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Discussionheftsirr/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:29 PM
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Second link “average woman” search led me to this: https://badgirlsbible.com/weight-expectations The average ideal body that women expect of men only 10% of men have. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:49 AM
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“In this regard, Chavez36 examined both male and female batterers and found a higher prevalence of borderline personality characteristics in both when compared to nonbatterers. Stuart et al37 examined female batterers who were arrested for domestic violence and found that 27 percent met the criteria for BPD.” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2790397/ “Findings showed that 73% of BPD subjects engaged in violence during the one-year study period, and frequently exhibited co-morbid anti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:44 AM
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Damn, I dunno how I’ve only met hoes then. Well educated ones at that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:42 AM
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K, thanks for the clarification. I think if you include sex after 2-4 dates that doesn’t lead into a relationship or any further sex then most women OLD are having casual sex, in spite of not wanting it But for the sake of your argument most women aren’t outright looking for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:40 AM
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I’ve heard of WAY worse forms of punishment in sadomasochistic arrangements Check this documentary out: https://youtu.be/Gu0wmiIngAw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:37 AM
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Wow that’s wild
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:35 AM
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Actually: “Two related factors—education and intelligence—are highly predictive of having a large number of sex partners. Some of us have a mental portrait of Promiscuous America that looks like the Jerry Springer Show, but this doesn’t seem to comport with reality. People with post-graduate degrees are much more likely than their less-educated peers to be promiscuous, and this is especially true of women. “ https://ifstudies.org/blog/promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:20 AM
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Does casual sex exclude sex had after a few dates or does it include it if it doesn’t lead to a relationship? Or does casual sex only mean ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:12 AM
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I don’t think this would work. Not all BPD present the same way and how they hurt people differs as well. Some are violent. Some are more cunning. I think what would work better is a database where one chooses to sign up and put their name in the registry where people who also sign up can choose to leave reviews. So you basically enter into a silent contract with potential dates who are also open to being reviewed that both know should anything go awry it will be shared publicly. A pre-date acco…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:32 AM
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This is not true that they only take it out on themselves. I’ve been stabbed by a BPD in the heat of one of her explosions, not to mention punched, kicked, letting go of steering wheel, throwing knives, plates, bottles, hitting, scratching, and every type of verbal assault imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:22 AM
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I think most of us are here because it’s the only place to discuss dating from a slightly different angle than is allowed in mainstream Reddit r/dating type subs. Where the rhetoric is largely “blue pill” and any comment that questions it is downvoted to hell, met with personal attacks, or results in being banned. Not that all of those things don’t happen here, but you do have a wider variety of opinions expressed here, and sometimes interesting dialogue ensues. For example, I got banned from a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:16 AM
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It sounds like it’s in the context of a consensual agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:58 PM
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What do those stats say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:04 PM
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That’s 6 women a year vs 0 for some men…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:33 PM
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Once every 2 months is very likely feasible and probably far more sex than a lot of men are getting anyways Edit to add: $300-500 is for HIGH QUALITY like 10/10 women. If there are more escorts per it becoming a normalized commodity there will be cheaper prices + one can always go for cheaper less attractive women How would YOU price one hour of sex? What’s a “fair” price to you? If it cost $100 for an hour would that make it Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:22 PM
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That’s why I’m saying normalize it as a society. Make escorts a more common, acceptable service. We’ve already normalized OnlyFans. Plus, I think men care about the stigma (mostly from other women) more than the money. Either way, current rates at $300-500/hour isn’t THAT bad. Most men can afford that. And saves them copious amounts of time and emotional energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:07 AM
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I think you bring up a good point: men should normalize paying for sex if it’s only sex they want. It’s much easier on everyone involved. And the best point you brought up: be humble. What a rare trait nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:53 AM
