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"Unlike high status which is earned (mostly)" Entire comment disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:37 AM
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I'm not reading this, retard.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 03:45 AM
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Your statement is correct, however by normalizing women in the workforce as a result of the feminist movement, it has effectively prohibited wage growth for decades, and resulted in a reliance of a dual income household. Many women who want traditional roles cannot afford it on a single male income, which was common decades ago. I believe feminism was about economic growth first and women's rights second in retrospect, however that's irrelevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:53 AM
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There are no guarantees at any point. I'm single at 28 after 7 straight years of long term relationships. People either stay together or they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:03 PM
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And what age is this? I feel like my options are rapidly closing at 28, which is irrational since I can easily date women who are 23-24.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:18 AM
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Understandable, however most men just want to feel genuine love in a society where they're treated as disposable. People in general are losing basic interaction and romantic fulfilment in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:20 AM
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Young people economically have it harder than any generation past before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:12 AM
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You're not going to be earning six figures when you have children, if you have children. Society has told women that they need a high-paying, high-status career to be fulfilled. Which is great if that's what they want, but it almost appears designed to pit both genders against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:27 AM
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Guaranteed to make her vagina play the Windows 98 shutdown sound.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 02:56 AM
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The average boomer male is probably a useless dumb fuck, just like your average boomer female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:00 AM
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The average woman is no less NPC than the average man. Netflix and drinking with the girls are equally as low status as video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 05:15 AM
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Sounds like you're not coping with the reality of equality which feminism brought you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:26 AM
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so what are you suggesting then- that women should stop pursuing careers and economic independence from men? If working full time corporate jobs until they're 70 makes women happy then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:28 AM
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Straight generalization. It also assumes that satisfied and content women don't leave. Women seek fulfillment through external means when they feel bored, complacent and lack hardship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:04 AM
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Consider that many elements are stacked against men; stressful jobs and societal expectations, poor work life balance, lack of mental and emotional support, poor hormones and low testosterone from external (environmental) factors. It's very likely he may have had chronic depression or a medical (hormonal, biological) condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:49 PM
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Society is founded on the basis of women being dependent objects to men. Women get ahead by the social acceptance of exploiting their partners.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 10:07 AM
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You're wasting your time talking to a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 06:14 AM
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Never invest more than a $5 coffee and an hour of your time on the first date with a woman you don't know. Experience would prove this true.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 02:32 PM
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> I am a reminder of betrayal, I am her mistake.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 12:54 PM
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These are the people giving vulnerable men 'advice'.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 07:18 AM
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"How to Structure Your Day to Maximize Productivity" "Make your bed" "For me, a college student" Lol. ​
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 12:20 PM
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Every time you have a close, intimate shave, you're metaphorically raping hundreds of millions of hair follicles without their consent. Go Gillette for a more respectful shave.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 09:20 AM
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First, mainstream television is created in a boardroom with target audiences in mind. Fictional or anecdotal evidence is not evidence, it's rationally subjective information. Second, insults lend hand to break of frame and in your case shows your insecurity. Particularly with how you've vested personal interest in your points and take defensive action when someone opposes your point of view. Develop yourself further friend.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 09:01 AM
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Are you literally using a fictional tv series to evidence sociodynamics?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 03:32 AM
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Society is a zero net sum game. Not everyone can run their own business or make six figures a year. Society is realistic and about getting by. I'm enjoying my life by living by the principles of avoiding all debt possible and living within my means, and six figures savings cash by 25 and no debt is a good start. People want a quick fix and there's no shortcuts in financial progression for most adults. Be frugal and be smart.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 02:12 AM
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You don't need to write a 2000 word report to detail that single mums are primarily looking for a transactional relationship at the disadvantage of men. Also you should condense your 'how to bang single mums' section into one sentence: you don't.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:26 AM
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This boy will kill himself in his teens due to the abuse of his mentally ill mother.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 08:36 PM
