version anyway) watch the original Jersey Shore. Spoilers below: Nobody really liked cast member Angelina, not the house mates or the viewers. In fact, she was so disliked, she left for a long stretch of episodes possibly because it was too hostile for her in the house. Vinnie was one of the favorite cast members, he was the V in MVP, He had the image of being a sweet kid from a good family. He was the youngest male cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:23 PM
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I have always refused to take birth control pills. If a man wants to get anywhere near this body, he better have his condoms ready, and I do have an emergency stash of morning after pills. Will you believe, any guy I've told this to has just been like 'Oh, okay.' But women... WOMEN have verbally abused me and acted like I'm some kind of horrible monster for saying I will not use birth control. And a lot of this abuse has happened in online forums like this one in a thread topic where a woman is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:54 AM
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SO will no longer be SO anymore. Your SO needs to respect you at all times. And vice versa, you should not be giving anyone SO status if you do not respect that person. What's going on, is the SO in question insecure or something? Why this strange need to make the other SO feel like shit by putting her down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:40 AM
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So a couple of years back I had a Snickers bar and a literal piece of poop, and then I ate the poop and someone else ate the Snickers bar. Wat do? Edit - yeah you brilliant woman are right! My bet is that the person who's actually writing this is the butthurt first guy. He was such a "prize" but got dropped for a total failure of a man and has never gotten over it. And doubt he's getting married to anyone this week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:00 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Not only did this creep suddenly enter your life, your long time good friend that you trusted and relied on and shared important times with disappeared, and it turns out they are the same person! So you're probably just sitting there like 'how did I not see it before? was it all an act?' And you're trying to communicate with him like how you used to, but all of a sudden he's too dense to take your hints, even though he was so sensitive and picked up on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:32 PM
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Don't respond. You are a busy woman with tons of shit to do and you have no time to coddle some rando you were nice to a million years ago that you barely even remember anymore. If he wants to talk to someone about his feelings about being a jerk, he can hire a therapist, it's not your problem. In fact, you've already forgotten about the text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:23 AM
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Hahaha exactly! Whenever they write something like "I'm so bad, uwu!" they're expecting you to be like "Aww, poor baby! It's okay, don't beat yourself up about it! I forgive you!" Like, fuck off. That might have worked when you were 5 but you're not dealing with women who used to change your diapers anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:20 AM
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He hit you with the door, that's enough. Even without the door, he blocked your exit and threatened you, that's enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:11 AM
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He swung the door open and entered, physically hurt you in the process (it doesn't matter if it was unintentional or an accident, it's still considered a battery, depending on what state you live) he blocked your exit, he yelled at you and scared you, he terrified your mother, he threatened you, AND HE WILL DO IT AGAIN. Call the cops, NOW. Get a restraining order on his ass and he won't be allowed to live with you anymore. (You'll have to swing the whole rent by yourself so remember that.) Edit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:10 AM
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I don't know what it is about this dude, but red flags are popping up for me. He's giving out some strong red flag vibes. Tell me I'm not the only one. Sorry OP, the message itself is still fine though, just something about the arrogance of a man who feels the need to enlighten us like this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:39 PM
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he's told me from the start he wasn't looking for a relationship. Gurl. Cut your losses, block him, pretend he's dead. He is dead to you. He is a dead end. He is a waste of time. Stop wasting time on him. Use this as a learning experience and never disrespect yourself like this again. This dude said this to you: He has said he still wants to look for someone better. And still you're holding out hope? Stop. There is no hope. This will never happen. I know your body is addicted to the feelings it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 12:36 AM
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I have a positive story to share: This happened to me once when I was seated next to a tall, plus-sized man. He did his best to not spill over into my seat but it was rather inevitable, but still he leaned into the aisle as much as possible to create as much distance between our bodies as he could. The two times his thigh accidentally touched my thigh, he apologized profusely. He over-apologized just to make it clear he wasn't perving on me and to make sure I felt comfortable and safe. I don't k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:07 PM
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Serious question: Why is anyone friends with this person? He sounds like a complete mess. I really don't understand why people like this have friends. And some of the friends were coming to you and congratulating you, and you even said most people didn't like him, but they didn't want to end their friendship with him? I don't understand. And pickmes are pickmes, but how do you look at a guy who treats a woman the way this one treated you and manage to convince yourself 'He won't do that to me. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:10 PM
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Will do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:10 PM
