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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to take care of my single mother without losing independence and while spinning plates?This would be perfect. How do I convince her without having her throw tantrums? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How to take care of my single mother without losing independence and while spinning plates?We'd rent a bigger place together. We'll share our house expenses. Getting her to see that it'd be better if she lives nearby in her own suite would be perfect but idk how to do that. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How to take care of my single mother without losing independence and while spinning plates?Yes, I suggested getting her an apartment nearby. In the same building even. She felt offended at the very idea that I don't want her to live with me. Then she threw tantrums for weeks. "you're not my child etc." Asian parents... | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to take care of my single mother without losing independence and while spinning plates?Fully as in financially. But she is old, alone and not in the best shape. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 03:49 PM |
| 2 | How to take care of my single mother without losing independence and while spinning plates?Idk man, I know she is the only woman, or in fact the only person who'd ever truly love me. She went through hell to provide me a normal life. Even though she can financially support herself comfortably, to abandon her for other women and not repay for all the sacrifices she made to give me a 'normal' life would be a very tough choice. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Plate viable for LTR even if she is seeing other guys?I'm sorry I didn't get what you meant. Do you mean I shouldn't LTR a girl looking at other guys as I am aware of it being a red flag? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you even compete with better looking/more alpha guys?Yes, but I don't like meaningless sex. I like having some emotional connection, dating towards a potential LTR. If I keep losing plates or let them fuck others, is it even possible to find an LTR? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 11:03 AM |
| 2 | How do you even compete with better looking/more alpha guys?Yes. But if I keep losing plates to others, isn't that competition? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 10:56 AM |
| – | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?In case she is trying to pull the '2 can play that game', how do I hold frame? Reduce contact? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 04:11 PM |
| -2 | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?I'm just here to learn, man. You raise valid points. How long would you see/date a woman before you can even think about knowing her well enough to consider an LTR? If it is 5-6 months, I don't know what self-respecting woman would wait for the guy while he fucks other sluts. Which pretty much makes it impossible to get in a relationship, IMO. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 03:33 PM |
| – | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?Yes. But why would a woman understand that logic? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 03:02 PM |
| – | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?Wow, that very rare case sounds almost impossible. Anyway, I just don't like casual, meaningless sex as much. I hope to have a strong family with a good wife and kids. That means being willing to be exclusive if you find a good woman. Plating forever isn't my cup of tea. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:58 PM |
| – | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?This is confusing. Am I, also, not fucking other girls? Why would the girl be exclusive and not even see others if I make it clear that I am seeing others? Or should I have never told her that? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:34 PM |
| – | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?Thanks for boldly putting some sense it me. When I say fuck buddy, I meant she has been coming over for 10 of the last 30 odd days. We had some emotional connection and we had lots of sex. We didn't explicitly talk about this being a fuck buddy situation. For future though, how do you try and find a good woman? I'd obviously have sex with her multiple times before I go exclusive. So, isn't she a slut for just having sex outside of an LTR? Or do I wait for someone who would be exclusive with me f… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:30 PM |
| – | How to deal with a fuck buddy if I see her as a potential LTR and she is starting to see others?So, I should be fine with her seeing other people? That isn't a red flag for a potential LTR, right? And if I have high enough SMV, she would see me being better than those dudes and push for commitment? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How to act around other men when they are talking about a topic you know nothing about and still not seem like an introvert?But, say, you join a dance or jiu jitsu class. The experienced guys speak up and have a conversation going on, while you just stand there quietly. Wouldn't you seem too beta or unconfident to the group? | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 12:08 PM |
| – | How do you ask a girl for a date over text? Direct and very specific, or indirect and ask for a free day first? Was I too direct?So before I try once more, should I text her some random shit once to build rapport, or was the first date all the rapport I could have built with her? | /r/seduction | 12/07/16 12:53 PM |
| – | How do you ask a girl for a date over text? Direct and very specific, or indirect and ask for a free day first? Was I too direct?That's a really good reply. Thanks. I hadn't really texted her a lot after the first date. Maybe once in the week long duration before the 2nd date text for some quick banter/callback humor. Should I even try once more after say, a week, and maybe do some light-hearted texting in between? | /r/seduction | 12/07/16 11:47 AM |
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