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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Good books?	Resources	hazelxnutz	/r/seduction	13/05/20 12:26 AM
1	M(26) asking for advice with shy women.	Conversation	hazelxnutz	/r/seduction	23/04/21 11:20 PM

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1	I think my friend is finally starting to get interested in me after her second divorce This is the kind of mentality that keeps men alone. Who cares if she finds someone else in the future? They should focus on the now. If they like eachother then they should just go out, become a couple, fuck and whatever. Let people be happy, Jesus.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 08:42 AM
5	Is it possible to tell that you're just looking for fun with no commitment without the other person feeling like a toy? Honestly whatever opinion they make of you for being this honest and fighting for your desires, thats their problem. In my case in the last few years I've already lost 3 women whom I considered friends for doing exactly what OP is talking about and what you're frustraited about and yeah it hurts. But it's best to be honest about it, even if the friendship goes down the gutter. Best advice I can give is this. It's sad and you will be lonely, people around you will most likely turn their backs on …	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:07 AM
2	A girl likes me but has a boyfriend I've been on your shoes. Judging from the tone of your post I can assume you really like this girl in more ways than just because shes "your type". The best you can do is befriend her for the time being but always remind her from time to time that you're interested. Be foward about it and dont play mind games. If shes for you in the long run, she will stay around. However while she has a boyfriend you shouldn't be careful with stepping on boundries, she will allow you to go as far as she likes, …	/r/seduction	06/05/22 12:57 AM
7	Women are attracted to misogynists ??????????????????	/r/seduction	02/02/22 01:45 PM
0	I slept with 2 cute Russian girls in 3 days I really do wonder how some guys buy this without question.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 05:49 AM
9	[deleted by user] Oh 100%, it doesn't has to be physically exclusive and it doesn't has to be planned. As a date goes you just gotta gauge when to bring it up.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 09:08 PM
141	[deleted by user] Tbh it depends a lot on the type of women you date. Girls that are looking for hook ups will 100% give you a small gap of time for you to make your move. Women that are looking for something more will usually give you plenty of time. I've been in both scenarios, girls I went out with looking for hook ups got literally offended when I rejected their advances to the point where I got blocked, others simply said "okay" and moved on the next dude. Girls looking for something more meaningful will 100…	/r/seduction	01/01/22 08:17 PM
6	Single mom lucks out still feels she's settling - You can't make this shit up... Shes clearly a selfish fucking idiot, she doesn't deserves him.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/10/21 12:36 AM
2	How many of you are virgins? Virgin here, 26M. Although in the last 2 years I've been successful at approaching women and being overall likeable and good company, to the point where women actually like spending time with me and trust me to the point where I am the only guy in their life that can spend time alone with them. I've had some really bad luck with the girls I've really connected with sexually, from girls that are just a huge emotional mess and I lose all attraction, to girls with whom the only reason we have not h…	/r/seduction	19/09/21 07:44 PM
0	[deleted by user] Ah. The no sugar myth, yet again.	/r/seduction	18/09/21 08:21 PM
2	[deleted by user] So you want him to cut off his coworker? Sounds awkward and theres literally no reason to cut her off. It's just a woman being a woman. What he should do is go after other women that will give him what he wants and stop giving this girl the attention shes getting. But cutting her off? I mean, it's not like he has feelings for her. Theres literally 0 reasons to cut her off. People are generally giant red flags on average, more than average actually.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 12:13 AM
11	[deleted by user] Dont cut her off but set your boundries, let her know you wont be always available by putting first what you want before what she wants.	/r/seduction	31/08/21 08:16 PM
3	Women who want attention As a man I feel like I need to be in control and she should come to my place. This is the problem. Bro, try being more outgoing with women and go with the flow. She literally invited you to play darts and you said "I like pool better." and basically refused her offer. She later invited you to her hotel and you said "Lets go to my place instead." I mean?!?!?!?!?! Women enjoy a guy that enjoys having fun with them. It's not about YOU and YOUR FUN, if you want to smash it's about HER and how much f…	/r/seduction	16/08/21 06:10 AM
3	We have an self proclaimed "confident,sexy, independent," hispanic, single mother who only wants "big tall sexy black man or a big tall sexy Country man!!" ..... And you better be a gentleman otherwise she will put you in your place. Make a line boys. Ah yes, we call them "mamás luchonas" over here. Run.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/06/21 07:23 PM
4	This guys knows whats up CHAD	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/05/21 08:08 AM
1	M(26) asking for advice with shy women. Speaking as a shy female, just try starting up another casual conversation with her when she moves to one of those machines close by you. Yeah I think I can come up with some self-depricating joke about me being a wimp while laughing. Maybe following it up by asking "What was your name again?" and later talking about were Im lacking still and need progress to gain muscle. Thing is this kind of stuff doen't always goes how we want. I also gotta be on watch with her body language, don't want her t…	/r/seduction	24/04/21 01:57 AM
