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Discussionhehechibby/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:38 PM
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Unhappy men en masse usually don’t affect women much at the micro level but they can at the macro level. Folks usually do things like vote with their best interest in mind. This already is somewhat happening in realtime in some countries
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:09 AM
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If there was some spell / hive mind that literally took over the brains of every man then I suppose men could very quickly rescind any rights granted to women But realistically a lot of men love their mother, aunt, sister, cousin, girlfriend, wife etc and won’t allow it. The number is just greater than the ones that do want to rid women of rights Now for those other countries you stated, I think the larger group is unfortunately the ones that do vs ones that don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:53 AM
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Some sports favor certain body types The average height of a male in the NBA is like 6'7 whereas the average height of a male professional gymnastic is in the 5'4 range, divers ~5'8, distance runners ~5'8 etc obliviously not all of them are smaller; Asian particularly the Chinese do pretty well in olympic lifting and they're in the 5'9 - 6'0 range
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:35 PM
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Being Asian is seen as feminine and submissive Works in the women’s favor, not so much the men’s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:44 PM
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A woman whose brother is a risk taker is also predisposed to be a risk taker, but women are much more heavily discouraged from taking risks from birth. Sometimes it is just genetically the MAO-A enzyme regulates serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine; low activity variants of the MAO-A enzyme are associated with impulsivity, aggression and antisocial traits (complete loss of MAO-A function leads to brunner syndrome which is severe impulsive aggression) since males only have one X chromosome, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:57 PM
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as a species, we are programmed to find children and neotenous traits appealing More so for women? If it was symmetrical, certain races/ethnicities that have more neotenous features like Asian men would be more pursued which isn’t the case generally looking at dating app studies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:45 PM
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society is going to have to actually make it worth women’s to actually be mothers if they want that to change Thing is it a more innate desire of kids that makes it worth it for the women that do have them despite all you said? Would it be possible to spark that desire in a woman that doesn’t want kids? Even if say the society covered all the bases: subsidized needs like diapers, babysitters, food; theoretical artificial wombs so the women’s body doesn’t go through the difficulty or damage of gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:01 PM
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Are you selective in any way when it comes to that? Having "must be X" to ride this ride" on dating profiles etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:11 PM
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Many broke college boys have girlfriends. Isn't being broke in college not that big of a dealbreaker since they're in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:18 PM
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maybe they meant one person sits in the middle with both paddles rowing the boat and the other is massaging them or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:24 AM
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Like couldn’t he have just said the men’s and women’s tennis games are “different”? if asked if Serena was the great tennis player of all time, how would you fit this into an answer without it being in a way men vs women? "Well I think Serena is definitely the greatest tennis player of all time, but just in the Women's version of tennis since they're different" commence further probing and prodding from the interviewer about how they're different... kinda end up at the same place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:32 PM
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I was reading about macaque monkeys and guess what: the weaker males tend to get cast out of the troop by the more dominant males. Their only options are: a) die alone, b) try to join another troop, which is very hard. Boo hoo , life is not fair. there's also chimpanzees and baboons (chacma baboons) where the weaker males form coalitions to attack, kill and displace the alphas to gain access to females can take your pick to which ones are could be most socially related to humans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:56 PM
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There's something at the back of my mind, no matter how real they seemed, I would always know that they weren't and it wouldn't ever fit for me. is the biggest thing knowing no matter what it's not human? I wonder if say they were to get real enough that they were indistinguishable from a human being (besides you knowing beforehand) in feel, aging etc where if you were to go buy one, the company would say you'll get the 'robot' eventually Instead of this robot showing up your door in 2-3 busines…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:12 PM
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There's something at the back of my mind, no matter how real they seemed, I would always know that they weren't and it wouldn't ever fit for me. is the biggest thing knowing no matter what it's not human? I wonder if say they were to get real enough that they were indistinguishable from a human being (besides you knowing beforehand) in feel, aging etc where if you were to go buy one, the company would say you'll get the 'robot' eventually Instead of this robot showing up your door in 2-3 busines…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:04 PM
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Possibly. Though isn’t it seen in recently that the poor reproduce more? While the higher the intelligence reproduce less? Unless it’s a natural thing for future generations to be less intelligent than the previous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:33 AM
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Isn’t there a growing percentage of women choosing not to reproduce at all? Kinda goes against the whole natural thing no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:49 AM
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Yea at some point just say you’re out of practice than saying you’re a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:30 PM
