| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I’m dating best friends | heartshapedmango | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 10:57 AM |
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| 1 | How terrible do my friend and I actually look 1-10?Lol girls like projects they have to work on Just learn useful “man” skills | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | How terrible do my friend and I actually look 1-10?Very young and very punchable. You look like the kids from the inbetweeners | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | ??No it was an accident while she was reading it but it could mean anything | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | ??Lol. So what. You might be a pawn. Absolutely do not get your hopes up | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Why does he keep photos of me?It’s never enough. Especially in the dead of night. Maybe he liked himself when he was with you. He has no self control either way | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Why does he keep photos of me?Desperation. Block him. For his own good | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach Any Girl With Confidence (3 Openers That Work!)How tall is this guy. For every accessory I see i assume an inch under 6 ft | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for relationships to become less flirty, fun, and “shit test” once two people start dating? Is it normal that it’s more deep and serious?It’s your personality. I compulsively joke around. Some girls say they like it but 6 months in they act like I’m a kid. Just be yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Girl told me I need to be more of a 'jackass'Yeah. Stop asking for permission. Just physically do want you want ( in moderation) and pause for resistance. Yikes good luck | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why not just use escorts for sex?Money doesn’t guarantee expertise ! Trump shit is expensive too! Is it good? | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Why not just use escorts for sex?It’s hard to find a PERSONAL ASSISTANT to follow instructions! I’m rarely satisfied with any aspect of the service industry tbh | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Laying her head on your lap happens to me all the timeAre y’all smoking opium perchance? | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Getting real impatient about asking the girl out (I'll see her in 4 days minimum)Anything. Tour the library. Try the taco at the Taco Bell. Get the jitters out | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Getting real impatient about asking the girl out (I'll see her in 4 days minimum)Go work out. Ask out every girl you see to practice | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to improve my self? And be open minded? Stop pleasing and seeking approval from others? I feel like no one values me.Gooogle : How to stop worrying by Dale Carnegie How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie Benjamin hardy | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Laying her head on your lap happens to me all the timeYou must have thunder thighs bruh. You play rugby? What do you do while she’s laying there? | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What if you only have niche interests?Don’t fucking talk about magic cards unless you’re at comicon. Just listen | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Does the "stop caring about girls and just have fun" thing work?I try to emotionally care about every girl I see while I’m with her and forget about later. It makes me more compassionate but less obsessed | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | When you smile at a girl, how do you guys differentiate between a polite return smile and a interested smileTry to approach ASAP. Gesture for her to come to you or gesture that you’re coming to her and start talking or have your phone ready to get her number. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t cold approached in several years. Should I go to a place like the mall with the sole intention of approaching to get more comfortable?I like the grocery store. The mall is too flashy and I don’t be buying shit. Get girls at places you frequent | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | If you’re non-romantically hanging out with a lady friend that you wanna eventually be romantic with, and someone calls you a cute couple or asks if you’re dating, what response should you give?Whoever it is I just return the compliment , Brian regan style. Just joke about it. Nobody likes that kind of pressure, don’t draw attention to it. This isn’t fucking sex and the city | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 04:54 PM |
| 19 | When you smile at a girl, how do you guys differentiate between a polite return smile and a interested smileI don’t see a difference. It’s your behavior that counts | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you become less wholesome?Yo wholesome is good. You can say some sexual shit and laugh it off as a joke if it doesn’t land sexually (it has to be funny). Trust me brethren. I have dimples. Be the (respectful)wolf and (respectfully) get you a sheep | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Become a person full of love, and you will attract more people who are like you in your life, self-improvement, love and seduction affirmationsShit hurts though. Love is war on your ego fam | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 01:39 PM |
