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I want to kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:12 AM
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I'm more on the gentle side. I grew up religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:43 AM
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Cute. Inb4 white Knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 12:54 AM
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Well what is creepy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 12:51 AM
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I don't. It reminds me that I'm only attractive to men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 12:13 AM
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Not unless the guy towers over you which I've had happen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 11:20 PM
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Again that's an obvious danger scenario. I wouldn't feel comfortable if one of my sisters were alone in the elevator with a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 11:12 PM
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but if I'm walking home late at night and see a man's shadow turn onto the sidewalk behind me, you better bet I feel an icicle of fear and size him up nervously. Duh. I'm 5'5" and rather small so this is also my reaction to a large stranger at night. This is common sense, and I don't talk to women at night or in unnerving situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 11:02 PM
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I'll PM you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 11:00 PM
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So it's safe to assume that every woman I talk to assumes that I'm attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:56 PM
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However, if I'm alone at night and I see a large group of men in an otherwise secluded area then that's when my creep radar goes off. That's more of a safety issue and I probably would advise my sisters to get themselves out of that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:24 PM
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Making him wait pretty much means holding off sex longer than you would have held ff sex for a guy who's more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:11 PM
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I think the main problem is that the red pill people think that most women will put out for the right man, so if she doesn't put out instantly then it's an insult to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:28 PM
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How did you expect him to escalate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 08:10 PM
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I can't be a beta fucks because I'm not attractive enough. Beta bux may be my only option of getting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:51 PM
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So as a beta bux the woman that is with me cannot be attracted to me? Then how can I get her in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:50 PM
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Why the focus on older women? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:43 PM
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Damn. So what can I do in the mean time, other than study hard and develop my career?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:26 PM
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So I can only become a beta bux when I'm older? Is there a proxy that I can be at 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:24 PM
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5 times sounds great. Are you counting things like lifting weights by yourself and a yoga class where you leave shortly after class too? Oh. If that's the case then maybe once or twice a week. Outside of those two activities, I have kickboxing and grappling, which I mainly do with one other friend I know. Then I occasionally hang out with a group of friends, if I'm not busy studying or otherwise. If not I don't see why getting a date would be so hard for you. You must meet and be around plenty o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 12:07 AM
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I'd probably say at least 5 times a week doing several different activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:01 PM
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In.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 10:57 PM
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It would be easier if would do drugs and drink because a mixed group of friends that parties together is the easiest way because women that are looking to get laid are probably drinking and partying themselves. Yes these women are looking to get laid, not with me. I've had a group like that before and drank upon the time. It's depressing, seeing everyone else couple up and you're left on your own. You're an extra, a disposable unit. What about tinder? It does not work if you're 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 10:17 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 10:09 PM
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What does he do for fun is he cool does he party and do drugs and go to bars and clubs does he see or snowboard somewhere does he do rock climbing does he play Ultimate Frisbee? Or is he a teetotaling nerd who sit at home and wonders why he can't meet any girls. He mostly does physical activities during his spare time, like kickboxing, grappling, yoga. No, he doesn't do drugs or parties often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:58 PM
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hey, if you want to give up and choose this train of thought, i won't stop you. if you're looking for reasons to stop trying, though, that should tell you a lot. I don't want to continue thinking like this, but I can't find any evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:55 PM
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So accept inceldom until he can move back to his country of origin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:50 PM
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Well unfortunately I can change neither my race nor my height if they are important. And my lack of self esteem would be justified if I really am not desirable, especially if the reason has to do with something outside of my control. While my social skills are not bad (anyone has has gotten to meet me personally can attest to that), it's pointless if I am not even considered as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:47 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:09 PM
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I don't even know how to find a social group that has women. Most of my hobbies aren't women hobbies except for gymming. The exception is maybe my yoga class, but I'm dangerously quiet there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:00 PM
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Where are you located at (regional differences in acceptance of non-whites) and what kind of women do you go for? What's your style/niche and what of your target audience? I'm located in Alberta, which is full of very tall girls. Seriously on campus, I'd say most girls are my height or taller (I'm 5'5"). I don't go for any women at the moment because I lack the confidence to do it. I don't really have a niche, I just drift through different social circles depending on my mood. I hang out with co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:51 PM
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Okay then, how exactly do you override this? I'm two inches taller than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:51 PM
