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hdjdjr3/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 03:52 PM
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I heavily get the impression a lot of men are okay with having sex with a fat chick They are. Men look trashold for a hookup is much much lower than the look trashold for a relationship. I am sorry for your friend but that's what happen when you date out of your league. If you don't mind me asking was she able to find a long term relationship in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:32 AM
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She is 22 and a single mom to a 4 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:26 PM
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Post This is dual rating strategy at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:20 PM
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Apart from a small minority most of us men go outside and see that single moms and 30+ years old women date without problems. The only women who are forever alone are the one who wants men who are above their leagues and discard men who are in their own league
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:03 AM
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Unpopular opinion: you should never ask for dating advice on how to date from the other sex. You should find someone who is good at dating and who is of your own sex and ask him/her for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:05 PM
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Not saying you are wrong but can I ask you why you think that the LMS theory is false?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:08 PM
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I don't know if you are trolling but in any case the LMS theory states that in dating the most important aspect are Looks, Money and Social status. Men care more about looks, women more about money and social status. Usually men and women with similar LMS ends up in relationship together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:04 PM
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Q4W: do you believe in the LMS theory? Why or why not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:58 PM
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I am only rich lol. Wish I was handsome though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:46 PM
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Honestly I have also seen couples in real life where the woman was leagues above the guy she was dating looks wise. But usually is either because the guy has an extremely well paid job (so he has an high M) or because he has phenomenal social skill (so he has an high S). The LMS theory is still respected in both cases. The average men can’t do that because well he is average by definition. Only a small amount of men earn lots of money and/or have phenomenal social skills and that’s what makes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:41 PM
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I don’t think it’s toxic. Because everyone should be allowed to have their own standards for what they want in a partner. For example I don’t want to date fat women. Does that make me toxic? No, it does not. And the same goes for the people who wants their partner to make more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:25 PM
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Not arrested but I have been called a creep and ugly several times. After several times that it happens you start to not care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:48 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_the_United_States#:~:text=Over%2070%20million%20adults%20in,%2Dadjusted%20rate%20of%2041.1%25. Here the link to the Wikipedia page
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:26 AM
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Nope, Americans obesity rate is just a bit higher at 39.6% (obese women are 41.1% source Wikipedia). Anyway my point still stand: working out won’t be the solution to all of your problems but it can help making you are average if you are below. Also let’s be honest if you work out and cold approach you are already doing more than most dudes out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:22 AM
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Never been in a relationships but all my friends who are or have been in one say that is true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:15 AM
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37.9% of all male Americans are obese. You can be already average just by being slim and above average if you train and get jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:11 AM
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Working
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:22 AM
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Don’t complain when she dumps you man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:52 PM
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Question for women: would you date a man shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:38 PM
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Also people who have high n-counts are not really responsible. Not to shame anyone but there are a lot of risks involving causal sex (unwanted pregnancy, physical and emotional pain,STDs…) that makes it not worth it at least in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:25 PM
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He is just going to get used for the ticket and then ghosted. Better to sell the ticket and use the money for something else. Anyway u/sentencedistinct270 keep us updated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:34 PM
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99.9% of dating gurus are just scammers who keep repeating the same thing over and over again. The women you see in the video are paid actors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:25 PM
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Sorry i think you misunderstood me: what i meant is that casual sex is dumb in general. I already don't do it as a man and would not do it if i was a woman. As for the risk part: yes women risk more than men but also men are at risk. For example men can also get STDs or be stuck paying child support for a kid they did not want. I know people (both men and women) who do casual sex just for fun and i think they are being irresponsible but I would not refuse to date a woman just because she had cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:23 PM
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I never said that I think it’s better to have casual sex if you are a man. I think it’s a dumb decision in general. You don’t know the other person: what if she is crazy, you knock her up and she wants to keep the child? You are stuck with a crazy partner and a child for the next 18+ years. As for the second question: yes, men have less risk with casual sex but it’s also way harder to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:38 PM
