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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Tired of feeling like I have to prove myself as worthy to women Totally get it- I am not a clown, here for your entertainment. I am here to work. Want to work with me and have some fun along the way? Sweet! I will remain single until an adult driven by more than emotions comes along. Definitely on the look out but its rare!	/r/MensRights	27/06/24 03:19 AM
1	Gentlemen; For those you you who are divorced, did your wife ever give you the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech? If yes, did she end up initiating divorce or did you? She followed it up with false dv claims. After 10 months of investigation, my name has been cleared and I get to put that behind me.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/22 05:06 PM
2	Gentlemen; For those you you who are divorced, did your wife ever give you the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech? If yes, did she end up initiating divorce or did you? She texted me she wanted a divorce but I was the one who filed. This was 4 months after I learned of her cheating and we immediately separated	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/22 06:19 AM
1	New relationship directly after divorce or play the field I've been wondering this myself. 18 months since separation, 9 months since official sock day, haven't been on a single date since. I want to make sure I'm healthy before even giving myself the option to think of another woman being involved in my life. I anticipate another 7-9 months before even being open to the concept of dating again	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/22 10:03 PM
2	I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions) Super interesting. Married young myself, both of us were virgins at marriage and came from Christian backgrounds. She decided to sleep around while I was deployed because she was sad... turns out there were a lot of mental illnesses (bulimia, depression, adjustment disorder, emotional disregulation disorder) that came to light after we got married. 6 year marriage down the drain	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/22 04:46 PM
2	Finally got a date for temporary orders If she is active duty and you are not, you hold ALL OF THE CARDS! get a VLC (victim legal counsel) and accuse her of emotional and physical abuse. You WILL win 100% guaranteed. Trust me, I've been on the reverse side of this, I'd like to see it actually work in the favor of actual justice rather than being used to abuse men who have already been physically and emotionally abused- aka me through my 6 years of marriage	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/22 12:44 PM

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