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This account is also posting as a woman getting divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 08:25 PM
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I thought this was “ex” redpill sub?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 03:13 PM
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Call ur mum.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 06:55 PM
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Absolutely, but I’m responding to the original post. (And, btw, marginalizing and derailing my answer is a great example of how NOT to treat people. It’s not the Gotcha the YouTubers led you to believe, doesn’t win you respect, and makes people dislike you.)
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 10:46 AM
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The women who are writing that are ones who have experienced it. The way that you can avoid women hating you is by treating them decently. Stay away from redpill and the negging and all of the stuff that is saying to dominate women. Women are humans. Women are looking for Kind, compassionate, equal partners. Treat women that way, and they will not hate you.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 07:40 PM
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If you don’t want to pay for everything, then don’t. State that upfront, and that will allow the women to self select. This helps you to not end up with somebody who wants you to pay for everything and you didn’t realize it.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 10:23 PM
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They both believed very strongly in duty, and that personal suffering wasn’t a reason to break obligations. They thought it made them “superior “ to other people.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:34 PM
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My parents had a very shallow relationship. They dated six weeks before they got engaged. My mother has always been very proud of herself for marrying a rich guy, but I don’t think she ever liked him. I certainly never saw them hold hands or even kiss. I know they had sex because my mother unfortunately told me that that was her wifely duty. After my father died, my mother crowed at how happy she was that he was dead. They were married more than 60 years. Like, what the actual f$ck?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 03:54 PM
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Women have different goals in dating, I do not have it easy when it comes to those goals. Women might be able to get sex more easily, but if that is not their goal, that does not do them any good.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:13 PM
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They define being happy as being the top of the heap, or the alpha male, or the head of the family. So they think they’re happy because of accomplishments. The problem is, those things are fleeting, and there’s always somebody more alpha. But, I do think that they can think that they’re happy.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 08:43 PM
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Pretty privilege has always existed, it’s just said the definition of pretty changes with time and society. This is why there’s so much advertisement for diets and working out and clothing and make up, etc. You will never make yourself so pretty, or handsome, that everybody just does what you want. That is a myth. Pretty privilege will give you a slight advantage, and some people will be more likely to talk to you or give you a little bit of a break, but it doesn’t compensate for not having a pe…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 01:01 PM
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Fair enough. Thank you for taking the time to explain that. That makes sense to me, even though I do not agree with it, I know what societal pressure feels like.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 10:51 AM
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Can you explain why being a guy makes being single different for you? (Serious question)
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 10:07 PM
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“Men only like skinny girls.”
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 11:01 AM
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Hey, you like someone and need help asking them out? Tell os the situation and we’ll help
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:03 PM
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But that’s the crux of it isn’t it? They hate women, so use whatever means to have sex with them, but not a relationship. That’s what they’re selling to their fans, is hate sex without commitment.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 12:53 PM
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Yes. It leads to trouble down the road
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 01:07 AM
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No, it’s not true, but good for you for asking. There are lots of good replies here and I’m sure that you’ve read them all. Ps: in the future, if you just want arguments to say to people, you can tell us that upfront, and we will still answer your question. The reason people are being hostile towards you is because the way you worded it sounds like you might believe it.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 08:26 PM
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It sounds like what used to be called Triangulation. Very harmful, especially when used by someone in power
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 10:20 PM
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It’s a form of manipulation. Here is some info for you to read about it https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/negging
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 10:53 AM
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Is negging you. Unless there’s something you enjoy, which it sounds like you do not, he’s not a good match for you. He’s manipulating you
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 12:58 PM
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My anecdotal experience is that guys like that can certainly get with a lot of women, but the relationships typically implode quickly and they still remain deeply unhappy because of that insecurity. I have a friend who hooks up and dates constantly but he gets extremely depressed and sometimes suicidal when he is single. It's like watching an addict go through withdrawal and its not a good look. His father is the same way and in his 50s still ends up crying at night drinking from the bottle. Wom…
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:37 PM
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No, they’re overly cautious because they’re trying to find someone long term and a lot of guys lie in order to get sex. So they’re watching for red flags to make sure the guys actually interested in her. Women get flooded because men want to have sex, and The standards for that are low. (Vajayjay= potential sex). Men get very few responses because women are looking for a long-term connection.
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:46 PM
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Happy hour near an office building. A lot of groups go out on Thursdays, but if you want someone who is more hard-core try your Wednesday. The other comments talk about how to talk to somebody older than you, and that’s all good advice.
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:45 AM
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As a woman, I approve this post. You’re not doing anything to force women or to manipulate them. You’re treating them like they’re on a date, and number three is a great way to find out if they’re sexually interested in you, and quite honestly create a little bit of sexual buzz. But you’re also being honest with yourself about how they are reacting to you and cutting your losses when it’s not gonna happen. Good for you. This is healthy and honest in my opinion.
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:53 AM
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I’d be very careful, because the strategy it recommends looks like assault under a legal lense.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:33 AM
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When this happens, might be very tempting, but think about what’s happening. This person basically communicated that they’re not into you, then when you stopped paying attention they appear to change their mind. This is not them changing their mind that they’re into you, this is them reacting to their own insecurities. You don’t want to date somebody who is not in touch enough with their own feelings because that’s going to explode later on. Now, however, if you’re just looking for short term se…
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:47 PM
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That big of a change within days? I don’t think so. Hate to burst your bubble, but hormone half life in the blood is longer than that so any changes would take longer to show. Maybe you should talk with her and ask her instead of guessing?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 08:09 PM
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I’m gonna to approach this from a different side. You said she’s in Sweden, but you don’t say where you are. But since she named her country, I’m gonna assume you’re in a different country, and therefore it would be substantial travel. If that’s the case, IMO she is texting you because it’s “safe” and she thinks that you’re going to tell her what she wants to hear. It’s safe because you are really far away, and she doesn’t actually want to do anything with anyone, but just wants validation and c…
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:12 PM
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I think that’s as nice as an honest answer to her can be. IMO you did the right thing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 10:01 PM
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Yes, he’s telling you that you have different long-term goals. He won’t change. You shouldn’t change your long-term goals either, and especially for someone else
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 01:25 PM
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It’s not bullshit, it’s a social cue
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:13 PM
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Yeah, and dads too
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:03 PM
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Some guys are just really old-fashioned and don’t want women to do that sort of thing. I mean, it’s good that he let you know that you’re incompatible in that regard.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 08:48 PM
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This would work on me
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:19 PM
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Not your fault. Be easier on yourself. ((Hugs))
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 06:56 PM
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This is so interesting! Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:23 PM
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