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I’m sorry to hear that. It must be tough for you. All I can say is that the book mans search for meaning have helped me in other tough situations, and helped victor frankl survive the concetration camp. It could help your situation. https://www.amazon.com/-/es/dp/B0006IU470
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 07:58 PM
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Yeah this is the rigth move.
/r/MGTOW214/11/20 11:28 AM
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Some ideas: Bring a book, whittle wooden figures, have second laptop For building a second business or learning courses.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 09:05 AM
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Hire a photographer to take your pics. Say you want them for dating apps.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:39 PM
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I agree. It would be much easier to accept facts, let go and start again.
/r/MGTOW206/08/20 02:28 PM
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Yeah. 80%+ people of the customers I’ve meet in retail are rude. Most of them women. It’s as Marcus Aurelius said in meditations, When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they can’t tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own—not of the same blood or birth,…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 07:24 AM
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Great response
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:57 PM
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A part is that Women love to throw around “everyone“, and generalize groups to “men”. That’s just their nature.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:11 PM
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Whatever you think it’s real or not real, you are rigth.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:01 PM
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Your welcome.
/r/RedPillBooks10/05/20 11:01 AM
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Here are a couple that comes to mind that have helped me treat life more as a game. These books are a great start for what you want. I’m sure it will help you. level up your life, by Steve Kamb A book about creating quests and take gaming to the real world. ultralearning, by Scott h young Not a book on gaming, but a book about setting up a system to gamification your life tiny habits - the small changes that change everything, by bj fogg A book about creating tiny habit recipes that makes it sup…
/r/RedPillBooks10/05/20 09:08 AM
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Great summary I’ll start reading tonight.
/r/RedPillBooks01/04/20 01:00 PM
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I’ve had it in my to read list for awhile now. What’s one lesson that changed you?
/r/RedPillBooks21/03/20 11:26 AM
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Keep working. Building my business on the side. Having emergency funds. Building my cash stack and keep putting a part of my earnings in index funds. As long as I keep working and find new clients To meet every week, the stock market doesn’t matter. In fact, keep buying with a part of all you earn because eventually it will go up.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:56 PM
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This is a great start.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:30 PM
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Excellent played.
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:59 AM
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I would go for 150 years. Even if I would be short, I can earn enough money and develop my game to offset height.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/19 10:27 AM
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What will you do about it? Dont tell me. Work at it in secret and let results speak for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 05:00 PM
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You have cancer, it's called life. And it will get you sooner than you think.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 11:56 AM
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It works if it's from the framework of a attractive guy that wants to keep his place clean --- not in a covert contract expecting sex from a chubby hubby.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 10:42 AM
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For awhile i did multiple dinner dates just because it fit rigth between work, gym, dinner date, home to sleep. Got three lays out of five. So you can work it.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:35 AM
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There is literally a book called, 80/20 sales and marketing. Check it out to get started.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 02:18 PM
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Sure they work, but most of it is shallow work.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:38 PM
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Just do it. Stick with one type of aproach and Practixe it over and over again until you nail it. Read one book on approaching, and use it like your Bible. Know that you will mess up. But if you keep showing up and talking with new girls every week, eventually some of them will want to date you. Book, I hope it's sunny out. Super simple approach and a way you can study how to chat with girls. Over time you will get better and have abundance of pussy to fuck.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:32 PM
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Great! Yeah we are both conservative with our money and live below our means. And want to improve our financial future by being more open with what we actually earn and spend.
/r/askMRP14/11/18 04:17 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion. What is your biggest takeaway away from his advice?
/r/askMRP14/11/18 03:01 PM
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Thanks for sharing!
/r/askMRP14/11/18 03:00 PM
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I've only briefly talked finance earlier since we never lived together. Except for, I have no debt. Do you have debt? -"No." I invest some money, and it's important for us to have a f-you stash. To be able to walk away if we want to. Now I've started tracking my last three months income/savings/expenses. And want to bring her on board to track her own. Doing this once a month to keep us on track for a great financial security. What is one thing you wish you would have done earlier?
/r/askMRP14/11/18 02:57 PM
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I sucked at sports when I was in school to. Now over a decade later I’m more athletic than people ten years younger. I had no idea that would happen. Anyway. Try some solo sports and improve your money making skills. Wish I would have done that sooner. But doubt I would have listened if anyone told me.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:20 PM
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Why wouldn’t you want to play sports? They are amazing for your own wellbeing and health. Though I didn’t think that when I was in school because I ducked at them. And I prefer non-team sports. So I would suggest you start with wrestling if they have it. Or don’t.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:14 PM
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You are a business. And business make sure to have a profit every month or it goes bankrupt. Some business rely on investing all of their income to generate more income. So 100% of the profit, to double its income over time. Other businesses don’t keep track at all. And spend everything. They even go into debt with no thought about it. Others keep their papers well documented and rely on a good stream of income, low expenses and stash most of it. Your father comes from a wonderful place of abund…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 01:08 PM
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If you can’t afford Bjj — your new hobby is cutting your costs and increasing your income.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:51 PM
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80% of your results come from 20% of your action. Your diet. Now is a good time to look up intermittent fasting and try it out. Lower your calories intake and use fasting to your advantage. Also work on increasing your income.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:47 PM
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If you want it enough, your lack of energy will put coals in the pit and generate massive fuck you energy instead.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 05:48 AM
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Hey Gaylube on the topic off books. What books do you recommend that are usually not recommended?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 10:29 AM
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Awesome thanks for sharing. I could use some of that freedom.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 08:53 PM
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How would you describe that time?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 08:21 PM
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You know what? This happens to me too on a weekly basis. There are basically three reasons why: I’ve worked to much with excessive stress and to little rest. Do I really care to talk right now? Some times I just don’t care to speak coherently. Mostly related to to much stress and uninteresting people. Try reading How to win friends and influence people. It was the first book I picked up many years ago when I got crushed in my first LTR. And it helped me a lot. It might help you.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:31 PM
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This. She might even flake so be sure to approach multiple girls and maybe grab a number or two so you will have an abundance mindset. “Oh she flakes? No problem I just got this cute blonde girls number today. and I could use some rest anyway for study or building my business.”
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:51 PM
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How many new girls have you talked with in the last ten days?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:47 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:45 PM
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Agree and amplify everything. I had dinner with a girl who loathes girls in pink training clothes. And made fun of the basic stereotypes which I don’t remember the specifics, but it’s skmehwere in my history. Anyway. I agreed and amiplfydd everything. And she got rather flustered about it. But I didn’t give a fuck. Eventually we end up at her place in the second date and she has, pink running shorts, pink shower curtain, pink bookshelf in the ceiling and I almost doubled over as she had pink she…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:39 PM
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You know what? It is disrespectful and happened a lot inmy first relationship. After that crashed and burned. I found /r/seduction and later trp. Since then it’s me the girls I see brag about with her friends at parties. Here’s how I got out of that shit: Go lift and cut eating shit. I was eating an extra 200g milk chocolate on a daily basis because I was such a good nice guy buying her candy, and eating it with her. Leading to a flabby belly. Cut it out now. She will guilt you if you stop doing…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:30 PM
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Every sentence. Are you a shitlord??
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:20 PM
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A millionaire, deadlifting 3x his body weigth and having his own business and island to fly away your average temp reporter chick. who is just helping her friend do this assignment because reasons. Or that is the narrative the media and society tells us. Life happens. We have different upbringings. Different opportunities. Some have great parents. Some have no parents. Some have drug abuse. Some have autism. Some have done stupid shit in thier teens. Some are 50 and just now unplugged. If you ar…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:15 PM
