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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% Come to Southern California	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 04:31 PM
-8	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% Isn't this the classic red pill "shoot yourself in the foot" before you even try strategy? I see beautiful women with average joes everyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 03:20 PM
-2	Withholding sex entirely can be a mechanism of dominance and control by a more powerful partner You can ABSOLUTELY use sex as a weapon and withold it as a punishment or just a power move. Make or female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 02:57 PM
-2	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" You never know whats really going on behind close doors. You think people go around telling others that they wish they didn't have step kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 02:15 PM
10	Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough. The statement that a woman being older makes her mature is funny. There is a TON of middle aged women out here with emotional maturity of middle schoolers. Possibly the majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 04:16 PM
–	Men are more hypergamous than women. Women are hypergamous with staus and resources. Men are hypergamous with youth and beauty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:32 PM
–	Does porn warp women's expectations of penis size the same way it does for men? So size doesn't matter AT ALL to women? Micro-penis all good? Monster shlong all good? If you ask most women truthfully they will admit that too small or too big is a problem. Which means size DOES matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 03:47 PM
–	Does porn warp women's expectations of penis size the same way it does for men? Any woman that says size doesn't matter is a bold faced liar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 04:44 AM
27	Women should stop having sex for free So is this just advertisement for your prostituting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 02:32 PM
7	Why is it that every time there is a conversation about a relationship with an age difference, it is automatically assumed that the man is evil? What if they just said "I like them because they look better" All of the 35+ women would still have an issue with it	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 06:32 AM
–	What is the equivalent of Big D Energy for women? Shes got a "Large mouthed vagina." V	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 12:19 AM
3	If it's okay for women's "bits" to be showing while exercising, so should it be for men. I've never actually seen this happen in real life and have been a gym rat for 25 years	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 03:56 PM
14	A word about "single mothers" Honestly. As a single dad I never many problems. It was almost the opposite. Seeing me out with my kid always had women approaching me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 05:00 AM
2	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? So no response to any of my points and instead trying to get sympathy? Sounds about right. Working tables does not make you special. If it doesn't pay enough find another job. If you are not skilled enough to find a better paying job thats not the World's fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 07:53 PM
3	Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways? Why is it my responsibility to pay your salary? You don't pay mine. You don't think other people work hard or are on their feet all day? Did you tip the construction worker that built your house or the nurse that treated you in the ER? If your employer doesn't pay you enough find another employer or another line of work. If nobody wants to wait tables anymore the employers will have to pay more to retain help. That's how supply and demand is supposed to work. I tip for excellent service as was t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 04:46 PM
0	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. You literally said you would prefer your bfs dick to be 2 inches larger. Like if you could wave a magic wand it would be 7 like the other guy. This is it ladies. Stop with the long explanations that don't make sense and say "yes, I prefer larger dicks."	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:54 PM
1	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. I always think about this when a guy freaks out when his girl has had bigger dicks. Like is hers the BEST pussy you've ever had? Does she have the tightest ass or give the BEST blowjobs? Usually the answer is no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:48 PM
6	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Tell that to Jeff Bezo's ex-wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:16 PM
9	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Yea but most of the time it is the woman pushing the relationship for marriage. There is still much more to gain (stability, commitment, financial, bragging rights, etc for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:42 PM
2	Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all? Only problem is one womans signals of interest could be another woman's just being nice. I think a lot of guys are just saying fuck it and letting the woman approach if they are interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 06:01 AM
1	CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material wait I'm taking to the men. You can keep dating guys with low standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 05:42 PM
3	CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material wait If she has different standards for different men and she's making you jump through hoops while other guys she doesn't. Run men. She is not as attracted to you or doesn't hold you in as high regards. Same as if a guy was super romantic, and chivalrous with his last gf but not with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:52 PM
8	Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriage I don't think being a virgin is a turnoff for most men but I also don't think most strongly desire a virgin even for LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 09:50 PM
5	Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriage I slept with a girl who was a virgin in college. It was messy. Would not recommend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 09:40 PM
12	Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriage I dunno man. I don't really want a virgin...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 09:07 PM
24	Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriage I think most men just want a woman whose "not a hoe." And each man has his own definition for what constitutes a hoe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 04:42 PM
3	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage Sounds like the way a child thinks. "Because I wanna..."	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 05:34 PM
