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hellionmma/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:56 AM
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hellionmma/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:43 PM
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hellionmma/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:53 AM
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hellionmma/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:37 AM
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IMO, night game is much easier than day game. If you understand the basics of push/pulls, shit tests, frame, escalation you’ll do fine. Just transfer all that into night game and be more direct. I think roosh has a book for night game as well but I can’t seem to find it. Different bars/clubs will have different vibes. I personally like a mix between the two. But goto both and see which one you like best/works best for your game.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:22 PM
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Sarcasm. I’ve read too many stories here about guys breaking frame once over something traumatic like a parents death and being broken up with. That being said, not every woman is like this. But be careful who you’re vulnerable in front of.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:03 AM
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If you like daygame read day bang. Since you’re in Cali tinder game should be easy as long as you’re able to portray yourself in a high value way and have good photos. Test out night game as well and decide which of the three you like the most (day, night, online). As long as you continue putting yourself in positions where meeting women is a possibility, and you continue working on yourself and your game (holding frame, passing shit tests, escalation, etc), you’ll be golden. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:59 AM
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Focus on things you enjoy doing and better yourself. Once you find what’s fulfilling in your life you won’t rely on others for that role. Learn not to rely/rely less on others for your happiness.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:55 AM
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There’s a lot of factors that make this approach more difficult (friends, exercising, busy, etc.) There’s plenty of attractive women who are logistically much easier to talk to. Missing out on one won’t kill you.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:44 PM
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Message her. Build rapport. Get #, then get her out. It’s really not rocket science. If you want to be direct, be direct. If you want to message about some other part of her profile, do that.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:37 PM
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There’s no set time. Escalate when vibes are good. Some girls you’ll be able to escalate faster than others and vice versa.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:45 AM
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There’s no reason to argue with them about it. But a while back someone gave a comparison that I thought was great. A key that opens all locks is a master key. A lock that opens to all keys is just a shit lock.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:24 PM
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Your opener could be tweaked. You asking if it’s them screams “I’ve gotten fake numbers so I need to double check”. Start here: http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:32 AM
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Do you have abundance? If no: Set up plans for Tuesday. Strike when the irons hot. If yes: Life’s too short to spend time on girls who are like this. She probably had you on the back burner in case a better option came along. But who cares, go on the date and treat it as a learning experience to improve your game.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:54 PM
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I had this issue for a while. For me it was because I had a mentally that I “won” the game. If building attraction and hooking up was the game then dating was the endgame (for relationships not necessarily ONS). I had to spend some time to redefine what game was to me and the low interest issue began to fade.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:51 PM
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http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:45 PM
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Girls will do this just to instantly screen alphas from betas. If every guy that walked up to her wanted to talk she wouldn’t have a free minute. Re-open with something like “hey hang on, I’m xyz nice to meet you”. Show a little entitlement. However, with that being said some girls are just assholes and aren’t worth the time. But if you wanna try that next time it may turn around some of the instant rejections.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:44 PM
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Maybe. But it maintains frame. Weak orbiter = unsure if date is still on or not bc you’ve had girls bail out on you before You = confident and assumes the date is still on bc she’s into you One shows higher value than the other and you’re always better off assuming the girl likes you than not because you’ll act congruently.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:38 PM
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I hate ultimatums. I will never offer them and will never take them, especially from a LTR. Trust me on this, you’re better off without her than indulging her ultimatums. Take care of yourself before others. You did the right thing in this case by not compromising on your beliefs.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:06 AM
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Personally, PDA just isn’t my thing and it does nothing for me. There’s a chance that girls don’t like doing that in public because it seems slutty and that pushes me back to square 1. Me escalating in public means I can’t escalate all the way to sex. If I escalate in private I can escalate all the way to sex. I keep the tension up but wait until I know I can escalate all the way to sex before I really get going. With that being said if you’re comfortable doing it and it matches your personality…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:41 AM
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I personally don’t do anything like that in public but if you want to, run the ladder before you go for that.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:21 PM
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Your place is best option bc you can control the environment. Hers is second best. Third is somewhere close to either yours or hers. Worse is meeting in the middle.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:13 AM
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So I’m guessing you want to escalate to fuck. Set up a date next time at your place if she’s already comfortable with you. Then work the ladder again. This time when you kiss pull back the 2nd or 3rd time when things start getting heavy and talk about some random bullshit. I pulled this trick from SGM (though in the book he says leave the room right before you guys fuck with some random excuse like folding clothes then wait 30 sec and come back and instantly fuck her). Then when you want and fee…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:10 AM
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You have to be alone to escalate. So get her alone. Then work the ladder. Start with more easy friendly areas like the arm. Then progressively work into more intimate areas like the lower back, thighs, etc. Once you can tell she’s comfortable enough go for the kiss. Once again, do this all while you’re alone not with a group of friends. Palm reading, looking at tattoos/piercings are all good ways to initiate contact and get comfortable with touch.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:17 AM
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Boundaries are for LTR’s not plates. Plates are for vetting.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:15 AM
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You have plates to vet them. If you think it’s disrespectful then you have your answer. Keep her as a fuck buddy if you want but nothing more. For future references sometimes your opinion isn’t enough to set boundaries. With some girls you will have to overtly say “yea I don’t like him. He lies about everything and I wouldn’t date anyone who entertains him”
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:41 AM
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Keep in mind she might also only want to revenge fuck you to get at your friend
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:33 AM
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Good news for you: if you pulled a 9 once, you can do it again
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:18 AM
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Eh. I’m in my early 20s and have things I enjoy. I’m not going to drop everything remotely “beta” and become a mindless follower.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:02 AM
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Online texting isn’t the same as in person. It’s very easily misinterpreted, that’s why emojis can be good (only a select few and use sparingly). Basics to passing shit tests: agree and escalate or pressure flip In this case it seemed like you were answering logically (hence shit test failed). If it were in person and you were smirking when you said this you might’ve passed.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:47 AM
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I’ve been testing out “I’m gonna let you quit while you’re ahead” and so far it’s been working really well. For context: Use when a girl begins to do things or say things you don’t like. I use it in a joking way. For example: Last date near the end she said she doesn’t like Star Wars, Disney, etc. I pulled her in close and held her in a hug while smiling and saying that. Idk, I’m still testing it but so far so good.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:41 AM
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Why would you want to. Why go after girls who aren’t into you. Just go find another one, there’s literally billions of them in the world.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:03 PM
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Why would attractive girls pay for you to fuck them instead of just going to tinder and getting it for free.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:17 AM
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What you do after sex is extremely powerful. If you kick a girl out she’ll feel used. If you cuddle and do a little comforting after she’ll love you for it because she won’t feel used and will think what you guys have is “real.” Basically, everything leading up to sex is “fake” because your goal is sex. Everything that happens after sex is “real” because there’s no longer a motive for your actions.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:53 AM
