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-7

So what. Is she helping you? Stay. Is she not helping you? Find another one. It's really not rocket surgery, guys...
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:19 PM
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Better than men? No. Better than they did before? Yes, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:17 PM
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DaFuQ you're all complaining about? Adolescence is an incredibly good and important series. The cinematography, and the acting, are out of this world. One of the best pieces of Cinema / TV in a long, long time. Stop being fukn snowflakes.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 08:06 PM
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Man up. Show her who's the King of the household. Start reading Red Pill material on how to do this, books, blogs, etc. Set a time frame. If it fails after the set date has passed, leave.
/r/MGTOW31/07/16 06:30 PM
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Please, please, please, USA, don't let this woman be your next president...
/r/MensRights30/04/16 09:59 AM
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Link?
/r/MensRights21/02/16 07:24 PM
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She was the condescending one...
/r/MensRights12/02/16 01:07 AM
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M'Isandry
/r/MensRights12/02/16 12:27 AM
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I thought it used to be 1 in 6? Then all of a sudden, it was 1 in 5. So now it's 1 in 4? Soon it'll be 1 in 3, then 1 in 2, and then the ultimate 1 in 1!
/r/MensRights10/02/16 12:01 PM
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Joke wasn't clear from video...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:30 AM
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I have to say, I was disappointed when Roosh came out as a Muslim (maybe some / all of you knew? I didn’t): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ot4tDl6T-tY Excerpt: “(...) my sex views come from Islam. The only place in Canada I’m safe, believe it or not, is a mosque. I’ve been hanging in a mosque all day, praying to Allah, praying to Mohammed, to keep me safe; that’s the only way. The only way that I can – and I hope they keep me safe; I hope that I’ll make it out of Canada, based on al the threats…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:58 PM
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I strongly doubt that sex even took place, given the whole "no evidence because shower washed it away" thing. Hell, I even doubt there was ever even a guy with her in the shower. It was just her and her phone.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 08:32 PM
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Jade Asshatt is the victim here, can't you all see this?!? /s
/r/MensRights14/12/15 08:53 AM
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"Equality"
/r/MGTOW04/12/15 05:36 PM
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The man closest in proximity to them. After all, it's always men's fault.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 11:39 AM
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Step up your game, noob. I was banned from /r/feminism before I ever even had a reddit account.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 11:34 AM
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I do think Linus (not "Linux") has called people ugly and stupid in the past. He was probably right.
/r/MensRights05/11/15 09:49 AM
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Okay. That's not how I read that at all. I often refer to myself as an animal too. I'm male, BTW.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:50 AM
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Also i take a slight offense to suggest that women are to be considered animals. Human beings are animals... We're primates.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 01:44 AM
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I guess you're fun at parties
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 01:33 AM
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To be fair, smoking is a terrible habit
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:16 AM
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You don't say anything at all. You kiss her hard on the mouth instead.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:26 PM
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Bing? Is that still a thing?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 10:43 PM
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Your list's credibility is negatively impacted by him, even more so by putting his video as the first one. Also, noobs to TRP who stumble upon your otherwise good list might think he's some credible TRP source, which he's not.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:27 PM
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No, they're not irrelevant. Background is important. Would you quote Hitler, or Mao, or Stalin, or Charles Manson, if what they said sounded right? I would find another, better source.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:04 PM
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Agreed. I was already disappoint before hitting video #2. ADDED: When I first came to know Molyneux, I thought he was interesting. Then I started to discover more and more nasty things... The Molyneux is to be avoided at all cost. Even if he's right on occasion.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:53 PM
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Lose the Molyneux. He's a wannabe cult leader who has no place here.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:32 PM
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European white male here: these are very sexy! I cannot explain why, but simple things like this drive me crazy (in a good way)! Something similarly effective: ankle bracelet!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 05:25 AM
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I bathe in feminists' tears
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 10:27 AM
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Maybe point him to the Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay, or some of the other good books out there (check the Red Pill side bar, I guess). Maybe he can (re-)build attraction. Maybe not all is lost.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 05:26 PM
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Just turned 50. Some things I wouldn't do differently, but the same as I have done: Live in at least a few different countries (I've lived in 4 countries; this number might go up). Learn at least 2 more languages besides your native one (I speak 3 languages fluently; this number might go up). Focus more on non-western women. They tend to be less entitled, more "traditional" (for want of a better word), more naturally RPW (in my experience). ADDED: Oh, and read, read, read... Get some knowledge, …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:16 PM
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You made your edit after I posted that...
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:51 AM
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(I've taken screenshots in case it gets deleted or taken down). It seems to have been deleted...Could you post those screenshots?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 05:42 AM
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If it's not physiological (good!), then maybe it's psychological? I feel for you, man... I wish you good luck and hope you'll find an answer soon.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 07:56 AM
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At age 31 Say what? Something seems not right there... I'm 49 and can fuck for hours, and every day if I want to. Go see a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 12:00 AM
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I'd say no. A huge big red flag would be someone who openly and clearly doesn't like guys… That's feminism. Someone like that, someone who doesn't like guys but seems "interested" in you, might actually just be interested in something you might have to offer, like your money, your babies and child support, your alimony… Be careful, but go for it!
