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| – | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?He lacks compatibility and like-ability. If a guy is not compatible with my values, personality, goals, and lifestyle then he is either not considered at all or is demoted to hook up material. Same for if there are more traits about him that I dislike than like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 09:27 AM |
| 5 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Personally, when doing casual I’m not giving my 100%. No emotional intimacy, no gifts, no kind gestures, no caring about his day or his favorite sports team. Not even the sex is my 100% best. I’m not doing backflips on the D for a guy who is not buying me flowers and taking me out. I have a lot to offer and he doesn’t receive any of the benefits. If mediocre pussy is what you want and consider successful, then do you. But I do not consider receiving mediocre dick an accomplishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 01:11 PM |
| 11 | Western women preferencesYou shit don’t you? How loose is your asshole from all those bowel movements? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 01:48 AM |
| 2 | The bar is beneath hell for womenI was agreeing with you. My comment was about the person you were replying to. I agree with this comment as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for womenI don’t get it either. You’re mad at women because men want to date/fuck them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:57 AM |
| 8 | The bar is beneath hell for womenThe average and ugly guys don’t treat women any better than the hot guys do. If you’re gonna get played, it might as well be by someone hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut?How did her husband respond and what was the outcome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 12:29 AM |
| 12 | Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut?People who watch porn frequently internalize thoughts and feelings on what bodies should look like and how sex should be executed. These thoughts and feelings are projected onto other people and their partner, therefore, negatively impacting everyone. Speaking from personal experience, I've had guys send me porn as examples of what they'd like me to do in the bedroom and it was never anything vanilla, it was always something taboo. Guys have also described what they like on a woman's body: round… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:58 PM |
| 77 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedMy favorite stereotype in this sub is tall and handsome = stupid asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's humanYou’re gonna have to spell it out for me. Women date assholes because they’re so sexy, these women become single moms and/or leave the relationship with baggage, and then men don’t want to date these women due to said problems. If every man has to be an asshole to get women, then there won’t be kind men for women to choose from. Women won’t be able to choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's humanHave you tried being as asshole? How is that working out for you? How many women are in your harem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:24 PM |
| -6 | Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's humanStill sounds like a good deal! Nothing wrong with being friends with women. A romantic and sexual connection still requires physical attraction, compatibility, and flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:16 PM |
| 17 | Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's humanFor someone to be considered kind, they also have to be patient, empathetic, generous, respectful, considerate, and friendly. Surprisingly (/s), if you’re kind to women, there’s a higher chance they’ll want to be around you. Maybe even sleep with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:49 PM |
| 19 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Generally offline, most men won’t care about the color and shape of a woman’s labia. But every girl and woman at some point has heard a boy or man refer to labia as meat curtains, roast beef sandwich, “is it bubble gum pink?”, wizard sleeve, and other nasty things. Girls and women internalize that and see it reinforced in porn ; therefore creating shame, embarrassment, and insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Do you ever have the urge to push back against hatred directed at men who think their position in dating suck?I am interested and do care a lot about men’s thoughts and experiences around dating. I’ve had deep personal conversations with my guy friends where we’ve discussed racism, religion, cultural backgrounds, attachment issues, past trauma, fears, ambitions, masculinity, and how all of that affects their love life and sex life. Where you lose me is when men say they’re lonely because women won’t have sex with them, therefore women need to lower their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 09:53 AM |
| – | Ugly dudes are more likely to make better partnersPurely anecdotal, but I’ve only dated one “attractive” guy (6ft, fit/muscular, full head of hair, dresses nice, fancy brand new car), and he was more romantic and attentive than the average (or “ugly”) guys I dated. The average guys were nonchalant, distant, and treated me like an option. So YMMV I guess! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Not everyone wants to have kids of their own and some can't make kids of their own. If you've always dreamed of having a family then dating someone with kids is a viable option. Plus not everyone views children as baggage or sees parenting as a burden. I'm not sure why you view children and step-parenting so poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 05:31 AM |
| 14 | Is it common for women to have had a negative experience with an autistic man in their life?I wouldn’t say negative, but concerning. I’ve noticed that autistic men will put me on a pedestal, they look at me in awe. You think this would be flattering, but they idolize the image of me they’ve made up in their head. They don’t care about the real me, even when I’ve attempted to correct them. This happened years ago when an autistic man confessed that he was in love with me, despite knowing nothing about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:22 AM |