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Everyone needs to step back, step outside, turn off their electronics, wake up from this capitalist commodity driven nightmare, “eat the rich”, establish small communities that thrive on ethical living, teach children practical and practicable spirituality that honors themselves and their immediate environment, we need to instill VALUES in youth that obliterate the drive to power and leave some starving while others gorge on profits at the expense of the “weak” , improve public welfare by engagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:50 AM
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I like this one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:41 AM
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I like this one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:41 AM
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I think some apps used to do this, like Match.com and OKCupid. But you gotta remember companies are there to make money not to help people find love. And their algorithms are trained or made to keep people hooked on swiping. There’s probably a pretty interesting statistic behind this where it’s [# of profiles 1 out of 100] - {x amount of swipes + y amount of matches + a number of messages} : {z amount of time in between matches + z2 amount of time on app} + {# of matches app hints you have avail…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:36 AM
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My bad I forget you guys are different. Either way - members of the satanic temple are likely not as inclined to fall into the submissive housewife role you’re looking for, I imagine they are more feminist-activist independent-woman types. But I don’t know. You tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:45 PM
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Even outside of fitness it’s about diet. If you restrict your caloric intake and remain as inactive as you are you’ll lose weight - let’s say you eat 3000 calories a day, cut down to 2000 calories a day, weight will be lost - add exercise and you expend calories on top of restricting your diet and bam you lose weight continuously or exchange fat and convert it into muscle, so your weight may remain the same but you become fit/toned. Weight itself isn’t necessarily an indicator of fitness, howeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:02 PM
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Haha this made me laugh. I’m sure they do But why not do something about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:16 PM
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Me? I haven’t commented on this thread or implied anything. I was just providing stats in response to your last portion of the comment from the article saying less than high school education portion changes things. I don’t think it changes things in the context of this conversation because that portion of men/women that don’t follow the pattern of dating up are a very small portion of the population and not representative of the demographic most of us are dating within. I doubt many PPD commente…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:08 PM
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Lol I don’t think satanic church qualifies in this context as much as I respect it; women attracted to the Anton Levay and Satanism are gonna be an exception to the norm and I would imagine most don’t subscribe to the “submissive Christian” values you’re looking for. Try joining a Christian church and becoming a youth pastor. I bet tons of women would be after you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:50 PM
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In 2020 90.3% of men and 90.6% of women have completed a high school education or more. So less than high school education is a very small percentage of the population and I would argue doesn’t really matter for this threads point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:46 PM
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Right, RP or BP or PP or whatever it seems silly this sub is so hell bent on men only existing to fuck women without any emotional needs when in my experience men are the ones craving love MORE than women, as it’s something they entirely lack access to. It’s easy for women to find someone not only to fuck them but most can find love without much struggle, and it’s usually the guys falling head over heels for the women that get left whereas the guys not falling head over heels with the women that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:53 PM
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Which is silly because in my experience men crave love and commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:38 PM
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The most important aspect of attraction for both genders is initially physical. There’s nothing wrong with this. Neither man nor woman sees an ugly person and thinks “damn I want to get to know their personality so that I can potentially date them” however repeated exposure and close proximity to an ugly person that reveals their positive personality over time can result in increased attraction from either gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:30 PM
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Haha nah, really? That means almost every woman views their partner as less-than the men she previously slept with that wouldn’t commit. This can’t be true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:26 PM
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I have some conjecture but I’d also like to know what’s shifted so much. Maybe the way men were raised vs women with feminism finally having taken hold and been internalized by men in the last 10-20 years vs it being somehow different before then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:22 PM
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Most people operate such that physical attraction comes first, and without it mental attraction can’t be developed. Otherwise, most humans operate such that repetitive exposure and close proximity resulting in comfortability increases attraction over time, where it may not have otherwise been initially present - enabling physical attraction to come second to mental/emotional attraction; even then, most people can’t bypass a complete lack of physical attraction no matter how agreeable someone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:08 PM
