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hdjdjr3/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:52 PM
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I heavily get the impression a lot of men are okay with having sex with a fat chick They are. Men look trashold for a hookup is much much lower than the look trashold for a relationship. I am sorry for your friend but that's what happen when you date out of your league. If you don't mind me asking was she able to find a long term relationship in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:32 AM
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Not saying you are wrong but can I ask you why you think that the LMS theory is false?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:08 PM
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I don't know if you are trolling but in any case the LMS theory states that in dating the most important aspect are Looks, Money and Social status. Men care more about looks, women more about money and social status. Usually men and women with similar LMS ends up in relationship together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:04 PM
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Q4W: do you believe in the LMS theory? Why or why not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:58 PM
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I am only rich lol. Wish I was handsome though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:46 PM
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Honestly I have also seen couples in real life where the woman was leagues above the guy she was dating looks wise. But usually is either because the guy has an extremely well paid job (so he has an high M) or because he has phenomenal social skill (so he has an high S). The LMS theory is still respected in both cases. The average men can’t do that because well he is average by definition. Only a small amount of men earn lots of money and/or have phenomenal social skills and that’s what makes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:41 PM
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I don’t think it’s toxic. Because everyone should be allowed to have their own standards for what they want in a partner. For example I don’t want to date fat women. Does that make me toxic? No, it does not. And the same goes for the people who wants their partner to make more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:25 PM
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Not arrested but I have been called a creep and ugly several times. After several times that it happens you start to not care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:48 AM
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He is just going to get used for the ticket and then ghosted. Better to sell the ticket and use the money for something else. Anyway u/sentencedistinct270 keep us updated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:34 PM
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99.9% of dating gurus are just scammers who keep repeating the same thing over and over again. The women you see in the video are paid actors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:25 PM
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Sorry i think you misunderstood me: what i meant is that casual sex is dumb in general. I already don't do it as a man and would not do it if i was a woman. As for the risk part: yes women risk more than men but also men are at risk. For example men can also get STDs or be stuck paying child support for a kid they did not want. I know people (both men and women) who do casual sex just for fun and i think they are being irresponsible but I would not refuse to date a woman just because she had cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:23 PM
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I never said that I think it’s better to have casual sex if you are a man. I think it’s a dumb decision in general. You don’t know the other person: what if she is crazy, you knock her up and she wants to keep the child? You are stuck with a crazy partner and a child for the next 18+ years. As for the second question: yes, men have less risk with casual sex but it’s also way harder to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:38 PM
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As a man i don’t really care about a woman bodycount but I always wondered why there are women who sleep casually with a lot of men. Not to shame anyone but there are lot of risks with casual sex: unwanted pregnancy, STDs, physical and emotional pain… Women also say that sex with someone you have an emotional bond is way better than just casual so they would be better having sex with a bf rather than someone who they don’t know right? Maybe it’s me but if I was a woman I would never have casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:49 AM
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Or even better you don’t marry. Marriage is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:36 AM
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Poor woman she is with a douchebag. Hope she dumps him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:32 PM
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Yesterday I went on a “surprise date” (it was not supposed to be a date but other people bailed and only me and this girl showed up) with a girl met on an online group. Since we were only the two of us we ditched the original plan of going to a restaraunt and went ice skating (my idea). We both sucked at it but we had a good laugh. After ice skating we went to a bar and took a couple of drinks and chatted for another couple hours (we splitted the bill). After that I took her to her car and asked…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:31 PM
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Wait are you trolling or is this really true?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:10 PM
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I think so. I am 22
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:15 AM
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I recently saw a post from r/datingoverthirthy about a woman who complained about fuckboys. I am not defending fuckboys but she literally choose to have sex with men who did not even care about taking her to a normal date. It is weird because she knows that to these men she is only valued for sex but she keep dating them despite wanting a serious thing (mind you this is the third guy that does this to her not the first). Best thing is in the comment there were women who told her to withold sex t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:32 AM
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You have been banned for participation in a subreddit that is dedicated to either redpill, pinkpill, blackpill, incel, femcel or generally toxic content. If this was a mistake and you wish to be unbanned, please reply to this ban message. All other replies will be ignored. (The message above is from the mods of r/dating) Am i the only one who got banned from r/dating for posting on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:22 PM
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I have also friends and family members + i have dated several girls who were out of my league (not hard since I am quite ugly) Women have sex with attractive men. Women get in relationships with attractive men. Yes but: men who are handsome and can do casual sex prefer to just have sex rather than be in relationships. it's way easier to find an attractive woman with an ugly men than the opposite. For as shallow as it may sound men care way more about looks than women. Men prefer to be alone rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:19 PM
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Usually it's the opposite or at least that's my expirience. Women hookup with handsome and attractive man and have relationship with not so handsome man because they are the one who commit basically and are stable financially and emotionally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:43 PM
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You are the one who selected the partners with whom to have sex. You choose them and since you said yourself that you rejected countless man i find it hard to believe that you had sex with physichally unattractive men when you could fuck chads basically. But let's say you did, that is not the behaviour of the majority of women. Women only choose the top man to fuck. Most women have a similar bodycount while men can be divided in two groups: man who have extremely high bodycount (>100) man who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:58 PM
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I'll give you a couple of reasons since your very small ego requires me to do such and im sure you aren't used to women listening to you or caring about you at all. Did you fucking read the post? I even told you it's about THE FUCKING LMS THEORY NOT THE REDPILL The average age of marriage in the US for a woman is 28 for a woman and 31 for a man. This completely goes against RP ideology that a woman loses value as she ages. If LMS were real, the average age of a woman being married would statisti…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 01:11 PM
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Yeah, great way to avoid explain your point. Just admit you don't know how to prove it false, it will make you look better, trust me
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 06:15 AM
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Nah expirience has showed me the reality of the LMS theory. Thank you for worrying though.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 10:46 PM
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I am dead serious. He told me that to convince me to study and keep going to college. And it worked. So i guess he did a good job
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 10:39 PM
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You did not bring out any proof of why is it false. Just saying "it's a dumbass theory" without adding nothing else won't change my mind I am sorry It seems like you're pushing a narrative instead of trying to change your perspective. Why you think I have made a post if not to see why the LMS theory it's (supposedly) wrong in reality? You keep saying this and say that there are plenty of reason of it is false but the only thing you have done until now is downvoting my comments when you don't kno…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 10:10 PM
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I also moved to a western rich country, originally I am from the poorest part of Italy. In my homecountry the LMS theory is also treated as a fact and openly talked about. Like it is normal to assume that rich and powerful men are going after attractive and young women and viceversa.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 09:29 PM
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Exactly. I have never seen a couple with a different LMS. It's always on the same level
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:58 PM
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But why you consider it dumb? This is why i made the post in the first place. The LMS thory It's a way to explain people behaviour when it comes to dating. To me it has helped a lot: it made me less egocentrical and made me understand that if i want a good partner i have to become the better version possible of myself So I am genuinely curious: why you find the theory wrong?