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As a man i don’t really care about a woman bodycount but I always wondered why there are women who sleep casually with a lot of men. Not to shame anyone but there are lot of risks with casual sex: unwanted pregnancy, STDs, physical and emotional pain… Women also say that sex with someone you have an emotional bond is way better than just casual so they would be better having sex with a bf rather than someone who they don’t know right? Maybe it’s me but if I was a woman I would never have casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:49 AM
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Or even better you don’t marry. Marriage is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:36 AM
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Poor woman she is with a douchebag. Hope she dumps him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:32 PM
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Yesterday I went on a “surprise date” (it was not supposed to be a date but other people bailed and only me and this girl showed up) with a girl met on an online group. Since we were only the two of us we ditched the original plan of going to a restaraunt and went ice skating (my idea). We both sucked at it but we had a good laugh. After ice skating we went to a bar and took a couple of drinks and chatted for another couple hours (we splitted the bill). After that I took her to her car and asked…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:31 PM
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Wait are you trolling or is this really true?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:10 PM
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I have stalked a bit her profile out of curiosity and she is the stereotypical feminist: white, fat, huge bodycount, poor (30+ years old and still has roommates)… could continue but I think you got the point. If her male equivalent posted asking for advice on how to get a gf people would laugh at him and tell him that women would never want to date someone in his condition. And the same thing is true for her: men with options will never consider her as relationship material. As you indirectly sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:32 PM
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Most of them claim that their boyfriends are in shape and succesfull so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:13 AM
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Yes we agree. I just find it weird that many women here have top boyfriends. we can both agree that men Who are tall and in shape for example are wanted buy the majority of women so they can be more picky when they choose a partner. Same thing can be said for doctor or engineers: they are more desired than the average Joe so they can be more picky. The fact that many of these men apparently choose to date women of PPD is interesting. I wonder if there is some correlation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:57 PM
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To be honest i like the advice this place give. Here women are brutally honest and that’s a huge plus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:29 PM
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I don’t know but if what you said is true then it’s pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:22 PM
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So you say they are larping?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:21 PM
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You did not get my point. What i mean is: every woman boyfriend here has a LMS that put him in the top 20%. Assumine all women are saying the truth: are all women here attrattive to also be in the top 20%? Or is it for another reason? And before someone ask : no i don’t believe in hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:19 PM
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There are far more succesfull people here than Forever alone. I see men brag about having multiple sexual partners while an average dude is lucky if he has a girl that likes him As for women top 20% is not referred to only height but also to for example how much they earn or how fit they are. A lot of the times the boyfriends appear to be in the top 20%. Maybe there is no correlation but it is an interesting phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:06 PM
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Men like you for example. I am referring to the top 1% of men who fuck more than the other 99%. I am not saying that people here are lying (don’t have proof to say that) but if this is true than there must be some sort of correlation between being succesfull and commenting on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:47 PM
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I have noticed that a huge chunk of men on here have (or at least claim to have) a lot of expirience with women and dating in general. Even some women here have (or claim to have) boyfriends who are in the top 20% Do you guys think that there is some weird correlation between being succesfull at dating and commenting on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:35 PM
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Wait with “faithful” you mean that they only fuck you? You have an harem man. Do these women know you are fucking other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:24 PM
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Out of curiosity: how old are you? And at what age did you start being really succesfull in dating? Also the definition of an harem is 3 or more girls Who share a man and don’t have sex with others. Anyway congrats men, even if you don’t have an harem you fuck more women than like 99% of men in the usa (average bodycount of a man in the us is like 4). Do you have and tips for men who struggle and can’t even get a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:45 PM
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I think so. I am 22
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:15 AM
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I recently saw a post from r/datingoverthirthy about a woman who complained about fuckboys. I am not defending fuckboys but she literally choose to have sex with men who did not even care about taking her to a normal date. It is weird because she knows that to these men she is only valued for sex but she keep dating them despite wanting a serious thing (mind you this is the third guy that does this to her not the first). Best thing is in the comment there were women who told her to withold sex t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:32 AM