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Curious if it’s got something to do with the fact that men produce sperm and have something they physically feel the need to literally expel from their bodies, whereas women ovulate and cyclically feel attraction-bonding-desires,; so something to do with hormones and biological “needs” & their cycles/clocks is also responsible for this difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:57 AM
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True, in many instances the traditional model of dating is followed, that other commenter I was exchanging words with seemed pretty salty about it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:37 AM
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I’m not saying anything that opposes this. I’m saying culturally a man paying for dinner with a single woman signaled the date was a date and was an expected action, without which he would be denied the process of getting to know her and develop mutual attraction. And this still happens to this day. Some women are offended when their meals aren’t paid for and won’t pursue a man further if he doesn’t adhere to this old rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:40 PM
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Haha I know I’m not saying THIS IS HOW IT GOES I’m saying this is how it once went in a broadly accepted socially constructed manner And yes today the process is different, men don’t need to pay for dinner or court women via asking their fathers for their hand in marriage or whatever but there are still social dynamics and unspoken rules that most people adhere to which act as signals of availability, romantic interest, and movement from a non sexual relationship to a sexual one or from a casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:37 PM
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And historically speaking as part of the relationship mating ritual it was a sign of roles being established - the dominant party paying and the submissive party accepting payment. It used to be a thing that would deny a man another date a la “he didn’t even offer to pay!” And this still occurs. Because men and women have attached masculinity to paying and femininity to being paid for. We’ve as a culture established certain expectations for action as signs of “gentleman” and “ladylike” behavior …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:31 PM
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You’re saying the exact same thing with different words. Objectively what’s happening when people go on dates is each is exploring chemistry/attraction that leads to sex/relationship - which is meta-thematically part of a socio-sexual contract between both parties - if person A meets requirements 123 (chemistry, politeness, attractiveness) that generally follow pattern ABC (date, dinner, kiss, hold hands, laugh, tease, imagine future, etc) then outcome X (sex, relationship) happens. I’m not sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:18 PM
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This is the choice between sadism and masochism. I choose power - dump 100 women. I couldn’t handle being dumped 100x.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:58 PM
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Yes I could’ve worded it all better. Point being that paying for dinner as a sign of mutual attraction that leads to sex isn’t inherently wrong and is comparable to a woman expecting a man to behave in a certain way that leads to chemistry/attraction in order for sex to happen. In other words both genders are obligated to each other by nature of attraction /chemistry to perform their respective roles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:35 PM
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No they don’t AND yes they do (both men & women expect certain things); men are obligated by society’s outdated standards to pay for women’s shit on a date in the same way businessmen are in unspoken obligation to pay for the meal when they initiate the meeting with a client. Even absent paying for things, women are in an unspoken obligation to be sexual with a man they are interested per the rules and expectations of dating, where the man is under unspoken obligation to behave in certain ways. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:29 PM
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You say this until you are in a situation where abortion makes sense. I don’t know how many people exist that say and believe this exact bullshit until they get an unwanted pregnancy and abort the child. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:01 AM
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Can’t find article I referred to I don’t remember my search, type in MSM sex partners or something like that Otherwise here’s a comment from someone else with sources: “Studies on gay men and number of sexual partners: In the USA the General Social Survey from 2008–2018 shows that gay men had a median of 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. 48.1% reported between 0 and 9 partners. 35.4% reported between 10 and 49 partners. 16.5% reported 50 or more sexual partners. In the UK the NATSAL 2013 rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:11 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:24 AM
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Being what the scientific articles called MSM (men who have sex with men) doesn’t make one more statistically likely to have a high number or frequency of partners. 11-22 being the average lifetime partners. Interestingly one study found 1% had 400+
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:24 AM
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Well this made me do some research and it looks like statistically being gay doesn’t make you more promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:21 AM
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Super interesting and valid perspective. Kinda funny men had issues with logistics and women with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:13 AM