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Hey man I understand you. I have a an absent alcoholic dad and he’s such a loser that I feel nauseous whenever I think of meeting him. He’s not willing to work on him self or listen to advice so that’s that. Instead I would suggest, Be glad that you found the red pill. From now on, are most of the endorses contributors your new uncles and step fathers. Read the entire sidebar, and find a couple of posts that you resonate the most with. Keep reading them over and over again whenever you feel doub…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:40 PM
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Strong female characters... Lucas please. I work with women on a daily basis. I know what they're capable of. Bitch, backstabb and whine. And it’s ridiculous that enough bitching, and the HR department would favor keeping the bitch, instead of someone useful.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 06:08 PM
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The man of value, instead, brings wisdom, strength, mental fortitude, leadership, wealth, and excitement to the table. Women (girls) crave this. Once you realize this, the tables turn. Pussy is such a small part of what women brings to the table. While the majority of the value is from the man.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:21 AM
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How would you rate each of your categories on a 1-10 scale? Start with the lowest to get it good enough. And keep your highest at maintenance. This is hard, since what you are good at , will be easier and produce more result. Yet life is more fun if it is in balance. Harvey Weinstein could have been in a better position if he had improved his game. Although would he then been Harvey Weinstein? And raising game from 4 to 10 might not even be possible. Maybe it could only go as high as a 6 or 7. T…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:19 PM
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Lifting is to have strong body for life. Bjj is a though sport for fun and survival. 50 / 50 is a good split.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:03 PM
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Set systems over goals What I mean by that, is turn it around. You have a goal to maybe bench press 10 reps your body weigth. Or 1.5 your body weigth. Depending on where you are, this could take you three, six or twelve months. Maybe longer. This long term goal could fuel you to work harder. Also it could cause anxiety and overwhelm. Set big goals, then set a system around it. And have that as a weekly routine. Example goal, I want to bench press my body weigth for ten reps. Example system to cr…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:55 PM
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10-20 minutes daily. I would probably benefit for 20minutes because 10 minutes is just enough time to relax and then the benefits of a relaxed state kicks in. Just like going to the gym, ten minutes is just warming up and getting ready to lift heavy. The mind requires time to settle down.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:48 PM
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Great words to live by.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:43 PM
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They are not living together and her sister is more attractive. So the jealousy could be a way to play a threesome.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:42 PM
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Awesome. How did you approach it?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:40 PM
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Seeing a 29 year old girl right now. Her long distance friend who is about 27 Found some cute 22 year old. Whenever she brings them up, she mentions how that girl is "to young for him". With a five year age difference. I just smirk.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 08:35 PM
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Just keep it. Not like you would feel better or live longer without it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:01 PM
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Two ways: weekly review: Where i ask myself three or more basic questions. What went well this week? How could I improve _____? What is my ONE thing in health, business, game I could improve, such by doing it everything gets easier or unneccesary? Set systems instead of goals Example goal, benchpress 1.5 * my body weight by june 30th. Example system, I go to the gym four times a week, and dedicate two days to bench pressing and overhead presses. Following a proven lifting program that proggressi…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 06:42 PM
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Her intellect and conversation skills of course! WHat are you guys??
/r/askMRP10/04/18 11:36 AM
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Quite awhile back I thougth I had to have Smooth and slick game. It caused me anxiety and became a barrier and excuse to not talk with girls. But after listening to Roosh talking about rambling and talk like old people talk, it clicked in my mind. Just rambling about whatever around us, my Day, her Day, her style, is super effective. What gets the girls are how much time you spend with them. And give them enough comfort, to build a connection and later sexual attraction. Being outcome dependent …
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:05 AM
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Ill Take it
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 02:40 PM
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We all pay Women time or money for sex. IF I were in your situation I would work alot, pay the whore twice a month and then IF you feel like it, practice game as a hobby. Come to think on it, i am in your situation. No whores though.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 09:02 PM
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Your welcome
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:44 AM
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Give meditation a try for ten days. See what happens. From my own experience after consistent meditation. It's like having someone over my shoulder. Tapping and nudging me gently. Reminding me that I have more important things to do.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 07:33 PM
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To complete the sentence and to what he migth refer is, sexual transformation, from the book think and grow rich. That one chapter is worth the book price ten times over.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 07:30 PM
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Nice come back!
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:53 PM
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Try things you are interested in. See what other are interested in. Are these things, other people value (pay money for)? Selling and copywriting are fundamental skills to learn and practice. I'm no expert on Cs, but what I've heard is: Work on projects while you are studying. Just to get real life experience.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:15 PM
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Once you begin reading it gets easier. Watch a YouTube video on how to speed read using a visual pacer (like your finger). To double or triple your reading speed with 10 hours of practice this week. Then set aside 45 minutes every day for reading (average reading speed - so with 2x reading speed you only need 20 minutes). That's the average amount of time to read one book a week. Or buy/lend the audio book on audible and listen to it on 2x speed. It's quite easy to get accustomed to it. Just inc…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:11 PM
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It's what you could expect starting out. But as you improve your game. Your odds go up. And as you improve your physique your odds go up. And as you improve your status your odds go up. And you get better to notice the girls that show interest and can see patterns and recognise which of them are down to fuck. So that the first girl you talk to, could be dtf. Practice a lot. Have patience. Enjoy every interaction. And know that it gets easier.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:18 AM
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I write ten ideas on most days. I don't have a TV. I rarely watch porn. I meditate.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:12 PM
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Your welcome. Probably four of them want to fuck you all nigth for months.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:10 PM
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Harsh man. So when is your next practice?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:35 PM
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Start by reading a lot of different books and write down ten new ideas every day. The ideas doesn't have to be around business all the time. It could be ways to improve your health. Or ten new things to try. Or ten possible steps to improve your game. Entrepreneurial books choose yourself, by James Altucher your move - the underdogs guide to building your business, by ramit sethi the four hour work week, by Tim ferris shoe dog, by Phil knigth what to do when it's your turn, by Seth godin tribes,…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:28 PM
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Try /r/outside I've heard from a friend there are females there.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:54 PM
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You don't have to read anything. Just commit yourself to talk with five new girls every day for 90 days. That's maybe 30 minutes of your day.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:49 PM
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Schedule two days a week for day or nigth game. I've found a couple of medium busy streets around the mall and coffee shops and just approach girls I find interesting. For every twelve girls I talk with I mostly get one to three numbers. And if I get a number from the first or third girl I talk with, I continue to talk with nine more. A great read is GO for NO. To develop the abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:24 PM
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Life is time consuming. NOT going to the gym is more consuming since you make your life harder. You will have less energy, less confidence, less opportunity in business and women by not going to the gym. Do yoga and go to the gym. Later Change your living place or buy gym equipment.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:18 PM
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Just ignore her and follow your dreams while talking to other girls. Blocked my previous LTR after she wanted to move in and said I can't give her that. Kissed her on the cheek and said good bye. Thirty days later with a love letter and multiple calls she knocked on my door. Considered just ignoring it but had nothing else going on so let her in. Just said hi like old times, noticed her mood and hugged her. She wanted some things that she had left. With amused frame I said, "I'll get you a cup o…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:13 PM
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Learn how to sell yourself and your ideas. Life is a big game of selling. Approaching a girl is selling her the dream of a possible relationship. Whether it's a one night stand, long term relationship or start a family. Getting a job is selling yourself as a dependable person who can excell at the job, or show traits that further in your career to be of massive value. Selling your ideas to people of starting a business. Showing people that your work is effective and helps people. Selling your id…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:52 PM