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athletic, handsome and wealthy guy even hypergamous in species, they're usually werewolves or vampires as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:22 PM
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eh the reality is the only 80 year old men knocking up women in their 20s are the really wealthy ones, so they'll at the least be very wealthy single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:34 AM
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expression of your genetics it's not always genetics like male pattern baldness really there's a clinic in near me that gives free / / heavily discounted transplants to burn victims or those that lost a lot due to cancer therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:05 AM
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From the OP, wouldn't the biggest thing (for alpha widows) be their standards? They're desiring someone that checks all the boxes for the 'alpha' to them and won't settle for less, so they're constantly waiting for the right one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:05 PM
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Ofc they all have their different types but the basics are almost always the same: good proportions, above average height, masculine but harmonic facial bone structure etc related
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:27 PM
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Possibly because a percentage of men see sex as a sign of a like a 'genuine', visceral desire/attraction so knowing they have to jump through more hoops (develop a connection, more dates, whatever else) to get to sex when someone 'hookup material' goes straight to it probably their main issue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:33 AM
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Humans can't choose what they're attracted to. Animals can't choose what they're attracted to. It's hardwired - ingrained into our hindbrains. It's purely congenital. Hmm I feel as though while what people are attracted to can't be changed at will, it is capable of changing it seems depending on their experiences, what media / entertainment they've been exposed to and society You can see this in how people can have a certain 'type' of look or features they like in a partner during a certain peri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:17 PM
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If all mutable traits are equalized, top 10% just changes to having all of these + immutable like height, have hair, larger frame, deeper voice, more attractive face, certain color eyes, being of specific ethnicities etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:42 PM
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Didn’t some woman divorce her soccer player husband because he was too perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:15 AM
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Or could be a time thing; eventually settle down and it just happens to be with whatever woman they’re with when they decide to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:14 PM
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Yes, if they are overweight to begin with... like I said. fair enough, though I didn't assume that 'insanely abnormal' would just be overweight, in my mind it was like obese or the like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:23 PM
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Never understood how going to the gym is supposed to give one confidence, unless they had an insanely abnormal body to begin with. Nobody in the real world cares how much weight one can push around, besides a few gay men with a fetish. I don't think it's from the strength gaining portion of the gym but the gains in muscle / loss in body fat There's countless stories about how someone overweight who had been never given the time of day from men or women, only for it to flip entirely when they get…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:00 PM
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Apex fallacy? Most seem to think the neck beard pimply guy surrounded in empty Cheeto bags is the typical gamer, likewise the average guy gym-goer is a narcissistic gym bro bodybuilder that counts every calorie etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:26 PM
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reminds me of the meme 'when women say they do in fact like different kinds of guys'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:22 PM
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Isn’t the red pill more of a description rather than prescription? ‘Hey this is how men and women seem to be interacting with each other in the current social/dating/whatever landscape; men seem to like x,y,z things in women and women seem to like x,y,z things in men. Do with it what you want’
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:12 PM
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Thinking he’s hinting at how most military, and law enforcement forces are men and they’re protecting something, whether citizens or a nation etc (though some may question if they’re actually ‘protecting’)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:34 PM
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Probably always be some game theory present to where, even if all men ‘agreed’ to stop chasing women, a percentage of men will see the opportunity to take advantage of the presumably higher demand for men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:04 AM
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Does that mean single men should have a community as well and look out for each other? I think this would really help ease the loneliness for some men. think this comes down to the difference of being 'alone' vs 'lonely'; monks, religious men as described and the like don't want sexual relationships so while they can be physically 'alone', they never wanted company anyways so now feelings of 'loneliness' whereas perhaps a majority of single men are physically alone and also feel loneliness due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:24 PM
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MeN aRe vIsUaL CrEaTuReS think that's meant more in a sexual context than literal vision capabilities lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:08 PM
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Let’s not forget what happens when stupid men use unregulated gear and don’t add in estrogen to temper it. If they skip estrogen after supplementing test, their erections decline and they get super duper moody, emotional, and their fertility tanks. If you're talking about gear as in anabolic steroids, it's actually sort of the opposite. Supplementing testosterone without using anti-estrogens to keep estrogen in check is what causes the moodiness/emotions since the high amounts of test is being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:23 AM