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I honestly didn’t even read this as coming from the posters own experience with rejection but I feel like a better rebuttal than name calling would be to simply counter his arguments women rebuff advances from whoever they want, whether or not they know the person. Any reason they want to deny someone is fair game. So what if it’s more complex and nuanced than a typical mans acceptance of any woman that’s attractive. preselection exists because it’s demonstrative of ones value. In the same way m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:03 AM
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This is kinda annoying in PPD threads (& I suppose is a problem with humanity in general) - one may be entirely off base with their argument, but I’d rather see discussion than hurling insults at the person sharing. “You’re wrong because you’re probably a loser” doesn’t address the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:49 AM
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Can you provide multiple examples pls, not a troll question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:44 AM
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That’s great then, what the closest major city to you? Fortunately I make OK $, but if I were to be stuck in $15-17/hour job I don’t think it would be possible to live on a single income where I currently reside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:49 PM
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That’s great then, what the closest major city to you? Fortunately I make OK $, but if I were to be stuck in $15-17/hour job I don’t think it would be possible to live on a single income where I currently reside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:49 PM
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I guess what’s one supposed to do but try to opt out of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:46 PM
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Just noticed that oops
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:23 PM
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Haha good way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:22 PM
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It’s really crazy. I don’t see this as sustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:20 PM
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How much do you work and what’s the job market like there? Can an unskilled laborer live contentedly on minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:16 PM
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I like this response in theory but remember we live in a world where most are cattle herded by big brother government and daddy war-bucks and need to be told what they can or cannot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:14 PM
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How though? I’m trapped
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:13 PM
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How though? I’m trapped
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:10 PM
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It’s dumb that idiotic perspectives of religion are swaying what should be individual rights Frustrating and terrifying We’re just gonna see our rights removed one by one until we’re all eating soylent green
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:10 PM
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Ya I don’t understand how they are gonna account for the amount of probably mostly fatherless children or children given up for adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:08 PM
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I wish I had the money to gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:07 PM
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Ah ok, Im no longer at the gym and have time so don’t really care, but I understand and its good there’s a supreme mod court
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:06 PM
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What!? This is entirely on topic - women’s rights, feminism, sex, men’s rights…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:40 PM
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I’m like the furthest thing from a feminist without being entirely misogynistic and even I can’t believe in 2022 the Supreme Court is gonna fuck women’s abortion rights. America is a fucking dumpster fire. unaffordable housing unaffordable healthcare unlivable wages & work hour expectations deletion of middle class mistreatment of minorities wealthy not paying taxes women not allowed to abort unwanted pregnancies The list goes on and on: we live in a Commodity Worshipping Capitalist Nightmare an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:34 PM
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Every woman I’ve befriended in any capacity has ended up hooking up with me or trying to hook up with me or the friendship started as a hookup, so I’ve learned I generally can’t be “just friends” with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:03 PM
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Oh I didn’t get the sense you were digging at men in any way it just felt like a good opportunity to show some gender differences are naturally often going to be confusing to their opposite, and in a kinda funnily conflicting manner - “why do men do xyz” = “why do women do zyx 2.0” hah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:59 AM
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I feel like all of those things apply to women in different ways - why they have sex with random men, even so much as to work for it and consent to it. Why they’ll literally have ZERO shame in admitting they are fucking guys that don’t want to commit to them. No shame at all? (Ok maybe a little shame with women). This one, they have to grow out of before meeting boyfriends and husbands. Why they say they are “working on themselves” and “doing therapy” which = dream analysis, reiki, and astrology…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:20 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:50 AM