/r/askTRP18/10/14 11:56 PM
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Sadly I'm struggling with smoking, but I won't smoke around him. A very good start. Please forgive me if I come across sounding like an asshole: if he doesn't smoke, and you smoke-then-kiss, you'll taste to him like he's liking out an an ashtray... Maybe this is a good time to quit? It's a nasty habit, and it's killing you, taking away 11 minutes of your life per cigarette. Thanks for the tips! It went well, I was pretty nervous and I think I talked too much, but he wants to hang out again so th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 11:24 AM
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Hi, married man here: Be honest, open, true. Don't get drunk. You can drink, but don't overdo it. Make yourself pretty, but don't overdo it! Too much make-up is worse than no make-up… Strive for balance in the conversation: let him talk (and listen!), and also talk about yourself (is he listening?). Don't criticize. If you happen to disagree about something, just let it be. Think about it later. Don't smoke. If he smokes: run. Try to ascertain whether he is a supplicating beta. A typical nice gu…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 06:37 PM
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http://marriedmansexlife.com/
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:05 AM
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Actually, the fact that you are married proves that you actually are a beta. You haven't understood anything. I mean were you too afraid to lose your steady source of sex and companionship so you had to put a ring on it? Get a divorce while you still can. Red Pill != MGTOW This early in the game you have virtually no community property to split (if you live in a CP state) and you'll have no alimony obligation. Seriously...26?!?! WTF?! You should be banging a new girl every week. Go learn, come b…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:23 PM
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However, if an RP man has sons, he might instill RP values (e.g., stoicism) into them, and thereby diminish the chance of them becoming rapists.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:37 PM
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The point is that we may learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:44 AM
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...I don't see much importance in that issue. You don't have a problem with politically influential people using completely wrong figures to support their claims? To basically brainwash the public by using numbers that are off by one or more orders of magnitude? These people have an agenda, and are sustaining that agenda by using made-up figures. And with that, they are hurting people. Rape is rape. And according to feminism, it's only rape when it's a man doing it to a woman. They are completel…
/r/MensRights11/09/14 08:41 AM
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war on feminism. Is there a problem with exposing bullshit? If individuals, or a movement of individuals, spread nonsense, is it wrong to fight that? That's wonderfully helpful to equality. So you're saying equality is helped by just accepting a bunch of nonsense? BTW, I think most well-meaning MRAs don't have problems with particular individuals per se, only with the nonsense they spout. One the other hand, if someone speaks the truth, they speak the truth, regardless of label. E.g., there is t…
/r/MensRights10/09/14 09:42 PM
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...supporting equality for women. That's the problem, right there: contemporary feminism isn't about equality at all anymore. It comes in many forms, from radfem to mainstream feminism, but none seem to be about real equality. Radfems at their most extreme basically want to eradicate all males from existence, mainstream feminism is all about "rape culture", "patriarchy", "23% wage gap", etc. They're all about things that don't exist. EDIT: grammar...
/r/MensRights10/09/14 05:56 PM
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I do frequent TRP, but NRx is not an acronym in use there, AFAIK.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 04:35 PM
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...led to NRx... Forgive my ignorance, but what is NRx?
/r/MensRights10/09/14 12:27 PM
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There is recent research ... Do you have a link perhaps? This sounds interesting.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 08:16 AM
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Yes, dear BluePillProfessor, please tell us your blog URL!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:20 PM
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If you’re in an LTR like I am (together 11 years, married 9, 8-year-old daughter), I recommend buying Athol Kay’s books, here: http://marriedmansexlife.com/athols-books/ I just bought all three of them, received them a few days ago, and am now halfway through the first, The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011. It is excellent (and I expect the other two that I haven’t started yet to be excellent as well). Not only is it full of Red Pill truth, it is a fun read as well. I am thoroughly enjoying it. …
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:10 PM
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Thanks. And another honest question: how do you (and possibly many other MGTOWs) deal with the lack of sex (if there is such a lack)?
/r/MGTOW03/09/14 06:39 AM
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Honest question: doesn't it get lonely?
/r/MGTOW02/09/14 08:30 PM
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"Full of" would be an exaggeration I think, but there are some religious people here. Which is fine by me (atheist myself).
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:06 PM
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Right, they aren't friends, they're your bitches. The Bitchzone, therefore.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:57 AM
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Agreed. Let's retain / regain some class around here.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:38 AM
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"A winter's day In a deep and dark December; I am alone, Gazing from my window to the streets below On a freshly fallen silent shroud of snow. I am a rock, I am an island. I've built walls, A fortress deep and mighty, That none may penetrate. I have no need of friendship; friendship causes pain. It's laughter and it's loving I disdain. I am a rock, I am an island. Don't talk of love, But I've heard the words before; It's sleeping in my memory. I won't disturb the slumber of feelings that have di…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:21 PM
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Religion is beautiful, people are flawed. Religion is man-made, and flawed.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:29 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I'm white (European) and my wife is black (African). There was no "airfare", because we met in the place where we both lived at the time, which is one of the most beautiful European cities. We met, fell in love, and took it from there. She was never a "gold digger". We've been together for 11 years now, married for 9 years, and have a gorgeous daughter who just turned 8. You think we're biased, saying that she's gorgeous? No, we're not: mixed race children are healthier, mor…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:51 PM
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Agreed. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 10:30 PM
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That's gold. Haven't seen the movie; an omission I will need to rectify soon. Thx for this.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:28 PM
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God damn, had that last night. Just me, my male friends, and good (German) beer. God, it's good to just talk men shit once in a while…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:26 PM