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Study hard Read the side bar Lift weights Learn how to sell Learn how to start a business Quit porn
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:07 PM
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Every day I live by this. Not quite ruling my own world yet, but getting closer every day.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:33 AM
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Gonna have a great time. Just got confirmation that it was the rigth call at lunch today with a couple of friends. He is a big Russian dude with purple belt in bjj. He can fuck people up good. We had some stuff to do today. First bjj then other stuff. Of course his live in girlfriends nag him, "but why? When will you be back? Can you come sooner?..." As he finished he says, "guys, keep being single."
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 03:35 PM
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Thanks your welcome anytime.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 03:20 PM
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My ltr wanted commitment (living together) and set an ultimatum this spring about it. Which I said, "I am not ready for that. If that is your main goal in life, you should find someone to move in with." Which she responds with "I only love you. You are the best things that's happened to me." Also multiple of her girlfriends are getting married, kids, and mentioned how she hates facebook. Fast forward to one month ago she came over for dinner and sleep over. Quite soon she mentions she can't live…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 07:32 PM
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I haven't tried it but if you do have the money(not getting in debt), buy it! It's much better to have a simple blueprint of actions to take, to overcome your specific problem. Rather than follow hundred of pieces of advice you collect for yourself. Since you are asking about it here, you should probably just buy it immediately and follow the program.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:45 AM
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Your welcome
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:36 AM
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Dating girls is a hobby. Quite an enjoyable hobby. I would budget for it.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:01 PM
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Yes. Approach more girls. Go on more dates, and by dates I mean just meetup. The more dates you go on, the easier it is to get to plating and FWB. Invite a girl to walk in a park, play on the swings, have a drink. Then back to your place for more wine, music, games, whatever.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:00 PM
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Abundance mentality comes from talking with new girls every day. Let's say I talk to five girls every day for 90 days. After awhile I get one number from the second girl I talk with. That's nice! However since I still need to talk with three more girls, that is what I'll do. And I'll talk with five new girls tomorrow. So I know that today I got a number, then it's totally possible to get a number tomorrow or the day after. At first I have one possible date this first week. But on the third week …
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:11 PM
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Next time you feel like saying that, say it. She will probably leave. That's about it. Then you can move on and think on better things for next time. Also when you get more practice, another girl migth love it.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:37 PM
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Great tips. I use a couple of them already and going to be more aware of her scent as I get closer to her. And whisper in her ear.
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:08 PM
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Just did it yesterday. She didn't mind. Got her number and agreed to meet another time.
/r/seduction12/10/17 03:06 PM
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Fucking horrible. I don't know of any married guy or who lives with his girlfriend. That doesn't have the zombie eyes. Guys living by themselves watching porn look happier (and they are pretty sad).
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 07:34 AM
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I've had social phobia and couldn't even get outside the door for years. It was brutal. I hated it. One day I'd had enough. And started taking baby steps. Such as practicing my social skills by saying hi to five people today. And tomorrow. And the next day. And the next. I said hi to people until I got bored. Then asked them of their day. Or compliment there watch, dress, shirt. Go to the gym. Went for a weekly walk with a friend and his dog. Later I started with bjj. Just practicie. "Approachin…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:38 PM
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Get another reddit app.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:26 PM
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There are other girls that will fuck you in three dates or less. You migth find one this week if you talk with five girls every day until Saturday. It migth even sound unbelievable. But it's true.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:24 PM
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I was at a convention a couple of years ago. And we had small group work to do with me, and older man and two women. The older man had confidence to talk about a lot of things. And I had my own opinions that I had full faith in. The women were mostly quiet until one of them speaks up, "can we get a say in this?" Okay, I respond. "We will be quiet and let's hear what your opinion on this from both of you. What do you suggest should be done?" Obviously I was met with a long silence... they migth e…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 10:00 AM
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Listen through the beige Phillip show. A couple of episodes Dante Nero explains how he just pissed on a girl in the shower. And later as she acted up or things broke off left it with, "that's why I peed on you." Pretty hilarious and I'm going to do it sooner or later. He also gave advice to a woman who have a timid beta male, "as your man comes home and enters the kitchen. Sit down and piss on the floor. It will drive him to fuck you crazy."
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:18 AM
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Interesting though. Years ago as I spent most of my waking hours playing computer games, watching movies, watching porn, I had really bad memory. The days would blend in to just a gray mass of nothingness. Today as I watch very few movies, play no games, watch no porn, I have excellent memory. I've even come to appreciate and learn small details about the personal relationships I have. Is that because I meditate regularly, and not being stimulated by fictional TV characters, fictional sex, obses…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:11 AM
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Here is what I personally do and has worked great for me: Book an appointment with a doctor to asses your injuries See a psychotherapist to develop a exercise program to get you stronger Have a naprapat look at your body to massage and help with mobility. Follow all of the professionals advice you've gotten = the fix for your body and healthy. You can probably get pretty big even with your situation. If you accept that this will take daily practice. And a decade of work. While your at it, if you…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:30 PM
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Your name reflects your character. Change from future_alpha to present time.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:48 PM
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0 - Because I don't have time for that shit.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:01 PM
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I've found great value such as, more energy and focus by limiting my ejaculations to two or three times a week. Have you tried it?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 06:18 AM
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Your welcome. Let me how it goes.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 02:21 PM
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This is my three step trick to get out of bed and wide awake in the morning (even when I've only had four hours of sleep the last five nights): have the phone/opportunity clock out of reach so I have to leave my bed to shut it off. drink a BIG glass of water that is rigth next to the clock and that I prepared the nigth before. immediately take a warm shower. And finish it cold for 30 seconds or more. This routine gives me a huge amount of energy. First because the steps are so simple. Drink a gl…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 08:57 AM
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Love your harsh truth and comment by comment reply!
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:37 PM
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How many approaches have you done this month? How long were in set? Why do you think you are ugly? Answer these and we'll dig deeper to help you overcome this obstacle.
/r/seduction22/07/17 08:19 AM
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Eat 1000 calories over your tdee*. follow 5x5 strong lifts and make sure to pause before pressing up/down. Added 2inches on my arms in four months. *1000 calories over is because If you already do 500 over and don't see improvement. Add 500 more.
/r/seduction21/07/17 07:40 AM
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It must be though going trough that. What else have you tried?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 03:55 AM
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Have you visited a physical therapists (in the last month, not years ago) to look at it and get a tailored program to improve your shoulder? Just with that it can probably improve a ton.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 07:06 AM
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Fucking savage!
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 08:17 PM
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I was in the mood for movies with my LTR. But I didn't even bother with the trailers for any of the movies, much less for spider man. Sounds like I didn't miss out. Instead we played golf, ping pong, and shooting basket balls.
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 12:47 PM
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Game is the ability to talk a girl into bed by playing to her emotions. Teasing, connecting and kino (non-sexual and sexual contact). With excellent game there is no need for a amazing social circle nor a high paying job. Infact the girl migth not care. Because she got swept away by a handsome stranger.
/r/seduction10/07/17 07:29 AM
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I know what you are talking about. If I notice a interesting girl and get the feeling that she has noticed me. I just happen to gather my mat and things and walk up next to her as everyone is getting up and out of class. As we walk out I mention something about class to get her engaged. Like how it was tough/easy/a particular move that was interesting and get her interested. And this is unusual so she is ready to go on with her day so walk her out in to the gym (or stay in the room if that is a …
/r/seduction09/07/17 12:35 PM
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The last seven girls I've been with have been during the day from: Approached while walking in the city Yoga class Taking salsa lessons Dating site
/r/seduction09/07/17 06:29 AM
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That treasure is enticing... had a after work meet up at a amusement park. Ran some Ligth game with teasing and having fun on the group. Mid way the girl is shaking her titties at me... no alcohol. She was upset and surprised when I suddenly broke off an d went home by myself at the end of the nigth.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 12:18 PM
1