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The most logical thing to do would be to experiment, but I'd rather not get labeled as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:25 PM
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Then what would be the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:22 PM
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Alright, well I don't know how to present myself as a sexual being. I'm too anxious to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:20 PM
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Lol @ machines. Most of my exercises involve a barbell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:12 PM
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I've already stopped doing 5x5. This is my current routine: http://imgur.com/a/CNAtb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:07 PM
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learn social skills/game. Would this guy come off as creepy if he shows sexual/romantic interest towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:03 PM
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Ded. In.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 06:54 PM
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A curious question. http://imgur.com/a/gp6EI If a guy shows sexual/romantic interest in you, what would be your reaction? Would he be creepy? He's 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 06:19 PM
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It's like air. You don't think about it until there isn't any.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:55 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:50 PM
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I don't talk to women to begin with, let alone talk to them with the intention of sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:35 PM
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I have good social skills, except when talking to women. It just all goes away. Seriously I have absolutely no problems talking to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:30 PM
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I'm definitely not off when talking to men, only to women, as many of my friends would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:26 PM
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So I should go to a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:47 PM
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5'8" is not short for a man. Real problems start for men who are 5'6" and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:44 PM
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I need to out it in my perspective of being a person at University. I'd say that an average man is close to average height, has an alright face, has at least one hobby he enjoys, a circle of friends and works a part time job while taking classes. He's also not shy of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:39 PM
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So it's normal to be 22 and a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:25 PM
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What do you recommend to low value men to solve this problem? To a lot of them, that low stakes social interaction is actually high stakes, because they are afraid that them being inferior in a way means that they have a much smaller margin for error, otherwise they're called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:05 PM
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Imagine how a girl would treat her puppy. That's exactly how some girls treat me. The "aww you're so cute!" And other things like that which make you feel like an asexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:37 PM
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I'd say, Physical: I'm 5'5", women do not find short men attractive. I have a curved, roman nose which is not attractive. I have a rather small frame as well, which is not attractive for a man. Mental: I really can't fathom a woman being sexually attracted to me. I don't know how to escalate sexually with a woman. I have low self-esteem. I am paranoid of women and think that they hate me or view me as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:36 PM
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My inceldom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:16 PM
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I feel invisible by women before even talking to them. Some women that I do talk to treat me almost like a teenager, not what they would consider a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:16 PM
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Yup. I lift heavy three days a week, yoga twice a week and I track my nutrients. I have an agenda, and keep weekly and long term goals to accomplish. None of that makes me feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 04:54 PM
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Either that or be forever alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 04:30 PM
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I don't have a problem talking with women, I just don't know how to be sexual with them. I'm too paranoid of being called a creep, because I know I'm not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 03:38 PM
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I'm not sure how I can go about doing that. Honestly everything in my life is alright, there's no reason for me to he depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:47 PM
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The point is that the SSRI kills my sex drive, that's the only reason I want to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:34 PM
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I feel actively sad and in pain, I cried often when I'm alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:39 AM
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I haven't asked out any girl. I haven't, because there are options for girls everywhere on campus that are better than I am. It seems pointless to try to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 03:13 AM
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I honestly don't even know where to start. I have tried therapy in the past, with two different therapists, but it didn't really help. One of the therapists talked to me about toxic masculinity and that helped a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 03:11 AM
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I'm not interested in leaving my home country, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:35 AM
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I'm 5'5", online dating won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 10:11 PM
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Nah, it's rare to find at a university campus, where there are a range of tall, goodlooking and smart men available.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:53 PM
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I'm rather short which is what kills everything. Yeah the meds will have long term consequences, but at the very least they numb my emotions so that I can productively get through the day. Before taking them, I felt a serious urge to kill myself, and I literally felt pain in my heart throughout the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:39 PM
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I'm short, which is mainly what makes me ugly. And it depends. It's really easy for me to talk to men and I've been described as charismatic numerous times, but with women I freeze up. Women for some reason are much less friendly than men are, or at least to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:32 PM
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I lift heavy three times a week, do yoga two times a week and take decent care of my nutrition. Trust me, I've tried almost everything up to this point to distract myself from this problem. I'm here as a last resort, at least until I can become rich and old enough to be a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:23 PM