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Always reward good behavior. Yes, I do, and I will continue to do so. I have a good & sweet wife, I love her and she loves me, and we're great together. I don't mind rewarding her at all! :) Also, maybe she has a point. Maybe you would indeed look better with shorter hair. Something to keep in mind. It's a slight difference in length we're talking about. I'm aware of my looks. You could say I look a bit like Stefan Molyneux. I'm that type of guy (at least looks-wise), almost as if he's my brothe…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 04:24 PM
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You aren't a servant - you're a mutually benefited participant. Indeed. Also, with some things (like sex) don't fall into the trap of trading. Nooo, never. That would feel terribly wrong. She should fuck you because she wants to, not because you took out the garbage. I'm a lucky man! :)
/r/askTRP21/08/14 04:11 PM
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Agreed. Thanks!
/r/askTRP21/08/14 01:36 PM
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This is a great post. Thanks. Saved for future reference. We are playful, but I will now – inspired by this post – even try and enhance it! ADDED: And reading all the happy and uplifting comments here has now made my day even better!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:39 AM
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No no, it’s nothing like that. She has always said it (11 years together, of which 9 years married). And she’s not a revengeful lady. She’s a sweetheart (and whenever she’s not, she knows her “punishment” is due, IF you know what I mean ;-) ).
/r/askTRP21/08/14 10:39 AM
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Yup, thanks.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:58 AM
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This is obviously not a Red Pill example. The man is a sociopath, who actually got women jailed and killed. These women were in shitty circumstances, he used the shit out of them by promising them a better life.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:59 PM
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just say "busy now" and radio silence Just... radio silence. Why say anything at all?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:13 PM
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They are not married
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:18 AM
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when he got married They're not married
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:15 AM
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(I don't know why am I telling you this). So that I could give you an upvote, which I did :) And with that, I say: good night! (Europe here, 00:42, work tomorrow...)
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 10:42 PM
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I do, indeed, realise it is a good thing that those 10 aren't my daughter's mother. Can't really remember the original post, as it has been completely altered… Do you recall what it said?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 09:00 PM
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Understood :-)
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 02:35 PM
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WTF, is that actually Katy Perry?!?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:19 AM
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Worrying indeed...
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 06:33 AM
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He flat out told me his dream girl was one who resembled a butch lesbian, with pixie short hair, boyish build who dressed like a little boy Don't know, but... closeted homosexual, maybe? It would be nice to have my long hair be appreciated. Post a pic!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 06:17 AM
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Ha, didn't even think of that, but yeah, that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 06:14 AM
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A good question. Personally, I think for a woman who has kept herself well, lived healthily, has had absolutely NO plastic surgery, and thus hopefully has kept a certain 'cuteness', I think long hair can still look good. It's probably always better than short hair. In my not-so-humble opinion, that is.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 09:38 PM
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An understandable reaction. But is it the best reaction? I've noticed I've become very blunt since discovering and swallowing TRP. I speak my mind, much more so than before. I do not seek to insult on purpose, but I loathe speaking untruths. I just don't do little white lies any more…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 09:31 PM
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A woman's long hair is a major part of her beauty. I never understand it when a woman, after having cut her hair short, gets remarks like, 'oh, you look 10 years younger now!' No, she doesn't. She looks 20 years older. Don't listen to the white knights calling women with boycuts 'cute!', or telling them 'oh, you look sooo awesome!'. These boys are liars, just saying what they think the woman wants to hear. Blue pill behaviour. Ladies, let it grow to the max. Let is reach your asses. Real men pre…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 08:11 PM
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There's 10 more just like her. Except those 10 aren't my daughter's mother.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:42 PM
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Boycott the boycut
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 04:28 PM
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Why would a guy like that get married? Mel Gibson is a fundamentalist Catholic (yes, these seem to exist), so that could be a reason for him to get married.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 12:19 PM
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Hello SkylarWyte, I am not a member of your community or your brother-community TRP, but I definitely feel like a kindred spirit. Become a member! :-) At 22 I married... (…) ...finances and love? Etc. It seems like you have your house in order! :-) Keep up the good work. I say all that so you understand I mean no disrespect when I say this: I am terrified by the red pill. No need to be. I’ll explain below. Disclaimer: I am a happily married man, 49 years old, so my input may (or may not) be diff…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 10:25 AM
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It's what we're here for, aren't we? I tried to chime in with a bit of 'male perspective', which I hope is helpful, and complementing the good female advice you're getting here. Stick around here. RPW is awesome. TRP can be awesome too, but also very raw at times. Make good use of the flair buttons on top if you go there. A lot of young, new TRP'ers (or would-be TRP'ers!) are spewing quite a bit of hatred against women, or at least they make it sound like that. Ignore them; they're probably in t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 09:50 PM
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Maybe if he acted more dominant/in control she would respond. Maybe? That's exactly what's she's been trying to achieve (without knowing it, of course)! To awaken that masculinity in him! It's what she needs (she's a woman after all) and has been unconsciously yearning for, yet she never got it out of him (hence, frustration). And your father probably tried to appease her by doing what he thought she was demanding ("you, go sleep on that sofa!"), which was the exact opposite of what she actually…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 09:40 PM
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The link provided was not a good example, I agree. I couldn't find a better one that quickly, sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 09:26 PM
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All my life I've been told minimal makeup is what guys like though. Yes. The link I provided maybe wasn't the best one out there. The point I was trying to make is that a little make-up, even very subtly done (which is where my link went wrong, lol), can have a huge impact. Make-up can be near-invisible, and yet do wonders! Make-up overdone is almost always ugly. And guys have told me too much makeup turns them off,… Yes, when it's "too much", then obviously it's counter-productive. Subtlety! Su…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 09:23 PM