| 7 | if a girl asks sexual questions is that an IOI?Y’all be answering your own questions inside of the question | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How would you approach a girl you see everyday going to work?I wouldn’t . Too stressful. If she were into you you’d be together by now | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I can’t approach girls and they don’t want meSaying “ I can’t”. Literally walk up to girls and say hi. You will feel like you are dying, and you won’t die. Just do it. Stop thinking about it. It’s an action. You can only prepare with good hygiene and positive thoughts. Please don’t ever approach with “ I can’t” on your mind | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Let's be friendsNo can do. You are too fine and My body is too weak girl I’m sorry. Miss you | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm always confident/sexual at first, then feel as if I become needy... tips?Yes you need to practice fasting. I’m exactly like you. I would stay confident and sexual as long as my partner was, but if they cool off I get so scared. When they cool off on you, fast from the thought of them ( food and water as well) from sun upuntil sundown. Think about anything else. You will fail at first but keep trying | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 03:56 AM |
| 5 | What does it mean if a girl jokingly says "I love you"?She wants you and whomever she is saying it in front of to think she is into you. Don’t think too hard about the reason just enjoy the company and respectfully take it as far as you can. | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl alone to ask her out?Might have to just bite the bullet. Teenage girls don’t do anything alone. | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I dont know how to love my self.. but day by day i hate my self even more, and i dont know my self. How to fix this?When I’m hella stoned I look at my dog. If he is not alarmed then why should I be. Perspective. Self hatred feels life threatening, but if you have positive distractions it will pass. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I dont know how to love my self.. but day by day i hate my self even more, and i dont know my self. How to fix this?Yes def get a therapist and a dog bc you need perspective. Self hatred is a kind of narcissism in my opinion. All you think about is you. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 03:38 PM |
| 3 | She asks me to get her naked, helpI can be there in15 minutes? Show me how Let me see it ..... | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 01:17 PM |
| 2 | She asks me to get her naked, helpDo you what you want. Be enthusiastic. Repeat things she likes if she is moaning. Good job bro! | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | I have fallen for oneitis, places a woman on a pedestal, and have become everything I hate.Get several new crushes and really throw your back into them | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I turn my female friends into fuck buddies?My rule is if she doesn’t hit on me within two weeks of meeting me, she’s not interested enough to be stress free. I’m just saying though. You do you | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn my female friends into fuck buddies?If they’ve never hit on you then you risk coming off desperate | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 03:35 PM |
| 8 | How To make a woman feel like a woman without putting her on a pedestal (Question)Yes you would like to we all would like to but if she has never seen herself that way she may be distrustful of your treatment towards her no matter how well intentioned. I speak from experience | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 9 | How To make a woman feel like a woman without putting her on a pedestal (Question)For example, If she thinks of herself like a mother and you were trying to treat her like a sexual being she may distance herself from you because she is not used to that identity | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 01:39 PM |
| 13 | How To make a woman feel like a woman without putting her on a pedestal (Question)You have to know her ideas of herself and what she thinks others expect from her. If your treatment is very different than this it may cause some dissonance | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 01:20 PM |
| 3 | How do I turn my female friends into fuck buddies?If the topic has never come up then this journey is more difficult than it sounds like you want. Fuck buddies should be new friends. one night stand types that you don’t mind the brief company of | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Everytime I get a girl's SnapchatIt’s a move though. Some girls want to play text games and (thank god )some girls don’t | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Is there something wrong with me?You have low self esteem as evidenced by your doubting yourself. If you forget about it she will too. If you are thinking about it so is she. Just pretend like she can read your mind all of the time and just watch what your body does. You won’t have to think about anything ! You will naturally want to better yourself and your surroundings. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women tell me I am handsome in person?Women show and do not tell | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing is very inconsistent. How to play the text game?I mean I’ve had flirtation via text and physical flirtation and I try not to substitute one for the other. I use texting as a means to get more contact and nothing else ( unless I’m cuckoo bananas crazy about her). I prefer a phone call to text at the very least. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing is very inconsistent. How to play the text game?That shit is not dating lol. I need physical contact. Unless I’m OD in love and then Idgaf about dropping 8 texts in a row. I feel like AIM chatroom kids are different | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing is very inconsistent. How to play the text game?Fucking don’t unless you like playing text games. If not, bail | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | My friend and I like that girlRight? You think your man is asking reddit? Probs not | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Got invited to a tailgate, how do seduce women there?Don’t start until it’s time to leave. You’re new and you don’t want to horn in on someone else’s crush or some bs. Just make eye contact with girls until you get that nice “chase me” smile. Ask them where they’re going or have somewhere else to go. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Not having any luck, but not really sure why.Be patient. Don’t let the wait change your positive attitude. I feel that way too. I have high standards. I like to think that’s why it’s so difficult | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys run game on more conservative/traditional girls (ie: East Indian girls)?That’s nice to hear. I guess making sure your cv is poppin couldn’t hurt | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys run game on more conservative/traditional girls (ie: East Indian girls)?They want white dudes mostly | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Watch this and see if you see yourself in them. This is a unique mirror for those of us lurkers who have little success.I def fell into this category. I discovered half the time I didn’t want to have sex with them bc I felt they didn’t love me. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 11:34 PM |
| 2 | I have too much social anxiety to find women attractive in person. I am unable to escalate naturally because I can't relax.I totally feel you. That natural flow is not universal! You’re on the right track. Just keep doing it until you forget to be nervous. Weed helps | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I got her to go out on a date. How can I sexually escalate her?You have to see what she’s open to. Leave your hand on her arm for a long time. Kiss her hand. See her reaction , if she shuts down she is not down you feel me | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 11:33 AM |
| 5 | the type of girl I attract is not the type of girl I want to attractI empathize. I always get snapchat queens. I want country girls | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | College freshman, [M18], need advice to get laidJust ask. Ask girls if they want to be kissed. Ask girls if they feel comfortable afterwards. Ask how you can make them comfortable. Listen to the answers. Watch their body language. Talk 50 percent less but smile at the responses no matter what they are. Even if they hurt. Don’t ever put anger in your face with women . Think Jon snow. Be hurt before you’re angry/insulted/humiliated/frustrated and then try to lighten the mood with a smile. Tom hardy is also like this. It’s vulnerability swag. Bu… | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:30 AM |
| 3 | I’m dating best friendsI’m dating them. I know them well. We have lunch 4 times a week with some rough housing. It’s been about a week. I’m worried about leaving someone out | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Theres this girl I talk to in class, we seem to be decent friends, she's cute and I got her snapchat. Im pretty positive she was a boyfriend, so is there anything I can do?Nope. Argentina. America is a 3rd world country bro. Just cause some first world people live there doesn’t erase the fact that america has all that shit and more! Have you seen what meth has done to white america?!? Shit is terrifying! That’s why I moved to be honest with you. Everybody is on some heavy drugs prescription or otherwise. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Theres this girl I talk to in class, we seem to be decent friends, she's cute and I got her snapchat. Im pretty positive she was a boyfriend, so is there anything I can do?Hey whoa whoa. No man chill. Don’t say the ch word South America because they’ve been poorer longer than the USA so they have less of a hookup to pay the bills mentality . Plus their “juventud” youthfulness period lasts until early 30s. It’s much more forgiving down here I hope you not like this talking to girls bro. That shit is aggressive | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet girls on campus?Yeah but if you are seen playing sports with them the shy girls will take notice. Shy girl becomes drunk girl maybe hopefully brave girl with a crush on you | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Theres this girl I talk to in class, we seem to be decent friends, she's cute and I got her snapchat. Im pretty positive she was a boyfriend, so is there anything I can do?Dude no one is single. I had to leave the fucking country to find single ppl. Americans just straight up cheat now | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet girls on campus?The fit girls hang out in the quad/ field. Are you fit? | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How do you meet girls on campus?Nah I like the pressure. Makes you strong. Ask someone for help with something dumb. Have your phone ready to the contact page and ask them if they want to hang out. Offer the phone to them . This can take less than a minute. Pretty much the same everywhere but a library is a good place to pick up shy girls bc they don’t feel the need to talk | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 08:24 PM |
| 4 | How do you meet girls on campus?Library. Cafe is easier but it’s too public | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 07:05 PM |
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