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Morals are one of the foundations of being a man, in which all your pillars are built on. Do what's right by yourself and those around you. Cheating is one of the ultimate forms of breaking frame, it does not make you alpha.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 11:56 PM
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She genuinely believes that's enough, that she can just switch into wife and mother mode and that everything that came before it doesn't matter. It doesn't work that way for me nor can it for anyone. Women are biologically programmed to think this way. Most women spend their youth branch-swinging from guy to guy, and once they hit a certain age and have a child, their biology changes their behavioral tendencies and preferences. Just because this is considered normal does not mean this is conside…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 10:44 AM
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Missed opportunity mindset in the sexual marketplace is immature and founded in insecurity. Successful men will have it considerably easier with age - and young guys in their teens to early twenties have no leverage in terms of success to even the playing field with girls. You may have missed out as a teenager but you're not missing out in the long-term.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 11:58 PM
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Never take a woman out to dinner on a first or second date. It's not worth the time, cost and is almost always a free meal ticket. It took me 2-3 bad dinner dates to understand this. Always default to the hour coffee date, buy her a coffee and make an excuse to leave after one hour.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 07:11 AM
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I highly recommend avoiding credit cards and debt wherever reasonably possible. Always live within your means and never play with someone else's money. I'm doing very well for my age (debt-less six-figures of savings at 25) and am constantly told by friends and people my age who are 20-30k in debt that because I don't have a credit rating or a history of paid-debt, i'll never be approved for a mortgage. If you're young and live at home, there's also no reason not to save upwards of 60-80% of you…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 09:15 AM
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Women do not consciously realize what Marriage does to the man they're marrying. Women are born into competition with other women, and they compete with other women their entire lives. They grow up not really comprehending the reasoning or implications of marriage: simply that it's their big day that they need to experience, and if they opt out all the women surrounding them will experience it regardless. It's a destructive pursuit that they take on and many women don't have the logical reasonin…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 10:55 AM
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TLDR: I, me, myself and mine.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:42 AM
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It sounds like you're in a more equipped position to be successful with women and if applied, you'll have great success with women around your age and reasonably good success with women in their early twenties. You look back at your twenties with an almost grass-is-greener mentality and it's holding you back, dating sucks when you're 20, you have no resources, power or real leverage over everyone else your age. Start dating again and lead women instead of trying to figure them out and you'll be …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 11:29 PM
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What's the point of this post? Recovering from an injury doesn't make you enlightened or special, and no one in life cares about your hurdles. People only care about the end result.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:39 AM
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Physical, Mental and Financial developments come from discipline, wise-decisions and opportunity seeking which is at the control of the individual. Social development however is partially dictated by those you engage with and is something that many people struggle to develop; this should be something that people need to actively pursue and maintain more-so than the other pillars.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 06:45 AM
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Metabolic rate is +/-2-300 calories at several standard deviations iirc, varies between people not not overall notable as exaggerated.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 06:11 AM
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Not to be that guy, but what makes you any different than her as a self proclaimed heavily religious guy if you're just as willing as her to fuck random people on tinder? I wouldn't be outlining the double standards card if you hadn't mentioned you were religous; as all my proper religious friends saved themselves for the marriage cliche.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:46 AM
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If that's the only how men need to awaken to the truth, so be it. If you still want to take the risk, go ahead, but be prepared. It's only a matter of when, and how ugly. There's nothing wrong with going into a relationship or marriage with knowing that statistically it won't work out - that's the mindset from the reality of the world we live in - however likewise all the doubt and caution you have with commitment links back to the fear and insecurities of your post and can be self-jeapordising …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:50 AM
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When you're at the point where a woman has just taken your entire life from you, I wouldn't be surprised if many men resort to paying their ex a visit before knocking themselves off.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 04:41 AM
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What's the alternative? You don't get married, spend the rest of your life fucking random women and die without a family and kids, or you date a woman who doesn't want children? Marriage is the biggest life risk for men but it's the only way they'll have a strong family foundation.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 04:38 AM
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The problem with testosterone is that the 'natural' range is so large that one man can naturally produce 3-4x the amount of another man and they would both clinically be considered normal. The only way for some genetically low test guys to even the goalposts is to inject.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 01:39 AM
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Getting old is what you make of it. Never stop working out both physically and mentally, especially when you reach your final years.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 03:45 AM
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Adopting and raising another mans kid makes you a literal biological beta and is worse than being in a typical marriage.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 03:01 AM