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And you can be cute and girly no matter what you look like. Indeed. I've been with a number of women before I met my wife (I'm ooooooold, lol) and they couldn't look more diverse if they tried. I've dated / had LTRs with women from Europe, Asia, Africa, South-America… (if I weren't married, I'd be trying to complete that list of continents, lol). Every woman is unique. There's no need to be generic. In fact, generic would be entirely boring and off-putting! I love my wife (an African lady), part…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 09:14 PM
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/DISCLAIMER: man here. Obviously, we do not know what you look like, which is fine. Looks are, obviously, very important to a man. I, personally, love a woman who looks 'cute' (it's hard to define what 'cute' really means, but I guess we all somehow have an idea). Naturally, my wife is just that: very cute. And it doesn't go away: I fell in love with her, 11 years ago, and her overwhelming cuteness was a major part of the attraction. Now, 11 years later, she's still as cute. I look at her cute f…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 06:24 PM
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Awesome. We need a YouTube video of this.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 06:08 PM
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Hello again TweetingBird, Thank you! I'm glad your parents were able to change for the better. Thanks, yes, they were. It was especially my dad who changed. My mother, very much the subservient housewife, remained very much who she was. Even after his death (she was 72 by then), she never took up that writing that I feel she should have. She has hobbies and is active, but she remains fiercely loyal to my father. E.g. the thought of ever starting anything with another man was, and is, unthinkable…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 11:05 AM
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Yes, a nice, manly belt could be very good. When I said 'clothes', I was thinking of awkward sweaters / pullovers / jumpers (whatever you call 'em where you live), shirts, shawls, etc. I've received a number of clothing items over the course of my life, and invariably they had awkward patterns, or colours, or were just not the type of clothing I wear… They were never 'me'. If you go for a belt, always keep the receipt, so your man can change it if he doesn't like it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 09:43 AM
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Hi, welcome! I don't know why, but somehow http://www.takeninhand.com pops up in my mind after reading your story. Have a look, take the tour, read some articles, maybe it's useful! Stick around! Good luck. P.S. e.g. http://www.takeninhand.com/forum/relinquishing.control.can.be.very.powerful ...
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 09:29 PM
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For me, as a man, I would say: Yes: Cook me a good meal. Make sure there’s more than enough. And make sure there’s (depending on the type of meal): wine, or beer. Also: make sure there’s nothing I don’t like (in my case: don’t cook me any seafood, because I’m not going to eat that; not even to “please” you, lol). A novel. But let it be something like a thriller, a murder mystery, something a man can relate to. Movies (DVD, BluRay, etc). Make sure I don’t already have it, and let it be something …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 02:18 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxKYo1kM0o4
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 09:13 AM
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I find it sooo curious that the whole RP-sphere gets so much hate from so many places, while clearly, as you state it, 'This stuff really works!' RP saved my marriage! I don't want to bash any other subreddits, but really, those dealing with sexuality and relationship advice, do they really work? Maybe, sometimes, for some. My impression is, most of the time, they don't. I sincerely doubt they have the anywhere near the same "success rate" as RP theory has. RP rocks. OP, really happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 08:05 AM
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Instead of asking for validation, why not say something nice to your man instead? He might return the favour, maybe not in that instant, maybe an hour later, or a day later or a week later; it doesn't matter. Or maybe he'll just give you the good pounding you've been craving for all day. This way it's spontaneous, real, and feels good for both parties. RP doesn't ask. RP does.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 07:56 AM
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...jerk And you're behaving like a jerk. You're only saying it's horseshit, while not providing any constructive criticism...
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 12:19 AM
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Oh… That's sad. I wish you much happiness for the future! Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 12:02 AM
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This all sounds so sad… Is it actually worth staying in this marriage?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 11:52 AM
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If he loves you, then what the heck is he angry about? And withholding sex to "punish you" (for what?!?) is just foolish. If I ever have grounds to "punish" my wife, that punishment will consist of a good pounding in the pussy and some firm slaps on the arse. Only problem is that my wife loves the punishments ;-) :p /DISCLAIMER: as always, anything even slightly hinting at domestic abuse is BAD, BAD, BAD.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:05 AM
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Sorry to have made you so sad! Don’t worry about it, today’s a great day! Feeling on top of the world, actually. My mother has a very controlling personality. My father has a temper, but he yields easily to my mom. There is no changing them, unfortunately. Is it an age issue? Might not be too late, no matter what age: when my late father was in his 30s, 40s, 50s, he was (even though he has always been a good man, husband and father) in many ways an overly controlling man. There was never, ever a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 08:54 AM
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Separate bathrooms Ah, didn't even think about that one. We don't have them, and even if we would want them, there wouldn't be room enough in our house. For us it's not a big deal, though; we happily share. And there's something nice about everybody (wife, daughter, me) doing their thing in the morning in that relatively small space, without really interfering with one another.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 12:24 AM
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I know people who do this, and it works for them. Yeah, from the comments on my original post in TRP, I get this as well. It most certainly would not work for me, though. I am married to this woman… For me that means (among other things): the nights are for us, together! It all works out. Wonderful, good to hear! Granted, we go to bed at the same time, and wake up at the same time. That seems to be important for a lot of people, and also the reason that for a lot of couples who have different ti…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 11:21 PM
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(…) She took over the master bedroom and my poor father slept on the couch for 20 years This really is very sad. He didn't find it in himself to assert himself more? The master bedroom is "HER room". No one is even allowed to use the bathroom! It's just selfish and ridiculous. She sounds like she's very much in control… I could never imagine making my husband sleep somewhere other than right next to me. I don't care where we are, I just want him next to me every night. Same here (well, for me it…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 11:09 PM
2