2	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage Ok... So why get married if you leave as soon as one person gets unhappy? Why make that commitment to someone. Life gets unhappy sometimes...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:31 PM
4	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage Ok. So why get married? Why not just have a long term relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:29 PM
1	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage So what is the point…? "I commit to you until one of us gets bored?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:20 PM
4	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage Then what is the point of getting married? Why not just have a committed relationship if this is your view? Marriage is a commitment. You have to keep working on it everyday. Nothing is forcing you to get married if you don't want that level of commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:16 PM
4	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage Then just stay unmarried. Then you can leave whenever you want. Why commit to "for better or worse" or "till death do us part?" People want to play marriage but don't want the commitment that comes with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:11 PM
17	CMV: You should always consider divorce as an option when entering a marriage Divorce should not be an option for petty shit. Abuse, rape, adultery, are all grounds for divorce. "Needing to find yourself" or "Lack of excitement" isn't. If you want to be able to leave a relationship at the slightest inconvenience don't say those vows	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:00 PM
7	Women can be attracted to you but until they see another girl interested have no interest in pursuing or being receptive to engaging with you You can have an experience but that doesn't make it true worldwide. You could have the same experience 10 times and it's still a sample size of one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 01:55 AM
0	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Finding a man to have sex with you as a woman will always be easy. That's different than being the most desired which is what the post is talking about. No one believes that as a woman gets older she gets more desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:50 AM
6	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Being desirable for sex and being desirable for long term relationship are different. None of those 21yr olds are trying to wife you up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:44 AM
2	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics You are a sample size of one... Also younger guys go for older women because they either have a milf fantasy or they are looking for no strings attached sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:32 AM
24	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. I'm going on record that I don't think 120 year age gaps are appropriate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:26 PM
1	Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school? Sounds like you are agreeing. The 7 hours should be spent taking care of the household while the kids are at school and dad is working. Everybody is has a job. Why is this controversial? I'm a single dad btw so I would take this deal hands down. I know exactly how much "planning" school aged kids require.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 05:19 PM
12	Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school? What does that have to do with housework?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 11:43 PM
11	Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school? Post clearly said the kids are in school. So what is the stay at home parent doing during the day?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 10:40 PM
1	Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocence If women didn't vote for Conservatives they wouldn't get elected. End thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 04:50 PM
5	Why is it when men chose to avoid women professionally post metoo it was criticized as exclusionary yet when men avoid children (even are forced to do so) its widely justified? No but women can't have it both ways. Blame men for not being active fathers or involved in the community but then give them dirty looks anytime they are involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 08:38 PM
17	Why is it when men chose to avoid women professionally post metoo it was criticized as exclusionary yet when men avoid children (even are forced to do so) its widely justified? This is actually quite common. Try watching your own kids play in the park as a man and watch how many women look at you like you're a pedo. I work in a low income after school program and just hanging around and mentoring the kids always gets you off looks from some of the parents. The truth is anytime man spends time around other peoples kids there is always a aire of suspension.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:42 PM
7	The shy girl-next door will often come out on top in the dating game Nah she's right. "Bad girls ain't no good, and the good girls ain't no fun."	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 11:19 PM
4	Is there anything a woman could do to get you to say with her after she cheated on you ? Gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 01:24 PM
53	Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why? Or we get looked at like perverts when we watch our kids play at the playground. We also get told we are babysitting our kids when we do anything with them. No bitch Im parenting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 02:59 AM
1	Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality? Which metric are we using? Weight, dress size, body fat percentage, max squat, chloesoral level, blood pressure, 40 yard dash?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 11:02 PM
2	Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality? And what if she decides that she doesn't want to get fit. Or her idea of fit differs from yours?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 10:16 PM
3	Feminists and older women actually have a point about age-gap relationships, but their explanation is somewhat inaccurate and self serving The same women that say Leo or (insert celebrity) are pervs for talking to younger women would GLADLY jump on their private jet/yacht for a trip around the World if asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 02:29 PM
–	If a woman complains about having poor choices, it often suggests that she may not be very attractive. "Delicious validation" from men. You need male attention to validate you. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 11:51 PM
8	Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles? What about all the women in jail for violent crimes or murder? Since women apparently can't be dangerous and all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 10:43 PM