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This is confusing. I scan a code and what info do I see? What parameters are in each referral, who is referring who, how does this solve anything? It’s like a more complicated way of showing how many Instagram followers or Facebook friends you have? I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:47 AM
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What do you mean don’t want or need to understand? What aspects of men aren’t worth learning about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:39 AM
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That would be non-attachment. You’re going with the flow of things. “The Buddhist notion of nonattachment relates to an engagement with experience with flexibility and without fixation on achieving specified outcomes.” In your case you may want a girlfriend or sex or whatever but you’re detached from needing that to happen. I think it’s pretty self explanatory. Another way of looking at is you’re acting in the present moment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:35 AM
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Yes, & very into the concept of mythopoeia. I’m kinda envious of Jung. Fan of Manly P. Hall as well. I feel like I haven’t reached a point where I’ve learned or lived through the most important parts of my life lessons - I’ve got a lot of work to do on myself before I feel I can objectively write my story through a cathartic subjective lens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:23 PM
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My favorite: “I can’t get water for free because I’m not a top 10% water drinker, and I really want water, so much in fact that it causes me mental anguish that’s preventing me from moving forwards in life emotionally not having it” “well, you can always pay for water if it’s that important to you” “no way man only losers pay for water!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:14 PM
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Totally, but a lot of guys, myself included, make or have made the mistake of entering the dating atmosphere with a chick you [may] like attached to the idea of her becoming a girlfriend when the real trick, which applies to life in general, is non-attachment or outcome independence. So funny that in order to easily attract what you want you have to essentially not-want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:09 PM
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Either they respond honestly or pull the “I want a relationship with a man - but there are no ‘good men’ that want relationships!” card. put them one on one with Chadly - 3 hours later after a few glasses of wine she’s giving him a blowjob in his BMW or whatever is a Chad-mobile. Put her one on one with an actual good man and 4 hours later after she’s had half a glass of wine & at the end of the interview date she’s turning her cheek when he goes in for a kiss and telling him she doesn’t kiss on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:04 PM
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The simps are the most annoying - it’s like dude what the fuck wake up they are making YOU into a loser/creeep & agreeing with them won’t get you shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:58 PM
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I’m working on it, I’ve already written thousands of pages of creative material. I need to be in writing mode tho and I’m currently in music & research mode. Maybe in a few years I’ll write, I kinda want more crazy shit to happen or some sense of individuation so there’s a satisfactory conclusion. I feel like I’m only in the middle of my story, if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:57 PM
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Never had a thing for chubby girls (I mean depends on what’s considered chubby) but I’d still give the some love :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:56 PM
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I don’t want to share because doing so would connect me to other accounts and it’s too long and I’m about to go to bed. I’ll say this tho: most people tell me to write a book about my experiences; lots of misadventures from small scale crime and violence to surreal madness with three letter government agencies, spanning over multiple continents and involving the types of people you never want to meet. This last year has been the first boring and calm year of my life in over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:25 AM
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What is whipped cream?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:53 AM
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Did a lot of people get banned from this sub the past month? Posts/comments seem a little different Also noticed responses in the main r/dating sub are full of negative comments towards men as creeps and losers, even by men. Like perpetuating really negative stereotypes, or All Men Are Like This. I can see how women would get frustrated at this happening here, the AWALT stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:52 AM
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This sub has nearly immediate replies to any comment so it’s fun - it’s engaging. My life story is crazier than anyone here, I guarantee it. But what brought me to PpD was a return to dating after an LTR and being reminded by that rs and dating how true RP stuff is So it’s fun to use throwaways and share experience, push buttons, ramble
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:48 AM
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Most women are in fact looking for casual sex and do not want relationships. Only after many flings will one of the casual 8+/10s become a boyfriend. It’s FAR easier to get laid than it is to get a girlfriend - it’s easier to get a girl to meet for drinks and ambiguous fun than it is for dinner or a coffee date. if they say they only want a relationship it generally means FOR YOU they consider your pre-date and date to be testing grounds as you have potential for more dates, eventual sex, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:45 AM
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Makes sense. I also don’t know how anyone could get the n-count of so many fat women to come to this conclusion unless they’ve hooked up with a ton that have revealed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:29 AM