From my male POV: yes, you did. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 09:42 PM
2

Thanks, great comment. For us separate bedrooms would never work for any reason at all. Same here!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 09:32 PM
1

You are very welcome, dear lady! :-)
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 08:51 PM
1

We got a big duvet. It somehow stays in place. On hot summer nights, the duvet goes. Then it's just us. Life is good...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:42 PM
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…couples should sleep together naked as much as possible As in, always. I have a zero-tolerance policy: naked, or take-that-shit-off-immediately-what-the-fuck-are-you-thinking, or she'll have +1 punishment coming up, very soon. I don't have time for nonsense like that. The only thing she is allowed to wear is shit like this: crotchless catsuit. That looks fucking sexy on her, it feels good as well, and I have access to her hooha. …and go to bed at the same time. Yep. Sleep is important but I enj…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:29 PM
5

http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/71dETlHU2-L._SL1327_.jpg
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:10 PM
5

Maybe it works for some. It wouldn't work for me.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:21 PM
4

Just out of honest curiosity: you said it was an ex. Did the relationship fail because of: the sleeping apart? the incompatible job schedules? something else?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:15 AM
3

If you have different work schedules then you want to make sure you can just get up when you need to and sleep when you need to without one waking the other up. Sounds pretty fucked-up to me… I would never, ever want that. May work for some couples, but it won't ever for me. I'd rather change job (or job schedule, if that's possible), or have my wife change hers, than sacrifice my marriage. Marriage > Job.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:58 AM
4

Man loves his wife. Ah, you can tell? ;-) Can't blame him. I think that people don't make a big enough deal about marriages where the partners are still fucking like teenage rabbits. Which is something I strive to keep on doing until my dying breath. It will require constant progression, constant learning, constant evolving, never standing still, constantly exploring new things, to keep that spirit alive, for me to keep it as exciting to my wife as it is to me, and for her vice-versa. I am bless…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:45 AM
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Too pornographic for you? Let me rewrite it then: I’m lucky. I have a wife who can’t wait to sit hand-in-hand on the sofa with me. Who loves everything that comes with it, the quiet reading, the cups of tea, the romcoms we watch together in silence, the hand on her knee when I try to get up to go to the toilet, the buttered toast I make for her, our speculations about what the weather will bring tomorrow, the warm milk she makes before bed, the pecks on the cheek before we retire into our separa…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:30 AM
2