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I find it too risky with the whole metoo movement. She could decide down the road she didn’t want to sleep with you then you’re at risk. If she’s drunk calling you, you should be able to fuck with or without alcohol. The risk isn’t worth it if she’s too drunk.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:23 AM
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Don’t let them choose. Soft close then decide a place and send them the address telling them to meet you there @whatever time you want.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:36 AM
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Kind of. If you know what you’re listening for the girl will usually tell you how to sleep with her. You have to understand to listen for frame, value, and blueprint. They’ll tell you what they like/dislike. The more they talk the better you’ll understand their blueprint (from the blueprint you can then decipher what “value” is to them; every girl is different, though the general meaning of value stays the same). For example, if a girl says “I don’t trust you enough” when you try and escalate; t…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:35 AM
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If it’s a 1 on 1 conversation, I love it. I’ll neg and tease them about it every now and then. Girls will literally talk themselves into bed/tell you how to sleep with them if you listen. The more they talk the better. At that point they’re basically gaming me.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:52 AM
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I’m not sure if Todd uses it but it was my variation off of the “what’re you looking for” shit test from tinder. With that being said I really enjoy his content because he’s got a really good balance between trp and being an actual human being.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:27 PM
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I’m not saying be penpals, but text game’s end goal is to ultimately get her out on a date. Strike when the irons hot. Next time she sends you something like this instead of sexting, get her to your place or vice versa.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:54 AM
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This. Also change her mood not her mind. Women aren’t logical like men, they’re emotional. Watch their actions not their words.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:15 AM
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Why people ask for nudes and dirty talk over text. I’ll never understand. You can’t have sex with a picture or over the phone. With dirty talk, if she follows through she’s a slut. Especially since you’ve never actually hooked up with her. There’s a reason texting is for logistics only.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:13 AM
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Get her in person and avoid this. It’s the best option anyways, can’t have sex with her over the phone.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:30 AM
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How goods your game? Better game = easier it is. There’s a lot of factors that play into it. But generally speaking it’s easier/faster from meeting to sex than daygame.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:15 AM
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It’s not something that has ruined the conversation just a side note. As long as you don’t continue to fall into her frame you will be fine. You are correct in that responding with a joke falls into her frame. I’d respond back with a push/pull of sorts. “I would but I’m worried if we get to know each other I may wake up missing a kidney” This will frame the relationship as 2 sexual beings and her being “trouble” which is and of itself a push pull. From there I’d basically rebuild the conversatio…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:13 AM
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Side note: you’re stepping into her frame with your first message. I do a lot of disqualifications because it helps me screen and display high value. Rephrase it to be a disqualifier instead. One I use all the time is: “What’s the worse thing you’ve done. If you say you once turned in an assignment late we’re not gonna get along ;)” For your message it may look something like this: “Hopefully that isn’t your only joke. If you’re not this witty in person we’re not gonna get along ;)”
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:50 AM
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“So what mischief has ms. X been up to” is my go to. Here’s some more good examples if you need: http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:51 AM
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In Jiu Jitsu we teach beginners things they can’t do. Not because it’s hard rules they must follow, but because beginners don’t understand the consequences that can follow their actions. Once you understand the consequences you can begin to break these rules. Look at trp the same way. Once you understand the consequences/results of certain actions, you can break them. These “rules” you talk about just help beginners learn the basics and stop from making beginner mistakes such as over investing w…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:00 AM
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If you set up a date a week in advance that gives you more work to do. You’ll have to send ping texts and keep the fire warm versus dragging out the convo over the course of 3-4 days then setting a date up within the next 3/4. Option 1 you have to keep stoking the fire to make sure attraction is still there and it doesn’t die out. Option 2 gives you 0 work from time you set up logistics to time you goto date.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 02:48 AM
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Laugh/smirk. Then continue my conversation with them. I wouldn’t give it much attention.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:42 AM
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Just ask her out. If you’re more comfortable with texting do it over a text. Shoot a ping text, maybe send 1-2 msg back and forth then start setting up logistics.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:20 AM
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So you went from “plating” your best friends step sister to somehow still being a virgin? Be real with yourself and see what you really want out of these questions. As far as your ED goes, there’s plenty of other people who have asked your same question. Look it up and there’s tons of good advice. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:58 AM
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If you don’t kiss on the first date. There’s no second. But with no other info it’s impossible to tell.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 05:49 AM
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Then find better girls. If you’re going to clubs and picking up drunk chicks what do you expect. Different girls live different lifestyles. If you want a certain type of girl you go find them in a certain environment
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:00 PM
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Your posings weird in a lot of the photos. Your bio is very much conveys low value. Idk why you have a picture of your ass on there. The fighting pics don’t show anything but your back and isn’t a good pic I’d remove it and just throw it into your bio instead. Overall, get new pics that convey value and make you look good. Scrap the bio and put something else there that conveys value.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:58 PM
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I like “what mischief has ms x been up to” There’s some more good examples here: http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:08 PM
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You go fuck other women. Eventually, you’re gonna find some new girl and you’ll forget all about your oneitis. There are plenty of amazing girls out there. You just have to do the work to find them. Trust me, you’re in love with the idea of her, not her.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:18 AM
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Seems like you have oneitis and want us to ghost write. http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:13 AM
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“Women would rather share a high value man than be stuck with a faithful loser”
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:05 AM
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To add to his response, I’ve turned these girls around and I can tell you from first hand experience. It’s never worth it. Sure you get a date and a fuck if you’re good enough. But I much rather spend my time with a “fuck yes” kind of girl than a “maybe” one
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:50 PM
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You’re all over the place with this post. But if you think she’s cheating, she’s probably cheating. Have better game and a stronger frame in your next relationship. 4 months isn’t that long, you’ll recover fine. Girls will always look to upgrade. Either way, you’re better off treating this relationship as over and enjoying what time is left.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:45 PM
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When I open girls who are with guys I usually slide in a “you guys are a cute couple” somewhere in the interaction once I’ve built up a bit of value. Most of the time the girl responds by saying they’re not dating. That instantly disproves the guy from the conversation and I can work to close. If it’s girls, you’re not approaching right. With girls you need to game the entire group not just the one you want. Otherwise, the one who feels left out will pull them away. Game entire group and once th…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:45 PM
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To add to this, if you take action in improvement and read sex god method, you’ll know there’s more to sex than dick size. Best of luck
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:41 PM
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You have to act high value to be high value. Women are attracted to high value men as men are attracted to beautiful women. How sincere and genuine we are in our actions is up to us to decide. TRP is immoral, but it doesn’t mean we have to be.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:38 PM
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Full disclosure I didn’t read the entire thing, I skimmed most of it. From what I gather you have issues with being “genuine” with the girls you meet. TRP isn’t about “tricking” women into falling in love with you or fucking you. It’s about teaching men how to be the best version of yourself (AKA a high value man). Women, sex, and money are just side effects of this. Every “trick” TRP teaches us about women (shit tests, openers, etc) are just actions that women respond well to. The reason they r…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 11:55 AM