How do you feel about being obese? It must be though thinking about it every day. I know I've been there. I don't have abundance of wealth yet. Because I have been focused on getting my fitness up first. And didn't understand how to earn money. Now as I'm fit, learned the knowledge, developed the habits, I have more time to focus on my business. If I was wealthy and obese, I would take some of that money to hire a personal trainer and chef. Because the benefits of being fit, have transformed my …
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 12:57 PM
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Damn man. This morning I've been thinking of getting kids and moving in with my LTR. But you just reminded me of my previous blue pilled LTR days...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 07:54 AM
0

But if you do meet a girl in an abortion clinic, you know she fucks. It's funny in my bluepill relationship, looked at girls with young kids in lust... because they fucked at least once. Now, not so much.
/r/seduction29/06/17 07:18 AM
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I'm not familiar with that kind of history. But what I do know, is that porn fucks people up. I've seen it with myself, friends, and people on the internet. So, if you are still watching porn - quit. And give it 90, 900 or 9000 days to heal your brain patterns. And make sure to read, write, visualize, take action on all the beliefs you want to have. Because it's impossible to erase addictions. Yet you can replace them with new thoughts and actions. Eventually they will change. "What wires togeth…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 06:08 PM
1

"The best way to get over a bitch is fucking five new ones", botched quote by Dante Nero. And it's true. Expand your social game practice to the grocery store, commute, walking in the city. Read > take action > analyse > repeat >>
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:12 AM
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Models by Mark manson The book of pook, by pook how to win friends and influence people, by Dale Carnegie The rational male, by Rollo tomassi A tiny thousand failures, by Tony d I hope it's sunny out, by Tony d Here are a couple to start. And start talking to five girls (and men) every day. Just make small talk. When it gets boring to say "hi", "nice dress", etc. Stay longer in the conversation. Make it a game.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:31 AM
1

I doubt you are as unattractive as you say, but okay! I'll belive you for now. Attraction is many things. To quote Rollo tomassi "have: Assets Looks Game Of the three, game is most important. Have all but game is key." Looks, So how can you improve your looks? Add more muscle mass to your body by lifting weigth. Earn more money and eventually get surgery to fix your face. Better yet, order a doctor's appointment today, to see what they say. Even if you can't afford it now, you can get a dollar s…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 09:04 AM
1

What do you think would make you more attractive to yourself, and others? And about the mythical sex everybody is having... they are not. 80% of the relationships you see, are having it once a month or less. You've heard of the AF/BB right? 80% of the men are blue pilled, overweight with a happy girl in hand... yet I know from personal experience that the bedroom is dead. Just browse /r/deadbedrooms and feel better about your self. This isn't easy to fix. It's simple, but not easy. Read the side…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:12 PM
1

Why do you feel like an ugly mofo?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 06:48 AM
1

What skills would you see as necessary to be able to perform and play a good game with the boys? Practice that one or two skills for five hours every week for a month in secret. And I'll promise you they will be blown away by your game.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:01 PM
3

Try meditation and brazillian jiu-jitsu. Or start a business. Or do all of the above. Just keep busy and it will eventually pass. See it as a path through a grass field. The more you travel on a particular path, the more it will wear down and the easier it will be travel it. Just as with thoughts. The more you think of one thing, the stronger the neurological connections get. Also, to quote Dante Nero: "It takes five bitches to forget a bitch." So get over her and by fucking five new girls. Then…
/r/MGTOW19/06/17 02:37 PM
1

I feel you. Every time I question myself, why pursue women? Why lift? Why work? I come back to the same answer, what else could I possibly do? Quit? That ain't no fun. I've been down that road before. Perhaps you have as well. At about 28 I was just getting aware of the game. and just got dumped by my wonderfull fat LTR I lived with. Who imeadeatly moved in with my best friend. So you have actually fucked one more girl then me at this point. But things change rapidly when you realize the game. G…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:38 PM
1

It hasn't come up again. But she is getting late here and there when we meet up. And traveling less to my place. Guess it's about time to make less contact.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:17 PM
1

She gets more enjoyment of talking then him cumming on her forehead.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:31 PM
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To build on the slight edge. Find the one thing (great book) that could move you forward in your health, career and women. Exercise five times every week (health) - which is a keystone habit that makes you want to eat better, sleep better, be more relaxed to handle bigger things. Find one thing that could further your work (career) or one thing you can do every day to be one step closer to starting your own business. Talk to five girls every day (women). Just this keystone habit will transform y…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:31 AM
1

Just drinking more water will improve a ton. Plus it will also double your energy and add more weigth on the bar, to increase your gains in the gym. (There is actual research on this, Google if you are interested to learn more) If you want to make it a habit to drink more water, use an already existing habit as a trigger. Example: as I wake up, I weigh myself and drink the glass of water I prepared before I went to bed. After every meal I drink a big glass of water. After gym I finish up my bott…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 05:12 PM
3

Could be. Here are a couple of things that make my shit silky smooth. I drink half a litre of water every three hours (as I wake up, breakfast, lunch, after gym, dinner). I eat at least 500g fruits, 500g vegetables, and 500g beans daily. I don't eat dairy (if you are, try to reduce your intake). I meditate every morning and try limit my stress as much as possible. How are you doing on these? Before I did this, my shit was like rocks. But as I changed my diet and not let my monkey mind sky rocket…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 05:00 PM
1

Great work. How has it changed your life to gain 9kg?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 06:40 PM
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Here are some basic things you could do and that I personally do: Sign up for a gym today. Download the Starting strength 5x5 app that has a simple full body compound barbell lifting program with videos for all exercises. Use the starting strength app three times a week at the gym and if you feel good, go out and jog twice a week. Book an appointment with a trainer (or just become friends with the guys lifting) and ask for help, "I want to learn these exercises, could you help me?" Your optimal …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 05:24 PM
1

It's general Redpill knowledge to be aware of the beige Phillip show (and black). While we are at it I recommend everyone interested to learn more about go for no is a great book.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:34 PM
1

If you are successfully adding weight and getting stronger week after week, keep doing what you are doing.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 11:43 AM
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Lay The Five Bricks and GO for NO Every day talk to five girls. Just say "hi, nice shoes" and be happy. Keep doing this until you feel bored. Then add "... do you always dress like this? What are you up to today?" Then add more. Really basic stuff just to get going and comfortable. GO for NO! Stop and talk with five girls every day, and make it a habit to close. Ask for her number or invite her to check out a park nearby or a store you are going to. Get her to say yes or no. If she says no, just…
/r/askTRP03/06/17 08:41 AM
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How much time do you spend together? Do you live together? You probably need to spend less time with her. And more time lifting and finding and living your purpose. And talk with new girls to realize you have options.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 06:48 AM
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I have activity friends (gym, bjj, volunteer) and girls I fuck and hang it with. I don't need much more. Yet I force myself to keep talking with new and people I know most days to stay connected. If you are getting better at being social and have some activity friends. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:18 PM
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What do you want to speak about? Know the subject well. That's it. Pick the subject you want to speak about. Then imagine you are speaking to your audience. What are the ten fears you imagine? Write them down. Then answer each fear as a response. Now picture yourself again tomorrow. Speaking about the same subject and same audience. What fears come to mind? Write them down. Answer each fear in writing and repeat it all out loud. Stop before going further. Have you done the exercise? How does it …
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:11 PM
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Just do it. That's the only way. And see it as practice. Have you done sports or done a test? Where you were nervous and anxious? How did it feel after five minutes passed as it started? Ten minutes? A great way to break anxiety is doing sprints. To release bunched up energy. Or talk to girls after you've been to the gym. That often brings me in a more relaxed and open state. Here is a script you can use: HI. I like your style because you look fit, or is it just a facade? HI. I like your ear rin…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:00 PM
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With consistent weight training such as starting strength 5x5, you can easily bulk to 75kg by December 31, 2017. And later I would say go for 85kg. Right now you really need to focus on eating at least one plate more each meal. As long as you lift and progress you don't need to worry much about fat. You will get a huge increase of confidence from your transformation if you make it. Though be warned that your self image can lag for six months or longer. Meaning you won't feel fit, even though you…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:48 PM
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Yeah It might at first. But over time you get better. Quit porn and masturbation. Talk to five new girls every day. And eventually you will get better and better. More calm, relaxed and charismatic. Things girls love.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:40 PM
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Whenever I use porn I crave sex. And when I'm bored and tired, I use porn. So how am I happy without a woman? Don't use porn Stay busy improving your health, business, hobbies Talk to five girls every day If I have the option and ability to meet women, I feel better. But first I focus on myself. Then I can enjoy a Friday night of good sleep to wake up rested and practice what I want on Saturday morning.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:34 PM
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Yes. I met a girl out dancing and turns out she practice bjj as a brown belt. This was six month in on my own practice. I thought it would be fun to visit her dojo and met a couple of her friends that where way above my skill. And I acted in genuine interest of learning. One week later she comes to my place and I grab her boobs outside sitting by the water. And we move to my place and begin heavy make out up against a door. Though I dropped the ball and didn't carry her to my bed and instead opt…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:28 PM
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Down below I have my own personal favorites that I go back to again and again to remind myself of the correct mindset. But first there is only one thing you can do to get rid of Bullshit. And you know it already. Just do it. Talk to five girls today. Talk to five girls tomorrow. Talk to five girls the next day. Find out if she is interesting and if she find you interesting. And remember ABC. Always Be Closing. Let's do the math: Talking to five girls every day - and close (number/instant date). …
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:09 PM
2