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Think the red pill side to this is the guarantee of paternity The mother can always ensure it’s her child since it comes out of her, but not so much for the man unless he’s the only one she’s been with Like many past ingrained biological traits, habits or whatever, it hasn’t caught up to modernity with blood testing and all Guess an example for women is how some women wanting taller / larger men etc due to them being able to protect her better, despite in 2025, a similar height/size or shorter m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:13 AM
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Men use the word "pussy" to describe other men that don't fit their antiquated ideals of masculinity. for what its worth, the word pusillanimous is where it came from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:21 PM
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didn't Elon Musk's daughter call him an incel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:09 PM
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Is it mostly a visual thing for you? You’re a size queen but I remember one of your comments in another post about PIV being a struggle (could be wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:18 AM
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Larger dicks are good because they hurt more good because they hurt more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:56 PM
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A lot of these claims are backed by the statistic that 8 inch dildos are generally the most preferred purchase by women. doesn't seem to be? Popular sex toy distributers offer a variety of product sizes. The length of many vibrators and dildos was sized between 4 and 6 in, and circumference was between 4 and 5 in. unless women have suddenly become super size queens in the past decade lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:51 PM
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could be wrong but I believe the 6'/6 figures/6" thing isn't ideals but minimums
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:48 PM
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being athletic and lean for most of my life made very little difference to how attractive I am guess question would be how would you know? compared to some alternate version of you that was very skinny or obese etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:35 AM
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Don't want to 'appeal to nature' heavily here and say it's some biological thing but it always made me feel good to 'provide' in some manner (buying presents for family at Christmas and seeing them happy, paying for lunch out with friends etc); can't pinpoint to why it does though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:12 AM
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Maybe A lot of 'AI enthusiast' we'll call them are already beginning to run AI models locally with the growing capabilities of graphics processors (here you can use your Nvidia RTX GPU to run a local, generative AI model) Wouldn't be too out of the question to have some similar model (open source perhaps) that is also local and is sent (say through wifi) right on over to the sex bot/boyfriend/girlfriend; or the sex bots can have the hardware embedded into the physicals itself Also like how you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:52 PM
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How is it delivered? If I pay is it “alright here’s your ai partner enjoy” Or is it “we’ll send out her out in the world and she’ll meet you through ‘natural means’” then to fall in love, never to know it was AI after all If the first it’d probably never be ‘real’ considering I know she isn’t ‘real’, but I could damn well be tricked with the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:07 AM
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But kids will move out and live their own lives. Sure but probably the biggest thing is the outcome of the kids; having an actual parent raising them would lead to a better life outcome for them than say a stranger nanny babysitting etc Either way if a person is bored or whatever in the relationship and is going to cheat, they're going to cheat either way regardless if they're working or not. If that's a worry that'll always lurki in the back of one's head, it'd be best to never get married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:37 PM
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A big reasons women give for letting them be SAHMs is that it's good for the kids. That may be true There are no downside of a working wife there are no real advatages of a SAHM Contradiction? As you've said yourself, an advantage is it's good for the kids and would be a downside of a working wife (both working parents)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:31 PM
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Red pill is more of a description rather than prescription. The ‘red pill’ informs a man or woman that hey this is the stats and trends on how their respective society generally functions,what men generally seem to find attractive in women for short term / long term relationships, how marriage pans out and whatever else They then can do what they want with that information, if they’re wanting to date then they can self-improved based on those trends (ex majority of women prefer a man that’s fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:17 AM
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Seems like a exaggerated demonstration to sell their therapy course thing A cursory search on reddit (1, 2, 3), it'd seem the husbands aren't touching them enough lol These boundaries tend to be established before the marriage anyways like during the early relationship; you get a feel for each others love language and if one of them is physical touch, you go from there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:00 PM
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Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. don't women out number men in voting? If all the women voted for their rights; men wouldn't have a say in it at all even if they all voted to take it away
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:41 AM
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Young women seem to be more progressive than their male counterparts. Mostly, but strangely not when it comes to Asian women [54% voted blue vs 55% Asian men]
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:35 AM
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Doesn't it depend on attractiveness? Attractive guy with mental illness is mysterious, seen as confident, 'they can fix him' etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:41 PM
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Think the direct reciprocal is calling a man a loser (lower value since he isn't capable of 'providing') or an incel (unable to get relationship/sex/etc from women due to being so undesirable) etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:05 AM