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Any girl who stays in touch with past relationships is a instant next for me. She’s ready to branch swing to him. She’s going to eventually cheat on you or break up with you for someone else if you don’t improve your value in the relationship or try applying dread. Either way, have your fun now. More than likely your turn with her is coming to an end. At least now you’re aware that she’s not LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 09:55 AM
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You will have to. Almost all my present and past plates I’ve been the one to initiate. They’re just very receptive and will check up. But if I want to hook up I’m the one that initiates. Otherwise, no contact. Know that plates are different from LTR. Don’t do relationship things with plates or that’s what they’ll expect.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:47 AM
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No problem. Also keep in mind who your profile will attract. The “bad boy biker” profile may attract the more wild girls while the “accountant” type of profiles will attract others. Figure out what type of girl you like then build a profile that attracts them. I wouldn’t recommend completely changing who you are for it though. You want your profile and you go be congruent.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:31 AM
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Across the board bad. Have 5+ photos. You need a shorter and more high value bio; one that comes from a high value frame. Lastly, your photos should convey a high value lifestyle. Your 2 photos as of now don’t convey your best. You’re not good looking enough where having a “nerdy/goofy” picture gives girls comfort rather than subtracting value (that’s not a shot at you either, most guys aren’t) 1) Keep your bio short, if you’re not a 10, girls aren’t reading that. 1-2 sentences max. Try using so…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:18 AM
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Yea... don’t do this.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 11:53 PM
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Here’s a pretty good texting guide: http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn Understand that texting is just a means to an end. The goal is to get them out. It’s good to improve your text game but don’t become pen pals.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:54 AM
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There’s really not a lot of other viable options if both of you are uncomfortable inviting the other over to their place. Try a movie night. Then when your parents goto sleep, escalate.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:05 AM
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Car. Empty parking lot. Preferably at night. Make sure she’s aroused. Change her mood not her mind. And if she really is a virgin, giving a bit of comfort isn’t a bad thing. This advice is assuming you’re both 16 or something.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:35 AM
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You would’ve left the post up if you actually believed it provided value to the community. Instead you tuck your tail between your legs and run. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:57 AM
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Do you even bother reading the rules to posting? u/appropriatesale6413 u/trpcops
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:40 AM
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It’s all logistics and probable deniability. Set up a date near her place. Then at the end give some sort of reason or “excuse” for you both to go back to her place. From there it’s just a matter of escalation.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:38 PM
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1) get her number not her snap 2) done
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:15 PM
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If you’re still posting to ask trp you shouldn’t be paid to give dating advice. Just going through your post history shows this
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:09 PM
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Daygame and night game is 2 different worlds. In the book he compares women to dogs and cats in regards that during the day women have their shields up more than at night when they’re more open because social stigmas drop. Indirect openers or as he calls them, elderly openers, are great openers to just start the conversation without any neediness showing. If you’re already having good results I don’t think it’s changed my game too much besides knowing how different women act during the day vs at…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:33 PM
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Read daybang and go
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:41 PM
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I usually do action dates of sort. “Exploring” the city is a good one. It’s just walking around. Tons of stuff to look at. And when I feel like it I can isolate and escalate pretty easily.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:28 PM
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Escalate escalate escalate. It’s gonna be a lot more difficult and uncomfortable the first time around. But you NEED to do it. Learn di carlo’s escalation ladder. Set up good logistics (IE near your place or at your place if it’s a second date). Understand online dating and dating for that matter is a numbers game. No one cares if you have a 2% or 98% close rate. Once you set up a first date. Keep it brief (all my dates are under 30 min). I meet them, open with a hug, banter and then kiss when I…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:03 AM
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Because they don’t have good game. Never sent and will never send a dick pic. As far as I know, you can’t have sex with a woman through a phone. Text for logistics and get her out on a date.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 09:25 AM
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Could be a lot of reasons for flaking you may never find out. Though never set up a date with a third wheel unless you’re sure you can set up a threesome. Don’t worry about it. I’d only take a harder look at it if this is something that keeps happening.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:27 PM
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You start by doing something like everyone else. No one became the best at something by doing nothing. Go read some of the books on the sidebar, go talk to some people, try out some of the things the book say and see what happens. Realizing you have an issue is a big step not a lot of people are willing to admit. Put in some work and it’ll pay off.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:47 AM
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I’m always either building rapport or moving the conversation towards a date. Each girl is different but if she’s interested she’ll meet. Just make sure you’re moving the interaction to a date
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:01 AM
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Congratulations, and happy gaming!
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:50 AM
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Try the gun to the head method. When I first started out I was terrified of kissing. I would escalate fine up to the actual kiss. An example of the method would be if you guys were sitting down across from each other and you get up and walk towards her to kiss. At this point it would be 10x more awkward to not follow through on the kiss. Alternatively, I’ve found setting the mood beforehand to be key. I prefer action first dates. Usually just exploring a park, city, etc. it’s impossible to kiss …
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:24 AM
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Long wall of text but some good info from what I’ve experienced and found to work well. I have 1 opener I use on everyone. I’ve tried the “cute. #?” But unless you’re much higher smv it will be ignored. Don’t try too hard on openers, but if there’s a good opportunity with a shared interest, bio, photo, etc, go for it. My goto opener: “you seem too wholesome for tinder” Not the best, but gets a response about 90% of the time and by the response I can usually gauge what kind of interaction it’ll b…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:17 AM
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This ^ Unless your friends share similar ideals, prepare to be challenged in every way. They can’t accept certain truths because it’ll break their illusion of women. Trp is for everyone, but not everyone is for trp. Give him the rationale male and let him make his own decision from there.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:33 AM
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Focus on things you can change. Stop self-pitying yourself. It’s easy to say I can’t do xyz, the worlds unfair, and so on. It’s much harder to suck it up and take action in making your life better. The more you focus on things you have control over and less on things you don’t, the happier you’ll feel. Additionally, not saying looks don’t matter (they certainly do), but women don’t care about looks as much as we like do think they do. Men care more about looks than women. Women experience relati…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:29 AM
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I usually test compliance with sex lol. Just ignore it and don’t make a big deal out of it.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:05 AM
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Could be anything. But your text game and your actual game should be the same. She shouldn’t feel like she’a communicating with 2 different people. Also, don’t bother sexting. Flirting is much better. Doesn’t make her feel like a slut, gives her plausible deniability, and will lead to sex. Even if she sends you a nude. So what? As far as I know, you can’t have sex with your phone. There’s much better ways to test compliance than a nude.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:55 AM
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You still need social skills to join a (good) frat. Once you do you still need social skills to be successful, although being in a frat does raise your smv and makes finding women basically effortless. Exposure therapy is the key. Go talk to people and be uncomfortable in socializing. Talk more. Try out different attitudes, topics, and what not. After a few hundred goes of this talking to anyone is easy.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:52 AM
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I’ve tried this a few times and it has a 50/50 chance of falling through vs setting a date a few days out. Max I do is 5, when I do this I always text them at least twice. Once to keep in touch and the second the day of to confirm (something like “look good so we match”). It’s better to slow your escalation and ask her out in a course of 5-10 texts over 2-3 days than doing it all at once then having a week of radio silence. Girls lose interest fast. You need to strike while the irons hot or at l…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:46 AM
13