Think how the world would be like if the only program on TV would be Animal Planet. The program we are raised by makes life comfortable. Don't worry. Have a decent job. Don't complain. Try to save some. Yet the reality is that it's a really dull life. And unless you get burned really bad, you just accept it as it is. Once burned, life is fucking unfair for quite awhile. Until you get sick of it and end it, or improve it. Damn think if I had watched more animal planet and have someone explain it …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:41 PM
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No crime. Just an observation of the sexual market place. And he should get in shape.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:29 PM
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I work part time in a gym and helped this women with a kid in tow. She wanted to build a big ass and toned arms. She was so excited as I showed her how to squat properly and all I could think of was her branch swinging.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 07:27 AM
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On a more personal note, make your top priorities negative. By that I mean: make it to 30 with no kids, no divorce record, no stds, no debt (if you're in it, focus on getting out as fast as feasible), no criminal record, no excess body fat, and few/no physical injuries. Great advice. Most men I see that have wife and kids before or around 30, also have: A dad bod (some are even pregnant). Wish they had more free time. Are constantly tired. Have no free will to think or do things for themselves. …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 08:14 PM
1

I've been with my LTR for two years and about two-three months ago she started being more overt in her communication. One month ago she gave me one year to decide if I want to live with her... I told her up front that I love her. And if her most important thing is to move in (and get a married and family since her friends are and she is getting old), she should find a guy to do that with. Her response "but I only want you." Multiple things going on here and how I handle it: I talk with new girls…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:52 PM
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Yeah I agree. I've wasted so much time meditating before - achieving nothing!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:48 PM
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As mattalec suggested, pick one toxic habit to start with. Then make sure you can replace it with another easy (or somewhat easy) habit to replace it with. Example if I would quit watching four hours YouTube and instead run for one hour. One hour is to long for an easy transition. Instead I could go out and run 20 minutes, get home and shower. Then meditate 10 minutes. After that pick another good thing I want to do. Over time I can ramp up my running. Second make sure to meditate every day. Dow…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 08:24 AM
1

How about you fuck a girl every 7 days? Porn is a pacifier. Once you've acquired the necessary knowledge, it's time to trash it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 10:24 AM
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I went twice and did table topics - where the toastmaster invites a couple of people up to the front and speak about a topic he set. And we don't know about what. It was funny how my adrenaline pumped as if I would go into a fight or high levels of approach anxiety as it came time to volunteer for it. Anyway, it was fun. But I get up early for work so I quit going. The question if it helps being a smooth talker? Yeah it does. You get to practice talking in front of an audience. You get immediate…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 06:13 PM
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Great post and this is something that is super valueable to practice, as you try new things where you haven't had much success previously as reference. Or even when it's time to take your craft to the next level. I've been procrastinating a part of my life that could really benefit from this hack. Thanks for reminding me.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:10 PM
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Yes. The decision was made to focus on improving my health, bjj and income. While practicing day game on the side. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 10:28 AM
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Great article Woujo. The easiest time I've had with day game approaching girls, is when I accept her for what she is. Someone who looks interesting, and I might want to get to know further. And she wants to find a guy to have fun with. Maybe she is busy. Maybe she is free. That's for me to find out, for me and her. Because without me, nothing would happen. What really wrecks my game is seeing her above myself (I want need that pussy), being needy (depending on her validation and good outcome of …
/r/seduction16/04/17 03:15 PM
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Note to self: Get a frisbee Go to the beach this summer Remove t-shirt at the beach Throw Frisbee at googly eyed girls Profit
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 05:28 PM
2

Great details of something that is hard to see from an outsider looking in. You seem to have a great grasp of the salsa scene and got a question about meeting girls there. I've danced on and off for two years and gotten a couple of lays from it. Would you recommend me getting into it again to meet girls while mastering the art of dancing. Or choose another venue that requires less work. I enjoy dancing with girls but time is limited for us all. What's your take on meeting girls and salsa?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:55 AM
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Beautiful post and you made me realize, that the man in the mirror have grown a lot in the last couple of years. "Most people overestimate what they can achieve in a year and underestimate what they can achieve in ten year." - Bill Gates Keep faith in the daily practice, and over time, the man in the mirror reinvents himself many times over what was though possible.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 07:31 AM
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Do you flirt and fuck girls in the gym? Any other places besides work that you don't approach girls? Or do you limit yourself to day game, bars, and social circles?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:36 AM
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Health: + Did five bodyweight sessions since I've been out traveling two weeks. + Been taking 20.000 steps exploring a new country. + Excited to be back in the gym tomorrow. -A slight loss of weight. But I'm thrilled since there were such shitty foods that it wasn't a bigger loss. Money: + Had a lot of vacation saved up so used some for travel. + Could easily afford the whole trip with money left. + Fine-tuned my finances to accelerate my growth of FU money + Will continue to find and validate a…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 10:48 PM
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Life is built upon meeting animal needs. Needs which can be meet by learning the neccesary skills required to meet that need. Enjoy your success of having a high skill of money earning. Just as money is a skill, so is getting pussy. What would you rather be. A women that have a high value during her 15-30s then drop rapidly? Or a man that enjoy the challenge of acquiring skills and living well all his life. With multiple girlfriends (hugh Hefner)?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:25 PM
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How have you made the transition to sleeping earlier?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 12:53 PM
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Perhaps I was unclear. He stated that he uses technology to track much of his relationships. My question is: Does he use a specific app for it or use recurring calendar events to keep track of their periods? I could really implement this in my own life. Actually I'll just do it with recurring events. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:38 AM
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Super valueable post. I'm interested in how do you track their periods?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 09:51 AM
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I used to Boulder a lot (indoor rock climbing). And found it hilarious that I could spend hours working on a difficult problem. Yet found approaching a girl I didn't know "scary". Once I started with brazillian jiu-jitsu. Approaching girls got a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 11:14 PM
2

It took me at least six months before I got comfortable with my new body image of being fit. After losing 15kgs and getting muscular. Similarly with attraction traits and personality.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:01 PM
1

