hefledthescene Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? I got really comfortable being alone. A few years ago I got off social media, & not a fan of dating apps. I own a coffee shop & day trade for work. I do lots of concerts & camping trips, cook, box, so I have plenty of hobbies and friends to do them with. There's a tolerance of bs that's really low at this point. Im not interested in dating anyone who I'm not comfortable raising kids with. The long term thinking rules out so many people instantaneously. Chronically online, no hobbies, always suck…	/r/seduction	30/06/24 08:46 PM
3	John Steinbeck understood the heart of it... Sorry, should have been clearer. I agree with Steinbeck and the communism bad idea here.	/r/MGTOW	05/12/19 06:13 AM
3	John Steinbeck understood the heart of it... Capable individuals and limited governments. Sounds good to me.	/r/MGTOW	05/12/19 05:56 AM
1	How do I hook up with girls in college? For starters, do you ever let any of them know you think they're attractive/cute? Until you do, they may not even consider you a sexual possibility. After/ during a conversation that's going well, I've dropped " you're fun, any bf/gf/husband/wife/children/cats in the picture?" They laugh, I get a yes or no. If yes, I say cool, we're gonna be friends and just continue on. If single, I pause, give a little smirk and say "interesting..." and then continue the banter. Many will disagree with this ap…	/r/seduction	05/12/19 05:44 AM
4	Did I come too strong? You came onto her. You guys had good chemistry. She's seeing someone, you continue the banter. She saw you with a pretty girl. She blocked you. Sound about right? Sounds like insecurity and a bit of jealousy on her end. She likes you and is trying to distance herself from you to "do the right thing." I'd move on from her, but keep talking to her like nothing happened. Don't let her know you care about it. Ambivalence is powerful. If she's seeing someone why would you be wrong for talking to some…	/r/seduction	05/12/19 02:07 AM
0	Instead of gaming, why not talk to her as you would to any human being? All this says is that your regular personality is that of the gay friend	/r/seduction	05/12/19 01:12 AM
3	I love you all, but I couldn’t help but chuckle. Yes, it was stolen from r/memes hey now, my splint is on my left wrist xD	/r/seduction	05/12/19 12:02 AM
1	Desperate BREAKUP Advice Needed!!! I'm more concerned that you keep finding yourself in this situation. If you're dating them just for the sex, stop. Dating means relationship. Have casual fun with them first and if that chemistry is there and you want to go further, then they get to date you.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:38 PM
1	So how exactly is daygame supposed to work? Damn! You're more comfortable approaching than I am. But I was thinking that it'd be really useful for people on here see footage of your interactions, get a sense for where there's potential to improve on. Maybe find a private forum where that'd be possible to protect your anonymity.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:17 PM
1	So how exactly is daygame supposed to work? Thanks for the clarification. Have you considered working someone, whether a coach or just someone ahead of you in the dating game?	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:01 PM
2	So how exactly is daygame supposed to work? Sounds like you have some shame or potential embarrassment around the idea of talking to strangers because of the age thing. Are you comfortable enough to talk to everyone when you're out? Compliments and directions type stuff? If not, I'd say start there. Practice approaching + openers to subcommunicate you're a normal guy. Once that's locked in, move on to connection and conversation. There's nothing unnatural about a single man talking to a single woman as long as everyone's consenting. It's …	/r/seduction	04/12/19 08:28 PM
3	How To Get Women To Invest In You Same tactics used for different intentions. Leadership is also manipulation.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 07:18 PM
3	How do you guys deal with contraception? I'm breeding an army Genghis Khan style. No rubbers. Just kidding. Bring your own. The risk is too high. I'm at an age now where I won't sleep with someone unless I trust them. Not saying you have to go that far, but this isn't something to take a chance on.	/r/seduction	03/12/19 10:32 PM
1	I'm starting to get that creeping feeling of entitlement How many guys your age do you know who have it together like you do? It's going to be the same with women- not very many. Have a realistic view of the situation and then filter for quality. It's ok to have standards, but ultimately the girl gets to say yes or no. Have fun. You're in a good place at your age.	/r/seduction	03/12/19 10:14 PM
2	Seriously asking: is all of this even worth it? I need honest responses I went bald at 21. Was 305 lbs til 25 years old. Got my shit together, lost 50 lbs, worked on facing all my fears and getting over the fear of rejection. First gf at 29. She was 20. We're all gonna make it brah. Keep going.	/r/seduction	03/12/19 07:44 PM
9	Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive Girls Dating someone you're not attracted to but get along with is basically just hanging out with friends. Pretty messed up for both people involved because of the expectations that go with dating. Be honest with yourself and with her. Nothing good comes of starting a relationship based on a lie.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 06:03 AM
4	Dear seddit I've been drinking and have done 1000's of approaches and coach in my down time... here are some harsh truths for you all Strong retard logic. Of course you'd want your coach care about your success. Imagine having gone through the pain of being forever alone, then having figured it out beyond your wildest dreams. Then you want to help others who also have that pain. But when you try to show others the way, they sabotage themselves. It's very frustrating. The rant is warranted. An occasional brisk kick in the ass is still a step forward.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 03:27 AM
63	What We Should Have Learned in School But Never Did "So often our self-worth and self-esteem are determined by some form of external validation. For some people it’s a promotion at a job, having their book become a bestseller, or selling their startup. For others, it’s their romantic partner. But as long as you’re trying to fill a void with something external, you’ll be attempting to fill a bottomless pit. When one problem gets solved, another one shows up." He certainly nails the external validation and self-worth bit.	/r/seduction	08/02/18 04:18 PM
3	Girls are not my priority, I feel like this harms my game more than anything else. sweeping generalization much?	/r/seduction	25/11/14 06:04 AM
4	How to become outcome independent beyond "just doing it? Are there any guides or steps to take to become outcome independent? If you find yourself getting caught up, maybe you're doing too much too quickly. In the same way that asking a cute girl for the time is less intimidating than asking for her number when you're starting out, you should do the same for your conversations. How about just talking to someone to get to know what makes them tick? Or to bullshit and have fun? Go into it with the sole intention of bullshitting and having a conversation. Don't worry about getting numbers or lays. Once you get comfortable…	/r/seduction	27/08/14 05:44 AM