headedtothetrashbag Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How bad is it being a tall girl romantically? Insecure people that base their value on their height (or any physical attribute) are loath to want to be seen with a partner that reminds them of their shortcomings. A person who is secure in themselves isn’t bothered by the height difference. Most people are insecure and unwilling to work on themselves, so they blame others for their problems as an attempt to absolve themselves of responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 03:28 AM
2	Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly? I had a few fwb that were college aged while I was in my thirties. Routine weekly hookups just for fun. I asked the one girl why me, and she said it was easier. I was stable and not looking for a girlfriend, I wasn’t possessive and encouraged her to explore whatever she wanted. I was fit and athletic at the time, I liked to laugh and just be relaxed. I always made it clear that she had a choice in what we did or didn’t do with our time together and that I would respect her boundaries. She eventu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 01:07 AM
1	Is having platonic female friends as a man a good or a bad thing for dating? I found having a platonic female roommate increased my hookup success rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 02:11 PM
2	Wouldn’t an alpha “shit where he eats” if he truly DGAF? I’ve actually used this phrase to describe my interactions with women in more places than just work. Specifically the Brazilian Jiujitsu school I train at. When I was single, I avoided dating women at the school because I had seen enough jiujitsu couples breakup and then watched the women date the friends and teammates of their ex, to spectacular fallout and loss of teammates. I like my school and instructors, there was no way I risk that on getting laid when I could find that elsewhere as neede…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 10:37 PM
2	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? Awe, you’ve been sucked into the victim mentality too. Oh woah is me, oh if only I had been born under the fateful Chad stars, I could have been somebody. As I said there are advantages and disadvantages in life and we don’t get to pick what we are born with. There will always be someone who has better/worse than you do. What is your sage wisdom? To roll over and die, to never try to be more, because it’s all futile, some of us are just born to be beta bucks? Well I can how that attitude brings …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 10:46 AM
2	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? Thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 02:38 AM
3	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? Perhaps it is a personal bias, I’ll grant you that. But it’s my experience as an American that my family of origin was fucked up and many young men in America can say the same. Growing up in neglectful single parent households can have a significant mental health impacts, I suggest therapy because that is what worked for me. There are many paths to mental well-being and we should all be self-aware and reflective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 02:35 AM
1	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? No, not at all. My statement is that a man who makes this his goal, will have his choice of quality partners. What do I care of the whims and wants of common women. I do not allow my life to be decided by others. I pursue greatness for my own selfish ambitions. If you want the luxury of choice, you must be willing to master your own demons and rise above the mundane. If your goal is to just to fuck a string of single moms, that’s a very low bar to climb over my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 02:21 AM
5	Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? In my limited experience, many women find it off putting to have to explain what they want or are attracted to, especially in person directly. Even if a woman explained in explicit detail everything a man would need to do to be attractive to her and he somehow managed to “fix” himself to that particular woman’s taste, she would still not be attracted to him. Why? Because he wasn’t being authentic, he only became that to gain her affection. He would still be a needy, insecure people pleaser. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 12:33 AM