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What's the sexual strategy if you intend to have children?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:51 AM
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Closure and self validation.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:11 AM
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If the same woman was married to you for 5 or 10 years, I doubt she would be putting your dick in her mouth on a Sunday morning too, despite the fact that you're this 'big alpha'.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:10 AM
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"The belief that everyone inevitably gets fat and unhealthy after their 20s is pure hamstering" I believe for people who lift regularly, as you get older a lower bodyfat percentage is less of a strict requirement for fitness and more middle aged men are more comfortable with bulking and sustaining into 20-25% bodyfat, along with building significantly more strength. The only thing keeping my squat from hitting 140KG right now is that I need to continuously cycle cuts and perform at a deficit. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:51 AM
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Both of those adults are just as bad as each-other. Her standards are going to drop the older and more lonely she gets, time usually destroys any unrealistic entitlement people have.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:36 AM
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So this is the result of female empowerment.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 02:44 AM
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Trying to provoke a divorce via cheating due to there being zero financial or social consequences of her breaching the contract. Worst case scenario (for her) is that he stays in the marriage with her and fucks around, most likely case scenario is that she gets half his net assets, takes the kids and gets weekly pay checks.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:04 AM
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Unfortunately, bodyweight training will never be as effective or approved as barbell weightraining. Take fitness advice from /fitness/, not a red pill Taiwanese knitting forum.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:53 AM
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A relationship is a commitment, and cheating is not an acceptable aspect of a valuable, meaningful relationship. Both partners are subjected to this, and both partners have every right to terminate the relationship immediately when one partner breaches this expectation. Just because a woman can cheat without any remorse doesn't mean a man should lower his morals to her point, nor should he feel bad about leaving her if she did. Unfortunately, marriage legally stops a man from withdrawing his com…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 05:54 AM
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Unfortunately if you want several kids, a structured family and a good upbringing environment, settling down in terms of marriage is one of the common pathways to take.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 12:00 AM
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What women say on camera or in confrontational situations =/= what actually happens. She needs social leverage, and will shift any responsibilities and blame on camera to obtain it. They're both subhuman, and neither should commit to a relationship if they are not exclusive, but anything both parties say at this point on video is hamstering; hers for blame allocating, his for blame negating. This is evidence.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 12:07 PM
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If this logic applied to all interactions women made; her partner count would be through the roof before she's even in her mid twenties, and conventional male ideology of dating women with low partner counts would be almost eliminated entirely. Women control sex because men control commitment; and most healthy relationships trade these two factors fairly.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 08:04 AM
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Psychological abuse goes both ways, anything can be argued with supporting evidence or documentation, and plenty of arguments can be made against an unfit wife. Basically, if you suspect things going wrong, and believe she is capable of taking you to court for some arbitrary reason, you start making your own counter case and gathering evidence months in advance. If stating facts about body weight are considered abuse; not taking care of the kids, not housekeeping, abusive or shit-testing texts a…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:35 AM
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Unfortunately, the divorce situation makes sense financially; regardless of gender. If one parent is financially dominant, developing their career, making more and more money and building up their reputation while the other parent takes primary care of children - in the situation that the marriage ends, the dominant parent will be significantly better off than the other parent without any form of compensation. They can find jobs easier, they will be paid more, and they will have a more economic …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 03:35 AM
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Both women and men have different outlooks on relationships and breaking up. Some people don't have backups because they take things one step at a time, some people need a genuine emotional connection before getting with someone else, some people go into relationships for revenge, some for status or some because they just settle for placeholder partners. Reasoning above is not gender exclusive. It's easier for women to find a 'backup', but that doesn't mean those 'backups' will commit. This conc…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:46 AM
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When men kill themselves, it's natural selection. When women kill themselves, it's a tragedy.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:01 AM
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I feel like I would much rather be 35 and have several children, a long term partner/wife and a dog or two than be single, have no children and be capable of sleeping with new women every two weeks. I suppose different people have varying degrees of tolerance towards loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 02:58 AM
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Nothing wrong with deleting posts as long as it doesn't delete alternative views with supported reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 01:52 AM
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Virgin church mate at 24 is looking for his virgin girlfriend. I actually had to explain to him that modern day, it's not unreasonable for women to have already fucked a few men in their twenties. Started flirting with a 4/10 and the moment she dropped the "5-6 guys at 22" line, the situation went from "potential fuck buddy" to "potential fuck buddy with no prospects for a relationship".