4	Would prostitution be accepted if customers admitted to it more often? I hear places like Australia where it's legal it's less if a big deal. Like it's almost expected that s guy has visited a brother at some point or other in his life	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/24 01:29 AM
1	CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for males So you dress up in a way men find attractive using products designed by men to make women more attractive to get validation from those same men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 02:12 AM
0	Age-Gap Relationships (Remixed) It can also lead to a great career and is an avenue for tons of people to better their circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 09:05 PM
1	Age-Gap Relationships (Remixed) How is joining the military a bad idea? The reason why you feel safe is because other people protect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 08:24 PM
–	Most men now prefer women with experience and not virgins Depends on what you mean by "experience." Having had some sexual experiences? Great. Having slept with every guy that gave her a modicum of attention. Not Great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 05:14 AM
1	Asexual men, do you pay for your dates? Why or why not? My example is real life. I have never had a woman reach for the check first on a date. I'm not sure I've ever met a woman who has paid for the majority of first dates she's been on. The mere fact that the only options presented here are they guy pays or they split it is telling. Nothing about a woman paying for the whole first date. Absurd right? The reality for men is that most women expect you to pay on the first date. Even if they won't admit it on reddit for karma. If you polled a group of r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 04:55 PM
2	Asexual men, do you pay for your dates? Why or why not? Reddit is not real life. It is a microcosm of a microcosm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 03:40 PM
6	Asexual men, do you pay for your dates? Why or why not? To say that the majority of women in the US don't expect the man to pay on a first date is a wild take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 03:02 PM
2	Asexual men, do you pay for your dates? Why or why not? Because this is not the dating culture in the US. It's like asking us why don't you guys just do arranged marriages. Women in the US expect the man to pay on the first date. If you offer to split she might take you up on it but your odds of a second date go dramatically down. So it's not a successful strategy for most men. The tradition stems from when women didn't work so naturally the man would pay. Now women are making as much if not more than men but the feeling of "I deserve to be paid for"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 02:13 PM
3	Question: Why the “freshly 18” double standard? What choice is being made for her? It's her choice if she decides to date an older man. It's her choice if she wants to do porn. Either adult women are capable of making their own choices or they are not. Y'all trying to have it both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 02:50 PM
1	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims I don't get it. At the end of the day you are just as likely to get fucked over by a young dude vs an older dude. If a 20 yr old is dating a 50 yr old man whose to say she's not taking advantage of him? There weren't plenty of guys her age interested in her? (same w ganders reversed)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 12:52 AM
5	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims I never understood this. If an adult woman decides to date an older man does that mean he's going to manipulate her? Or that young men have never been known to manipulate any women? Plenty of women have been treated poorly or manipulated by men their own age. So it seems it has more to do with the individual than that person's age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 10:45 PM
5	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims Should she be able to decide to have an abortion at 18? Or vote? Or kill for her country? Sign legally binding contracts? Or go to adult prison if she commits a crime? At what age are women expected to be responsible for their choices?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 10:39 PM
-7	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Not in my experience. I don't think anyone has an issue with this analogy. They have an issue when the girl is coherent and completely capable of making her own decisions and some "friend" pulls her away. The friend is usually the girl who never gets hit in herself so her only contribution to the group is to play goalie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 03:17 PM
15	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state Well in my state you have to establish paternity before requesting support. A guy can wave the paternity test willingly which is what I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 03:17 PM
10	Are women generally speaking more loyal to their partner? Women don't need Ashley Madison to cheat. They are offered a constant supply of penis so it's available on request.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 04:09 AM
9	"more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single. It's true that.. Happy relationship > being single > unhappy relationship. But to act like being forever single is somehow winning the game is copium.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 04:07 PM
2	If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single? Because the guy nerds to be attractive first... An ugly asshole is just an asshole. A hot asshole equals "I can fix him "	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 04:22 PM
3	Is passport sis a real thing or just a meme? You don't know how Stella got her groove back?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 02:47 AM
5	Women in relationships with male best friends? Minds change, circumstances change, weak moments happen, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 02:54 PM
4	Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant? No "we" don't. Men yelling at women is never seen as ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 05:36 PM
1	Some people are “relationship material” and others are just “casual sex/hookup material” and that’s okay No	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 05:31 PM
8	Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant? We don't blame men for getting upset yelling at their partners? Since when?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 05:19 PM
12	Ladies, what made you choose your boyfriend? And then you said "Let me solo HIM."	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 07:10 PM
39	Men of PPD: Do you really find casual sex appealing? Casual sex is like junk food. Sometimes you crave it but afterwards it feels pretty unsatisfying. Do it enough and you start craving a healthy meal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 11:29 AM