She doesn’t want to scare off potential branches. If she posts you, guys will lose interest and she’ll feel less validated and what not.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:44 AM
6

Full disclosure I only skimmed this but I see no question and it sounds autistic.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:42 AM
11

Just read the sidebar, books, and go out and experiment. There’s no need to spend money on this...
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:59 PM
1

Read daybang and use elderly openers during the day
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:56 PM
3

Women don’t apply dread. You do. She messaged first. You didn’t keep up attraction and move the interaction onto a date. Either start escalating to a physical date or just move on
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:42 PM
1

Sure we can give you blanket answers. Breaking frame with your LTR where you cry like a bitch in front of her is different than breaking fame in front of your mailman. Get your head out your ass.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:37 PM
4

You’re missing so much information. How did you break frame? What happened? Who was it with? Take 2 minutes and write a coherent post or no one here can help.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:12 AM
5

You have oneitis. She wasn’t interested. Maybe you did something that changed your value and she thought you were hot. Maybe she was just drunk. End of the day if she’s interested you would’ve fucked her by now. Your months of “subtle hint drops” didn’t help. She’s not gonna Sherlock Holmes your hints then boom box careless whisper outside your window. Read the sidebar then go talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:11 AM
6

“Borderline oneitis” Generally if you’re making a post about it. You have oneitis. There’s a lot of posts here asking the same thing about COVID game. It’s the same game. Girls aren’t as scared of it as you think. They’ll still come out and have a good time. As far as texting, sounds like she’s putting you as an orbiter. If she’s hesitant on coming out, she’s not that interested. Regardless of positive signals, if she’s not willing to meet she’s not interested.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:05 AM
3

Sidebar. 1) don’t get snap, get their number 2) build rapport 3) soft close 4) set up logistics 5) fuck
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:30 PM
1

Ice skating (great kino), making a snowman, sledding (also great kino if you bring 1 sled), walks outside/in malls, checking out local Christmas celebrations/events. There’s just a lot of activities that make sense for 2 people to be close together during the winter. I enjoy the cold so sometimes I’ll just tell them to dress warm and walk outside. Kino with their gloves, scarves, etc is also stupidly easy to escalate off of.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:33 AM
2

I don’t have the same experience so I won’t pretend to know what you’re going through. I would advise you seek whatever legal power you have over it. Best of luck and hopefully others can help you out.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:45 AM
4

I honestly love winter dating. Smelling good in the winter is easy and powerful. The cold weather gives you easy excuses to “warm up” and what not. Plus I generally prefer winter/fall action dates more than summer ones
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:19 PM
8

You either gain more power yourself or stand up for yourself. It’s a simple answer but the execution is difficult. End of the day if you want to make it through this world and be respected you have to stand up and disrupt the peace. They’ll continue to push you until you do.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:17 PM
1

Dance party escalation is a bit different albeit the same principle. If you’ve ever read daybang by roosh you’ll know that during the day girls are like cats; they’re timid and easily put off. During the night (parties, etc) they’re like dogs. You can open with a more direct and forward opener. There’s grinding, arms around waists, etc all the time.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:11 PM
5

This Women experience dates differently than men. We experience it as “how was the date as whole?” While women look at it as “how was the date as time went on?” You can have a shit start as long as you end on a good note. This shows the girl that the more time she spends/invests in you the better the relationship becomes versus you starting off well and then ending on a boring note. This is exactly the reason why I let the beginning of my dates fall a bit flat. Secondly, don’t ever apologize for…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 07:31 AM
1

You’ve just described an aspect of life. How’s this post relevant?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 07:26 AM
7

You’re overthinking it. If they’re acting good then give attention. If they’re not, withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 07:23 AM
1

Sidebar. “I have a boyfriend” isn’t a shit test. Learn to identify shit tests. She gave you the LJBF excuse and put you in orbiterland and you bit. From now on whatever chances you had with her to begin with are now much much lower. Forget about her and move on to the next. Also, your DM sucks as an opener. Openers that work during the day don’t translate directly to text. If you’re going to DM a girl wait until she posts a story then comment on it. Much less needy and more natural. Here’s more …
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:12 AM
2

Did you even bother reading the sidebar before you post? You’ll find your answer there. Shit test = agree and amplify
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:57 AM
8

Exactly this. I’m confident in my ability to defend myself 1 on 1 if my life depended on it. Outside of the gym there’s just too many unknown factors. Guy could have a knife, gun, etc. It’s always better to let your ego take a hit than to risk your life/record/wealth on something so minor as an ego war.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:32 AM
2

Had really bad oneitis I during my high school days mostly because I’ve always wanted the “fairy tale life” because of my parents shitty relationship. Went on one date with a girl, albeit my first date, and fell for her hard. Never kino’d or anything. Just a super awkward movie first date. To this day I still wish I bump into her in person so I can get a do-over. Although these thoughts only jump in when I’m doing nothing I personally think there’s a part of you that wants to “prove” something t…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:01 AM
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Some people are naturally more witty than others and can easily create great openers off their pictures, bios, vibe, etc. My goto whenever I can’t think of anything is “you seem like trouble...” Perfect push pull and never fails to get me a response.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:56 AM
2

Careful resetting too many times too quickly. They’ll ban you and will not unban you.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:50 PM
4

Split up your text. You only have oneitis because you’re not talking to anyone else. If you want to be in a relationship then get in a relationship. Though know LDR are very hard to maintain and be prepared for her to cheat on you.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:14 PM
16

It’s like riding a bike. Once you’ve developed the skill it’s difficult to forget. After a few goes you’re back to where you were.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 11:41 PM
1

Why do you need to hide? Unless you have a legitimate reason to hide, don’t.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:44 AM
2

You’re setting yourself up for failure. Do you hate yourself that much that you’d rather be someone else? Just make the effort and change yourself to be someone you’re proud to be. There’s a difference between telling a girl you’re not from here and telling a girl you’re some unheard famous actor.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:02 AM
4

Nothing majorly wrong. Last text lead instead of asking her, especially given she bought into you by telling you she just cleaned her hair. “Perfect, I’ll bring a bottle of wine around 7” or whatever you want works.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:17 AM
4

A girl who cares about money that much is not someone you want to LTR. You want to LTR someone with the same economic view as you. If you can: - live comfortably - be able to potentially support a kid if that’s in the plans You’re fine. Girls don’t care about job titles as much as you think.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 09:49 AM
5

There’s nothing really bad if it’s with a girl you’ve: - already fucked - want to LTR Don’t do date things with plates you don’t have an interest in LTRing. That’s how they break among other things. Logistically speaking it’s not great. Personally, I’ve never done this except after I’ve been seeing a girl for a while and have interest in LTRing her.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 09:47 AM
7

Lmao what’re you going on about. If you don’t think there’s a single red pilled actor you’re daft. These are people with the highest status among us. On the same level as elite athletes. Look at everyone’s beloved example; Leonardo DiCaprio. Guy has never dated anyone over 25 and they’re all models and actresses. You’re just salty that these guys get thousands of dollars invested into them by production, management, etc to look good for the media.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:58 AM
1

Of course I can. To that same point you can also not approach because it’s easier. Laziness isn’t a good excuse.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:26 AM
2

It’s the fact people post the same thing over and over thinking they’re going to get different responses because they think they’re special. There’s tons of other posts asking the same thing and no one ever bothers to search through it first. Everyone here struggled with their own shit, that doesn’t excuse not reading the sidebar or looking through old posts first.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:02 AM
3

To add to this, if you don’t care what happens with a girl like this or don’t want to put in the effort, send a push. I always send “-10 points to hufflepuff” and that always gets a good response back. Though not all of them lead to dates but it’s fun to push sometimes.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:41 PM
4

Repetition. You have to actively push yourself to do things before it becomes habitual.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:45 PM
2

Red flag... red flag... red flag.... Yep all checks out. Marry this girl.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:43 AM
6

30 seconds even with a direct opener is a very hard close. Usually if you don’t want any flakes it takes 5-10 min before closing. But all in all you did an approach, you’re better off for it. Next time you’ll do better and have less anxiety. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:12 AM
3

Lmao. Welcome to the real world.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:01 PM
2

Rational male, book of pook, subtle art of not giving a fuck, no more mr nice guy. If you need more there’s lots of other posts asking the same thing.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 06:19 PM
16

You have to game the whole group. Any girl who feels left out will pull her friends away and they will follow because she has more social capital than you do. Talk to all of them. Make them all feel included. Slightly ignore the girl you’re interested in. Once you’ve become friendly with her friends. Tell them “I’ve been ignoring x, you guys mind if I steal her for a sec?” If you’ve done everything right they’ll agree and then you’ve isolated and have an easy close.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:07 AM
4

Girls don’t handle rejection well. They move on quick. With that being said, just send her a ping text and see whether or not she’s receptive. You’re better off knowing than speculating.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:57 PM
1