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:37 PM
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Nah, i simply know what I m looking for
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:53 PM
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It is important instead. I would not want to have a family with someone who still rely on his (or her) parents and who does not work nor study Being good looking is important for sexual attraction. Status makes it easier to meet people and potential love interest
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:45 PM
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Answer me this: would you date someone who still lives with his parents and who is ugly? Someone who is way below you both look and money wise. Only thing about them is that they are a good and genuine guy Meeting people through friends just confirm that you date people with similar LMS to yours, even if you don't specifically look for them. People in a social circle usually have similar LMS.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:41 PM
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The money and look parts are already covered in the theory. Looks, money and status are all related to each other. There are many studies that show how good looking people end up usually working higher paying job, and have a higher status (again halo effect) And power (as a concept) is mostly subjective. Which part of power is subjective? I have seen ugly powerful people ending in relationship with way more attractive people because they are powerful. My boss is a multi millionarie, so powerful …
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:16 PM
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I was being sarcastic man. I don't really expect you to stop random people on the street and ask them their salary and social status lmao. I tell you the LMS theory is real. Just look at the people you know personally. How many of them do honestly think have way different LMS values? In my life I have never seen a couple where the two had way different LMS.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:59 PM
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I could write an essay explaining to you why you are wrong but i will limit myself to say this: go outside and see how many people have similar LMS value. It's almost impossible to find couples with different LMS value
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:07 PM
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When I put all that bullshit behind me and found better, more genuine people to hang out with Those are friends, not romantic partners. You (and every woman) have standards when looking for a partner. (Assuming you are an average woman) you probably want a man who has his own place, takes care of his own body, has friends... and so on This is what the LMS theory is about: a man who is broke, ugly and lives with his parents (has 0 in L and 0 in M basically) is not attractive to you for obvious re…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:05 PM
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Good points but i disagree on some of them Status, however, is mostly subjective (besides the cases where it's directly tied to money or power). I partially disagree on this. I think status is always linked to money, power and looks. Have you ever heard of the halo effect? Basically it explain that for good looking people it's easier to get stuff: a good job, friends... and so on. This is because people think they are important (good status) than what they are really. The more power you have the…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 05:53 PM
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LMS is what attract a woman (or man) at first. How you treat her ( or him) is what make or break a relationship. Seem like we agree lol
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 05:00 PM
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Two things: Have you ever heard of casual sex? You don't need to be polyamorous to want to try and have casual sex. If you are rich and have more friends you can aim for better women with whom to have LTR. I though this was obvious but apparently not
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:14 PM
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Yes? And? Lmao i don't understand your point at all
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:10 PM
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What this has to do with the LMS theory? Anyway no, i am monogamous
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:08 PM
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Yes, noone said it's impossible to get friends when you are poor lol. I only said that it's just easier to have friends and women when you are rich
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:07 PM
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Ironically enough my ex psychologist was also in favor of the LMS theory. I went to him when i broke up with my ex and he basically convinced me to continue studying by saying that it's way easier to get friends and girls once you are rich. Basically what the LMS say even if he did not call it that. He is the reason why I have not dropped out of college.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:04 PM
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I think you misunderstood op. Op wanted to ask more why some women are more open to try new things or in general do various things when dating casually (such as anal sex, threesome... you get the point) that they don't want to do when in a relationship. And my guess is because of insecurity. I was dating a girl like that recently. She was hypersexual but (at least according to her) her being hypersexual was linked to her low self esteem. Basically her trying new things was linked to fear of want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:17 PM
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Out of curiosity: why you feel bad for the boyfriend? He basically get what he wants from the relationship. The only reason he is nothing more than a fuckbuddy is because that's what he wants to be. I'm 100% sure that if he wanted a relationship Op would happily divorce her husband. By the way if i was the husband i would do a paternity test for the kid...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:49 AM
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But you said that having sex with your husband is a chore while having sex with your boyfriend makes you happy? Can't you just admit that you don't like your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:44 AM
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You have not seen her tinder profile man. She is taking close picture because she is obese and does not want to show her body. 5 is average and she is far below that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/23 12:09 PM
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