…misogynists, virgins, and angry. Lol yeah. The misinformation and the misconceptions about TRP that you can read in other subs are truly astounding… Poor blue pill white knight, this guy has probably gotten orbiter status from every woman who he's approached. I know a few gamers myself (all in their early twenties), and every single one of them has (as far as I know) never even tried to approach a woman. They are completely socially awkward. I guess the only women they ever see are those on the…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:21 AM
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...as well as probably playing video games all day & night. His whole posting history is filled with posts about video games...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:53 AM
4

Wife's pregnant so I've been having pussy withdrawal. You make it sound as if that's necessarily so… which is not the case. Not only have I heard stories about women being pregnant and craving sex like crazy, I've experienced it myself, when my wife was pregnant with our daughter: she was like an animal! Have you discussed this with your wife? Are you sure you're not just assuming something, and all the while she's craving sex?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 07:17 AM
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I'm 49 and married… and I guess I'm in stage 3. Firmly. Been in stage 1 for many, many years, but I don't think I was in stage 2 for more than a few months… Thanks TRP! You saved my marriage…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:19 AM
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(...obviously, I wouldn't even be here if I weren't interested - truly interested - in you ladies. I think you are awesome...)
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 01:00 AM
1

I have been doing, and will keep on doing, my best, ladies! With the kindest regards, heeb :-) <3
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 12:57 AM
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+1 She's awesome. Not all, but most here, will recognise this.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 12:51 AM
1

You are right; my example was bad.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 12:28 AM
3

Ooooooh, that wouldn't be me! I'm not angry, nor negative, about women in general, nor any group of women in particular! I am very proud of all you women in here (RPW), and the many women in my life (in particular: my wife, my daughter, my mother, my sister). Yes, I am a RP man. Yes, women are awesome. Fuck any negativity. That's not me, ever. Keep it up, ladies!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 12:26 AM
6

Kudos, excellent comeback! (although pissing in someone's sink is really an asshole thing to do, and maybe not always the RP thing to do; use common sense always; question yourself whether it's justified, or whether you're just being an asshole…)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:56 PM
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Can we do this every week? Instead of asking that question, just post the question again, next week. RP doesn't ask; RP does.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:40 PM
1

(...I think you're supposed to contrast it with a (probably only very slightly) similar - but way better - RP thought pattern...)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:39 PM
2

I'm white, my wife is west-African. We met in Vienna where we were both living at the time, have been together since (11 years now). Our 8-year-old daughter is mixed-race obviously, and therefore extremely beautiful and intelligent (mixing genes is a good thing). We are going strong. Wife is very, very loyal, dedicated, RPW without knowing it.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:59 PM
2

You're still very young. Patience, patience...
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:41 PM
2

Does this work? http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/search?q=flair%3A%27ltr%27&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance&t=all
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/14 05:06 PM
6

Maybe you're right. What if we replace "catcalled" by "groped"?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:31 PM
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Yes. The use of Common Sense is highly recommended.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:34 PM
12

BP: I am such a nice guy. For instance, I let my ex-girlfriend stay at my house the other day, with her new boyfriend. I don’t think I like him very much, he’s… such a bad boy. He even pissed in my kitchen sink! When I asked him why he would do such a thing, he just smiled wryly at me, with some evil grin. I don’t know why she has fallen for him, honestly. He even has other girlfriends on the side! I hope she’ll come back to me one day… I mean, I’m such a nice guy! I’m so much nicer than him! RP…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:28 PM
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BP: I don’t really know what I want in life. I mean, I studied to become Bachelor of Arts in Economic Andragogy In The 17th Century, and I studied to get my Master’s Degree in Theoretical Sociopathological Psychology From A Feminist Perspective, and they told me I would totally get a job straight after, but it’s hard to get up in the morning to look for jobs. Jobcentre closes at 4pm, but often I’m still sleeping at that hour. I’m a night owl, really. That’s not my fault, is it? RP: I wish my day…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:08 PM
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BP: Ah, my best female friend whom I met just last week needs a place to sleep! I don’t have a spare room, but I just offer her the other side of my bed. Sex is not too important to me anyway (I can always jerk off in the toilet), so I’ll totally respect her and won’t make advances. I’ll make breakfast for her in the morning! She’ll probably need money for a taxi, and who knows, maybe she’ll give it back to me one day, but if not, then I’m totally fine with that. I mean, she’s such a good friend…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:52 PM
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BP: Oh my, what a beautiful girl over there at the other end of the bar! I think I’ll be too shy to go over and talk to her, but that’s okay, I’ll just wait here until she comes over to me. If I just keep staring at my shoes, eventually she’ll fall in love with me. Right? I mean, girls eventually fall for nice guys, right? RP: Ah, that’s a 7, right over there at the other end of the bar. Nice that she keeps on staring in my direction, but I’ll just keep on talking to the 3 girls standing around …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:35 PM
1