DiCarlo’s escalation ladder. With escalation and kissing you have to just go for it. A girl will respect you even if she denies it. Think about it this way, you will never lose a girl by going for the kiss. You will if you don’t. It’s a win win if you go for it.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:21 AM
7

1 rule for getting back together: talk about the future, not the past
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:19 AM
14

If she’s remotely attractive you’re not the only one DM’ing her. If you can, find a way to “accidentally” run into her in person. Otherwise the least needy way to do it is to wait for her to post a story then you comment on it.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:21 AM
9

If you set proper frame and boundaries she shouldn’t expect a relationship from you. Regardless, it’s always the woman’s job to bring up the relationship talk. If she does, tell her you’re not looking for one. Women do it all the time, there’s no guilt involved. Any guilt you feel is self inflicted.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:33 AM
10

Abundance. Once you see more people you’re less invested and chances of oneitis are much less.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:26 AM
1

Read the rational male, daybang, sidebar. If you don’t want to read at least read the sidebar. Everything else is about experience. You can’t learn to swim from reading, you have to jump in the pool. Start talking to people. Then start opening every girl you see regardless if you like them or not. Set the threshold for what you consider “opening” low in the beginning. Maybe it’s as simple as asking for directions, then set it higher to the point where opening eventually leads to closing. Regardl…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:57 PM
3

Safest way to go about this is to get friendly with the parents. Parents love to set up their kids with a nice, friendly, guy. Once her parents are bought in they basically do all the work for you.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:54 PM
3

Even the most a high value guy can get dumped. Look at celebrities, it happens all the time. When it does happen, it’s purely woman nature. There’s no need to be angry about it, it’s the same nature as guys when we look for the most attractive girl to fuck.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:52 PM
3

Yea. To be fair that’s how I found and use TRP for the most part as well.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 09:09 AM
5

Not true. TRP is about accepting your masculinity and becoming your best self. Women, money, and success is just a side effect of this.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 08:34 AM
2

You’re not as good as you think. Although without actually seeing your approaches these are all guesses. Day game closing should take you anywhere from 10-20 min to ensure that the numbers you get, don’t flake. Are you creating enough tension and emotional buy in? It’s all a numbers game. Read daybang by roosh if you’re doing as many approaches and you want to get a better conversion rate.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:54 AM
6

Split up your wall of text. Yes, my father is parts of both. A manipulative, cold, abusive person who’s cruel to those closest and kind to others. Every response he has to an issue is to default to anger, yelling, and other abusive mannerisms. He was never around growing up and now that my brother and I are older he’s more involved (albeit still far from father figure). His actions never taught me how to be a man. Ironically, my mom did. Although I can keep writing and writing about his shitty m…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:08 AM
8

Busses at my university still run. Although never a crowd there’s sometimes cute girls at the stops I’m at. If you like day game you can do school libraries or coffee shops if they’re still open. If you need more help, read daybang by roosh. As far as girls you meet at work, you’ll rarely have enough time to run a complete routine (elderly open, bait, bigger bait, GALNUC). Some senior endorsed guy taught me a while back that with little interest there’ll be small conversion. However, if you’re i…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:05 PM
1

If you’re half decent looking with good pics and have social skills, it’s worth it even if to just practice texting game. It’s low effort and you can pull dates easily. Great supplement to day game.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:56 AM
7

That was a very fast close. If you’re not high enough SMV she’ll reject you. Typing on your phone can be fun but also shows you’re not fully confident. Just talk louder. People are scared of other people hearing them because they think they’re doing something wrong so they speak quietly. She can feel this and will also think you’re doing something wrong by approaching her and will be put off. Read Daybang by roosh. Essentially women are cats during the day and dogs at night. During the day you c…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:53 AM
4

Kino is used mostly for first dates not approaches. As Roosh calls it, day game girls are cats. A touch can scare them off if they’re not already bought into you. Night game is different. But keep kino for first dates for the most part.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:08 AM
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Don’t be too hard on yourself. Learning through experience is what makes it stick. As far as responses go it’s not all bad. You showed you have qualifiers for people you talk to but that’s usually done in person. Live and learn
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:12 AM
2

Well what’d you say
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:32 AM
6

Side bar. This is a shit test. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:29 AM
2

Right off the first message you should’ve went for the number. She gave you a very clear positive sign to escalate the conversation. After you get the number you should’ve started soft closing and setting up a date.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:15 AM
8

Everything about this is bad. You need to read the sidebar. You don’t penpal chat with them on tinder. Get their number. Then set up the date. You bored her with your chit chat. That’s what women do. With the amount of interest you claim she had this should’ve been a free date.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:51 AM
2

What the fuck is up with your question. Spend the extra 1 min and organize your thought. Your answer: your frame should do all the work for you. She should know by how you act that you’re a high value man and as such, in demand with other women.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:57 AM
7

She can feel your desperation. After she bailed you should’ve instantly soft next and withdrawn attention. Remember, no sympathy. Once she says whatever bs about her friend you should’ve just texted only to reschedule. At this point if you really want to try one last ditch effort. Send her a ping text, something relevant to her and you. Then if she responds try and reschedule. If not you have your answer.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:52 AM
1

Yea. Usually I set up a date 2-3 day’s in advance and then go no contact. The girl always re-confirms with me the day of.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:08 PM
5

Side notes: - never text the confirmation. Assume the date is still on unless stated otherwise. If you really need to confirm text something cheeky. My goto from Mr. V’s is “see your tomorrow... look good so we match ;)” - “I still wanna go out with you” is a bit much. Phrase it in a less needy way next time. “Weathers bad today. Let’s get drinks instead.” Also, she’s flaking. Push a little. Either no reply and then ping again in a few days and try to set up a date or send a cheeky push.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:14 AM
1

http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:28 AM
3

True. But wearing insoles to go from 5’7” to 5’10” isn’t what op needs. Op needs to learn to just be comfortable and confident with who he is. He doesn’t need height insoles to act as a crutch for him.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:25 AM
1

You don’t need an example. He’s telling you to just set up the date. Soft closing is good but you don’t want to beat around it too much. Just tell her to meet you x at xyz. She wants to go out with you. You just need to lead her and set up the date.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:39 PM
-4

What’re you gonna do. Wear shoes in bed? I can’t think of a single scenario where this is a good idea if you’re planning on fucking the girl.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:03 AM
2

Try again. If she says no you have your answer.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:17 AM
1

No you’ll seem butthurt. Your texts should follow this: build rapport get her out on a date If your texts aren’t doing either one of these you shouldn’t be texting. Get her out. If she says no move on. Girls who are interested don’t take 6 hours to respond. You’re there to give her attention.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:25 AM
5

What the fuck
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:46 AM
22

If you’re good looking. All the time. If you’re average. Not often. Just approach who you want to approach. You don’t need permission to approach
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:44 PM
1

Anything you do that brings your SMV up lowers her comfort and vice versa. Story telling is one of the few things that build your SMV and her comfort. Use it
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:50 PM
2

There’s tons of other posts about this. If you scroll far enough back in my comments you’ll find a big list of it.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:30 AM
1

You start with the sidebar. Surprised mods left your post up.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:17 AM
6

If you have abundance: “no worries. Take care” If you still wanna fuck this chick: “who said anything about a relationship?”
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:13 AM
2

How’s life living in her frame? Don’t be a dumbass and try to drive without your license or knowing how to. That’s how you kill people. Tell her to meet you at xyz at x time. Problem solved. Edit: a word
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:12 AM
2