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You have been banned for participation in a subreddit that is dedicated to either redpill, pinkpill, blackpill, incel, femcel or generally toxic content. If this was a mistake and you wish to be unbanned, please reply to this ban message. All other replies will be ignored. (The message above is from the mods of r/dating) Am i the only one who got banned from r/dating for posting on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:22 PM
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That sucks but I wouldn't really consider it ghosting at this point, it's been less than a day hasn't it? Yes less than a day. I sent it 20 hours ago She could just be busy or forgot I don't want to sound rude but sending a "sorry I am busy today" takes literally 5 seconds. If she forgot about me then it means that she just involutarily ghosted me and that she just does not care enough. Either way she does not want a relationship so i guess i have to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:39 PM
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What does ghosted mean in your situation? Left me on read yesterday. Her last access is 30 minutes ago so I am pretty sure she ghosted me. Did you send multiple unanswered messages over the past week? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:15 PM
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Maybe you are right but before seeing each other we did 2 hours long call daily so that's why i texted her yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:57 PM
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Update : She ghosted me. I followed the advice of a user and i wrote her that night sending her a funny meme and she replied with a "sorry i am doing something now, i will answer you later". I was like "ok don't worry" After that she responded me half an hour later with a sticker. We sent more or less 20 messages and then she ghosted me. Probably dumb to say for someone who I have known for just a week but i really clicked well with her (and though she felt the same). Hope that now she can find …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:34 PM
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I would not use it honestly. I want a relationship because i want to feel loved not because i want to fuck I am a 22 year old virgin, I am an expert in waiting for sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:09 PM
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Oh but i do get dates. And i am ugly. Get 0 match on OLD and got rated as a 3.5-4 online I think the reason why women say no to relationships with me it's more because of my boring personality rather than my looks. After all they went already on dates with me so i guess they don't have problems with my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:58 PM
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I am not understanding you. What have you said that i have confirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:49 PM
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Well, are you able to even get a date? Yes, i get like one on average every other week. My experience is vastly different than yours. Yes, it's the literal opposite lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:40 PM
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No. Lots of handsome men are looking for relationships over casual sex. I am just speaking from personal expirience but that's really what i have seen in my life. The most attractive guy in my office could have a gf in a week if he really wanted to but prefer to bang different girls every week. He is just one but i have seen multiple attractive men behave like that. I'm beginning to think y'all think every man is ugly. I generally consider ugly 1 man out of 5. Women don't get into relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:35 PM
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I have also friends and family members + i have dated several girls who were out of my league (not hard since I am quite ugly) Women have sex with attractive men. Women get in relationships with attractive men. Yes but: men who are handsome and can do casual sex prefer to just have sex rather than be in relationships. it's way easier to find an attractive woman with an ugly men than the opposite. For as shallow as it may sound men care way more about looks than women. Men prefer to be alone rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:19 PM
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Usually it's the opposite or at least that's my expirience. Women hookup with handsome and attractive man and have relationship with not so handsome man because they are the one who commit basically and are stable financially and emotionally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:43 PM
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You are the one who selected the partners with whom to have sex. You choose them and since you said yourself that you rejected countless man i find it hard to believe that you had sex with physichally unattractive men when you could fuck chads basically. But let's say you did, that is not the behaviour of the majority of women. Women only choose the top man to fuck. Most women have a similar bodycount while men can be divided in two groups: man who have extremely high bodycount (>100) man who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:58 PM
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Okay but even after 3 months? I think men who would just want sex would have left way before that. Also this does not change the fact that she still had a double standard with me: her ex partners did not have to be in a relationship with her. I even asked people on here and everyone told me she just wanted to use me for money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:17 PM
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Used by who exactly? I told her that i wanted a serious relationship, she also knew that because i told her that on the first date. It just does not make sense the fact that she was okay with hooking up with guys she barely knew but with me (the guy who she considered her soulmate) she wanted to wait until exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:59 PM
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You don't understand: she used to have sex before but now wanted a relationship with me. Like she did not ask for exclusivity to her ex FWB but she did with me. It's her body and her choice but still i feel like there is a huge double standard. And that's the reason why i dumped her. Assuming what she said is true (she said that she liked me more) why wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:42 PM
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But why? I had a woman like that in the past She had plenty of sex but wanted to wait with me until we were in a relationship. I have nothing wrong with her having sex before me (she even had a FWB that she dropped only after out first date) but i hated the fact that she had a double standard with me. Tried to ask her about it multiple times and her answer were always something along the line of "because i like you more than others". This went on for 3 months. I never understood her logic but ul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:02 PM
