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| 1 | The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling”hahaha....eventually you just have to realize that we're all carrying different brains and some people want to fight a battle that you thought was a communication around discourse. And they're not losing that battle. It's very important to them, because they spoke it into existence. This was a fun read though, thanks guise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Ugly - hot peopleAfter frequenting several sex/ dating subs, turns out 'attracted to x' and 'want to have sex with x' are interchangeable (at least on reddit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Ugly - hot peopleThat SMV has strong social pull sometimes it seems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 04:50 PM |
| -2 | What do you consider to be "realistic standards" for your gender?Yeah..I don't get being interested in other people. Friends especially. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringYou also have to have self-awareness. I had chicks throwing themselves at me in by 2000's band and I was usually oblivious or too nervous to engage because of my lack of social self esteem. I hate how I always used to be an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringI have to go with the data here, and unless I am misinterpreting it, figure 1 - E1 in this studies supplemental material shows that half of men age 44 and under had one sexual partner in the study period, where 3/4 of women had one sexual partner. The study also reports that men under 33, and especially under 24, experienced the inverse. Women have sex more frequently with more partners than men, with over a third of men under 24 having no sex. So it looks like this proposal might apply, but onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | “I can’t be open because they will use it against me” is a common thing I hear men say, but not women as much — why?It's wanting, I don't know why I do these annoyingly pretentious half-truth sad jokes. I'm massively generalizing for effect... or to perhaps make my opinion more digestible without self awareness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | “I can’t be open because they will use it against me” is a common thing I hear men say, but not women as much — why?Because women know that saying this can ALSO be used against them. Women are mostly more socially astute animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Well then...you can't join my club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.What I'm trying to say is:. I don't understand how you arrive at these conclusions. What you present as an explanation isn't logically comprehensible. There are fallacies in what you're saying... So I'm not arriving at your conclusions necessarily. Which means detached from the emotion that you've assigned it, your perception or assessment won't necessarily make sense to another person (like me). Connecting with another person and getting them to understand and agree with the reality you are exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:31 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hope I have a downvoting stalker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.tu quoque, hasty generalizations, assumptions abound | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hope my new neighbor is under 40 and cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveJust FYI--the Rugby player in that pic is juiced (steroids and/ or TRT). So your preferred body type is 'guys on supplements.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapI don't disagree that effort is required to be desirable, but I also feel the need to point out that: -genetics -most people whole are rich inherited it/ got it from a divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor?We would then be eliminating a large chunk of the available dating pool. To each her own, I guess. But I think the argument against video games is that society has deemed them childish and unpopular among adults... Which is discredited by this statistic that gaming is one of the most popular hobbies amongst people ages 16 to 65. So you'd have to do some pretty trippy logical hopscotch to arrive at the conclusion that this needs to be on the list OP presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Men would make the exact same decisions they shame women forThis sub is 99% logical fallacies. Men are/ women are/ everybody knows what would happen. Blah. Still subbed, but most of these posts are wrecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships.I predict that this is going to be one of those comment exchanges that do nothing for either of us. You said, "Humility and empathy have nothing to do with level of sexiness." I'm interpreting that as 'one can be humble and empathetic with or without being appealing (or the inverse).' Is that what you mean? Because you reply with, "Nobody wants a man less than loving and empathetic." Do you mean 'a man who isn't loving/ empathetic isn't desireable, aka sexy?' Because those two reponses are the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships.I'll bet you don't know what 'anecdotes' are. They're almost antithetical to the scientific method. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships.I'll bet you can't successfully argue this without anecdotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships.Red flags are actually a huge red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor?Anyone who thinks the third most popular hobby in 2021 is a red flag is a basic bitch who can fuck herself, literally and figuratively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Men are not responsible for women's orgasm (Read text)Are you talking about people in relationships? OP is talking about casual sex. How will getting better at fucking make you get more sex in casual situations? Are you implying that word of your sexual abilities will get around and the local casual sex crowd will flock to you? Or am I missing something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?I'm asking why it's rude. Isn't that the point of casual sex with someone you just met an hour or two earlier? No emotions/ expectations/ responsibilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?Judging from the American accent, I'm going to say 'no' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?You mean anecdotes don't always extrapolate to reflect reality on a macro scale? surprised pikachu face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?I was going to upvote, but the typo-to-text ratio... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Women are the "wild" gender nowMy bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?Comments are shown in a tree below the comment they're replying to. 'This comment' is the comment being replied to. 'Reactionary' can be googled. C for effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?daddy, chill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?This comment is pretty reactionary. I assume she's stating the obvious because it's not obvious to some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Europeans on this subreddit. What do you think about American dating culture?If you carefully work backwards through the indentations of the replies here, you'll see that your comments aren't addressing who they're replying to. Or you've created enemies by assuming things that weren't implied in order to defend/ fight/ call them out. Or you actually think that these folks are talking about having a nice spaghetti dinner. They're actually talking about fucking. Sex. Fucking each other with sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 11 | Europeans on this subreddit. What do you think about American dating culture?In America, we're cool with rubbing our secretion-covered genitals on each other, but we're not really comfortable talking about it out loud with the other person, ewwww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?emotions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?The most religious folks in our country are also the most politically exploited, resulting in a lack of progress that affects everyone and pisses off the non-religious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?I think a lot of guys fit that description...but they're not 'bad boys' and they're not dating as 'bad boys.' There's more to it--the bad boy must have traits that allow female strangers to identify him as such (hence the toxic traits). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Men dont respect womenWe haven't discussed levels of ugly yet, but one gal's $1.50 is another gal's $10k. And some people hold onto their beater because they think it's a Beamer...and end up with rusted junk out front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Men dont respect womenYeah--gah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Men dont respect womenlikely--she's selling a car for $15k and is offered $10k. She can turn down the offer, or she can berate you for disrespecting her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeI really just jumped in for some quick remathification and it got weird. I think I may have confused some folks with my lack of intellect and position | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenYou're going to have a hard time finding advice that isn't 'improve the product you're selling'. That isn't red pill..not until you tread into neofeminism-tainted sexual marketplace territory. The answer to 'how do you better sell someone a product' is to improve their perception of the product or create urgency. Under 40/ outside of intoxication or mental illness...you're going to have a tough time creating urgency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenMost women like confident men. To dumb women, confident means the loudest, most stubborn one with complete disregard for anyone besides himself or someone in his pack. To intelligent women, confidence still matters. I wouldn't worry about the dumb women (unless you are only trying to get laid and don't care about consequences). Women tend to live via social cues dudes can easily miss. Walk tall and lead with your chest--like you're headed somewhere important and you're important because of it. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeNot your sex, your Reddit account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The concept of a "human fleshlight" is hella dumb, like the concept of a human mannequin. The entire point of a fleshlight is it's not humancrazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | The concept of a "human fleshlight" is hella dumb, like the concept of a human mannequin. The entire point of a fleshlight is it's not humanButt plug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | The concept of a "human fleshlight" is hella dumb, like the concept of a human mannequin. The entire point of a fleshlight is it's not humanWhat's gross about it? The comparison to an inanimate object or the dismission of humanity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeIt sounds like you win no matter what, so congrats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeYou mean Cis women. Or do we not do that here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in Lifeu/XOTillI0verdose, looks like you need a revision. Here you go: If a woman decides to have kids, she's got at least an 85% chance to have them. If a man decides to compete, he has a decent chance of failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Welfare programs, especially ones that aim to benefit single mothers give women more incentive to exercise hypergamy for mating.A related/ semi-counter argument is that areas with high