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Wow, I am so sorry you are going through this. It's awfully shady of your 'best friend' to talk to this guy behind your back for 2 months and not get your blessing or even mention it to you until she revealed it to everyone. I'm just going to go ahead and imagine that this guy must be the most beautiful guy in the world with a dick made of gold that ejaculates chocolate, but still, your best friend should still let you know, not sneak behind your back. Are you able to do something extreme? Can y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:31 PM
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Yeah, that's how I see it too. My interpretation: The first person says basically "looks like someone from Reddit wrote this" and the other one says "Looks like something FDS would write."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:35 PM
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I found this sub through /r/gendercritical, someone had linked it. I was so happy to find a sub full of strong women who know their worth and demand to be treated with the respect they deserve. We need to make more of an effort to mention this sub so more women will see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:14 PM
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You are obviously not into him anymore, or you wouldn't be here making this post, right? So you have two options: stay with him out of convenience and familiarity, or leave and find someone better. But you are thinking about your ex, and I want to remind you that the two of you broke up for a reason. And that reason was big enough that you didn't get back together with him and you moved onto someone else. What has changed now? Do you miss how you felt when you were around him? The passion that y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:28 PM
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Exactly. The society is so misogynist, they don't even want to acknowledge that a women who remains single by choice CANNOT be a leftover. For her, it's the knowledge straight out of this sub, that dicks are abundant and of low value. The only true leftovers in the scenario they created for themselves are the men. The best of the litter got picked, and these are literally the leftovers that nobody wants. I know accepting that hurts their precious fee-fees though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:30 PM
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After I wrote my comment the irony of it just got stuck in my mind. China is a country obsessed with filial piety, and children taking care of parents, and grandchildren being born, and the bloodline continuing and blah blah. And these parents who murdered these baby girls and the country that allowed this to happen FUCKED UP to such a ridiculous degree. Now not only will these parents never have grandchildren, their sons don't even have any brothers or sisters for family support as their grow o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:24 PM
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Unfortunately, the biggest gaslighters in my life were my own mother and my aunt. They make the petty bullshit men do look like child's play in comparison, especially because as they were adults and I was the child/teen it was so much harder to fight against their bullshit because they were authority figures who had power and control over me. But you're right, I should have remembered the context of this sub and used a male partner as an example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:06 PM
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I'm 40 and in the best shape of my life. I do pilates, weight lifting, and cardio, and also eat clean and healthy. You have no idea what a boost in self esteem it will be for you once you start losing weight, getting in shape and feel your body getting stronger and healthier. You will exude a self-confident energy because you love what you see in the mirror, and you will love knowing what your body is capable of, and it will give you a high value woman aura/energy that will be palpable to others…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:27 AM
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You said he has depression. Might he be on medication that is killing his libido? He might not even realize that the pills are what's causing it because sometimes it sneaks up on you very slowly. The pills can even cause erectile dysfunction and prevent orgasms. But if he can't accommodate you in that department, he's not the only man left in the world, go find you a guy who's just as nice with a dick that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:08 PM
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Your instincts are dead on. He doesn't contact you for a week after accusing you of 'nagging, but tee hee I was just joking because I'm too passive aggressive to own that shit' and then suddenly contacts you at night to tell you to not forget about him, well I'm just sitting here cringing at my screen, how these guys have been able to get away with shit like this for so long. He treated you like a low value person, one strike and he's out. If your friends are okay with men treating you like that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:37 PM
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Wear your nasty stained period panties and don't shave?/joke You've already established the fact that you do not want to have sex with him on this 4th date. However, you are worried that your body will hijack your brain and just go for it anyway? You are a grown woman. You are in control. The brain in you head decides what happens that night, not the brain in your pants. Stick to the plan. You two shop together, cook together, eat together, and then he gets the fuck out. Let him know the plan be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:51 AM
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Yeah, don't reassure this insecure fool! Your gut is telling you that this is a no, but if you want to see for yourself whether you gut is right or not, you can always go on the date and then bail. But it seems like a waste of time to me. He's doing that whole "You're so much smarter than me uwu..." stuff and it seems very manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:43 AM
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1- Trust your gut. 2- "maybe you will end up not liking me" - DON'T DO THIS. Might as well just be telling him 'Hello, I'm insecure!' It should be more like, 'Of course you'll end up liking me, but maybe I won't end up liking you.' You're the prize, not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:19 AM
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