1	M(26) asking for advice with shy women. She sounds like she’s in her own head and probably has some anxiety about meeting you. I forgot I used to be like this during my late teens and earlier 20s. Shes probably over thinking interacting with me too much. You have two options. Break the ice and make her comfortable with humor about your long flirting or you can ignore her. I'll probably just let her approach me when she feels comfortable next time. Avoiding the awkward stage of saying hi completely, since it's clearly backfired 3 times…	/r/seduction	24/04/21 01:49 AM
1	The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths. You don't have a stable career/job/business. I gotta disagree with this and the text below it. The last girl that I dated chose over me a guy with no career or degree. She only chose him because he arrived first and she already had feelings for him. Women don't always look for a stable man with money, it ain't rule of law. What they look for is a man that is passionate about his goals and hobbies. You're not at your optimal health condition. Wording here is weird. "Optimal" should be replaced wi…	/r/seduction	13/04/21 03:52 PM
3	She wanted just sex for awhile, now she wants something much more for herself and all her kids. Man I love still thinks about me even though hes still with his current partner. I lash out and reject said man I love, because morals and exclusivity issues. I don't realize the man I love is probably still thinking he would be happy with me. Man I love gets married with his partner since I made him go away. I whine on the internet because I love him and I wanted to be with him. Omg I'm going to die single. Why are all men like this? Edit: To be fair, she probably thought he was a cheater. But …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/03/21 10:42 PM
1	Allegedly "Christian woman" wants to be spoiled by a sugar daddy, but without having to put out. Also claims a GRADUATE DEGREE, but I wrote better than this while in elementary school. Reading that gave me aids.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/02/21 02:34 AM
2	Remember your self worth. I have been bamboozled. :v	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 04:57 AM
2	Remember your self worth. Don't like it? Fuck off. Simple.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 03:20 AM
-2	Remember your self worth. So what? Nothing. Just pointing it out since I didn't notice. They're both on a dating app both looking for attention. That's kinda what it's for. Yes. I don't think anyone wants to be ignored on a dating app. Of course not.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:41 AM
-2	Remember your self worth. Oh I have. 😏 Entitlement is not flirting.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:39 AM
0	Remember your self worth. They are strangers to eachother.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:37 AM
4	Remember your self worth. Calm down with the caps man. And no, I did not read this. Also, you're wrong. Fixed the typo.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:36 AM
-4	Remember your self worth. Strangers.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:34 AM
-3	Remember your self worth. It would literally change nothing. Yeah, tell that to feminists. This is normal flirting. Yeah as if you, OP and me can see her face and tone of voice when you read this. Judging from OP's reaction, this ain't normal.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:29 AM
4	Remember your self worth. The comments here remind me of that friend everyone has who has sex with everything that has a vagina and breaths. Believe me, being so easy always bites back. Dont put ya'lls dick in crazy. Don't fuck easy women whom don't take care of themselves. You'll regret it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:15 AM
-11	Remember your self worth. She reached out first, gave a little challenge. I don't get this whole "she reached out first" fixation. As if that makes it something special or as if shes lowering down herself to his level. Could have totally been playful in nature. Besides hes not even obligated to carry on her demand, playful or not. What if he doesn't likes her? What if he knows her irl and shes a douche? What if shes barely an aquaintance with whom he has no close relationship? And here she is looking for attention.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:12 AM
1	Remember your self worth. "Flirting" Putting up with this entitlement is the low single guys reach in order to spend time with a girl that will use them to validate herself and then throw them away when she gets bored. Imagine if the roles were reversed lmao.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/21 02:01 AM
4	The internet used to make me feel like I had the world by the balls until reality hit at 300mph She got shredded on the comments lmao.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/02/21 03:31 AM
5	How to approach sex/dating (controlling escalation) Lol. 26M here, same problem. I actually like the build up, the anticipation and maturing the chemestry up to the point where the girl and I have "a moment". Some girls just want a dick and thats cool, no need to be judgy about that since we want to give them our dicks anyway; we want to do it on our terms and conditions though lol. Focus on yourself, you know what you want and regarding these girls, what easy comes easy goes. Sadly, when women are this foward it's hard to escalate to your hearts…	/r/seduction	13/12/20 07:31 PM
2	Women don't friendzone you. You friendzone yourself. This is weak as fuck, my guy. You mean to tell me that you can't get over yourself enough to just accept the fact that she's not into you? Why the fuck do your one sided romantic feelings take precedence over her range of emotions? Your pathetic ass sadness from being rejected is more important to you than seeing the girl you think you care for, is happy? You don't give a shit about her, you care about your self and it is extremely important for all of us to recognize this about ourselves. Yeah.…	/r/seduction	11/08/20 08:11 PM
2	Women don't friendzone you. You friendzone yourself. Who says I can't have a platonic relationship with a woman? I do have girl friends, though when I feel attraction for them in a way that is not platonic I'll make a move and see if she reciprocates. If she doesn't then there is no point on keeping a friendship that will constantly remind me of suppressing my feelings for that person and even less when that person chooses another one and I'll have to be constantly seeing my favorite human being in someone elses embrace. It's not like I'm going to…	/r/seduction	11/08/20 06:13 PM