–	Women, Have all your straight male friends tried to sleep with you? Or do you think they would given the chance? Yea I think that's a personality issue...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 08:47 PM
–	Women, Have all your straight male friends tried to sleep with you? Or do you think they would given the chance? Do you think if you asked them to hookup "no strings attached" they'd say no? That's really the test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 08:45 PM
60	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men I went through a period after my last breakup where I went on A LOT of dates. Probably at least 40 in 6 months from a mixture of OLD and organic meetups. In that time I only met 2 women who even knew what reddit was. Reddit attracts a certain "personality" type and demographic of people which means that it's not necessarily reflective of real life. My current gf is a teacher and has no idea about the reddit echo chamber. My last LTR was a lawyer and same story. So no... I don't think the "averag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 06:47 PM
–	if you're shy and introverted as a man in america are you doomed? I am shy and introverted but that doesn't mean I can't be social or have conversations with people. If you choose to let your shyness control your life to where you can't or won't do those things then you will have a hard time finding friends/a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 04:50 PM
9	What age is it weird to still live at home? We gonna all be living together pretty soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 04:32 AM
–	Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing. So I see you avoided answering the question. Will trusting your partner always keep them from betraying your trust?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:37 PM
–	Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing. Pretty juvenile way of thinking. Plenty of people who trusted their partner still got cheated on. Your trust doesn't keep someone from betraying that trust. So if you ever get cheated on you'll say it was your fault for not trusting enough?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:27 PM
–	Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing. I find it so weird when guys say "I asked my wife/gf for a paternity test." You can do that shit yourself homie... you don't have to ask permission. Women always have 100% certainty of maternity. Why shouldn't men with paternity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 05:48 PM
0	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves Your argument is equivalent to "if women don't like the male gaze then don't go outside."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 11:08 PM
3	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves My last two LTRs including my current gf of 2 years I met on Bumble. Your comment doesn't actually address the issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 06:14 PM
1	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves Post is about the "male gaze."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:50 PM
1	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves Try being a guy on a dating app.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:27 PM
2	A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves I'm not sure that's true. When you see a hot guy walk into a room none of the women look at him? Whisper to their friends how sexy he is and what they'd do to him? It's just more acceptable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:25 PM
16	For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then? A culture that encouraged a healthy diet wouldn't have a McDonald's, Pizza Hut, and KFC on every corner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 08:49 PM
4	Why do bossbabe women complain about not being able to find a man? Because that isn't what they were told. They were told to forego getting married and having a family to become a boss babe. And once you are a boss babe the World will be your oyster. They weren't told that men who are bosses usually don't want boss babes. And that the more money you make the smaller the pool of men making as much or more than you becomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 04:20 PM
3	Why do bossbabe women complain about not being able to find a man? Because women don't date "down" when talking about finances. Most would rather have a rich guy that treats them poorly than a broke guy that treats them well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 04:09 PM
4	4 things I feel men should always remember. Men say this, yet wouldn't want a broke man anywhere near their daughters, nieces and sisters There was no question. It was a statement. Which I replied to. Not sure what you're going on about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:54 AM
3	4 things I feel men should always remember. Replying to the comment that men wouldn't want a broke man around their daughter... If he treated her with love and respect I would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:13 AM
11	4 things I feel men should always remember. I would prefer a broke man that treated her well vs. a rich one that didn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 10:03 PM
19	Men shouldn't listen to other men about dating advice Never felt in competition with other men who I was close to. Plenty of fish in the sea. Also guys don't really sugar coat things. They'll tell you the real deal. "You're fat. Hit the gym, and get some better fucking clothes man. Then stop being a pussy and go talk to some women." -guy friend advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 02:58 AM
6	Why does the media not say rape or statutory rape when boys are raped by women? That's not true. A minor cannot consent to sex with an adult. Therefore it is statutory rape whether male or female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 05:58 PM
2	I have trouble understanding why what some women ask for is not what they go for. Not true. If you ask many women what they want in a partner they will say "a man who is nice, respectful, and treats me nice." But what they actually go for is oftentimes the opposite. There is some truth to the women prefer assholes trope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 09:19 PM
2	I have trouble understanding why what some women ask for is not what they go for. That's the point. When asked the question many women will answer what they feel they SHOULD want vs what they actually want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 08:32 PM
4	I have trouble understanding why what some women ask for is not what they go for. Most men don't have the ability to sleep with tons of women. So most men are not racking up high numbers hookups with hot women and then settling for the nice girl later in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:34 AM
12	I have trouble understanding why what some women ask for is not what they go for. I think it's always in the plan. Party and have lots of "fun" while they are young. Try to find a "nice guy" when they are older and ready to settle down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 07:17 PM