What did you find most valuable?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 11:01 AM
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Yeah. Just making small talk with everyone I find interesting. Leads to a more fulfilling life for me, and the people around me.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:01 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:51 AM
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Your welcome.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:51 AM
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Okay
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:50 AM
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It went fine. We meetup for a ten minute walk. Have dinner. Share some stories and watch people. Walk to the train and have a kiss. The second time I teased the shit out of her because she outed herself as being against "girly" things such as wearing pink. It was hilarious since we sat next door to a street with lots of foot traffic and a gym. And the more we talked the more pink stuff she had at home or on her. As we got to her place I had to take a minute to gather myself form laughing so hard…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:49 AM
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The best way I've had meeting girls is being genuinly busy, going places - where girls are. And take action, stop to talk with them for awhile. It's that simple. Some places that I've actually got five to ten minutes conversations. Found out she was interesting and got her number. Setup a meetup. And fucked on the second meetup. Taking walks in the city. Just by getting off the train a couple of stations earlier (or walking with my bike) I get abundance of women walking towards me to stop and se…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:45 PM
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Would you like to have girls more attracted to you? Example, I teased a 17 year old girl and hit her shoulder playfully. And she hits back giggling and let's her hand linger while showing affection. Would you like men to be attentive as you speak? Example, I regularly stop interesting guys and ask them how they achieved X that is interesting. Since I'm healthy, strong, we'll put together and dressed decent. They take time to respond. Would you like to feel great as you look at yourself in the mi…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 07:45 AM
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Can confirm. A girl (party girl with multiple guys in rotation) at the party I am with got a text and picture from a guy. She got a text and got a disgusting look on her face, showed everyone at the party and became the laughing stock for the next 15 minutes. With suggestions to different texts to say no or ridicule him. Don't text girls periodically wishing for a text, date or fuck. Just drop it and approach new girls.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 08:36 PM
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What is your biggest obstacle?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:07 PM
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Life is what you make of it. If you say it's hard to make friends as an adult, guess what? It will be hard to make to friends. But it's the opposite! Since so many lack friends, it's easier to make new friends. If you in fact make the effort to get to know what you like. What they like. And invite them to fun things you enjoy. You have an abundance of people to hang out with. Try a lot of things. Learn stuff. Stick with the stuff you learn to get a baseline profiency. Maybe become great at it. O…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:47 AM
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I would (and do) take it one step further. Write out all texts that are of significant importance - by hand and read it out loud. To improve, alter, or change your beliefs and habits. That you want to focus on or change. Using the technique of copying texts that have significant meaning to me have helped me: Retain important information - such as game theory, books I've read, improving my bjj practice, and much more Reduce approach anxiety - using the top posts from here (or own success stories)…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 03:34 PM
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The act of doing. Creates abundance of time (flow state). The more I practice. The easier it becomes. The less focused I am on the outcome (limited time). The more relaxed I am and the results come more effortlessly. The act of getting one thing done well each day. Leaves me with the question, "how can I improve until next time?" And the satisfaction of one step closer towards my goal.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 12:49 PM
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The best way to be a better talker, is talking. You already know what to say, but fear it might be stupid. Be stupid. Many times when I've been stuck and been in my own thoughts and notice a girl. I've stopped her and drew a blank face. Just to say "I just wanted to talk with you and can't think of anything right now..." That momentum gives me forward motion and my brain starts to work again. Which gave me time to notice something about her or the place we are in. On the second date we fucked at…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 07:09 PM
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It is a matter of life and death. If Susie doesn't like Amy. Then Susie and the other women talk and scheme about it. And if Susie has higher rank than Amy. She could be put out of the tribe as soon as possible. Losing "friends" for women is a death sentence. We men couldn't care less. But for them it's a very real threat of getting kicked out of the gossip circle and die of loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 06:12 PM
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Yeah, I used to be in awe and feel like all girls I noticed out during the day were whores (although they are) when I watched porn. Once I stopped watching porn my perspective shifted to not obsess so much over them. Sure I like to look and want to fuck them. But once I overcame the porn imprint of girls, it shifted my way of life. Now I see how cute and silly they are for dressing up and walking about. While I'm a amused smile reaches my lips and they understand it. Some blush, others ignore it…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 05:17 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I have the book on my wishlist and I'll read it some day just to get his perspective on things.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 04:42 PM
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I used to struggle with relapsing two to four times a month. It wasn't that much, but it irked me because I didn't want to do it. What really helped me was that I found and read a super powerful post - that really spoke to me and echoed in my mind. And I used this powerful technique of reading it ten times over. Then copy it by hand three more times. I don't even know what post it was - I just know it has profoundly changed my thoughts and made me quit relapsing. Ever since, my urges have easily…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:42 PM
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I went a similar path of focus on game, lifting and sports for the first years of unplugging. I'm glad I did but had to little focus on freedom and money. Now it has shifted to having more freedom in my life, working less and wealth building to sustain it. The understanding I learned of game was, being Chad is fun for awhile. Until you realize Chad has bills to pay and not happy at crappy jobs. Unless he likes crashing on couches.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:04 AM
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What comes to mind for me is; having an idea for a product. Outsource it to others for them to build it. And reap the benefits of selling it as yours.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:08 AM
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The Weekends are just like the rest of the week. I go up at the same time to shower and read. Or go out for a walk listening to books. And sit down in a coffee shop. Then I do research and work on business ideas. Or plan something for the future. Limiting it to three hour sessions at most. At midday I go to the gym and hang out with the people I like. After that it's taking a walk and meeting with girls. If I've had a girl over I tend to sleep in and enjoy her company to do the work after gym at…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:56 AM
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Yeah what has worked best for me is to setup a daily practice (system). Example: Wake up, drink water, shower. Drink coffee, read before work, work. Listen to books and podcasts when possible. During breaks, be creative working on ideas I might want to pursue. After work I take a walk towards the city, taking me closer to the gym. While being out, come up with openers I could say "hi", "nice dress". Super easy ones just to start talking. That gets me in a social mood and easy to escalate the con…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 04:17 PM
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Great that action is being taken. It would be even better if they actually included real recommendations when to have kids. Instead of young that could be interpreted as under thirty. But that leads to another debate of first being mom's then doing a career. Which would more likely be stay at home mom. Which goes against the double income society...
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:57 PM
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I know that feeling of "finding motivation", which is an invisible script for; I might fail. I might be awkward. She looks busy. She looks to fancy. I don't feel like like talking with her rigth now. I don't have my dream job yet. The people behind me are watching. Just got home from walking in the city now and had a couple of small chats and one long chat with a German girl when I could easily have had ten. There is only one way to get out of your head and improving. Say "hi" to one girl every …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:47 PM
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Three is a great number and I will expand on it for you to have a bunch of books to read as you feel like it. I often go back and forth between multiple books. Philosophy: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. The Discourses by Epictetus The idea economy I used to be amazed how others could have such great ideas and be able to innovate markets. But reading these books and going deeper of what they recommend have made me come much closer to actually innovate my own thoughts. And influence others. Choos…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 08:31 PM
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Great progress in the gym, school and passing your drivers theory. What is your greatest struggle with women? For me personally, it took about a year until I broke through the learning phase. And second year I had much greater success. Looks like you have a solid plan.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:17 PM
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How long have you been unplugged? Three years. What are your ten latest victories? I save at least 10% of my income in cash for emergency's and money that could be used to walk away. I have a job that pays my bills, shelter, food and hobbies. I have a second job that I actually enjoy and able to grow with. I have enough money that makes me not to worry about getting fired. Making me see a bigger picture. I have a long term relationship with a girl that I enjoy spending time with. I keep talking …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 03:29 PM
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More ways to invest in yourself: Lend and buy books. Books are the walk through guides of life. A book for $20 can give you a blueprint how to achieve your desired outcome. Saving you months or years of your time. Reading a couple of books every month, and getting one idea from it. Will over your lifetime be worth thousands of dollars. Investing in online courses: Having trouble sticking to your diet or approaching women? Want to create multiple streams of income but don't know where to start? M…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 01:28 PM