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Blue eyed humans are from a weird ass mutation gene that likely had zero evolutionary advantages. iirc blue eyes are advantageous albeit probably slightly in low light conditions vs darker eye colors (which have advantages in light)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:33 AM
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I mean dudes could try that, but good luck getting enough men onboard. Some game theory there. Every guy stops initiating, women start wondering why aren't they initiating, then a few dudes think "hmm all these women want dates but us guys agreed not to initiate...except me" then he takes advantage of all the women wanting dates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:45 PM
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such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:21 PM
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Working hard at something doesn’t make it admirable, though. Don't think it's the working hard at something in generality but specifically in the context for attraction to the desired gender. Some things like: Fitness. Past a certain point of muscularity, one begins getting more attention from men than women. "Dude you're huge! How much you bench? What do you do for X?" etc. Men know getting very fit is very difficult hence there's that level of respect Money / Wealth. This isn't even a men thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:20 PM
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Read a diversity of books to find different things that appeal to a diversity of women! There's no one size fits all. Sure there's no size fits all but there's a size that fits most; if one has to go looking for the exception to the rule, it proves there's a rule
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:06 PM
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Granted women generally have a stronger sense of community, close knit friendships for that emotional support and platonic physical touch. So maybe that’s something of note to focus on for men, strive to build up your resources so you’re less reliant on a partner for all of those things you see as missing in your life. Just my thoughts, not really backed by anything but I think there's a lot of overlap of platonic relationships and sexual relationships for women than it is for men; the emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:45 AM
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5'5 to 5'8? It'll be tougher sure but can be looked over for those things you said: fitness, successful etc below 5'4 not too sure it'll be rough but there's always the spend $60k+ on limb lengthening as a last resort
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:57 PM
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At least 6' tall At least 6" 6 pack abs, Make at least 6 figures Have a rotation of 6 women to maximize social proof i kid i kid.....i think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:18 AM
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American Football Football athletes lift weights and try to build muscle on their frame, else they’d get demolished on the field by others that do I guess it’s strange you have football under natural muscle whereas they’re typically more muscular than say MMA fighters you’ve posted under too big and defined category
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:29 PM
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the rock, Chris Hemsworth, Michael B Jordan natural bodies Look 'more' natural perhaps, but they're not natural (when preparing for their roles that requires that look) Article interview with a USC biokinesiology and PT doctor "I would say that fifty to seventy-five percent" of Marvel actors are using performance-enhancing drugs (PEDs) of some sort to get in shape for the MCU "Nowadays, it’s kind of expected," Schroeder added, letting slip that, "A lot of actors won’t talk about it openly," but …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:15 PM
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The logic is consistent if both the man and woman see it that way, but there might be some differences in how generally men and women view promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:57 PM
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Think it’s a function of the difficulty that is the difference I suppose similar to trust fund people or folks born into wealth aren’t as respected in a way as self made rich people Or those that take steroids to attain a physique compared to someone doing it without
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:56 PM
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Wonder if it’s a play off of traditional gender roles where Men tend to say I will be ready for marriage/ serious relationship at X age To ‘provide’ he needs to first become established and have the resources to do so Women tend to say I will marry /have a serious relationship if they have these features. If she’s going to be ‘submissive’ and follow the lead, she’s making sure she ain’t following no bum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:32 PM
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Don’t think anyone would like to live in a society where the majority of young men are unhappy and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:46 AM
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Maybe men and women see the loneliness things differently; for men perhaps no matter how much his family is there or other men supporting him, it’s never the same as a genuine desire (either love or sexual) from the desired sex That position could be easier to fulfill for women that even friends, and family can play that role without much difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:25 PM
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Male loneliness compared to women’s is like fasting compared to starving
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:53 PM
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Wonder if it'll just be game theory where even if all the women agree to the rules, some in secret will take advantage now of the surplus of top tier attractive men (due to said agreement) and snatch one up for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:49 PM
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I’d say so Just food for thought but wonder if developing an emotional connection first (through relationship) then sustaining it with sex is better or worse than sex itself making the initial connection then trying to build an emotional connection / relationship afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:45 PM
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Does the plain jane have social media? I'd say the male celebrity here in the sense more people would know he exists since he's a celebrity and all Now if 'exposure' equalized could be a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:46 PM