BP: OMG, GF has been catcalled by gentleman living down the street. I’d better recommend her not to go that route again, she should just go in the opposite direction. We don’t want trouble. RP: GF has been rudely catcalled by asshole living down the street. I’ll go over there now and tell him in no uncertain terms that that was the very last time, or he will have to scrape the remains of his balls out of his arsehole. I’ll also inform him that catcalling with no teeth could be difficult.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:25 PM
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BP: OMG, she’s not happy because I don’t do enough household chores. I’d better start doing all that she’s complaining about, and do some extra, that’ll hopefully make her happy. Maybe she’ll reward me with a hand job later, but even if she doesn’t (she probably won't), maybe I’ll be happier, because maybe she’ll be a bit happier with me. RP: She says she’s not happy because she thinks I don’t do enough household chores. Let me just look at her amused for a few seconds, then tell her she’ll be g…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:07 PM
0

Way too complicated. When my woman is being silly, I inform her that she's being silly and that +1 punishment is coming up. A punishment consists of a good, rough pounding in the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:30 AM
1

She really doesn't like feminism...
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:44 PM
1

Lot of negative comments here, but… she's not alone. She has these male coaches there as well. I'm still starting out with this, but it doesn't sound too bad. Some good tips there. I'd say, take away from it what you like, and disregard what you don't.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:07 PM
1

Nooo, she's not really very active on the internet… She does some Facebook, we Skype when we're away from each other, and she uses it to do research for her studies (Masters, mental health nursing), but that's about it…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:14 PM
0

...you are being hated and oftentimes if you don't hate back at least a little bit you will be taken down I like to think I'm strong enough to not be taken down, while not hating at the same time. When I'm concentrating at becoming a better man, who’s going to take me down? I simply don’t have the time to acknowledge their hatred; I ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 11:10 AM
2

I have a hard time finding female friends of my own Oh, I would love for you to become my wife's friend :)
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:37 AM
3

Never discussed it with wife. She doesn't have a clue, she's just very much happier than before! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 01:16 PM
4

This is why men in "happy relationships" need TRP especially badly. Too true. I've been married for 9 years now, and we have an 8-year-old daughter. I've discovered TRP only about a year ago. It has saved my dying marriage. TRP is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:47 PM
1

You think now would be the time for dread game? She has no respect for him, not yet anyway, so dread game will fail miserably. No, he needs to stop talking / asking about Doug (butt-hurt), and start asserting himself in the bedroom. He needs to become a man first, before he can invoke dread game.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:12 AM
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Do not link that shit...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:40 AM
2

Thanks for the insight! I appreciate it. ADDED: Oh, and yes, I do consider my wife high value. Obviously :)
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:31 AM
1

I think you just opened my eyes… Unbelievable. My wife is very quick at making loads of female friends, but she's also very quick, too quick in my eyes, at ending such friendships. Sometimes these friendships have lasted years, were deep, meaningful friendships, but then a friend makes a mistake, sometimes (in my eyes) quite a trivial one, and my wife just ends it. What would be a good approach to try and change this behaviour? Or would you recommend I just leave it like it is? It's not hurting …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:08 AM
3

but men still suck. Where did she say men still suck? I didn't hear that at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:26 AM
1

“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” -- George Bernard Shaw OP, respect. You are now shaping your future, instead of your past shaping you. Awesome read. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:26 PM
2

Thank you. Your story sound eerily similar to mine. The Captain Picard and Commander Riker thing is indeed an excellent example: mutual respect that is earned, never demanded. Excellent. Good luck with the rest of your journey!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:25 AM
1

Welcome! Indeed, stick around. There is truth in TRP.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:02 AM
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Rule number 1 - dont get married....perhaps one of the most critical lessons that TRP teaches. If one chooses to ignore that fact and get married, then you deserve to get raped for making such a huge mistake. Some of us – me, for example – were married already when we discovered the red pill. Now I’m once again happily married, a marriage that almost ended, but TRP saved it. We have a wonderful daughter, who needs both her mother and her father, and she needs us to be together. TRP has been, and…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 10:58 AM
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That’s quite a list of demands you have there, love. Let’s see: I refuse to lower the bar. But you will, soon. When you smash into that wall even harder than you already have, that bar will come down to ground level. The key to what we want is respect. Going through the list, I see only things that you want. I do not see anything that you are prepared to offer. And about respect: you do know that that’s usually earned, don’t you? We want to be mentally stimulated, to be challenged – we want a sp…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:42 PM
3