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I’m a dude and I think I have a relevant response. While I’ve never been unattractive I’ve been through phases when I was younger (let’s say up to age 23) where I had MANY feminine traits - long hair, curious fashion sense, wore girls pants and retro clothes, was not afraid of my sexuality whatsoever and was in no way shape or form masculine by convention - like, if I had to fight I would’ve had as good of a chance as my girlfriend at the time cause I probably weighed 20lb more than her. I was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:26 AM
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Oh my bad meant to reply to the OP But since you’re here. How’d you gather he got rejected by a fat hoe? the whiny tone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:06 AM
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How exactly do you find out fat chicks are racking up 100s of dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:04 AM
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I’d like to share with you some experiences of my mine: a few years ago I tried to kill myself in 6 different ways, 7 times, and nothing worked for one reason or another. What I’m saying is I can relate to how you feel as I’ve felt that way before. One thing I’ve learned tho, is how we feel is apt to change given time and circumstances. No matter how bad things are (trust me I’ve been at the bottom of the pit) they can change on a dime with a little luck or change of perspective. I know I can’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:34 PM
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Is this true? When people here refer to red pullers who are they referring to? Like what are the main sources of RP ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:31 AM
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Every one I’ve seen has either failed or turned both people miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:29 AM
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I think this is the right answer but is probably unrealistic. How many powerful women actually want to be with men who describe themselves as weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:29 AM
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And they will say “cause that’s how I am. Neither peen nor pussy give me the feels.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:59 PM
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“Adjusted for total brain size (men's are bigger), a woman's hippocampus, critical to learning and memorization, is larger than a man's and works differently. Conversely, a man's amygdala, associated with the experiencing of emotions and the recollection of such experiences, is bigger than a woman's.” There are largely no differences in our brains however. And most interestingly “the neuroscience of sex difference does not merely reflect, but can actively shape the gender norms of contemporary s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:27 PM
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1st question - Wouldn’t the answer simply be “I’m not attracted to men or women sexually or feel sexual arousal”. Just like asking a gay guy why he’s gay he’ll probably say “I like to fuck dudes” How would any potential answer change your mind here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:47 PM
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Why no escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:50 AM
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Can you expand on this? What do you mean more than your fill? Women aren’t worth relationships now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:47 AM
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There is nothing wrong with taking antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:46 AM
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This is shit advice. Anecdotal evidence doesn’t mean anything here and the fact you have kids implies you were already desirable. What makes you think he’ll suddenly be successful with women and what is he supposed to fix?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:44 AM
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That’s pretty soon bro, you alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:42 AM
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Science already has done this and these meds are called antipsychotics. Olanzapine in particular in my experience. Desire for sex? Out the window. Emotions? What were those? It literally makes EVERYTHING OK. You pop an olanzapine and all you need is snacks and a tv and that’s that. But. Do. Not. Take. Antipsychotics. Especially olanzapine. It’s a thienobenzodiazapene. Which is like klonopin/Xanax/Valium on steroids. Rots your brain. Straight poison. Nearly impossible to get off. But if you reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:41 AM
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I know a lot of men in their 50s who married beautiful Filipino women half their age so that sounds like a solid plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:27 AM
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Idealistically: I think we should all be actively trying to wake people up in ways they understand. Infiltrate media and politics and Instagram and Netflix and video games. We just need a few super rich people to fund positive mind control and brainwashing campaigns We can use PSYOPs manuals and follow their own protocol, treat it like a mission. It’s really not hard to influence people if you have perceived authority or social status. We need to trick people into waking up and doing the right t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:35 AM
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I dunno what to say beyond that’s dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:39 AM
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Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:37 AM
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Lol I can deadlift 425 weighing 180, I squat 315 for reps of 10. Don’t know who you’re calling a pussy. Last thing I want is to fuck a fat girl that requires effort flipping over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:48 PM