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But with all due respect.Have you seen what most game devs look like? they certainty aren't henry cavill. Suppose there’s a point to be made here that if one is in an industry that has a specific stereotypical ‘look’ (game dev, software engineer / tech bros), lift and taking care of yourself really sticks you out like a sore thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:29 PM
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Women are hardwired to breed with genetically superior men and weed out genetically unfit men. Hmm I wonder do they now? If entertaining the 'alpha fux, beta bux' dual mating strategy theory, the women are just having recreational sex with the 'genetically superior men' but not reproducing with them, later on they settle (beta bux part) with the not so genetic superior guy but within the settling they reproduce with them instead
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:12 PM
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Isn’t the closest invention surgery kinda
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:07 PM
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Some interesting AI topics With the creation of AI partners (for men and women) as well as, if successful, the creation of an 'artificial womb'; would it be possible to place the artificial-womb inside the AI girlfriend/wife? would child-free women that don't want kids donate their eggs (or be paid for idk) to the AI 'couple' to start a family? Likewise the other way around where child-free men would donate sperm to the AI-husband in the couple for them to start a family? Other thoughts, with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:08 PM
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Prosthetic? Isn’t there something where they put a button in your testicles to press and it pump up the prosthetic for when it’s needed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:06 AM
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"hmm that's the strongest argument against mine so I'll just forbid it from being used!" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:24 PM
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If you got 8” and she can only take 5” then you just only put 4.5” inside her Guess it's just comes down to what "can take it" means. If a women can only take the tip or a few inches, is that considered she can take it? I'd imagine what comes to mind for 'can take it' is being buried completely balls deep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:01 PM
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Up until recently I had a smaller vagina Until recently? As in you've recently found out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:56 PM
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I think the idea is women tend to have more orgasms in relationships due to emotions and all but in short term casual sex the connection / emotions aren’t there / strong so the bigger size is there to ‘compensate’ for that lack of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:26 AM
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something that men are unnecessarily paranoid about Wonder if it's some sort of paradox where: Men care about it and are paranoid because they think women care since they use it as a means of insulting or shame Women use it as means of insulting or shaming because they see that men seem to care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:57 PM
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I'd probably agree that physical attraction (face or whatever) pulls ahead when the sizes are within average range give or take. Though I'd imagine when penetrative sex isn't possible at all (whether too small to feel or too big to fit) could in some circumstances be more important no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:07 PM
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Likely not as I'd imagine a women that has never had sex but has experimented with various size toys could discover a preference for certain sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:04 PM
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It'd be obvious to say folks don't have monogamous (monaga..food?) relationships with types of food whereas a large percentage have mongamous relationships with men I guess the issue using the food example would be if you've had an amazing, great desert before, you now enter a 'relationship' with a nice, gourmet meal but you can never have desert again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:51 PM
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Think generally folks tend to use confidence when they mean courageous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:14 PM
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NJFlowerCHAD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:44 PM
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There was that thing from Bumble looking at filters set by female users There is to say there's a certain bias here that women that put a lot of importance on height are the ones buying premium to filter by height Though still not sure if female users here or undercover NBA scouts lol. 7'0 is more desirable than 5'11?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:32 PM
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Perhaps there's overlap in the terms of affection that a male partner and a female friend can give for women, whereas it's very separate things for men (generally speaking) Also wonder if anything to do with men having higher testosterone, and with that having reduced empathy shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:27 PM
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If you're shy / introverted to where you're too scared to leave your house, and nobody else knows you exist than yes, it'll be tough to find friends, jobs and partners
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:34 PM
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require a woman a good pounding for a couple of hours before she could orgasm sounds painful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:25 AM
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being the only thing that will give a woman an orgasm? I imagine for those that think this it isn't just the factor of the guy is hot but in addition to that him knowing what to do, checking both boxes per se
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:22 AM
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Question to those that aren’t attracted to inexperience; if you met someone, hooked up etc and they were good in bed but later on revealed they were actually a virgin before you and it was just a ‘hail Mary’ on their part that just turned out favorable, how would you feel about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:18 AM
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Aren't most men's life trying to be the toppest guy they can be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:40 PM