That’s my point. You’re replying to both her questions. It’s your job to pick one topic and answer. Even if she switches topics when you try and set up logistics it could mean she’s not comfortable enough yet but you should still be moving the conversation towards getting her out. Example: Her: “I wouldn’t mind.... where do you live?” You: “well let’s schedule a private session 😏. I’m free Tuesday & Thursday” Her: “Where do you live?” You: “(send her address of where you want to meet) Meet me he…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:42 AM
3

That thing was my bible. OP, a few thing with your convo (and this is according to Mr. V’s guidelines). Your responses were too logical, not emotionally triggering enough. She doesn’t actually care about how your day went. (Mr. V’s example of this. Instead of “I just had lunch with friends, blah blah blah.” Say “I just had the juiciest burger. Still got some on my beard 😏”) You had 2 different conversation topics. Never have 2 convos at once. It’s your job to pick one and pursue. Instead of talk…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:04 AM
18

Why’re you even going out with this girl if she’s bringing her roommate. You should’ve never let it get to this spot. When she says she’s inviting her roommate that’s when you stop it. “Only invite her if you want a threesome” “Have you always needed a chaperone?” “I’m not looking for someone to babysit” Any of these would’ve stopped this headache
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:50 AM
65

Surround yourself with friends who wouldn’t have pushed you in
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:00 AM
2

Don’t hit her unless absolutely necessary for defending yourself. No matter if she hits you first you’ll get charged. Decide if this is an isolated incident but even then. It crosses the line. Figure out whether the pros outweigh the cons or not but either way know there are millions of other women out there that won’t hit you.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:06 AM
2

Your frame is weak. Confidence stems from achievements. Have you don’t anything worth being proud and confident over or do you just sit at home feeling sorry for yourself? It’s the cold harsh reality of the matter at hand. Secondly, TRP is for everyone but not everyone is for TRP. Some people just can’t change that much. Maybe you haven’t had the right experiences for you to accept TRP. Maybe you never will. Luckily for you, that’s completely fine. There are millions of people who are blissfully…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:32 AM
3

Don’t ignore. Treat her as you would any other normal person. It’s still very possible for you to hold a strong frame with her. Ignore = butthurt Don’t be so hard on yourself. We’ve all gone through similar dates. It’s these very experiences that teach us how to not cuck ourselves.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:15 AM
10

Exposure therapy. Go out and talk to people. You can’t read away your anxiety.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:02 AM
8

Holy shit. 3 months? 2+ hour talk and no escalation? AND she was on her period? Good news. You’ve made permanent residency in the orbiter clubhouse. Enjoy the koolaid and punch. Girls are horny and wanna fuck when they’re on their period. Her telling you she’s on her period and then gossiping with you for 2 hours is as clear of a sign for you to escalate as you can get. At this point she’s nexted you. There is no next move for you. Move on with your life and learn from this. More good news for y…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:01 AM
8

Logistic wise: - Best option: meet waking distance to your place - OK option: meet walking distance to her place - Big NoNo: meeting in the middle You still need a reason to bring her back to yours or goto hers. Either way 2nd dates are good too. Do a quick 20-30 min date just walking for the first date. Escalate and leave on a good note. Set up second date at your place. Cooking, movie, etc. Ultimately the venue doesn’t matter. You’re not trying to Hollywood romance her. You’re trying to show h…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:54 AM
2

You have to game the whole group. Not just the person you want to fuck. Essentially you have to “game” and become friendly with basically every one of her friends while also semi-ignoring the one you’re actually interested in. Don’t exclude any of them because if any one of her friends feels excluded they’ll feel the need to pull everyone away from you. Once you’re friendly and on good terms with all of them then and only then do you turn to the girl you’re interested in. My goto line at this mo…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:03 AM
1

Depends on the boundaries you set. If you set a boundary such as “if you cheat I will leave your ass” and she cheats. You follow through. If it’s something that’s a much smaller deal then just withdraw attention. Whatever the case may be just follow through with what you say you’ll do within reason.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 05:48 PM
2

Sidebar. And also, break up with her. Why would you stay with a girl who disrespects you
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:26 AM
15

For future reference never straight compliment. Always phrase it as a push pull. If you need more help: http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:24 AM
4

Motivation is good. But it’ll burn out and you’ll go back to your old ways if the core reason why you’re doing this isn’t for yourself. The end goal should always be self improvement. Women and all that are just the result of it. You started your journey but don’t get lost in your anger.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:21 AM
7

This is all in the sidebar. Your frame is weak, she tested it. You broke. Now you’re in her frame. You didn’t set boundaries. Even if you did you failed to follow through IE low value. Apply dread or beakup with her. Preferably the latter. You have to set boundaries and be able to follow through. Your relationship with this girl sounds idiotic. Don’t get oneitis for a crazy chick.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:18 AM
1

You didn’t lead enough. Never ask. Lead. “Let’s go back to my place, I wanna show you my xyz.” You asking her “you mean tonight?” Is low value. In all honesty though, could’ve been anything. Maybe you didn’t lead enough, maybe she was just going with you bc her friend wanted to be w the other guy, maybe she got cold feet, etc. One singular example isn’t enough to tell what part of your game is off. It’s only worth taking a deeper look if this is something that consistently happens.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:14 AM
1

Here you go http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:48 AM
1

Do BJJ first. It’s a much more gentle sport and it’s amazing for 1 on 1 situations. Muay Thai is a hard and grueling martial art. If you’re not use to getting punched, kicked, kneed, or elbowed you’ll burn out real quick and not want to go back. Start a more friendly martial art like BJJ first then slowly dip your way into striking sports. Your body and mind will thank you for it.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:47 AM
2

Oneitis. Would you go back to the same restaurant if they gave you food poisoning over and over? It’s never easy but it’s best if you move on with your life.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:55 PM
2

Trp change is never so instantaneous to the point you’re 2 completely different people in the matter of days. It takes months to truly internalize trp. Just you asking this question shows you haven’t really internalized trp. One of the most basic things you do to pass a shit test is A&A (Agree and amplify). Your friends’ shit tests are no different.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:52 AM
9

Girls move on fast and they sure as hell don’t like rejection. Once you shut them down they go quickly go looking for validation from other guys. Like you said, if you don’t escalate or wait too long she’ll lose interest and go somewhere else.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:47 AM
0

Don’t be so bitter about women.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:41 AM
3

In that case you’re gonna have to recalibrate your game. Figure out what your type of girls is attracted to and adjust accordingly. Also, you’re gonna have to game them differently. I found out with french girls I had a lot more pull than just normal American girls. Which meant I recalibrated how I ran my game and could be a lot more flirty, direct, and escalate faster and more successfully because I was their type. It’s all trial and error.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:34 AM
1

Go for smoothies, ice cream, donuts, literally anything and a walk is fine
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:21 AM
3

You’re not bad looking. I’d say you’re average but you can definitely improve if you up your sense of style. Get a different haircut/style. Get rid of the earrings/piercings. Keep your beard clean and tidy. Your overall physique is along the way but a bit more defined muscle mass would help tremendously. As far as fashion goes ditch the hippie goth vibe. Go more clean cut. Get clothes that fit you (stay away from graphic tees and what not; check out cutsclothing if you need ideas on how to dress…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:19 AM
12

Jesus Christ for your own sake don’t be so daft. Trp isn’t the answer to everything.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:51 AM
6

It’s a numbers game like any other dating app. Keep in mind though a lot of them use the app for validation
/r/askTRP24/07/20 09:32 PM
2