0	Women don't friendzone you. You friendzone yourself. Yeah no, thats a no from me bud. Sometimes, women have to make a choice between men they like and they will end up choosing their favorite potential partner. If it's not you then they well try to be your friend to "store" you away or not hurt your feelings. The only thing that is up to you is saying to them that you're only interested in a romanic or sexual relationship with them. If they don't bounce back at the moment they hear you say your statement, cut off the relationship. Edit: I read the…	/r/seduction	11/08/20 03:26 PM
0	Rejection. Nah this was me in hs, now I just say "okay". 😐	/r/seduction	21/07/20 07:19 PM
2	Rejection. Always 💀💀💀💀	/r/seduction	21/07/20 07:18 PM
10	She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend” A lot of redflags here lol. If you serously just want to smash, go for it. Don't get attached and treat her as just a fwb. Don't date her or fall for her tho'.	/r/seduction	18/06/20 11:49 PM
7	Making female friends goes a long way Ok	/r/seduction	03/06/20 11:55 PM
-2	Making female friends goes a long way You're dumb.	/r/seduction	03/06/20 11:54 PM
6	Guys what is the first thing you notice on a girl? Came here to write eye contact lol.	/r/seduction	26/05/20 05:18 AM
1	How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally? Send messages expecting the worst.	/r/seduction	23/05/20 01:16 AM
1	Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yours One of the few down to earth comments in this thread. OP is mostly wrong.	/r/seduction	14/05/20 07:01 PM
1	Good books? Thank you.	/r/seduction	13/05/20 01:44 AM
3	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Never confess your feelings to your crush. Why? Because she gets bored, she is no longer curious because she already got the answer. This is the only part I don't agree completely. You can tell a woman you like her or would date her. With this info you give her hope. But as you said, be unpredictable. Don't chase her. You can tell her this and then pull out, make her wonder why you're not making a move on her or paying attention to her after saying such a bold thing. Casually telling her this wi…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 12:53 AM
41	The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In Women Thats a bold guess, not all women will fall for what you're saying. I understand what you're saying, I have done it. Making women the needy ones really puts me in a comfortable place. But some women are inmune to this, they are either too shy to express themselves or find this distant demeanor unappealing.	/r/seduction	02/05/20 03:25 AM
10	Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing. This is the thing, you don't have to do it for a prolonged period of time. Address her while looking at her in the eyes and observe her. If she feels uncofortable she will break eye contact first, not you, and you can break eye contact here. When you start addressing her again or if she addresses, you look at her, let her know you have her attention, thats not being creepy at all. If you think you're being creepy do this. When you begin talking, start by looking elsewhere. Talk to her, while not…	/r/seduction	26/04/20 12:51 AM
41	Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing. The thing is that, you need to know when to do it. You gotta often (but not every time) warm women up to you. Common mistakes guys do are: STARE AT WOMEN like if they were a piece of meat followed by 2. Try to flirt of the bat, without making her feel confortable in your presence first. Some of you guys don't smile, like at all. Smiling and being charismatic with women can get you farther than you think. You can say bold and flirty statements followed often by a warm smile or sassy/playful smirk…	/r/seduction	25/04/20 09:18 PM
9	Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing. No	/r/seduction	25/04/20 09:01 PM
51	Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing. Letting them know throught eye contact is key. You can say anything that is not sexual, but eye contact can change the meaning of it by itself.	/r/seduction	25/04/20 08:43 PM
-1	Why you must tell the girl you like that you like her Exactly	/r/seduction	13/04/20 04:55 PM
1	Why you must tell the girl you like that you like her It depends on the context, but I kind of agree. If you don't want to play games this is your route, being direct will make you look confident. Some say she will have power over you, but thats up to you entirely. You can tell her you like her and never speak about the topic ever again. Don't stop eye contact though, the way you look at her will tell her if you're still interested or not after rejection or a "Maybe, I'll think about it." Don't be creepy though, look at her, but smile from time to …	/r/seduction	13/04/20 04:17 PM
2	To the hottest girl, I’ve ever slept with. It's not a bad read and you have some really solid points there with the clothing and last part. But... Why did you have to write this as a letter to her? Shes not going to ever read this. You could have just told us how things went from your perspective. You sound like a fucking incel at the beggining of this and yeah I know, most women like dominant men, masculine men, not misogynistic men. If the woman has a misogyny fetish, those are another 20 bucks. Just some constructive criticism.	/r/seduction	10/04/20 05:36 AM
4	guess she's doing it right Cute	/r/seduction	06/04/20 01:26 AM
2	Most girls only want your attention Regarding major offenders, girls with boyfriends* who seek your attention are the most dangerous in my opinion. I mean, one things is that they like you as a friend, which is alright I guess. But another thing is when they flirt with you while her boyfriends gets her something to drink. I've been there, and I have legitimately felt awful at social events with girls like this. I'm not one to meddle in people's relationships though, in order to avoid drama. So best m.o. is to step back and ignore …	/r/seduction	22/03/20 05:22 PM