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Almost 2 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:25 PM
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I have met her online and she suffer from depression and anxiety (diagnosed by her and not professionals) I'd suggest asking for a second date to get your answer. When i should text her? Tonight? Or tomorrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:32 PM
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But why was she showing you that? Basically this is how it went: i told her that one the reason i hate the dating apps it' because women on there tend to ghost a lot. She agreed and said that women also ghosted her a lot (she is pansexual) and that men don't ghost. Then she showed me the phone and said that every right swipe is a match for her and did 4 swipes. All of them matched and all them texted her while she was with me. She replied to one and said that usually guys don't ghost but they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:30 PM
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It seems like you are more invested. I don't know if I am more invested but I can't understand her behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:58 PM
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She was not proving it's easy to find weirdos on the app, just that it's easy to get matches for a woman on tinder. She even showed that men after getting matched instantly messaged her. That is what made me weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:57 PM
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I’m guessing this was a first date? Yep I would say you went to strong too soon, don’t hold hands it’s childish and something only loved up couples do, an arm over the chair would have been fine. To be fair i did that and noticed that she did not say anything so i tried to escalate and hold her hands What did you guys talk about? More or less everything. We talked about stuff we want to do in the future (movie marathon, ice skating and training together). She talked about her sexuality, her depr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:44 PM
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Why? Genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:36 PM
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So you would not text her? I was thinking of sending her a meme or something like that and see what she does and how she replies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:28 PM
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So what I should do to understand if she is into me? I am okay with also just being friends but would like something more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:26 PM
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Happy birthday🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:20 PM
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You went out with a cute girl you met recently. You and her spend time together and have fun and the date last for more or less 3 and a half hours. The talk is fun and you both have a great time. She asks for why you are doing online dating and you say because you are looking for a serious relationship. You ask the same question to her and she replies that she is just looking for friends but believe that "love just happen" (literally said that) After that you hold her hand briefly (she said noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:19 PM
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I'll give you a couple of reasons since your very small ego requires me to do such and im sure you aren't used to women listening to you or caring about you at all. Did you fucking read the post? I even told you it's about THE FUCKING LMS THEORY NOT THE REDPILL The average age of marriage in the US for a woman is 28 for a woman and 31 for a man. This completely goes against RP ideology that a woman loses value as she ages. If LMS were real, the average age of a woman being married would statisti…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 01:11 PM
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Yeah, great way to avoid explain your point. Just admit you don't know how to prove it false, it will make you look better, trust me
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 06:15 AM
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The fact that you had to go through my post history to look for a comeback show again that you don't know how to reply. We are talking about the LMS thepry not the relationship between me and my brother. You can't even read damn Please try again lol
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 05:59 AM
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Nah expirience has showed me the reality of the LMS theory. Thank you for worrying though.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 10:46 PM
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I am dead serious. He told me that to convince me to study and keep going to college. And it worked. So i guess he did a good job
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 10:39 PM
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You did not bring out any proof of why is it false. Just saying "it's a dumbass theory" without adding nothing else won't change my mind I am sorry It seems like you're pushing a narrative instead of trying to change your perspective. Why you think I have made a post if not to see why the LMS theory it's (supposedly) wrong in reality? You keep saying this and say that there are plenty of reason of it is false but the only thing you have done until now is downvoting my comments when you don't kno…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 10:10 PM
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I also moved to a western rich country, originally I am from the poorest part of Italy. In my homecountry the LMS theory is also treated as a fact and openly talked about. Like it is normal to assume that rich and powerful men are going after attractive and young women and viceversa.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 09:29 PM
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Exactly. I have never seen a couple with a different LMS. It's always on the same level
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:58 PM
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But why you consider it dumb? This is why i made the post in the first place. The LMS thory It's a way to explain people behaviour when it comes to dating. To me it has helped a lot: it made me less egocentrical and made me understand that if i want a good partner i have to become the better version possible of myself So I am genuinely curious: why you find the theory wrong?
