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| 14 | Can you ever be open about your beta-past with a girl? | hclpoptart | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 06:56 AM | |
| 3 | How to salvage my frame? | hclpoptart | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 02:49 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Improving eye contactThis is gold. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel sad they've forgotten about their ex?Depression and sadness can be addicting. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 0 | How to salvage my frame?In the US. I met her pre-covid though. This girls was the 9 in the previous story you read. It was around this time that I realized my SMV was higher than I thought, if I showed a little bit of confidence. That's why I felt the need to holdout for something better with the 6, even though we had a decent connection(far from perfect though). Ideally I would like to find a girl who's a 7/8 who I click with. I guess the point of dating is really trying to gauge your SMV, and finding how high you can… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:32 AM |
| 18 | The hottest girls I’ve gone out with turned into FWB. Less attractive girls don’t want to date.In 95% of the situations where i’ve bought a girl home and it’s fallen flat with LMR etc is when the girl knew I wasn’t into her and probably sensed I’d have low/no interest afterwards. Agree with this. Earlier this year I was dating a 9 at the same time as a 6. I was chasing the 9 because she was hot and I wanted more sex from her, even though I saw no LTR value in her. The 6, I did see LTR value in, but she wasn't hot.. Anyways the 6 made me wait till date 2 for sex, but it was very much impli… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Getting over old images of selfThere was a point in this podcast I listened to yesterday where this came up, don't have time to find the timestamp. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIZ269WqQZo&ab_channel=Charlie%26BenPodcast That being said I definitely sympathize with this, and I think it's a byproduct of the people and places I surround myself with. It's very similar to the surroundings I had 10 years ago, and hence why mentally I don't think of myself as an adult. My parents/childhood friends and longtime coworkers, will … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Can you ever be open about your beta-past with a girl?Yea it seems like there is a frame where you you confidently speak about your past. However I'm far from there and I don't imagine I'd care to vent when I am. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Can you ever be open about your beta-past with a girl?Beta past doesn't necessarily imply that there's no beta left in me, hence why I'm here asking questions. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Only ever had one night stands feel like I missed out on uni. Advice on platingSo I had slept with one girl by 22 who ended up breaking my heart and sending me down the PUA rabbit hole online. 8 years later my count is around 20, and the majority has been in the past 2 years. I have always had the feeling that I fucked up my youth and missed out on so many girls. This is coming from someone who was above average physically, yet had 0 confidence in my early 20s. So looking back, I missed countless opportunities because of this. Plenty of woman showed me interest when I was … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on going through potential LTR's phone to vet?The thing is if she's talking to other guys, she won't tell you even if it's on the first date.If she isn't talking to other guys she will say the exact same thing... To be honest there are girls who don't have a rotation of guys they are talking to. In my experience these are girls who spend very little time on social media and are generally in their late 20s or older(less social media influence). A girls instagram page is a pretty good indicator of how many dudes are sliding in her dms, and if… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Usually I have no fear of rejection but this girl is a 10Fuck if I know lol. I'm still learning and shit. Also I don't think there's a universal answer here.I think the best attitude to have is it doesn't matter, because what's the worse that can happen? You have to not care about the outcome. She might think you're a creep, but who cares? How will you know if you don't try? She'll either think you're a creep, or she'll be relieved that you reached out to her because she also regretted not taking your number. When you do reach out to her, just make su… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Usually I have no fear of rejection but this girl is a 10I've been in similar situations myself, but never found the right way to approach the situation. I think in the past I've made elaborate stories up explaining why I'm reaching out to them and it never worked. I think to be honest the best thing to do is just message her as soon as you found her. I think this would be ideal ASAP, and you could simply tell her you searched her name if she asks. If anything waiting is gonna make it worse and more apparent you were creeping, thinking about her too m… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How to salvage my frame?Very true, and I can tell this girls a master at the game to the best of her ability. She's been playing me for a while, and after my deep dive on TRP it finally all clicked. The fact that I had multiple options and her below average intelligence played in my favor when I first met her. Funny enough it's the second stripper that's come home with me in the past year, and I am admittedly quite beta. I attribute this to being stoic most the time, and the fact that I feel comfortable politely hittin… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:05 AM |
| 0 | How to salvage my frame?Thanks! I did just text her and she called me back immediately asking who it was. She was drunk and said I always leave her and said she had to go before I said anything past my name. So that's where the story ends, unless I send her a pic of the next girl in my bed lol... | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How to salvage my frame?Not really trying to date her long-term, not sure if there's any difference in that though... | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:27 AM |
| -1 | How to salvage my frame?I want her back so I can have another few weeks of consistent sex, before I'm over talking to her again. I don't have other options right now(outside of trying re-initiate things with a girl I ghosted 6 months ago for this stripper and who is much less attractive) and don't see any prospective of that changing in the near future with covid. Online dating has never been kind to me. I don't see any long-term value in her and it's more of a desperation because of covid, and not oneitis. To be hones… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How to salvage my frame?Seems to be true since she didn't reach out to me this time after she ended things with the ex like she had in the past. My gut tells me it's not salvageable, which is too bad. Did learn countless TRP lessons with her though. It's funny how I went from player to beta bitch based on the amount of effort I put into seeing her and texting her. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:11 AM |
| -3 | How to salvage my frame?Figured I'd get responses like this before posting. Not really a oneitus situation, but I understand the need to generalize these types of questions. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 02:58 AM |
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