| -3 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.This is the craziest list I’ve ever seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | What % of men fail to meet reasonable hygiene or grooming standards?They should keep a pocket sized manicure set and tube of hand lotion in their trucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 07:32 PM |
| 9 | What's wrong with being misogynistic? Why SHOULDN'T men become misogynists?Exactly. Being hateful is mentally and emotionally exhausting. Whenever I find myself becoming disgusted and angry at men, it means I need to take a break from doomscrolling and go outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | What is flirting to you?Flirting requires charisma which looks different person to person. Own your personality and looks and make it work for you. For example, the word Adorkable comes to mind. Compliments are a major indicator of flirting. Don’t make it about physical appearance like her body or her smile. Compliment her clothes or hairstyle, compliment her choice of cheese and wine, compliment her funny joke. Touching/breaking the physical barrier is another one. I’m not talking about holding hands, hugs, or kissing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:06 AM |
| 1 | There is more to personality than being niceWhat is the bare minimum if being nice and nonviolent is not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:51 AM |
| 4 | There is more to personality than being niceIf someone were mean or rude, you’d be taken aback because you weren’t expecting that behavior. That’s because being nice is a bare minimum human trait. People don’t want to date someone is physically violent, yet physically abusive people get into relationships all the time. Does that mean we shouldn’t strive to be nonviolent? Is wanting a partner who is nonviolent a high standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?The male gaze dehumanizes women. I would hope women's partners see them as normal and complex human beings. Not all men view and treat women as pretty things for their enjoyment. There's nothing wrong with a man finding his partner sexy, but it gets old really fast when you can't change your clothes without your partner initiating sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 10:00 AM |
| 4 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?It's $50 to get your question answered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 08:15 AM |
| 9 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?I wish men were like Darkseid and who could zap us with omega beams, that would actually be cool. Unfortunately, women are just fetishized for everything we do and are, which is significantly less cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:55 AM |
| 26 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?Marg clocked it back in 1994: Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering throug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:47 AM |
| – | Do you believe positive physical characteristics can offset negative ones in males?No. Back in college there was a 6’+ guy that was into me and I could not reciprocate those feelings. He was mentally ill (pathological liar, narcissist), had awful BO, and would sometimes have a boogie hanging out his nose. Those qualities took away from his towering height, big biceps, and full head of hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:21 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI eat ass but biting into a fatty piece of meat makes me gag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women who aren't social/don't put themselves out there at all can still get romantic partners?As an average or below average woman who enjoys exploring the world alone, I do not get approached, like ever. I'm 28 years old and I can't recall a single time a man has ever approached me to ask for my number or offered to take me on a date. It's a blessing and a curse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThis advice is for heterosexual men, women love ass just as much as men do. And like I said, that's what worked on me. I was swiping thru Bumble and saw a profile with a blurry face picture, no prompts, and pictures of him from the neck down wearing speedos and jockstraps on his connected Instagram account. We've been casually seeing each other for almost 2 years now so I'd say it's worth a shot 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADStop posting pictures of your abs and biceps and start posting pictures your ass. That’s what worked on me anyway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf I was closer to the door and was reaching for it, he'd still rush ahead of me to open and hold it for me. He'd insist on paying for our lunches even if I already told him that I would be paying. There were other things as well that signaled that he could be interested. It could be how he was raised, but in my experience, men don't typically interact with their colleagues like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 12:09 AM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI thought my co-worker was into me and was just too shy to ask me out, so I put on my big girl pants and asked him on a date. He said no because he's already seeing someone. So why is he opening doors and paying for meals for women that aren't his gf?? SMH, these hos really are not loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 11:24 PM |
| -10 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorMarriage material: smart, reliable, dependable, respectful, considerate, friendly, kind, helpful, team player, leader, fun, creative, optimistic, emotionally stable, mentally stable, financially stable, physically attractive Hook up material: hot with no substance But I mean if men wanna be objectified, dehumanized, and treated like a piece of ass I’m down to give it a try 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 07:32 PM |
| 18 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenIf your partner has a serious high-stakes project at work, has a loved one who has been seriously injured or passed away, got into a car accident and totaled their car, received a scary medical diagnosis, etc you'd prefer they suck it up so that they can give you duty sex? Are you suggesting that you both ignore their problems in favor of catering to yours? You're not meeting them halfway at all, instead, you're pushing them to build resentment which will then lead to a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Low self-esteem and low confidence are good things, and a lot more people should have them.Get back in line flesh sack #42069! Challenge the status quo again and we’ll have you to sent to the reeducation camps. In my opinion, if there is an aspect of someone’s life that is causing them distress they should work to address it and improve their circumstance. However, if you find someone “ugly” why is that then their problem? How are you gonna be mad at THEM for being ugly? Who decides what is ugly? Who and what sets these arbitrary standards and why are we failures for not meeting them?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:44 PM |