Go back to whatever you were doing before this all happened. But I’d definitely apply some dread wherever you can when it applies. Also, if you haven’t tried before, light bdsm sets a really strong tone in relationships as well. There’s posts made before in here so a quick search and you’ll learn more.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:58 AM
6

She’s literally coming over to your house on the premise of meeting your dog and helping with laundry. Good on you for giving her an excuse not to be a slut but you’re overthinking it. She already knows that she wants to fuck she just doesn’t want to be labeled a hoe. Make whatever small talk you want. As far as escalation goes, it should start the second you meet her. Give her a hug and use DiCarlo’s escalation ladder. If you ever feel uncomfortable touching her it’s because you either never ph…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:29 AM
4

Delivery has about 95% to do with it. Look at bill burr’s bit (no means no). That’s the difference. It’s like opening. What you say matters about 10%, how you say it matters 90%. You can have a shit opener and still close if you’re confident in it and project it in a good way. Ultimately, you should stay and keep talking until you close. Although don’t be socially retarded and read body language and know to leave if she gives you a hard no.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:18 AM
4

Jesus Christ you need to cut the fluff writing. 90% of what you wrote is irrelevant. You broke frame and became jealous/mate guarding like you said (bp). She’s not attracted to that, she pulls back. Now she’s testing to see if you’re still the same person she’s attracted to (hence walking in ass in air) or if you’re unattractive bp billy no balls. Unfortunately for you, you guys live together (also a major no-no in trp). Most trp tactics like dread can’t really work well when you guys live toget…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:14 AM
9

One of two things: you’re either actually scary to them because of how you look or they don’t like you and want an excuse to get away. Girls won’t call a 6’5 chad scary because he’s bigger and stronger than them. So if they’re calling you scary and rough it’s probably in how you opened or the vibe you put off. Whichever is the case you can either open in a more friendly way & give more comfort throughout the convo or change your look/vibe. Also, for the sake of trp it could be a shit test depend…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:00 AM
4

You can’t just go on to the next LTR when u lose frame. If you did that you’d never have a successful LTR relationship. The more comfortable a girl is with you the less she will challenge your frame. If you held a strong frame in the beginning of the relationship and you’re congruent with who you are then shit tests and frame challenges shouldn’t be an issue later in the relationship.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:21 PM
2

Lmao. It definitely dries her. Girls don’t think like guys. Don’t expect sex after you talk politics w them. That’s why it’s important to make sure you guys have aligning beliefs about these things.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:17 PM
5

Since this is your LTR of 1.5 years it’s something that should’ve been vetted. If politics is important to both of you it’s going to be hard long term to keep a successful relationship. If it’s not, then political opinion is less important. Some of my best friends hold different political opinions than myself but we’ve always been able to have calm conversations without letting that affect our friendship. Hell, I’ve even dated girls with different political opinions in my bp days. It all just de…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:08 PM
12

This. Conor McGregor it
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:51 PM
4

And they say chivalry is dead
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:42 AM
8

Do not live in Detroit. This will be the move. Cheers
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:46 AM
2

Guess I’m overthinking it lol. Appreciate it
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:44 AM
2

Go for it. Get a haircut and look good for them. Also, being a few different outfits so you can use them interchangeably for dating apps, LinkedIn, etc. There’s other times where professional pictures come in hand besides dating apps. But don’t just take a bunch of headshots on a backdrop and use the same background for all your dating pics
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:56 AM
8

Like others have said. Feminism. But to go further, they feel that it empowers them. They get easy validation from friends and orbiters that they’re “strong” & “powerful” or whatever. This is short term though. I’ve never seen a hot chick do this long term. Once or twice is enough
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:44 PM
10

Fun. You’ll be able to have fun and that’s it. They very very rarely are LTR material. You won’t be able to have actual conversations w them about anything. But all in all, she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Enjoy your time w her for now then when you want to be able to have an actual conversation w someone you’ll next her.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:06 AM
2

I don’t see a question here at all. But you have oneitis for ur ex. Honestly the best thing you can do right now is block her on everything. Stop stalking her new life. Her new bf has nothing to do w u. Go talk to other girls and you’ll forget she even existed.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:03 AM
2

MMA gyms and most martial arts gym in general are very safe and welcoming. Do your research before. Try out a class and see. If you really are scared then go with one of the bigger names such as American Top Team. Don’t listen to the people saying it’s good to be out of your comfort zone. It is, but not when it comes to combat sports. It’s very easy to get injured when going against someone who is much more skilled. Long story short, find a good gym and you’ll have an extremely positive and welc…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 03:28 AM
1

I’m also bettin none of them follow trp. There’s a reason people do things different in trp. But if you’re so daft that you haven’t read what everyone else has been saying it’s bc she’s not interested. You killed the mystery. You’re too available to her. Soft next. Similarly, if me giving you advice causes you to get this butthurt. Work on your frame. I can only imagine what a woman will do to your frame. Read the sidebar, read what others are saying and quit bein a bitch about it.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:02 PM
1

Lmao. I’m in college. I’m telling you to not go for their snap bc that’s exactly what all the other orbiters have. She’s much more likely to give out snap than her # bc it’s free validation for her and almost no commitment on her part. Everything you can accomplish on snap u can accomplish with a number. Except the number sets you apart from the orbiters. Also, you framed the question as her asking about your day and you responding then freaking out bc she hasn’t responded yet. Get a grip of you…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:22 PM
2

People change. What he enjoyed back then he may no longer enjoy now. You can reach out all you want but unless he actually wants to connect, it will be in vain. End of the day the only thing you can do is stay positive and let him know that you’re there if needed. And more importantly, when he does reach out, be there.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:33 AM
5

Everyone has different standards. That’s what screening is for. However, there are a few red flags that trp generally advocates against: - high n count - alpha widow - feminists - drugs/alcohol - differing economic lifestyles (she blows her money, you save yours, etc) - bissexual - bipolar/borderline - bad relationship with family (obv there’s exceptions for this, use your head) - being on phone all the time - not holding a job - never offers to pay for anything - no female friends - thinks she’…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:30 AM
1

Either actually have it or don’t fake it. Abundance isn’t necessarily vital to trp. Abundance mindset is. Apply that. Just imply or tell her you’re willing to walk away.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:19 AM
8

Step 1: get verified. You have everything you need to pass it. Once you do the blue check is HUGE social proof. You can cold dm a girl and catch her attention. Step 2: you’re a rapper. If you are at least semi successful and living the “rapper” lifestyle, take pics and post them. Use your Instagram and show off your lifestyle. End of the day game is just showing off the best version of yourself in the fastest and most efficient manner possible. Best way to do this is by consistently taking photo…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:33 AM
1

And how long has it been? Do you have nothing else going on to be sitting around waiting for her reply? Secondly, don’t go for snap. That’s where you fall into line with all the other beta orbiters she has. It’s better to go for the number and walk away with nothing than get their snap (most girls will give you their number once you show that you’re willing to walk away). Lastly, girls don’t care about your day they just want to get the ball movin. Even if you’ve had the shittiest day of your li…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:20 AM
6

You don’t practice game on snap. It’s impossible, you’re on the same app with all her other beta orbiters. This is the exact reason why people always say don’t settle for anything less than their number. Now to get back to your question. They send that shit to everyone on their contacts. Don’t start streaks with them, all that does is give them free validation. Either get their number and practice some rapport building, passing shit tests (which you’ll only get if she’s even interested), and set…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:15 AM
3