Wikipedia: In 2000, 11% of children were living with parents who had never been married, 15.6% of children lived with a divorced parent, and 1.2% lived with a parent who was widowed So, yes, rare, but not that rare…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:34 PM
6

I've tried more aggressively kissing her, and throwing her up against the door to kiss her, and all I get is resistance from her. I don’t know to what level you’re taking this, but might it be that you’re being too rough, too quickly? If it borders on domestic violence (or even giving her the thought that that is where this might be heading), then be careful. Being strong, dominant is good. Being truly violent with your woman is never a good thing. Domestic violence is evil, and omega as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:36 PM
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Could be gay? I mean, 22... might still be in the closet.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:50 PM
4

"Single mom" == "Single mom". Period. How is a widow with kids NOT a single mother?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:22 PM
1

I love things like Queen's "We Are the Champions". Strong lyrics, super strong music. Freddy was gay, but as a performer manly as fuck.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 12:12 PM
1

The whole thing is a work of art
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:11 AM
2

Single Moms are Single Moms because they're bad decision makers Sometimes they're widows... Not really the woman's fault when the father gets cancer and dies. Having said that, I agree with what you wrote for the most part.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 09:58 AM
1

How did I not know this guy? This is awesome! This is so politically incorrect, it's delicious!
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:40 AM
1

Our language is profoundly biased… I do it all the time -- I can't seem to break the "guys" habit. Must be our fault then? We still use male words, usually to denote positive categories, like "mankind," but female terms for negative ones, "hos," and "sluts." Oh, so bros don't exist? Chavs, non-existent? Guidos, anyone? We don't, for example, sit kids down and talk to them about the social harms of "b*tch," even when used affectionately. No, indeed, I don't sit my kid down for that… Women are rou…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:00 PM
3

Research shows that most people don't see sexism even when it's right in front of their noses. That's probably because it's not really sexism… …this study about the invisibility of sexism. Invisible, maybe, because… it's not really there? "Many men not only lack attention to such incidents… No, we just don't have time for nonsense like this. We've got better things to do. … less likely to perceive sexist incidents as being discriminatory and potentially harmful for women." Because a) maybe these…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:00 PM
1

I totally agree with you. TRP saved my marriage as well. Congrats! I plan on posting something in /r/DeadBedrooms soon, as TRP totally turned that around, and I think at least some people there could use a healthy dose of RP… I'm also generally right because most marriages are Deadbedroom Blue Pill dog and pony shows. Yep. Mine was. But now that I’m the King, my Queen can’t wait to open herself up for her daily love injection. Being wrong 10% of the time doesn't nullify me being right the other …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:59 PM
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You’re generalising. Men can be RP while being happily married to happy RP wives. In fact, TRP saved my marriage…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:46 AM
1

Wow, while reading about this I came across http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womyn-born_womyn This is just fascism, plain and simple… WTF
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:11 PM
2

Did she seriously not expect any kind of retaliation when she started getting violent? No, because feminism.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:04 PM
1

Given the fact that poster's name is authorklrich, and the video is by, well, "evangelist" K.L. Rich, I think she is a sister, not a brother. By the way, I can't quite tell if this whole video is satire, or serious…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/14 08:43 PM
1

If you are the King of your castle, and she is your Queen, how can that happen? You rule, because you’re the King. When she behaves well, reward her by fucking her good, long, deep, for both your pleasures. If she’s misbehaving, being silly, shit testing you, then punish her, by fucking her hard, for your pleasure, and for her punishment. Make her feel, literally, how she’s behaving, either way. ADDED: Oh, and of course, refusing sex is deserving of aforementioned punishment. Maybe not straight …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 11:45 AM
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Yes, how barbaric, patriarchal, medieval of men to force their wives to accept their surname after marriage… Yes, how silly of women to still accept this sexist practice. /s Yet, when you click “Should women take their husband's surname?”, you see an overwhelming majority of people still somehow liking this “sexist, medieval” tradition (I got 86% yes, 14% no).
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 11:39 AM
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No. This post shouldn’t have a “too long, didn’t read”, because not only is it not too long, it’s an excellent read, and you should read it. This post doesn’t deserve a summary, it deserves to be read. OP, excellent post.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 10:43 PM
2

How is racism Red Pill?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 09:43 AM
3

Plot twist: he was talking about her pubic hair...
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:37 PM
2

Yes, and I lived with a feminist woman for like 4 years. Thanks, /r/theredpill , for opening my eyes!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:38 AM
5

That's a 6? More like a 2... She is hideous.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 03:24 AM
1

Congratulations!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:58 AM
1

Wow, those are ugly...
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 04:48 PM
25

Just spin little saucers instead of plates
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:49 AM
1

Sorry, didn't know. That explains it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 10:06 AM
1

Why exactly is that wrong?
/r/seduction12/03/14 05:06 PM
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I'm 49 and my sex drive is higher than it ever was. I don't see why this trend won't continue.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:37 PM
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