23	I have trouble understanding why what some women ask for is not what they go for. "I'm ready to just find a nice guy and settle down now." So a lot...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 06:52 PM
9	I have trouble understanding why what some women ask for is not what they go for. Because attraction isn't rational. And because humans often act in ways counter to our own best interests. I know logically that being a vegetarian is healthier than eating meat. But double bacon cheeseburgers taste good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 06:36 PM
9	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. I feel like you just wanted to use those victimization words when the conversation was just about having a bad hookup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 06:51 PM
11	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. How did we go from having a shitty lay to predators, victims, trauma, and abuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 06:30 PM
14	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Poster said "go out and find someone unpleasant and selfish." If one person you hook up with turns out to be a douchebag that's on him. If EVERY guy you hook up with is a douchebag then maybe you want to start looking in the mirror and taking some accountability with who you are choosing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 06:04 PM
13	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Why would you choose to have sex with someone who is unpleasant and selfish? Women have agency with who they decide sleep to sleep with. You also get attention, validation, and an ego boost which is what some women crave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 05:50 PM
10	Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women? It changes as you get older. A 30 yr old woman and a 42 yr old man don't have huge gaps in maturity level of life experience. Although the idea that older people are always more mature is a joke. I've met plenty of middle aged women who still act like they are in high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 07:16 PM
3	Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women? No one likes to feel like they are disqualified from dating anyone. So might as well shame people for their preferences even if those people aren't interested in dating you anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 07:10 PM
1	Marriage is a trap. Not talking about your specific case but in general. Plenty of regular job holding, non adusive, non addict men in the situation I described. Woman getting physical custody is the default in the family courts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 05:36 AM
0	Marriage is a trap. Does he have 50/50 timeshare? Does the child split time between both households? The woman getting PHYSICAL custody and the dad getting every other weekend or some dumb shit is the norm. If they happen to be married guess who gets to stay in the house and who needs to find an apartment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 05:21 AM
1	What are the essential tenets of the red and blue pills in the modern day? This isn't redpill. Redpill is just pointing out the realities of modern dating for the average man and what you can do about it. Women have value just for being women. Men have to create value for themselves. Stop complaining about it and get your shit together. If you want to date attractive women get in the gym, work on your appearance, and improve your confidence and finances. It also points out hypocrisys in modern dating dynamics. Ex) Women are often applauded for having high standards. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 08:26 PM
–	Is it unfair that hinge has a height preference but doesn’t have a weight/body type preference? Some people feel better about "lying by omission" than just straight up lying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 06:35 PM
–	Is it unfair that hinge has a height preference but doesn’t have a weight/body type preference? Maybe. But if you are 5'6" and weigh 200lbs thats pretty descriptive of "how" you carry your weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 06:34 PM
–	Is it unfair that hinge has a height preference but doesn’t have a weight/body type preference? But height and weight can... Some people don't put full body pics or use deceiving angles. Also people can gain weight since their pictures. I met up with a woman who was a good 60 lbs heavier than in her photos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 06:31 PM
0	The Male Delusion Calculator shows just how out of touch its designers are You are confusing causation and correlation. If "class" means income/level of formal education most people tend socialize in groups of like individuals. Which means people spend more time with those like individuals. It doesn't mean that is an active criteria men are using for selection. If there is a nice pretty waitress and a stuck up medium looks lawyer most men aren't going to pick the lawyer because she makes more money or has more education.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:44 PM
0	The Male Delusion Calculator shows just how out of touch its designers are It's not. I hang around very successful men of all ages. And most men just want someone whose easy on the eyes and NICE to them. Most men would gladly marry a nice cashier than a stuck up lawyer. Nobody in my social circle would look down on them unless the women had no class or manners. Cashiers can have both and a lawyer can have neither.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 12:24 PM
2	The Male Delusion Calculator shows just how out of touch its designers are I talk to a lot of men and income level is almost never talked about when discussing "wants" in a woman. It may be 15th on the list or something but it's definitely not as important to us as it is to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 12:01 PM
–	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past? You guys like to use the worst example of men to justify your motives but want men to use the best examples of women. The fact that you believe taking care of a family and being good mothers is somehow inferior to chasing the bag is modern women in a nutshell. You work 8+ hours in an office and your kids are being raised by daycare workers and somehow you see that as a win. 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 02:47 AM
–	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past? Maybe not by shitty men. But I had good male role models growing up and the men in my family respected and treated their wives like queens. I feel like some of y'all must have grown up in really sad households if this is your only experience of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 01:59 AM
3	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past? Women bring more how? Money? Half of these modern women can't cook, can't keep a clean house, and would rather hire a nanny than nurture their own children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 08:32 PM