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Yeah. You're either going to need to compensate the low smv men for a system that offers them no benefits or kill them off. I think that compensation comes in providing them lots of coping mechanisms such as porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:00 PM
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I pretend to be depressed to get a prescription so I can overdose on SSRIs. Doing this kills my sex drive and reduces my anxiety. It won't get me a date but it will at least eliminate a need for a part of my life that I just cannot fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:54 PM
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Nope. I can often tell when I can or can't escalate. It's just I don't have experience doing it and I'm afraid of the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 12:31 PM
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I've never been in any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 02:49 AM
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It doesn't, but these men would be alone otherwise. It's probably better to be in an unhappy marriage than it is to be forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 01:02 AM
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When women are independent, it means that they can select for factors such as height or physical attractiveness, putting a lot of men out of the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 12:57 AM
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That's really the big one. The other would be not being white and having a curved nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 11:26 PM
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I'm 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 10:13 PM
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A non attractive man who tries to express his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 09:47 PM
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I'm afraid of being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 09:03 PM
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How do you escalate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:48 PM
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I'm neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:58 PM
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I'm a powerlifter, and I genuinely enjoy lifting weights. The reason I chose to do that instead of bodybuilding is because I know looking jacked on a short guy is quite useless and looks like overcompensating. That being said, I look much weaker than I actually am (since most lifts build your core and legs), but don't mind it. That being said, as you stated, it's the confidence and passion, not the physique that he should be looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:57 PM
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Yeah but let's be honest, you're a rare exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:52 PM
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I'd be too anxious to even accept a girl who came onto me. I'd hate to say it but the only way I can conceive of losing my virginity is if a girl raped me in my sleep. That way my anxiety won't force me out of a sexually charged situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:27 PM
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It's a really weird coincidence, that a guy can be so thirsty and yet lack confidence to do something about it (other than fap).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:25 PM
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You're right. Male privilege is only granted to tall, broad-shouldered and goodlooking men. Other men live a life of piss and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 04:09 PM
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Old relative to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 08:27 PM
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Do I start asking out my crushes, since ts almost valentine's day?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 07:29 PM
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You just described me to a tee, lol. Now if only I could find other girls who share this type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 04:39 PM
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I'm 20. Currently I have a small crush on my yoga teacher who has to he at least 36. I don't know, maybe older than 47 can be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 04:36 PM
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I'm a guy. I don't really have a type but I would say women who are tall (even taller than me), thick and have nice, long legs easily get me a hard on. However, I have found so many types of women attractive that I wouldn't say that I have a type for anything. The only requirement I have is for a girl not to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 01:53 PM
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For done reason I only have shitty social skills with women. I've been described as charismatic in job interviews (with one interview actually getting me the job based mostly on them wanting to work with me), my guy friends also love spending time with me, but as soon as women get involved, all of that goes out of the window. I think part of it has to do with the fact that my experience tells me that women are really closed off to me talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 02:20 PM
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What about a man that struggles in even getting a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:37 PM
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He gets the woman on paper. But the woman sees him as a friend and a person to help start a family, not as a lover, not as an object of sexual desire. Maybe a man that has low libido would like this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:36 PM
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Far from it. Yet, as far as I know he also has no problems getting women to fuck him. Again, it's just weird that someone who has everything else good in his life would struggle at something that is so natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:35 PM
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The reason why many consider it bad is because the beta bucks has to spend his time and money to get sex from a woman that isn't nearly as attracted to him. Meanwhile, the alphas she dated didn't have to spend a single penny to have sex with her, because she was legitimate attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:15 PM
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As a 5'5" guy, I don't feel like a taller girl is an attack on my masculinity. Why do you think you feel that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 11:03 AM
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I was always a short dude and I'm very used to talking and crushing on girls who towered over me. I guess that carried on to my adulthood even though I am taller than plenty of women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 07:46 PM
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Probably because of the assumption that short men are likely to be insecure and paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:25 PM
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I'm a short guy here, 5'5" and damn are you right. I've never realized it before, but I'm almost repulsed by women shorter than me. It's a weird subconscious reaction. This is bad, because the only women that appear to be into me are short women, and several have made a move on me and I pushed them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 03:07 PM
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