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Ya that’s the crazy thing and yet people still vote and pretend their vote makes one iota of a difference. I personally have never voted or bought into the system. I don’t pay for healthcare. It’s cheaper for me not to. My prescriptions aren’t even covered until I meet an unattainable deductible anyways. I cheated the system last year by only working cash gigs and therefore making under the limit on paper such that I qualified for Medicaid. That wasn’t sustainable tho so I’m back to paying full …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:44 PM
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I’m starting to disagree with a lot of posts here like this that I once would’ve enthusiastically said yes! That’s true! - Cause life is a lot more complex and nuanced than posts like this Inter. Literally not all humans are like this or not all marriages or men/women are like this applies here. Shitty relationships may be like this, so view partially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:46 PM
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That is interesting tho that it’s easier to get a guy than a chick. I really wonder why that is. I think it’s same for me, I’m not gay, but I guarantee I could go on Grindr and find a hook up in 15 minutes. but to get a chick!? Who knows how long it would take on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:41 PM
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How would sex with women be any different than lust with men you currently have? And sex with men definitely counts as sex bro haha Maybe women aren’t so inclined to sleep with you because you’re busy sleeping with guys and maybe give off a non-straight vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:36 PM
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What do you think is gonna happen? Collapse? To what extent if so? Why aren’t masses of poor disenfranchised people up in arms and just killed the rich and corrupt elite? I mean the wealthy tax loopholes is so obvious it’s painful to watch I don’t understand how we let this shit happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:32 PM
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This is what I don’t understand - how did America fall behind these other countries in terms of Quality of Life? How are the majority of Americans not irked enough to desire and engender change when they see other countries doing so much better in terms of simple things like healthcare and minimum livable wages? What message is being spread to Americans that makes them think our system is fine how it is? Like how do we get the country to wake up and change and not be complacent accepting such a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:15 PM
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That’s your personal preference and I respect that. I’d rather bang a girl I can grab and flip over than a girl I have to ask to roll over. But that’s just me. I’ve always preferred healthy weight and skinny women, with curves of course, and I’ve been spoilt having slept with many women way out of my league with IG-model physiques, a lot of dancer-type bodies. Because of this I find women like you describe the equivalent to obese and therefore a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:03 PM
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That’s gross to me. I wouldn’t be seen in public with a woman with that mass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:00 PM
1

Never too late to start. Maybe consider seeing an escort?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:59 PM
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Cool, good that it aligns with your demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:57 PM
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Honestly 30 is not that high - if I lost my virginity at 15, then slept with two women a year until age 30 that’s only 2 women a year; put a few LTRs in there and it only makes for a couple more promiscuous years but is otherwise within reason if I steadily dated. I dunno how old you are but I’d at least bump your number up to 10. It’s incredibly unrealistic for me to expect a woman I date at age 30+ to have had only 3-5 partners. It’s almost laughably absurd. But I’ll double check. Ya Some stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:28 AM
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I see they have not provided a source yet hah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:05 AM
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Why wouldn’t she just be another one of their options then? That’s how dating works. People date people who have options and they pick the best one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:04 AM
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I imagine most men in their 30s will take casual sex but desire a relationship. Could be wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:03 AM
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TEN POUNDS overweight is the different between 5’4” 100lb & 110 lb not anywhere near gross 5’4” 170lb. I would hardly call that overweight. 20lb is noticeable. 10lb is not. I can probably gain and lose 10lb in 5 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:58 AM
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There’s nothing weird about a man having, say 4 LTRs into his 30s and the last one ending for whatever reason. Doesn’t imply he’s not a HMV. Relationships end. People change. Divorce happens. Plenty of normal men that ended up single for whatever reason at 30 - and it’s dumb to judge a man for being single if you’re single yourself so I don’t see why that’s an issue. - that’s why you’re dating - to find other single people. Also if most people are doing something that would imply it’s not weird.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:53 AM