5	[Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”? Doesn't mean it doesn't happen though. Had a girl tell me this on a date which was the first time I had ever heard of it. Since then I stay away from the wannabe "insta model" types.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 03:11 PM
9	CMV: You can't expect women to believe that men are being falsely accused of being creepy without evidence. The problem is 'creepy' is subjective. It has been proven that if a woman finds the man attractive that there is a much different scale for what is considered 'creepy.' It can't be ok for a hot guy to do X and it not be creepy but if a less attractive man does then he is a creep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 04:01 PM
5	I've never understood why famous male celebrities chose to date/marry other female celebrities Or it helps boost their image and star power being married to another celebrity...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 10:02 PM
1	Men, how much do you care about a woman’s personality? The honest answer.... There is a scale between looks and personality. The better she looks the more most men are willing to put up with. But there is a tipping point. Doesn't matter how good you look, if you are a complete valid bitch then it is a no go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 03:24 AM
1	Should female Influencers be allowed to film in gyms? It does in a public place that I'm paying money to use. If you are an "influencer" you should be able afford a private gym or you must not be a very successful one 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 01:09 AM
3	Should female Influencers be allowed to film in gyms? I've worked out in gyms for 30 years. If you need to film yourself to see your "progress" you aren't making any. And it's the opposite. If you feel the need to film yourself then you go to a private place. Not have everybody in a shared space trying to workout around your film production.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 01:02 AM
3	Ladies how would you feel if you found out a woman in your life paid a man for sex ? That's funny. It's usually the feminists that talk about sex work being empowering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 05:20 PM
12	Ladies how would you feel if you found out a woman in your life paid a man for sex ? It's so weird to me. Reddit is so pro sex worker. But if you ask "would you date someone who paid for sex?" Ew no... That's disgusting (Not talking about pimped or sex trafficked individuals here)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 06:58 AM
-1	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags So no woman has ever lied (purposely or not) about the paternity of their child? Plenty of people who have trust in their partner still get cheated on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:35 PM
0	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags Present day paternity testing is 99.99% accurate. Next excuse please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 06:43 PM
-4	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags Women have 100% certainty of maternity. Why shouldn't men have 100% certainty of paternity? What happened to gender equality ladies? Edit: anyone downvoting should explain why or you must not have a logical argument...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:08 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Lol... Ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:09 AM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Yes. Owning a $2.5 million dollar house is bare minimum. Thank you for educating me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 11:19 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear I think I've answered that. But owning your own home, driving a nice car, and having disposable income for things like travel can be considered wealthy to some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 11:00 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear And women get attention for their looks. What's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 09:15 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Yes. Lots of 40yr olds are decrepit. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 08:33 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Women value financial stability. Not sure why this is news. Often times it takes men into their 30s or 40s to get there. Would they prefer a guy their own age that has that? Maybe. Would men prefer to date Eva Mendes if they could? Maybe. Point is... we all make compomises.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:07 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:00 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear But how would they know that? My tinder profile doesn't say "will provide free meals." I don't think most people even read profiles 😂 I also buy my clothes from men's wearhouse and my shoes from the Nike Outlet so definitely don't exude "this guy has money" vibes. But I do think many women value a man that can provide protection and financial security. So a lot of women looking for that don't have a problem dating older for that reason. Honestly I think it's the confidence that attracts them mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:17 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Couldn't be that because I'm not rich. Just financially stable. I don't pay a womans bills but will take them to nice restaurants and on trips because that's what I like to do. I do the same for women my own age. Are they gold digging too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:05 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear I wouldn't say I'm wealthy or very good looking. Just financially stable and exude more confidence than in my 20s. I think it usually takes most men time to build to that level but when they do they don't usually have a problem dating younger women if that's what they choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:03 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Not so sure. I get WAY more attention from 25-28 yr olds now than I did when I was that age. I'm 40. There are women that want a man who has built wealth, has his own house, and isn't trying to fuck everything that moves. I think there is also a certain "quiet confidence" that older men have that some women are turned on by.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 05:48 PM