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:37 PM
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Nah, i simply know what I m looking for
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:53 PM
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It is important instead. I would not want to have a family with someone who still rely on his (or her) parents and who does not work nor study Being good looking is important for sexual attraction. Status makes it easier to meet people and potential love interest
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:45 PM
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Answer me this: would you date someone who still lives with his parents and who is ugly? Someone who is way below you both look and money wise. Only thing about them is that they are a good and genuine guy Meeting people through friends just confirm that you date people with similar LMS to yours, even if you don't specifically look for them. People in a social circle usually have similar LMS.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:41 PM
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The money and look parts are already covered in the theory. Looks, money and status are all related to each other. There are many studies that show how good looking people end up usually working higher paying job, and have a higher status (again halo effect) And power (as a concept) is mostly subjective. Which part of power is subjective? I have seen ugly powerful people ending in relationship with way more attractive people because they are powerful. My boss is a multi millionarie, so powerful …
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 07:16 PM
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I was being sarcastic man. I don't really expect you to stop random people on the street and ask them their salary and social status lmao. I tell you the LMS theory is real. Just look at the people you know personally. How many of them do honestly think have way different LMS values? In my life I have never seen a couple where the two had way different LMS.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:59 PM
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Since you don't know how to answer me yes, i m right and you are wrong. Sorry for that buddy
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:34 PM
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I could write an essay explaining to you why you are wrong but i will limit myself to say this: go outside and see how many people have similar LMS value. It's almost impossible to find couples with different LMS value
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:07 PM
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When I put all that bullshit behind me and found better, more genuine people to hang out with Those are friends, not romantic partners. You (and every woman) have standards when looking for a partner. (Assuming you are an average woman) you probably want a man who has his own place, takes care of his own body, has friends... and so on This is what the LMS theory is about: a man who is broke, ugly and lives with his parents (has 0 in L and 0 in M basically) is not attractive to you for obvious re…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:05 PM
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Good points but i disagree on some of them Status, however, is mostly subjective (besides the cases where it's directly tied to money or power). I partially disagree on this. I think status is always linked to money, power and looks. Have you ever heard of the halo effect? Basically it explain that for good looking people it's easier to get stuff: a good job, friends... and so on. This is because people think they are important (good status) than what they are really. The more power you have the…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 05:53 PM
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LMS is what attract a woman (or man) at first. How you treat her ( or him) is what make or break a relationship. Seem like we agree lol
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 05:00 PM
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Why is it strange exactly? It's just an easy explanation to a complex problem that is understanding the dating world. I think you can't understand how complex and toxic it has become because you have been out of this shit for 9 years. Understanding the LMS theory helps you improve and becoming a better version of yourself that others (be' it man or women) want to date (or at least has personally helped me). I am still single but at least now thanks to the LMS theory I am finally able to get date…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:56 PM
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If you believe the number in your bank account is the most important thing in your life, Find me where i have said this. People who are poor can get a partner (it's the LMS theory not the M theory lol), it just means you have to rely more on your looks and social status. That's it
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:35 PM
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A woman who is attractive, childless, takes care of herself, is educated... i think you have got the point lol A woman like that is never going to look at a man who is broke and ugly. Just like an attractive and succesful man is never going to even look at a woman who is broke, ugly and a single mom of 3 kids. And i think that we can both agree that having money helps in your dating life, right?