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Think the best advice men could get (in terms of say finding a relationship or whatever) is from men that have been in their shoes (that is similar attractiveness, wealth, status etc) that has achieved in getting a relationship. A man that's say average in looks and all isn't going to get the best advice from someone super attractive that says "bro just go up and say hi" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:39 AM
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Also if you wear vans you got a small pp apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:00 AM
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I think any dude 30+ that's a virgin will rephrase it as "I'm out of practice" instead of "I'm a virgin" lol; surely they're well aware of the stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:38 PM
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While there are some studies that seem to point towards contraceptive use in women could change preferences for more masculine men (in terms of looks and smell) (1, 2, 3) Some sense could be made of this as pregnant women have different pheromones / body odor than other women that men respond differently to. The pregnant mother's pheromones could affect the father in a way to be 'less masculine' (lower testosterone could lead to lower muscle mass, more body fat which can be seen as more 'feminin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:36 PM
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This seems similar to the reaction women tend to give when they hear about passport bros like “okay cool doesn’t have anything to do with me, go do your passport bro stuff”. “I don’t need a men and will never need them”…okay go live your life lol They’ve both essentially removed themselves from each others dating pools; just don’t mind them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:07 PM
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To be fair to lonely men, you can't really blame them for falling for such scammers. When the mainstream, including feminists, tells lonely men they are toxic, sexist and deserve to be lonely. I've read a few times where women have said it's not up to their responsibility for the mental health, well being and whatever else of men and they shouldn't be the one to stand up for men, which is fine but they hadn't realized there are ones standing up for men...tate, freshandfit, these other podcasts l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:46 AM
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Her talking about being asexual, can't find anything on the sensation thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:09 AM
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For what it's worth the Whatever podcast host said early on he had tried bringing on normal, average dudes from the local college / town; issue is they'd come on and just have no ability to speak or articulate any thoughts so they just end up becoming basically a mannequin. So since then they've only let men on that have some ability to public speak which those men already tend to have some type of online platform or status already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:01 PM
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I wonder if when AI gets the point of being difficult to distinguish from humans, the government or whomever strategically places them out into society It's one thing knowing one purchased a 'partner' and knowing it isn't an actual human being, but what if they just met 'it' organically and was none the wiser? Though I guess it could be strange finding out your 'partner' never ages or always keeps their hair, skin etc the same lol or has to plug itself in every night
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:43 AM
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I see what you’re saying but some of those are quite innate to human biology; imagine saying normalize not eating, okay that’s cool but…they’re going to get hungry regardless of what’s normalized or not. The need / want still lingers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:06 AM
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Your comment made me remember a viral short of a woman crying why they fought for her right to work this one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:21 PM
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idk if she's hot enough there'll be guys in her DMs that can fly her out on their private jet that same day if not that week; the proximity is more or less global this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:48 PM
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I think some women get married and have kids because they want to get married and to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:04 AM
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related
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:32 PM
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If I lift and get fit / huge -> gonna get mo’ pussy If I invent some new invention / technology for mankind and increase my status -> get mo’ pussy If I get educated, start some companies and get rich/wealthy -> get mo’ pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:10 AM
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where they think all males should get a partner Isn’t it a mix of blue pill / just world fallacy? There’s some out out there for everyone etc It likely is natural selection at work, but a large percentage of men being undesired / frustrated etc doesn’t bode well for society I’d think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:46 PM
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Isn’t this pretty much halo / horns effect somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:56 PM
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idk I think most men would be ecstatic if a women they're talking to asked if she could suck their dick or fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:02 AM
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word 84% of the military are men, 87% of law enforcement are men, men biologically stronger / larger, the man typically expected to stand up against intrusion etc in the household...perhaps it's just the apex (or nadir?) fallacy of basing men in general off the worse of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:09 AM
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I've lurked asktransgender, ftm and such and some concerns I've seen is the difficulty to cry when on testosterone and how to cope with it; is this something you've experienced OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:08 PM
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Ok not to be that person who separates pedophilia and hebephilia but… related
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:08 PM
