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heliken79/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:47 AM
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Seems like you lack abundance and are working on yourself for the wrong reasons, like a covert contract. If the answer is yes, will you change what you are doing?
/r/askMRP30/06/18 05:04 AM
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This has nothing to do with painting the windows, money, crossing boundaries, etc. The medium is the message. She’s begging you to lead; if she was happy with you as a captain, none of this would matter to her. Let this go and start taking charge in owning your shit.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 12:51 AM
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The turning point for me in this journey came when I internalized not seek validation through sex. You’re letting her control how you feel about yourself. Read Passionate Marriage and David Deida’s work.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 03:39 PM
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One of the points of seeing a lawyer before was to see what the worst cases would look like. Doing so has put me at ease. Even though things can turn out differently, I’m not scared of divorce anymore. Emotionally or financially.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:11 AM
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Does being 38, best shape of my life, no trouble pulling 25 year olds, 6 figures, a job that I love and is fun. While she is 35, 20-30lbs overweight with two kids from two different dad’s, count? I’m not asking to ego boost, I really am asking if this is leverage?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 06:04 PM
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Me: “Our daughter is not to be around this woman ever again” Her: “She was just just trying to be nice, hamster, hamster, hamster” Me: “If you don’t like it, there is the door” Her: “I can’t believe how easy it is for you to just leave, you’re being incredibly mean, it really shows how little you care about me, you’re saying if I hang around her that you’ll divorce me” crying. Me: “ok” stfu.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 03:35 PM
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Thank you. Collected myself and did this yesterday.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:57 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:40 PM
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No and no.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:24 PM
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I didn’t ask if I should divorce my wife or not or if I should prepare for divorce. I asked how to respond to her taking my daughter to the rally and having her hold a sign. Maybe the response is to prepare for divorce. If so, then I’m good. Or maybe I need to work on myself more and become someone she respects. Then I will do that.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:18 PM
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Divorce lawyer was consulted and retained months ago. If she wants to sabotage, I’m prepared.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:58 AM
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If I tell her to stop bringing the junk food home yet she does it anyways, that is a failure on me as a leader. It’s a metric on how I’m doing. I’m not going to impose on her free will is what I mean.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:52 AM
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I don’t care what she does. If she wants to put the vagina hat on and parade around, I’ll leave. I just told her our daughter is not to be around this woman again, it’s a hard line for me. My wife is free to do what she wants. I have no problems with divorce.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:05 AM
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