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Except for lifting, being on track to earn my own salary is the biggest confidence booster I have. Relying on someone else (Boss, coworkers and corporate politics), hoping to not get fired is the biggest mind fuck I know. Having enough cash to not worry about losing your job. And taking steps to earn your own money. Is a great way to have true abundance and I don't give a fuck attitude. I read the book on Elon Musk awhile back and the girl that he was with said, what made him so attractive, was …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:36 AM
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If you have found freedom to travel, enjoy your time, do work that matters and meet girls. You are doing great. I've been interested in doing it. But have been telling myself I need multiple income streams before I go. And that I live in a good place. This post was short and blunt. Elaborate on your opinions and it will do better. I would love to hear how you do it and how the experience have benefitted you.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 02:38 PM
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It would be interesting to read a full post of your travels on limited money. And how you came to fuck so many girls while doing it.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 02:02 PM
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Add, SLEEP. Sleeping 8 to 9 hours will increase... Your mood. At least I feel a thousand times better when I'm fully rested. Alert at work. Excited to go to the gym. Interested in talking with new girls and taking action. + Plus I want to figure out new ideas for income streams. Your testosterone. Your body need to rebuild itself after hitting the gym, which requires adequate sleep (8 to 9 hours). Your ability to focus. Ending the constant "I just want to be done with this, and rest" (be it in w…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 04:53 PM
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A very powerful technique copywriters use (who write direct sales letters) is to read it ten times, then copy it by hand three times. Try this with things that resonate with you, or things that are important to remember. And I guarantee it will change your life, as it has mine.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 06:05 AM
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A document is a great start. Even better is writing it by hand on paper and reading it out loud. Instead of something that is filed away. By doing this you now have the benefit of an permanent image in your mind and the written word is always stronger than thoughts. Thoughts are fleeting and change with the environment. The goals you write are unwavering. Revise when necessary and look at it daily.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:33 PM
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On the topic of optimize your environment. Starting your day five minutes earlier with a contrast shower. Meditate for one minute. And planning your day. Creates a huge advantage for yourself. Reducing noise such as social media & newspapers. Coworkers idle chatter about football. Or relationship problems. How they are going for vacation to spain to the house they own there, while contemplating six more years of work without change. Quit porn and video games. All of it is scripted and doesn't sh…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:37 PM
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It fascinates me how so many people don't want to change. I have a coworker that is fat. He is running some, but still eat way to much snacks in the evening. Yesterday I said to him, "I made a list exactly describing how I lost weight and keep it off. I have it in my locker. I can give it to you, if you want it." He hesitated and said no. In my mind I go, what the fuck? He recently lost his virginity (by being a player I guess, didn't think he would ever manage that). But that wasn't who he is s…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:12 PM
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That's a great cause and the rigth stuff to invest in yourself. What I meant was buying a car and house with debt. Getting the latest computer and flat-screen TV. That ties you down for years or decades. "A man is rich in proportion to the things he can afford to let alone." -Henry David Thoreau, walden
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 07:44 AM
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What else are they going to ban? Do ads featuring pretty people make ugly people feel bad?. Only this one. The rest helps the men keep working and buying more shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 08:28 AM
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Yeah. Asked a young girl working at a coffee shop whether the green juice was any good. Her response? "I don't know. I only drink that", pointing to a poster of a sugar drink. "Ok. I'll take it anyway." Later I notice the poster again and laugh out loud and chuckle for fifteen minutes as I realize it's something of a chocolate milkshake with whipped cream and cookies in it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:35 PM
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Perhaps you don't understand how teasing a girl actually increases her attraction for you. It makes you stand out from other beta males. Shows that you have options and the confidence to use them. If she doesn't like it or is unavailable, she will just say no thanks and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:24 PM
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Something that helped me understand the importance of social interactions, was reading "how to win friends and influence people". While practicing all the concepts in the book. Also "day bang" by roosh improved my understanding of talking more, or ramble as he speaks about in the book. I read it a year ago and didn't quite connect the dots. Read it again awhile back and it suddenly made sense to me. Myself I don't have much female friends. I would rather have girls I fuck. Though it could help a…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 09:41 AM
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Great work and happy it worked out for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:00 PM
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It's a sick world. Women bitting the hand that feeds them.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 08:26 AM
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Get a second phone that you keep away when busy or being anxious about what some girls think of you. Worked well for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 08:57 PM
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If it works, keep doing it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 08:55 PM
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Great story. C T looks like a fun guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 07:26 PM
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In the beginning I text mostly. When I've known her for awhile and know when she could be available I give her a call. But make sure to keep it short. I tell soon after what meet up I've planned for us. Listen some to of her stories until she comes to the conclusion to meet up. Then end it. If something feels to complicated to say in a text, I call her.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:51 PM
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Good post. Liked her statements that are great to follow. What really helped me get over if I should text or call is actually being busy. I always have my phone on silent with no vibration unless I expect something important. While working on something larger than my current job. Example creating more time to pursue things I enjoy. How can I provide more value and earn money while I sleep. Realizing that my freedom, is more important then girls. Have been a huge mindset shift. I still have work …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 04:44 PM
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Yeah even as a bluepill, my ex girlfriend complained that I never let her win any discussions. She basically wanted me to let her be right, because it was unfair.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 09:29 PM
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Have more interesting days.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:30 PM
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Change your story, change your life. Divorce the story of limitation and marry the story of truth, and everything changes. -Tony Robbins Hey man I understand. My last breakup was horrible. I thought I had made the biggest mistake in my life when I agreed to break up with my girlfriend. For six months I felt like shit. I even wrote her a lovey "all my fault" letter shortly after. But I stopped myself and burned it. I quit my old gym because we both were at the same gym with her new boyfriend (bra…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:01 PM
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Your frame is wrong. Step 1: Comeback with the new name: RedStrength Step 2: Make time to start and practice judo Step 3: Once started, the drive comes You can't have a fire without putting in the wood first.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:07 AM
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It's from The Beige Phillip Show (http://beigephillip.com/) and the principle of talking with five girls every day. To overcome fear, increase confidence and have abundance of girls that you can meet. Great podcast with Dante Nero explaining game as a former pimp and striper.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:13 AM
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The last couple of months while being around girls I've just smiled and laughed how silly and cute they are. Always going to the gym and following my daily practice is most important. The minute I deviate it falls apart. Thanks. I should practice the guitar I have.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:46 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. The girl I'm seeing is rather sweet and I've shared some dreams which probably will come back to bite me. As it takes time to realize them. With the obvious remarks of any small error that might happen. Now and them I've been thinking of dating some girls from them gym that show interest but reading the comments I would be fucking stupid to shit where I eat. It's summertime and plenty of girls to chat up in the city. Just got a number from a russian student talking with …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 09:44 PM
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Thanks for a great post. It's true how confidence builds as you keep practicing every day. Do the work of talking to girls. Developing other areas of your life. And your anxiety goes away in seconds as you take the plunge. That's how it worked for me at least. You don't need money to get girls. You need a healthy body and mind. Exercise and having a plan for financial independence helps a lot. Put the plan in action and confidence will come. Great point about music. I use it selectively sometime…
/r/seduction25/04/16 11:12 AM
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Thanks for the reminder. I really need to practice this more when I'm talking to girls. And when I'm fucking them.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:48 PM
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I know that instant gratification. Been using it much myself. Mostly because I didn't know much else, raised by single mother. And because it was comfortable. It's getting better. Great idea to build your business around the type of person you are.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:45 PM
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Great story. What have been your biggest obstacle besides procrastination? Not quite there yet myself. Given time I will be.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:17 PM
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Great Rollo! I've been meaning to reread your book. But haven't had much time to sit down with it because of other books. Bought it on audible now, to listen while commuting and working. Thanks for the great work and reminding us how girls are.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:28 AM
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Great reminder of how men are success objects, women sex objects. Don't fall in love with her.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 07:58 PM