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word More women would bang ugly face with good physique than ugly face 'ugly' physique Now is that 'more' 25% more women? Or just 1% more? Who knows. it's an improvement though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:06 AM
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Word The loudest ones will be the ones that seem bothered
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:54 PM
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You think these 'incel and misogynistic' red pill genes are just that genes that pop up from generation to generation? Or is more a product of the environment? Nature vs nurture. If the environment stays the same, no matter how many 'weed themselves out', more will take it's place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:02 PM
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I think average US height is 69” (5’9) with standard deviation of ~2.5” so one could say average height range is 5’7 to 5’11
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:58 PM
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Hmm money seems like the ultimate equalizer here Even if he was inheritably 'beta', couldn't he pay a 'high value' women a crazy $$$ to have his child? Flipping the whole genes and natural selection ideology on its head
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:31 AM
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I know a few guys that'll feign the possibility of the relationship, have a facade of matching views, preferences and stances on certain things like politics, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:09 PM
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Now “small waist, pretty face and a booty” is most dudes preferences. Working towards -> just be not fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:54 AM
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Mens preferences are a tad more lenient towards either end though; shorter is ‘she’s so petite and cute’ to taller is ‘mommy step on me, she’s got legs for days or I’m grabbing my hiking gear because I’m going for a climb’. I’d say there’s probably more men that prefer women equal to or taller than them vs women preferring men equal to or shorter than them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:31 PM
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People have preferences yeah that can be 'shaped' in a way by upbringing, society, media/tv/movies etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:29 AM
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Paul (in Chad's body) now gets eye contact, smiles, opportunities for chit-chat to turn into dates when he's walking on the street, enters a room/bar/club. Get's tons of matches on apps where the women sends the first message etc Chad (in Paul's body) is now an invisible or NPC that gets no attention walking on the street, when he enters a room/bar/club and gets little matches on apps that are mostly bots. Tries his tried and true moves he did in his Chad body only to be rejected, called creepy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:38 PM
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I strongly believe that if men as a whole would put more effort into forming male friendships, then they would be less inclined to feel the need to be chasing women. Sure but the big thing is the male sex drive; the male friendships aren't the ones satisfying the sexual urges/needs, and one can't just flip a mental switch and go from straight to "I sexually like men now". There's entire industries formed around the male sex drive: Strip clubs, Porn, OF, sex work and all. Some would even say the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:55 PM
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Find shorter friends, noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:41 AM
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Pretty soon they’ll be OTC
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:47 PM
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Even then though game / smooth talking / charisma will separate them from the pack amongst the ones they do choose to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:10 AM
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Maybe I'm thinking too much into it but she says to email her at smalldickenergy @ getalife.com why does she own the email address smalldickenergy @ getalife.com
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:08 PM
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word if someone really wants to watch porn, they're going to find ways to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:37 PM
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Women with a high body count get praised eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:39 PM
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For men, what are they paying for? Porn is free. Strangely here I think the big difference is interaction. Yes some do pay just for videos of their OF creator taking it in every orifice possible (likely because it's THEM taking it in every orifice and not whatever famous pornstar on the hub), but I think a lot pay for the interaction services of personalize videos, rating their body / dicks and hell even 15 - 30 minute chat sessions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:31 AM
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They divorce their husbands and take all the money while he slaves away for 20 years. Unfortunately as well divorced men are 9 times more likely to unalive themselves; there may not be a mass murderous rampages happening, but there's something going on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:04 AM
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or 🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:22 PM
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Women are looking at the cracks or issues in the positive traits comparing them to the vast amount of options. The next guy that has all the positive traits (or even more) without any of the issues is a right-swipe away more or less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:37 AM
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There's the double standard inverse of this where virgin women are typically described as pure, wholesome whatever but virgin men are judged as weird or undesirable; weird how it wasn't mentioned in OP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:09 PM
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This may sound weird, but I’d rather be with a guy who has lots of experience than none. Not so much weird but I've met some women that question why men are so concerned with their partner count and are opposed to some men having a preference for a lower partner count, but when asked if they'd be interested in a virgin guy they're like ew no turnoff. Like so you do care about body count yourself since....a virgin guy is just a guy with a literally a partner count of 0 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:52 AM