reliance on economic safety have this reliance because of poor socio-economic conditions (job availability/ property acces/ etc). If a woman in this area gets pregnant, she is more likely to carry the child to term, and the man who impregnated her is going to feel less capable of caring for the familly unit/ child because of the surrounding conditions. Women are going to be more likely to sleep with a 'risky male' (i.e. doesn't own much pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Why Vet Men Based on Height?ITT: "Why are you attracted to tall dudes?" "Because we find tall dudes attractive, duh" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Why Vet Men Based on Height?Lose/ gain 100 pounds and tell me what happens to your tits, waist, ass, and height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The concept of a "human fleshlight" is hella dumb, like the concept of a human mannequin. The entire point of a fleshlight is it's not humanWhat's gross about it? The comparison to an inanimate object or the dismission of humanity? "We've gotta assume that the person wants human connection beyond just an orgasm." sounds like an argument from fallacy. We don't have to assume such a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Obesity collapses me like a cold pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD."This place sucks," "Those kinds of movies always suck"...I think it's a lost cause, bro. u/Reality_Distortion__ seems pretty predictable here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | The concept of a "human fleshlight" is hella dumb, like the concept of a human mannequin. The entire point of a fleshlight is it's not humanMaybe try this one: the one-time drinking buddy. It turns me off to think about a potential partner who: --likes to drink at least weekly, if not every few days --goes to bars/ uses online drinking app to find a stranger to get drunk with --the strangers are vetted by how fun they look and whether or not they're clearly nuts via messaging/ at first sight --if the stranger seems ok after a few minutes/hours, potential partner elects to get drunk with them...hopefully everything goes well --has on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 02:52 PM |
| 8 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?by that time you were suppose to lol where is the rulebook and who wrote it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:51 PM |
| 2 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.Average = most...so if 80% of folks don't fall into that category, it's not the 'average' category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 4 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.Sounds like you're above average seeking above average guys, so I'm not sure how you related to the subject at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.Do you have a link/ specifics? I was interested in checking the article out, but I can't google it to fruition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Men should underachieve to get what they wantOn an individual level, people are a spectrum. Not everyone works 60 hours or gyms 4 hours a day. You've got a few false dichotomies going on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards ("the bar") are indeed low, but not for the reasons you thinkWomen who are standouts are those with tangible hobbies. The self-nurturing and growth that comes from hobbies + work often bleeds into the way they treat themselves in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Feelings vs. "logic" in datingTinder stats agree with this claim, though. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6uz0mt/tinder_feedback_loop_most_women_are_competing_for/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who are more experienced, is love separate from sex? How do they relate, without using the whole "I only want love WITH sex" stupid TERPer trope?Same for me. Sex is a hunger. Casual sex is eating junk food. Sex with someone I love is mom's home-cooked meal. I'm sure there's a sub to reference here, but I'm not looking for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The saying goes “they come back when you least expect it” why is that?Definitely strange. Another anecdote: I hadn't been in a relationship for a few years, started going steady with a new chick I was really into. My last LTR ex messaged me on Facebook that week asking for computer help (no contact for 2 years up to that point). They know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:02 PM |
| 5 | The communication gap between men and womenThis oft-referenced video used by therapists drive me nuts. I accept it, but it makes me crazy that some minds are not about the nail, rather--about how the nail makes them feel. Oof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?I thought we were just making up stats and talking shit, I don't care anyway, who fucking cares. Yeah whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 10:26 PM |
| -1 | Men's dating problems are from not pursuing what they wantuh-oh, the man who knows he's not is going to get that girl... In your place! Because he's better than you! You are not the best and biggest and badassest! I guess the true alpha kings don't give a fuuuuck about homeboy's success... So difficult to navigate the animalistic tendencies of us fellows. I want to be tough and powerful enough to not care about what any man has or thinks that's not me... But I also must rule the male species hierarchy from the top as champion being... Having bested all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?That meme was invented by a white supremacist who ended up murdering his wife and child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?A couple of hundred thousand years, but anyway... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 09:38 PM |
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