heathcl1ff Archive

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9	Dont Use the 'Ugly Girl Excuse' Rebuttal here, from a different, attractive guy - like you, not bragging, just trying to be helpful. I have found that many women, some that I don't happen to find very attractive, and some that I do, have gone out of their way to make a move with me. The truth, in my honest opinion, and experience, is that if a girl feels extraordinarily attracted to you, it may be enough to break through her natural reluctance to approach. I don't know if there is a connection between how hot she perceives her…	/r/seduction	10/08/13 06:16 PM
4	Brief descriptions of all my approaches. What am I doing wrong here? Please help me! Tactically, I think you need to use texts to get dates, not to chat. You say you are getting one or two exchanges over text before they seem to lose interest. Hard to say without seeing those conversations, but if you think of having just a couple of chances to text before it becomes uninteresting to her, don't waste them. Get to the point. One thing I have heard others say about texting is that, when you get their number, you say something like, "You know I'm going to ask you out, right?" If sh…	/r/seduction	30/05/13 12:52 PM
1	I stayed in tonight. It feels terrible. How do I make sure this never happens again? I find bars and clubs on Yelp. They usually describe the place pretty well as far the type of music, atmosphere, overall friendliness, etc. Don't get stuck at the same place all the time. Research.	/r/seduction	12/05/13 05:46 PM
1	I stayed in tonight. It feels terrible. How do I make sure this never happens again? This works. Not only that, but now that I'm getting better at meeting people, I find my less skilled friends can slow me down.	/r/seduction	12/05/13 05:45 PM
1	Is it alright for me to give my number to a girl without getting hers? Things that work: - Can I have your number? - Can I text you? - Hey, how can I get in touch with you again?	/r/seduction	25/04/13 04:57 AM
1	Is it alright for me to give my number to a girl without getting hers? No, this is a bad move. Maybe someone else could tell you why in better detail, but my instincts are all against it. Getting a number is an admission that she would want to hear from you and that you can set up your next interaction. Giving your number is leaving it all in her hands. You have to take the lead, and that means being able to contact her on your terms, not waiting for her to do so.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 03:38 AM
7	Nervousness in pick up Did you ever walk or drive somewhere as part a routine so often that sometimes you found yourself at your destination without really remembering how you got there? Practicing something over and over not only makes you better at it, but it lets you do it without really thinking about it. Thinking too much can get in your way. It's great that you're already making attempts. Continued attempts to engage, with either sex, cannot fail to get you into a more relaxed state while doing it. That's why fi…	/r/seduction	24/04/13 07:44 PM
1	Getting over fear has never been this hard Once I had a bad flu for a couple of weeks. That and feeling down about some things prevented me from masturbating for about a month. It had a weird effect on me and by the time I was through that period, I had a new job, a move a new place and ended a bad relationship. It can have a really big effect on your life to make that change, at least for a period.	/r/seduction	24/04/13 05:57 PM