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5 partners by age 30 is probably ideal in your case because those 5 partners were likely LTRs. But if a guy has only had 5 partners and they were all one night hook ups in college I’d say that doesn’t bode well. Most men I know that have low n-count have low n-count for reasons - unattractive, lack confidence, poor hygiene, out of shape/fat. - you wouldn’t pick them out of a line up as men you’d want to be with: So I think attaching value to low partner count is a poor metric for potential. Furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:49 AM
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I made this account just for PPD but I barely use it But then again I have like 500 accounts I don’t know the password to any but what’s auto saved on my phone and all the email addresses are like [email protected] So wha I’m saying is every account i use is a rage bait account in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:25 PM
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It’s a perfect feedback loop: Men that aren’t toxic don’t get laid; men who are toxic get laid; non-toxic men learn toxic traits and get laid; women complain there are no good men when in reality they are turning “good men” down. Shitty behavior = sex; men turn to shitty behavior. Until women stop sleeping with “toxic” men being toxic is gonna be what men learn and strive to become. Which makes it not toxic at all, just the norm. Maybe as men are pushed to accept women’s hypergamy, women are pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:03 AM
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I think you have some good points and from a mans perspective I think a lot of these toxic men don’t actually realize they are toxic or their behaviors are toxic until these relationships end (some of course never introspect and remain the same their whole lives) but it’s definitely a cycle - like finds like and sometimes this leads to either or both parties growing and sometimes it leads to regression and increases toxicity…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:53 AM
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Is it really? What is “non-weird”? It sounds like you’re literally describing the average normal (boring) adult male. Edit to add: I would bet my life that at least half of them want a partner that will commit to them at that level if they are still single in their 30s on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:47 AM
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I’m a male in his early 30a and you’re going to have no trouble if you’re even remotely attractive. There’s 1000 guys waiting to swipe right on you this moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:09 AM
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I feel like this is every post on here tbh “With more water, more wetness results”” “Studies prove water is wet” “Water is also ice! “Water evaporates” “High levels of wetness lead to water-like qualities” “When I drank water it was potable” “the more droplets of water the bigger the pool.” “CMV: cold water is better than hot water” “If you drink water out of a Golden cup it’s better than water from the well.” “even sea water is potable if you filter it correctly”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:06 AM
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Both, I imagine. Like the type of guy that a girl thinks is handsome but won’t fuck on the first date, that needs to use his personality/character or somehow prove is value. The type of guy she gets to know and actually spends time vetting that’s also the “safe” choice like he probably won’t cheat or she won’t have much competition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:52 AM
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What are the stats? Not on what women say they want but on what women actually do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:49 AM
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I think it’s about average or slightly above average from all my peers and what I know about women I’ve been with. But for every guy that has only 3-5 partners there’s the friend with 50+, which is why I’m guessing 20-30 partners is around average for a 30 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:47 AM
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What is average then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:46 AM
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I don’t even use Facebook, it’s just a reference point. My libido is dead from meds but I’m getting off them and it’s coming back ferociously with my brain too. Was a zombie for a while but I required it from the level of trauma I experienced so it had its utility. Either way after sleeping with 30 something women I lost count and I honestly have no desire to sleep with 1000+ women. Sex is great, sure. But I’m nearly antisocial. I dislike people in general (a la my Facebook reference - I don’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:45 AM
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Right!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:00 AM
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I think it’s just the type I attract, so ya I suppose I agree. A more “boyfriend-material” guy may get more dates than offers for casual flings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:47 AM
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1,000? That’s just too many people. I don’t even have 1,000 Facebook friends. I’ve slept with 30+ women and I’d consider myself slightly above average for my age (early 30s). I truly can’t fathom having the time let alone energy or libido to fuck 1,000 women. That’s sleeping with a different woman every 4 days for 10 years. My math may be wrong but that’s crazy. You have to have money=time and basically be at sex parties weekly or have such high status you can pull 9.9/10 women you approach and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:45 AM
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I disagree. I meet more women that just want to fuck around or “have fun & see where things lead” without having to worry about commitment than women that want to go on a date or get to know me. Easier to get a girl to meet me an Airbnb with drinks (sex) planned than to meet for dinner (conversation) and a walk on the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:35 AM
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