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This is a great reminder of how a change of location, have a huge influence after you have undergone hardships. Learned by them. Then get to a new place where every one see you as you have become.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 11:57 AM
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Great post and great writing! The way we talk to ourselves is so important. I've come a long way. But still tell stories to myself that hinders me. To achieve true greatness, it's vital to improve my self talk. Lay the five bricks is such a great and simple concept from Dante Nero of the beige Phillip show. Just doing it every day will result in progress beyond dreams. Getting laid is truly a fascinating game.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 03:49 PM
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It's simple. Not easy, but simple. Approach girls between work and gym. There is plenty of time to do it. I've worked 6-3. Gone to my part time job three times a week. While going to the gym five days a week. So it's possible. Lay the five bricks Commit yourself to lay the five bricks every day. Talk to five girls. Give them a compliment. say something about their clothes. Anything. Go out once or twice every weekend and you'll do fine. Give it time, and you could sleep with four different girls…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 07:57 PM
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Thanks for writing Rollo tomassi. The red pill is bitter. I Don't know anyone that actually takes step to improve them self. Whenever I actually share any self improvement or make suggest they say no. That's not for me. It's not possible. What I really should be focusing is getting an online business going to be able to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 03:52 PM
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Great question! I have an average salary full time job. With additional income from a hobby. But it pays to little. Would have to work 15 years before I could have sustainable income from investing. What I really would like to do is start an online business to free my time from working so much. I've been interested in blogging but feels unsecure with all bullshit accusations read about here. Been thinking about afillitate marketing but haven't researched exactly how to setup it up. I have enough…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 11:23 AM
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Thank you for work! I will do one module each day to improve my game and consistently approach women every day.
/r/seduction16/02/15 08:33 AM
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Thanks. I've thought about taking a weekend trip for awhile now.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:45 PM
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Always be approaching and closing. Had a slump in november when I didn't approach for awhile and was seriously in my own head... Said "Fuck it" and approached three girls in a swift succession, results? First girl was positive to me Second girl ignored me Third girl just outside the store I left the second girl, showed her red bra and talked about a quickie five minutes after meeting her...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:43 PM
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Nice post. This year I will: Talk more sex in all aspects from opening to regular conversation and in the bed. Talk and escalate with average girls who show interest in me. Edit: Format
/r/seduction01/01/15 09:27 PM
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You have a perfect oppurtunity to learn lipreading. It's an awesome skill and I want to learn it but just for awesomeness! You learn it to become better at conversations.
/r/seduction22/11/14 01:42 PM
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Accept your flaws and be ok with them, you are taking action to make yourself better. Work on your body and pickup a martial art of your choice. Lift weight , eat more, gain muscle and gain confidence. Take up partner dancing, standup comedy or any other social gathering two times a week. Come early to classes, make time to approach women and remember it's fun to meet new women.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:53 AM
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To be at peace with myself, while making improvements and remembering past achievements. Be proud of the amazing things I've achieved and work even harder every day to make myself even better. Continue to stay away from porn while doing nofap. Create additional income and become my own boss.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:38 PM
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That's awesome! Not quite there yet, and I'm working on it.
/r/seduction05/09/14 04:55 PM
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Karezza sounds interesting. Following nofap and keeping the sexual energy is incredible, haven't tried it with sex yet. When you say make them beg for it, do you mean orgasm or just bonding/cuddling?
/r/AlreadyRed20/08/14 01:04 PM
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Nice work!
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:30 PM
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How did you go about being a leader of men? What steps do you feel was most important while getting there? What are you doing today that you didn't last year?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:40 AM
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I'm frustrated with myself because I'm not a slayer of pussy. But the change is gradually coming and moving more towards agressive cocky asshole seems to be the only way to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:28 PM
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Thanks Tony, just watched the movie and liked it a lot. Several times I laughed at his (my) struggles. I think it's hilarious that AA can make my heart beat like I'm jumping out of an airplane, and I'm just thinking of approaching and saying hello to a girl! My journey has just begun with some results, and the only way to speed up my journey is more repetition and approaching more girls. Feels abit stupid that it could take so much effort and time. But then again it takes time to find guy friend…
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:50 PM
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Shit, I almost came reading it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 08:19 PM
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Make two workout plans. One at home and one on the road. Work on your martial arts and shadow box/roll. I would suggest to learn some gymnastic skills, like handstand or anything else cool you might enjoy.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 07:53 PM
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I have been there and know what it's like. I was so sick of playing online computer games and didn't know what to do about it, but something had to change. And it did. With a lot of work and over a decade later I live a totally different life now. Force yourself to pickup one new social hobby and go practice it at least twice a week. Then add one more a month or two later. Seek a mentor or therapist to talk with, to get guidance and learn quicker than doing it yourself. Depending on where you ar…
/r/seduction09/06/14 02:23 PM
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This my goal, and I'm working on my game to achieve it. Not there yet, but with more approaches it will happen soon.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:10 PM
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Are you an introvert? Do you take the train, the bus, go to work, workout, buy grocerys, visit the library, practice a hobby outside your apartment, shop clothes? Good chance of meeting another introvert. Stop the next interesting girl you see and ask her about her day and her hobbies. If she doesn't have what you are looking for, try again with the next girl that catches your eyes. If you only do some of the above, challenge yourself to pick up one new habit every month.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:59 AM
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I try to not tell others what to do in life. But I fail when I'm listening to all the reasons they give for not improving themselves. Lead by doing and not by telling. I should shut up and live my own life.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 10:15 PM
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Begin weight lifting(or bodyweight), practice martial arts and become wiser with your money and where you spend it. Maybe pick up an extra job or change your career. And after a couple of months, you are well on your way to be good looking/richer/athletic.
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:00 PM
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Well, do something about it. Just being in the process will make you more confident that, in a few months time you will have much better health and you've done some approaches while enjoying your enriched life.
/r/seduction22/05/14 09:38 PM
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I would say many of the girls I cold approach on the street are open and happy that I did. Some ignore me, the rest like it a lot. Just a day ago I texted a girl I approached in the evening, and the first thing she says is "Hi! Really great of you to approach, nice with honest and awesome people!"
/r/seduction22/05/14 09:32 PM
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When I started nine months ago it was all about the goal. Now I'm beginning to enjoy the journey. Feels good.
/r/seduction06/05/14 07:58 PM
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Having a good father figure is really important. My father was and still is bluepill, drinking when he was home, was away a lot with work. Living with my mother, brother and sister. After the divorce, my brother suicides and I isolate myself with online computer games and porn. Got in contact with a real male, called J, I can look up to(though didn't at the time) and my life slowly started to turn around and now it's completely changed. I still resent my father for being weak and not being someo…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:55 PM
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Let her guess and amplify whatever response. If she comes back to it just tell her with confidence.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:59 PM
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Thank you. I started using a small rope (or any trinket you like) on the living room table to remind myself. And for every consistent day I sit before sleep, I tie an eight on it. I release the knots if I don't take the time to meditate, and that's ok. Because I start again next day, approaching peace with myself.
/r/seduction01/05/14 08:06 PM
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Have you taken time to just sit down and be at ease, and feel satisfied where you are now in your life? Thats some great achievements you have done, and I'm feeling you are stressing so much on your goals and not being at peace with the journey you are on.
/r/seduction01/05/14 06:01 PM
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Yeah, same with saturday morning sparring. Same people there everytime, and everone has been training for five years or more. Toughest day of the week. All of them are more experienced, taller and ten to forty kilos heavier than me. Fun stuff!
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 05:22 PM
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True. I had a surgery and my gf at the time stayed home with me. I couldn't leave the bed for two days because of the pain and it was a bother for her to help me.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 06:52 AM
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When I lead the conversation about something interesting to me, it's much easier to relax and enjoy it. As soon as I stop doing it, and they keep talking about something unintersting I feel drained and want to leave.
/r/seduction07/12/13 06:50 PM
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Upvote for a new reminder alarm.
/r/seduction07/08/13 11:07 PM
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Wt.. I was expecting an awesome approach hah! Something to remember while we are approaching and improving ourselfs. Actually a couple of months ago, I was in line at the grocerystore when a young girl had this ridiculous hot dress on her. I was thinking she had some huge balls walking around in that. And what went through her mind, how did she experience it?
/r/seduction07/08/13 11:00 PM
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