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:59 AM
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Most women are basic, but there are plenty of interesting women who are intelligent, have hobbies and live meaningful lives. The mentality you have developed is dangerous and appears skewed due to a small sample size.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:39 AM
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As much as male commitment is invaluable at any age, any woman that is willing to commit to a long term exclusive relationship during her twenties is giving up the capacity that many women in their twenties take for granted; the ability to be sluts. The 28 year old female PhD student who spent between 22 to 28 years of age in a relationship surprisingly represents many positive qualities that TRP undermines while simultaneously reinforcing TRP ideaology with women she associates with. Good to kn…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:28 AM
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After the 60 days protective order, any contact from her should have been left ignored, or any compromise of you breaching the order to meet her should have been strictly under the condition that she sends you written and signed evidence of your innocence in the mail or left on your truck - potentially with evidence of withdrawal request of the protective order. Unfortunately you consistently gave her legal leverage over yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 12:46 AM
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Most of the population want kids, including women. I don't want to find a decent girl, be with her for years just to find out she withheld telling me she was infertile. Their reactions are justified and understandable.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:33 AM
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I refuse to watch that video because Nicole, the person who recorded that video is worse than the majority of fat women out there. Literal stripper, attention seeker, embodiment of vanity, cheats on her boyfriend, threatens to kill herself, lies about disability and changes her content to follow views, apparently. Good example of how women manipulate themselves and media to follow social success.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 01:07 AM
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Realistically, how many men should a 21 year old woman could have slept with before you stop considering her for a relationship?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:56 AM
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If she wanted to cheat, she would do it. Let her go, trust that she makes the right decisions and if she cheats, drop her on the spot because obviously she didn't value your relationship enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:04 PM
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Biggest red flag is to turn off messaging to her iPad. She could have kept it on and messaged on another platform, but this shows that she blatantly wants to hide her social interactions with other guys.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:36 AM
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I don't even need to read your entire thread to tell you that girls on OkCupid do not have the prospects of dating men. You cant force relationships or interactions. It's an ego boost first, solution to boredom second and a dating app as a last resort of loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:21 AM
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Goes both ways. There's nothing worse to women knowing that ending a relationship does not bother you, and that they lost a high value guy. Once the relationship is over, you move on to other women and she's stuck getting pulled along with unreliable, low status guys, she will quickly reflect back at what she had.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:11 AM
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"I'm never fucking trusting a Female ever again" Don't have this mindset. It's a similar mindset to someone I know, who is [50y/o+ female] that has become a gender hating low SMV person who no one can possible live with or relate to. Selectively decide which women you trust and give no second chances to women such as your ex-girlfriend. She's going to manipulate and trap a guy one day, but there's nothing you can do about it, luckily it's not you. Don't hate women, just hate women like the one y…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 04:48 AM
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If women routinely give up sex by the third date, then most women would collect partner counts well above 20-30 by the time they're in their mid to late twenties. It's not practical for women to be expected to fuck guys after going out to dinner a few times, because then that would naturally encourage all women to be classified what we would describe as sluts. There are plenty of women who don't rush into sex before developing relationships with, or spend more time before fucking guys while surp…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:11 AM
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This is not gender exclusive and I get that same feeling of missing out after recently getting into a relationship with my first girlfriend. I would never be able to cheat due to my personal morals, but both genders would have the desire to sleep around when younger, people are naturally promiscuous. Some just have better reasons or higher capacity for self justification.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:26 AM
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I don't believe criticizing someones morality over TRP should be immediately bannable - as long as their points are unbiased and encourage discussion, analaysis, and are not a blatant personality attack. Just because TRP is critical towards the social behaviours between genders does not mean that you should actively censor people whom may rightfully take the side of the contrary, or have an opinion which is non-conventionally against what TRP supports. The moment you start supporting the male re…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:12 AM
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How are men expected to maintain relationships with women when they have no desire to get married, yet any girlfriend you get would want to get married? More and more men are turning away from marriage, and more and more women are turning towards it to survive due to the obvious gender benefit biases. I feel like it's a system where men are ultimately pressured into sacrificing their lives and handing over all their trust to their partner, with no guarantee for a return.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 03:14 AM