Your mental is all wrong which is weird considering you seemingly train at a high level of jiu jitsu. My mental wasn’t always the best but once I started seriously training MMA and jiu jitsu more it skyrocketed. I always trained MMA growing up but wasn’t until the last few years where I really dove into it. My confidence comes from knowing that i can defend myself if it came down to a kill or be killed situation (all that really matters in my opinion). This is the same source of confidence that …
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:09 AM
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They’re all capable. That’s where AWALT comes from. “All women are like that, but not all will do that.” There does get to a point where a girls investment in you outweighs someone else’s smv.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:02 AM
1

“I know”, “thanks, girls dig it”, “you’re not so bad yourself” Honestly, most anything will past this test with the right delivery since from what I can tell you prob have higher SMV than her and she knows it. She’s interested in you and you got the all good sign to move forward and start setting logistics.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:35 AM
1

Depends. Are you hot? If you are, then it’s real. If you’re not, then treat it as if you were. She’s either complimenting u or wants to see how you react. Regardless, treat it as a shit test. Agree & amplify.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:26 AM
4

Exposure therapy. Only way to get better at 1 on 1 conversations is to have more of them. Talking to big crowds is a different dynamic than a 1 on 1 conversation. Basically assume the burden in the beginning of the conversation. You’ll most likely be taking up 75% of the conversation and her 25%. Keep talking, build off what she says. ToddV on YouTube has an hour long video on how to not run out of things to say so up to you if you want to watch that or not. If you hit a silence, it’s fine. Lear…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 11:43 PM
5

Literally anywhere. At 17 you have more limited options but start by opening any girl you find remotely attractive at your school. Use this time as a learning opportunity. This will help build your social skills and make talking to girls completely normal and not to mention kill your approach anxiety while building social proof. Again, high school doesn’t mean anything. These parties that seem important now won’t mean anything in 6 months.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:24 AM
3

Oneitis recover is a hell of a thing. Many people here have been fucked over by it before, that’s why there’s so many posts on it. But also know that all of them have come out better. If fucking random chicks isn’t something you want rn then that’s not what you should be doing. Learn from your mistakes and move on, no point in living in the past. Take this time to work on yourself. It’s fine to be selfish during times like this but don’t overdo it and wallow in self-pity for months on end.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:12 AM
12

A few things: 1) I should’ve gotten paid to read this 2) There are tons of posts here about stuff like this 3) She would’ve been 17 when you met her. Shouldn’t have started a relationship anyways. There’s too much risk involved not to mention illegal in most places. Others may tear into you but I’m just gonna say this. There are billions of other women out there and even though this one was great; there are many others like her. If you really want to move on fast go talk and fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:59 AM
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Means they don’t want you there. You asking to go over and over isn’t helping. At this point the best thing you can do for yourself is put your head down, ignore them and their lives, and work on yourself. Start going to the gym, talking with other girls (this will help if at the end of the day you really wanna goto their party). At 17 these parties don’t mean anything. The people throwing them don’t mean anything. Work on yourself for 1 year. By the time you get to college you’ll be a different…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:38 AM
3

Not too TRP related but marketing is your only option. Chances of someone coming by and making you famous are slim to none and not something you should be waiting for. Tik tok is a great platform if you got the creativity for it. The algorithm doesn’t discriminate and will promote literally anyone until you get enough views (100k or some shit) then it will slow down your promotion. If you link your other socials with it you can grow them fairly well. Had a friend grow her dropshipping from a few…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:16 AM
1

When the vibe is good and I try and set up a date she’ll say something along the lines of “i don’t know you well enough” or “idk if I trust you” so I just treat them as shit tests and A&A. She responded well but that’s how it ended up being a longer convo than I wanted
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:30 PM
1

So if some girl needed more comfort what should I have done instead? During the convo I kept it flirty but never got into an actual conversation. Just asked her what she wanted to know and that I’m an open book.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:16 PM
1

Missed opportunity lol. Gonna keep this in my back pocket
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:30 AM
2

Get good photos. That’s the most important thing. Don’t post selfies or anything. I love photography and cinematography so I normally take a lot of photos and shit for myself and others. You can do the same thing just get a tripod. If you’re using Instagram purely to game women then only post things that add value. Went somewhere cool? Snap a pic and post it (make sure you’re in it though, don’t just have your grid be of a bunch of places). If you need inspiration check out Sam kolder or peter M…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:51 AM
7

As opposed to being called what?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:38 AM
1

No need to fix what’s not broken. If it works it works.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:24 PM
1

Welcome to the online world. You’re not texting them to have a good convo. Ur texting them to set up logistics and get them out. If they’re still responding take it as an IOI and start setting up a date
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:48 PM
3

This is such a stupid question. As with anything there’s no set # or steps to take to get a girl out. Go with the flow. Each message should only be sent if it serves a purpose (either moving towards getting a number or building comfort, rapport, etc). Get their number before moving to a date (Ben Franklin effect & helps distinguish you from the other hundreds of messages she gets). Finally, don’t be a pen pal. Use your head and don’t save your good stories and what not for in person where you ca…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:38 AM
1

Well I’m talkin bout like 5 different people a week. But hey, if you can afford it comfortably then do you. But it’s not a good precedent to set that you’re paying for everything
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:15 PM
1

In the context of paying for food, drinks, etc. the logical response is no, that money adds up quickly if you’re going on 5 dates/week
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:16 PM
1

I mean sure if you can pull it off. But why get their snap just to get their number? Regardless, Snapchat is filled with orbiters and you go for numbers to avoid falling in line with them. In my opinion it’s better to walk away with nothing than snap. I find Snapchat never converts to a date as much as their numbers do.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:12 PM
2

Do what makes you happy. If you can sit down and really tell yourself that this is something that makes you click, move out and work a second job to supplement this dream. Keep in mind though that others have had your exact same dream in your exact same environment and they’ve made it. If someone else has done it before you have 0 excuses. Most importantly, have a plan before you do anything. Moving out is a big thing, you certainly don’t want to burn any bridges leaving and then be stranded wit…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:54 AM
6

You’re in high school so social media is a big thing. Most girls won’t spend time on someone who has 0 social media presence/proof. With that being said, don’t spend your time on Snapchat. Deleting it is up to you but know there’s tons of people that will offer Snapchat instead of their number. Go for their numbers don’t settle for their snap. Better to walk away with nothing than to fall into the other orbiters. If you do use Snapchat use it sparingly and don’t start streaks or anything with th…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:48 AM
2

Don’t let others disrespect you. Speaking your mind has nothing to do with being respected. Respect is earned as is anything else. If you put off a shy and unsociable vibe of course people would disrespect you directly or not. You seem focused on the fact that someone taller than you can physically beat you in a fight. Of course physical traits do matter in a fight as even Conor mcgregor would get run through by the mountain from game of thrones. But the mass majority of people (95%+ don’t do an…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:38 AM
5

Dog could help. But it is a risk op needs to thing about. If his dads in such a state of mind, the puppy may just add another stressor to his life and the puppy will end up being returned. Something to think about before getting one
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:19 PM
1

Yes and no. After you read the sidebar and open up your eyes to the real world things change. People change. You change. Work on yourself and don’t worry too much about others. Ultimately, the only thing you can control is yourself. Cutting people out of your life is good in some cases. Real friendship isn’t a weakness, just know who you can truly count on and who you can’t. In the future, if you have any toxic friends that limit your growth but you don’t want to cut all contact for whatever rea…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:46 AM
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