hecate9 Archive

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7	Promiscuity and pair bonding Great post. I wish more women would understand this. Promiscuous women are harming non-promiscuous women as well, because they greatly lower the standards for everyone. Many men expect you to have sex within 2-4 dates max these days, because the bar has been set so low. Women get more attached after sex, and this is a dangerous and unhealthy dynamic for women. We need to stop pretending that we can handle casual sex. And the idea that casual sex is "empowering" is so incredibly toxic and harmful…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/17 10:58 AM
20	If we know feminine, what is unfeminine? To me unfeminine qualities are: having lots of male friends not having close relationships with other women (big red flag) lack of nurturing/maternal instinct, or suppressed brainwashed by 3rd wave feminism trying to compete directly with men, not realizing we are different from men, denying your natural feminine instincts being psychologically & emotionally damaged (or even physically) from promiscuity & casual sex general distrust & animosity towards men (these things tend to have deep roots, …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/17 08:08 AM
6	How to bring out the Alpha in a Beta man? You can't. Some people naturally have an alpha or type A personality and others just don't.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/17 04:26 AM
2	Are the majority of men that you encounter flaky/not that great at dating as well? Most people are flaky these days, not just men. People have no integrity or self-respect, for the most part. I interpret poor date planning as lack of interest/probably just looking for sex or female attention/not serious. I don't expect men to pay for me on a first date, especially if we met off of a dating site. In fact I prefer to pay for myself, even if it's just for a coffee. I don't want to feel like I owe him anything.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/17 05:29 AM
5	Overcoming abuse My 1st toxic relationship was 2+ years, second one was on and off and >1 year, both were quite short relationships, I figured them out quickly and got out. I only needed about 7 therapy sessions and once I figured out what was happening (that I wasn't crazy, that I wasn't broken because I attracted people like this), everything sort of "clicked" and I found that I wasn't as broken as I thought I was, just confused and still naive in some ways. People who have been in toxic relationships for long…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/17 08:24 PM
4	Overcoming abuse If you've been abused you probably know that emotional abuse is very covert and insidious. I know several men who were abused by women, and women can be very cruel emotional abusers. I recommend therapy as well as doing tons of self-work for all people who experienced relationships like this, because they can break your soul and mind and make you unfit for quality partners and healthy relationships in the future. Good luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/17 07:39 PM
6	Overcoming abuse You need more therapy, or find a better, more specialized therapist. I only went to about 6-7 sessions, but my therapist specialized in narcissistic abuse recovery and complex ptsd, which many people have after being in abusive relationships. In addition to better therapy I would also suggest continuing with healthy habits, self education, and just give it time. It takes time to really change. Good luck. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/17 07:30 PM
7	Overcoming abuse This anonymous poster is gas lighting you, trying to make you deny your own reality, even when you are a stranger and he knows nothing about your past. He doesn't know you, but he hates women and wants to deny that you had abusive relationships. A feature of emotionally abusive people is that they gas light you. Constantly. They make you think you are crazy, they are constantly testing your boundaries and trying to reset your boundaries, lower and lower. They idealize and devalue you, then disca…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/17 07:25 PM
7	Overcoming abuse I've had similar issues in my past. I had to go into therapy to deal with issues after being in 2 relationships with narcissistic, emotionally abusive men. It's possible you used to date men with narcissistic personality disorder or another personality disorder, like borderline, as a lot of abusive men fit this profile. Empathetic, sensitive people tend to attract their opposite- narcissists. I would expect many women on this board to have feminine qualities and to be empathetic and sensitive. S…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/17 07:15 PM
6	How to manage a polygamous man ? I know this answer will sound harsh but I am saying it in the most benevolent way possible and would say the same to a close friend or female family member. Get out. Get some self-respect. Use what strength you have to leave him, work on your self-worth. I know it's not the answer you want to hear but know that you are just setting yourself up for misery, disillusionment, STDs, heartbreak, wasted time, wasted opportunities you could have had with others, if you continue down this road.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/05/17 07:33 PM
2	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? Basically it is a pickup manual, for both men and women. I think I have learned all I need to know here, unless someone else has something more to add. Thank you everyone for taking the time to answer me.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 05:34 PM
3	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? Once again, just an emphasis on sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 05:27 PM
7	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? It's just a phrase used to coin that period in your average Western woman's life when she decides that she can no longer effectively lead a frivolous lifestyle and has to settle for a monogamous form of relationship, in order to secure her long-term well-being. I understand your sentiment to some extent but do you think all women are this way? That all women have lived a frivolous lifestyle in their youth, did not seek monogamy and towards the end of their biological prime, they seek men to secu…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 05:13 PM
7	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? I am past the wall by birth date but look pre wall as well as have a well rounded, interesting personality with housekeeping and other talents that will make me a valued partner when my wrinkles do show up. "housekeeping and other talents" What if the guy decides to replace you with a roomba and housekeeping service? Why is housekeeping considered a talent when most housekeeping these days is automated, done by machines, and if you have an organized household, the majority of housework can be do…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 05:04 PM
4	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? "Killing the game"? Once again, I don't understand this ideology. It claims to be traditionalist, wanting to emphasize family values, honor and so on, but it seems more like an overglorified pick up artist manual.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 04:50 PM
1	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? I get the impression that men on Red Pill are of very low caliber. Deeply insecure men harboring a grudge against all women. Hardly different from feminists who are also deeply insecure and harbor a grudge against all men. Both are bitter, angry, lashing out, blinded by their own poison, how can they ever find real love or peace within themselves?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 04:37 PM
6	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? Sure, in my culture people tend to marry younger and women aren't advised to put off finding an appropriate mate until their 30s, but there is no term like "the wall". "The wall" is a misogynistic term that suggests women have a use by date, like a jar of mayonnaise, and once they are past this expiration date they have no/little value. My culture promotes marriage, traditional gender roles, tends to pressure women to marry in their 20s (so they can avoid being desperate in their 30s), but we do…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 04:08 PM
8	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? I get the impression that it's a reactionary anti-feminist ideology in it's infancy stage, unable to currently define itself. Many people damaged by the social engineering of liberalism/feminism, and seeking new ways of thinking and living. Which I cannot blame them for. Thank you for you thorough explanation.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 01:39 PM
7	I don't understand the concept of Red Pill Women? Can someone explain? Thanks for the explanation. It sounds like an ideology worlds away from the traditionalist culture (based on actual traditions) I grew up in.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 01:09 PM
7	How to avoid men who orbit? If a man really wants you, he wouldn't wait 3 months to express that. He certainly wouldn't wait 6 months and expect you to bring up the topic of commitment, if he had commitment in mind himself. Your time limits are far, far too long IMO. Keep in mind some people get married in a year, and 6 months is half of a year. How many more 6 months do you have in your life? If you live let's say 50 more years, that's 100 more 6 months... how many of those years will be in your youth, health or your prim…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/17 09:14 AM