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I thought women have more varied taste but tend to much more have a ”favourite dish”, so whereas men have more uniform taste as a group but might like a buffet (i.e. many sort of women can be pretty).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah so only have sex if you are ready to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:43 PM
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Oh absolutely, but I don’t know exactly how it was measured because it was a while ago. I think also relationship satisfaction. A very passionate relationship that is not working because of circumstances is not neccesarily a good relationship though. I assume in late 20s relationship happen out of love, but with the maturity to make proper choices. Younger ones might be those more ”passionate but toxic”, and then large age gap is more likely purely transactional and not as much because you like …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:42 PM
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Weak to be held responsible? What on earth do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:36 PM
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Because women with higher mate value can ”get it all”, i.e. whole package, which they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:36 PM
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I thought Brad was the ”slightly less attractive than Chad”, whereas Melvin is average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:12 PM
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No, it assumes women are choosing between two options that in her eyes are normally equal. ”Oh I can go away from my responsibilities she can just do an abortion if she doesn’t want to raise the child alone no pressure on her bro”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:11 PM
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Solutions: Don’t bang guys who don’t take sex seriously and aren’t responsible. In a way decisions like these might make women be way more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:10 PM
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Well well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:09 PM
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Which is also due to men maturing later and taking more time to mature in their life choices. In youth my perception is that men try to approach women their age too, but that women are the ones deciding this. For people in their 20s youth shouldn’t be a factor. Maybe it’s different in Sweden but a woman in her 30s that uses moisturiser hasn’t really started aging, so 22 vs 25 is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:08 PM
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Sort of is? But eh this was some study. I would assume these are love based relationships where people also see each other as companions - less transactional if you so will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:06 PM
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No, I see non attractive and medium attractive men with pretty or medium women all the time. Hard racking up a BC of 30+ for men? Especially with pretty women. Sure, but that’s tricky for ”Chad” too. Zoomers spend to much time online in their apartments so if dating is hard there is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:05 PM
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Yeah why would a woman with options cheat more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:03 PM
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Women don’t cheat with Chads. Women tend to cheat with men that are ”emotionally supportive”. They won’t cheat out of lust, it’s not even about sex. Men cheat out of lust but tend to have relatively higher standards for commitment i.e. the best he can get looks wise, so studies show that men cheat on average with less attractive women that simply are willing. It’s more likely that Chad and Stacy will cheat with Melvin and Becky or whatever it’s called.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:48 PM
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Women will use retinol handcream when they are 18, ”don’t ask a woman about her age” etc. and then men here online try to make it into some ground breaking discovery and doomsday phenomenon that looks fade with age. You don’t need a pill to know that. Men hit a looks wise wall, but might have more success when they are older as a group because of provider skills, because women first and foremost care about that. Truth be told, though. Even if men perceive women to be the most attractive in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:36 PM
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In a way, yeah? Men that give women attention also mostly just function as a tool for female self validation. Literally female sex drive in the act is in large also more about the woman feeling physically desireable and a mans ability to make her feel so than her perceiving the man as physically such. Women are rather narcissistic in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:45 PM
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I said it was implicitly tied to it. My point is it is more about a woman feeling like she is attractive (which yes ties in to what men but to a large degree other women think), but it’s more about her feeling like she is than it is about the actual reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah they need even more incentives, child support is to low.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:23 PM
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I’m against abortion, or at least I think it is murder. Abortion is usually however argued for in the sense of body autonomy or something like that, not to escape responsibility. I don’t agree with that because there is someone elses body (the child) affected by the decision, but it’s still somewhat relevant because men just don’t seem to get how serious a pregnancy is. It can be downright dangerous and abortion carries mental and physical risks too. As much as I think it is murder, abandoning a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:23 PM
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We are talking about a living baby and #4 is essentially ”oh the man was to irresponsible and stingy to pay for his own offspring, let’s murder the fetus”. It’s not an option among others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:18 PM
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This assumes abortion is something all women would consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:16 PM
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But this assumes that any woman is ok with abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:12 PM
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”The act is controlled by the woman”. Virgin spotted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:11 PM
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Whole female mating strategy is based on not being able to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:10 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:08 PM
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Not neccesarily. If a woman is convinced red hair is the most attractive thing in the world but men didn’t actually like it, she would still do it. Self validation and perceived attractiveness is also based on what other women think and her perceived status among other women. But sure, if humans cloned ourselves then I doubt the perception of attractiveness and enhancing it would exist. Most women want the potential of male interests, but not the actual one, if I make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:47 AM
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It does. 0-4 year old age gap relationships fare way better than large age gap ones, despite apparently men getting less looks and women getting less moneyz.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:38 AM
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I’m 24 and a woman. 30+ year old men tend to look worse. If he was fat at 20 and worked out at 30 then yes he will look better. But that’s beside the point. Men look their best imo in their late 20s. Early 30s is a bad argument in regards to how age looks good on men because it’s still young. Men age somewhat better but most men don’t take care of themselves and the difference is highly exaggerated. Highly. Women tend to rate men slightly above or below their own age as most attractive with a sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:37 AM
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Female caring about looks is wayyyyyy more about self validation and wayyyyyy less about getting male attention compred to what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:16 AM
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Most men want to ”f*ck” most women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:04 AM
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According to a study women rate men as not super attractive but message men relatively equal to that curve, with a slight sway towards more attractive. Men rate women like a normal distribution curve but message women like a linear curve increasing with increased attractiveness up until maybe 8-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:40 AM
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And idk if attractive people sleep arpund more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:38 AM
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Most women don’t sleep around. Men don’t want serious relationships at a younger age and are very unwilling to give out commitment like in the 40s. Back then it was shameful if the couple wasn’t married and if a woman got pregnant he commited for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:38 AM
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It’s about the prefrontal cortex which makes us able to think of consequences etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:47 PM
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”Women don’t mind”. I think that depends, most women I’m pretty sure aren’t interested. The prefrontal cortex is finished developing at 25 though so yes people think less of consequences and context at a younger age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:47 PM
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No it’s based on who it works on, and I’m fairly aware of TRP. I get the starting point bit it’s just not applied correctly and a lot is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:14 PM
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Redpill teaches men ”dread game” and to be an idiot, it severely misinterprets and misundetstands science (dual mating strategy is a strategy used by women with low mate value for example, men women find ideal for LTR and STR barely differ from each other… and so on). It teaches men how to use women with issues such as BPD to mentality manipulate them into sex. So no, it’s not just the knowledge that women like strong men or something. That’s something the average person already knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:44 PM
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I don’t think he is attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:51 AM
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Actually I thought about this and I agree that it is a complete lack of respect towards the partner and so on - but contrary to most men’s beliefs about this women genuinely tend to do it out of self validation rather than advertising themselves. That’s actually an important part of female sexuality overall, which has a bit of a narcissistic side to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:34 AM
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Oh sure, I guess I live in a country rich enough for this to be a minor factor 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:24 AM
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”Proof” of women pairing with men they lack desire for? For women love develops over time, so likelyhood is that she feels desire before she feels love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:17 PM
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Sort of agree, sort of disagree. Women don’t have the same sex drive as men no, but that’s not neccesarily the same as how much someone wants sex nor indicative of how pften someone ”should” have it. Female sexuality is severely misunderstood and some women seem to falsely belive they have low desire for sex. As do men in regards to women. ”She never initiates, she seems to not want me anymore” or whatnot. Women have a receptive sexuality to a much higher degree, aka not a ”sex drive” or a cravi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:53 PM
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Ha ha ha me as well, I’m both a misogynist and misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:35 PM
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Why do you think a woman can’t be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:54 PM
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