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:23 PM
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Two things: Have you ever heard of casual sex? You don't need to be polyamorous to want to try and have casual sex. If you are rich and have more friends you can aim for better women with whom to have LTR. I though this was obvious but apparently not
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:14 PM
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Yes? And? Lmao i don't understand your point at all
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:10 PM
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What this has to do with the LMS theory? Anyway no, i am monogamous
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:08 PM
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Yes, noone said it's impossible to get friends when you are poor lol. I only said that it's just easier to have friends and women when you are rich
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:07 PM
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Ironically enough my ex psychologist was also in favor of the LMS theory. I went to him when i broke up with my ex and he basically convinced me to continue studying by saying that it's way easier to get friends and girls once you are rich. Basically what the LMS say even if he did not call it that. He is the reason why I have not dropped out of college.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 04:04 PM
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Hi, question for women: Let's assume you are on a train and a guy approach you. You and him talk for like 30 minutes and at the end he asks you for your ig. You accept and give it to him But then you don't exchange follow. Does that mean you are not interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:40 AM
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I think you misunderstood op. Op wanted to ask more why some women are more open to try new things or in general do various things when dating casually (such as anal sex, threesome... you get the point) that they don't want to do when in a relationship. And my guess is because of insecurity. I was dating a girl like that recently. She was hypersexual but (at least according to her) her being hypersexual was linked to her low self esteem. Basically her trying new things was linked to fear of want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:17 PM
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There is such a thing as learning from your mistakes. I don't think so. She used to fuck her FWB until she met me. Then she stopped. If what you said is true and "she has learned from her mistakes" then why she only stopped fucking other men only after meeting me? I know her and I don't think she consider her fucking other men without commitment mistakes. Tbh if you're not that into her then it's better to leave before you have sex. That's if you want to be morally sound and care about her. She'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:37 AM
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This could mean anything. If you're messaging, having sex with or dating other people and she isn't, then what she's doing is understandable. Yes I am dating another woman other than her. She told me that she is not using them and i honestly believe her because why she should lie in the first place? We are not exclusive she recognises that sex would deepen her emotional commitment to you and she's stopping herself. Plenty of chicks go crazy if you dump them after you've had sex. Sorry but this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:04 AM
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If you're dating other people or having sex with other people then she's right with what she's doing I have dating apps installed and she knows. She also has dating apps on her phone but she does not use them. what are you waiting for? It's the double standard. I feel like she is using sex as a way to manipulate me into having a relationship with her. And I don't think i can be' in a relationship with someone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:35 AM
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Waiting how long? We have been dating 3 months now. She wants to wait until i make her my gf And how much is sex important to you? I would be fine waiting honestly, it's just that i feel like it's a slap in the face that i have to wait while another dude (her ex FWB) got everything for free. She says "it's different" but i fail to see where it's different exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:41 AM
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I need an opinion from men: If a girl you were dating told you indirectly that the reason she is waiting until exclusivity to have sex with you is because you are relationship material in her eyes. Would you keep dating her? Or would you dump her? (The girl in question had casual sex before you. She stopped only after meeting you)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:35 AM
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Out of curiosity: why you feel bad for the boyfriend? He basically get what he wants from the relationship. The only reason he is nothing more than a fuckbuddy is because that's what he wants to be. I'm 100% sure that if he wanted a relationship Op would happily divorce her husband. By the way if i was the husband i would do a paternity test for the kid...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:49 AM
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But you said that having sex with your husband is a chore while having sex with your boyfriend makes you happy? Can't you just admit that you don't like your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:44 AM
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You have not seen her tinder profile man. She is taking close picture because she is obese and does not want to show her body. 5 is average and she is far below that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/23 12:09 PM
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