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They don't like big, muscular roid monster men who live in the gym because they know it takes a lot of effort. 3-4 days in the gym for an hour or 90 mins is more than enough. I'd say 99% of even fit people are following roughly that routine; that one's that are spending hours and hours in there are either trainers or those influencers type that make money from it (making videos, selling supplements or workout programs whatever)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:06 PM
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Kids are having their head filled with toxic filth before they've even left home and had a chance to form their own ideas about how the world works. 42% of kids have a phone by age 10, 71% by age 12 and 91% by age 14 Any phone in 2023 is going to have app capabilities as well as internet access. Yep that means these kids will have access to TikTok / YouTube shorts / whatever else at that age and we all know how the algorithm works; it just takes one video to roll the snowball
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:58 PM
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HOW DARE HER!!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:44 PM
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Doesn't it make sense that women are more picky since pregnancy is biologically expensive for them? I'd imagine even closing the avenue for pregnancy through means of contraceptives, that selective nature still remains true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:33 PM
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'short man syndrome' / 'napeleon complex' is a unfortunate self-fulfilling prophecy (1)be short man -> shamed for being short -> grow bitter due to being treated like that -> has now embodied stereotype traits -> reinforces stereotype to society -> start at (1) again rinse and repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:50 PM
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"If dating was having clean, drinkable water then men are living in the desert and women are in a swamp" - Abraham Lincoln
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:14 AM
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Chart I'd say fit to women (and majority of population) maybe starts at 20-25%? Fit to men probably starts at 15%/10-12% (which could even be too fit for some women)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:39 PM
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I wonder in that time frame (decade, few decades, 100 years idk) AI women (realistic robots) would be mixed in with the general population or the like Have them thinking they've been with someone real all along... Though it'd be obvious when it doesn't seem to age I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:07 PM
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There is more recent evidence of men having higher sex drives The meta-analysis revealed a stronger sex drive in men compared to women, with a medium-to-large effect size, g = 0.69, 95% CI [0.58, 0.81]. Men more often think and fantasize about sex, more often experience sexual affect like desire, and more often engage in masturbation than women. I believe in the book "come as you are" it explains that women tend have more of a 'reactive' libido vs men tend to have more 'spontaneous' libido, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:46 PM
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Roughly 1.5 to 2 hours a day 5-6 times a week Positive thoughts, I just love working out, hitting small personal strength / size goals. Really I don't suggest working out just for picking up women without also working on other things like personality, career etc; if not, they're going to be wondering why they still can't find a partner while being 6% BF jacked to the teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:25 PM
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Who literally cares about 3 or 6 Specifically 3 I'd say a lot of women? Having at least a satisfying sex life is important to most folks. It can make or break relationships; not saying you need to be a pornstar or equipped like one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:41 PM
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IMO women don't give much thought into parts of the back (oh my check out his lats! his rhomboids! his traps!) but it's just 'back' in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:25 PM
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I can imagine designer babies arriving in the next 20 years Every dude is going to be 6'2+ and jacked aren't they? Unless certain characteristics are going to 'cost' more to implement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:51 AM
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Not entirely The meta-analysis revealed a stronger sex drive in men compared to women, with a medium-to-large effect size, g = 0.69, 95% CI [0.58, 0.81]. Men more often think and fantasize about sex, more often experience sexual affect like desire, and more often engage in masturbation than women. I don't think sex drive is determined by ease of orgasm / consequence mitigation; more so just a greater concoction of hormones like testosterone that sends the 'I want to have sex' signal to the brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:45 AM
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Face >>>> all other physical attributes including wealth eh I think I'd rather meh face + good body > meh face + meh body generally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:18 AM
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If we assume a typical 1” pelvic fat pad, that would make the average visible penis 4”. That’s obviously absurd. Hmm maybe. 1 in 3 men (in the US) are overweight so I wouldn't be surprised really
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:39 AM
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Would doctors be willing to perform it on a person that's not 5'2 or below? You'd think they'd reject like a 5'10 guy wanting to be 6'2 vs a 4'9 guy wanting to be 5'2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:07 AM
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I think a part of why men respect other men with fit/ripped/jacked etc physiques is because they know how hard it is to attain that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:01 AM
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I feel as though brian's way works a tad better since I think people are more likely to be open about their stances, views or the like when it's more of a laid back, respectful non-aggressive setting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:27 AM
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Comment reminds me of a relationship-advice post I read some time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:30 AM
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From a quick google 1, 2, 3, 4 albeit twitter tends to be the worse of the worse and the loudest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:56 PM
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