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Logically, I never want to get married because getting married disables a males ability to withdraw commitment without consequence, where a female can freely withdraw sex without consequence. I love my girlfriend, but I feel like this conflict in ideology will be problematic in modern society.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:28 AM
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Jiro is a good example of Japanese culture and male suppression. He isn't free or unrestricted, bound to the confines of his profession and isolated development. I would prefer to be developed in a variety of tasks, procedures and characteristics, and not isolated to be perfect at making one product.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:23 AM
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Her university puts up with this because she's paying to be there. Any company will not put up with this because they pay her to be there and act professional. Temporary gimmick and inconvenience to herself that no one had cared about.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 03:46 AM
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This is such a good politically incorrect response, yet such a biased and bitter outlook to have. I think it's neutral.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:42 AM
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And ofcourse drop her when she doesn't treat you like you deserve to be treated as women are more mentally attached to a guy is than a guy is to a girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:50 AM
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You fucked up. TRP is a good concept to adopt and follow, but don't let it intervene with your life and don't think that you're "ALFA AS FUCK" for being a cheeky cunt and treating her like a prick. You should have pulled her aside after slapping her ass and talked to her, not given her an ultimatum to get herself home, and not hit back to put her in her place when you're in a situation where it's girls against guy. Knock yourself down a peg from your fake alpha mentality and live a common sense …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:49 AM
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It was less about her getting him to come over and more about seeing if he was enough of a beta bitch to stick around and get manipulated by her shit. She put all her cards on the table, went all in and lost. Not all men would have left after getting the truth out of her, and that's what she looked for.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:30 AM
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While this is true, men determine how much money is invested for sex. I got my first girlfriend at 21 approximately two months ago and have invested very little money in her since. I've probably spent a hundred bucks in petrol driving to and from her house, but excluding that, the most I've probably spent on her was $10 for a stuffed animal, which has a very sentimental and thoughtful reason behind it. Instead, I've invested significant time and emotion into her, which i'm particularly fine with…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:29 AM
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Be redpilled all you want, but willingly paying a women directly for sex only gives women more power over you. It's a sincere and truthful transaction, but no women deserves to earn hundreds of dollars an hour just because she has a vagina, and you're allowing that. Get a FWB.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:20 AM
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Actually got my current girlfriend from trying to cut her out of my life after she sent me a friendzone message; it's funny how things work out.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:01 AM
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Silence and withholding attention is a greater tool than withholded sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 04:17 PM
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The growing interest in vocal TUMBLR SOCIAL JUSTICE U SHITLORD has really done nothing except destroy gender relations. Extremest feminists are doing nothing except shoot themselves in the foot and destroy their own futures. With that being said, half of TRP is bitter rubbish and to benefit from this subreddit, you need to have an open mind and accept information critically.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:15 AM
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Had a girl tell me to leave her alone because she was "seriously considering killing herself" - didn't respond for three weeks and she re-activated her facebook to message me. I'm now seeing other women instead of chasing a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:12 AM
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Misconstrued interpretation. Statistically, very few women pursue STEM in comparison to males, and therefore many professional fields involving heavy mathematics or engineering properties are male orientated. It's not that men are more intelligent than women, because that's not true, but more-so that women don't have the interest in these fields statistically to educate and equip themselves with the knowledge to mentally solve these problems. Apparently straight mathematical courses have notable…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:52 AM
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This article is opinionated rubbish. It has a few critical and common sense points in it, but many others such as office jobs being for "girly men" are idealist, derogatory and shackles men to gender expectations. Get an office job crunching advanced differential equations and solving mechanical problems and you're already doing an office job most women are not mentally capable of.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:59 AM
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Because you can use women to integrate yourself into their social circle; increasing accessibility to more women. I told my male friend this last night at a party, and he demonized me, before bursting out in laughter.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 02:54 AM
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It's actually great advice from the perspective of "be yourself" suggests to do your own thing, pursue your own hobbies and interests and live your own independent life instead of molding yourself over the personality of chasing women. Women are attracted to someone who can live comfortably without them.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 12:37 AM
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