15	Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admit That's not true. Statistics (at least among cis couples) show that it's about even with many experts believing women may under report making them slightly higher overall. Men are just better at getting caught.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 11:06 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". 5% disparity? Are you talking about the wage gap that has been disproven 1000 times by every reputable economist? Both men and women are shallow on some things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 06:45 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". Some women make their own money. But even then statiscs show that most women want a man that makes at least as much as them but preferably more. At the end of the day. Women are just as shallow on some things. Men are shallow on others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 06:35 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". Why would men want to be in a relationship with someone who is simply interested in them for financial security. Most relationships dont boil down to one thing. But if women can choose the things that matter them so can men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 06:28 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". Many women will leave a man if his finances fade. Men leaving women when their looks isn't as common because men don't usually have 50 women in their DMs	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 06:03 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". Because men can become more attractive when they are financially are socially successful. Women don't become more attractive to men when they make more money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 05:55 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". Exactly like women. Can you provide me financial security and protection? Please be over 6ft too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 05:53 AM
6	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? Yes. And women will tell their friends the exact same thing. "He was a shallow jerk and doesn't deserve you."	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:24 PM
3	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? Cause I love the way the way her ass looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 07:19 PM
–	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? This sounds like "scarcity mentality." I have to settle for this single mom because I might not find any other childless woman that would be fine for me. At the end of the day that's your choice but not one I would take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 08:31 PM
2	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Ok ma'am. Keep making excuses for your/their choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:49 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Stop having babies with shitty men or ending marriages for dumb reasons like "the spark died." Problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:31 PM
2	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? People can only hide their true nature for a bit. Bringing a child into the world is not something to be taken lightly. You shouldn't be doing it with someone whose character you are unsure of. If you do then yes, it shows you have poor decision making skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:25 PM
4	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? How does having a child with the type of man that would "abandon" his family not show bad judgement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:40 PM
16	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Your example of celebrities don't really apply. They have the resources to hire full time nannies, chefs, etc. which would free up the woman's time. That's not a normal scenario. Also I assumed we are taking about childless men dating single moms. Not men who are also single dad's...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:58 PM
10	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? The question was asking why some men think like this. I answered that question. Sorry it offends you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:49 PM
23	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Had she been a fucking hooker for all I care, I would still have dated her probably. Bruh...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:47 PM
36	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? "Dating" single moms is fine. Having a committed relationship with them is a different story. There is nothing a single mom can offer that a childless woman couldn't. But the single mom comes with all sorts of additional compromises. So any man willing to settle for these compromises likely has no other options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:36 PM
5	The main reason why women should never make the first move This post makes no sense. A guy could only be interested in sex no matter which person approaches who. What you will probably do is miss out on the guys who actually want relationships but are more shy, reserved, or assume women these days don't want to be approached.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 10:05 PM
2	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… It was probably the men they were going after. But if they walked into a bar and said "who wants to have sex with me right now" I assume multiple hands would go up. This would not work for plain looking or overweight man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 04:21 PM
5	If a female physically assaults a male, should the male react differently than he would if a male assaulted him? Men understand that if you hit another man you better be ready to defend yourself against his full force. He is under no obligation to hold back even if he is bigger and stronger than the guy that hit him. Why does this not apply to women? How about control your emotions and keep your damn hands to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 03:00 PM
3	Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners. I sometimes think reddit can't get any crazier but then I read comments like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 04:31 AM
1	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… You don't get out much do you? I can walk into any bar tonight and find that thing you are saying "isn't common place." Some of you guys just want to believe that you have no shot with attractive women. Keep on believing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 01:09 AM
1	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… Doesn't have anything to do with bodycount. And yes. Women will have sex with men less attractive than them. Thank God too because if not I would never get laid 😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 12:58 AM
2	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… Less attractive women have higher bodycounts because they need to use sex for validation is false. Ugly women, attractive women, medium women all use sex for validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 12:55 AM
3	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… Dude. There are plenty of attractive girls who fuck for validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 12:45 AM
11	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… It's even easy for a "not so attractive" girl to rack up a high bodycount. Her looks equivalent guy would have to be either rich or very charming. Both are traits that people admire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:12 PM