| – | Women have always found most men unattractive they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men.Porn, movies, and social media sell a fantasy. Young gorgeous sexy women loooove socially inept ugly men. She loves video games, beer, football, and blowjobs just like him! Women are happy to participate in this fantasy because it provides them with fame and money, they don't care about the negative consequences it has on boys, girls, men, and women. When Belle Delphine wears children's clothes and talks in a baby voice, she's not thinking about her impact on the perception and treatment of youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?That’s so embarrassing for those men💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Should you look for a gf if you dont have any friendsIf he doesn’t have ANY friends and isn’t new to the area, then I would be concerned. He doesn’t need to have a large friend group, just 1 or 2 close friends. Quality > Quantity By having no friends, I would wonder what about this person is scaring people off, or why they aren’t able to build connections with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most amount of 1st dates you’ve gone on in 1 year?In 2023 I went on 4 first dates - The dates were ok, we had a lot to talk about but usually the one us wasn’t feeling a connection - 1 was at a boba shop, 1 was at a barcade, and 2 were at a really nice shopping center with cafes, restaurants. and live music - I found them on Hinge, Bumble, and Coffee Meets Bagel - Nope, no LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:57 AM |
| 9 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?He said he also finds some women his age hot so he’s not settling. You can find someone attractive and not want to have sex with them or be in a relationship with them. Admire their hotness and move on with your day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:36 AM |
| 2 | What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women?Same reason men like ‘em young: attractive, energetic, impressionable, teachable, and naive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm confused. Why are you assuming she wasn't interested and got the ick? It seems like she was met with new information and was confused, and then carried on with the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Self improvement - is the lemon worth the sqeeze<image> What if we can’t bang college girls and improve our lives for nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:18 AM |
| 14 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.The Law of Detachment It’s easier said than done and takes a lot of mental work to be able to go with the flow. But it can still feel like a slap in the face when you’ve put in so much time, energy, and love only for your efforts to not pay off or be reciprocated. I agree that we should find alternatives, I don’t think it’s healthy for an infertile woman to question if she would’ve been a good mother or not. Or to tell people who want romantic love that they probably didn’t deserve it anyway. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The fundamental difference between misogyny and misandry: against "enlightened centrism"I'm really not trying to turn this into the oppression olympics because men absolutely face issues that are worth acknowledging and rectifying. All movements receive pushback. Radical misandrists aren't a thing, unless you're talking about those women on Twitter that write things like "I hate men" and "kill all men". But even then, do those tweets manifest in real life? I certainly see anti-black misandry play out in real life when white women's tears get men killed. Besides that, there's nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 10:25 PM |
| 8 | How is it that socially inept geeky types almost always seem to have long term partners who are often comparatively normal?Could be as romantic as he's really doting on her and knows exactly how to make her smile I honestly think it's this. Women care A LOT about how you can make her feel. If you can make her feel special and cared for like she's the only girl in the world, she'll be head-over-heels for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The fundamental difference between misogyny and misandry: against "enlightened centrism"Ok and? So men are gonna let some mean words put a stop to their movement? As if feminists aren’t also referred to as feminazis, land whales, lonely cat ladies, spinsters, old maids, misandrists, and man haters. Join the club dude! Well yes, a woman is the one who gets pregnant so her life is impacted more than the man’s. If the man wants to be a father, then she can sign way parental rights and pay him child support. Either way someone needs to step up. I don’t think we should be boo hooing and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | The fundamental difference between misogyny and misandry: against "enlightened centrism"Couldn’t men advocate for their rights like women have? If you don’t like that there aren’t enough resources and protections for men, then speak up. And since when have men not been able to opt out of parenthood? If a couple is unmarried and he doesn’t agree to a paternity test, then he doesn’t have to take responsibility for his child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:48 PM |
| 14 | Sex is really only a physical need...At least 50 men and women die everyday from either blue balls or blue walls. With your donation of $2.00 or more we ca- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate?I’m in the US and a majority of our politicians and lawmakers are men. I’d like to see more women in power, but as it stands, our govt is a sausage fest. Who else will make and enforce laws if not the men in power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate?I don’t think my comment said anything about all women. All groups have bad apples, so ya there are women who will exploit MeToo. If this exploitation is an epidemic, men should advocate for better laws and protections, and create resources for men whose lives have been negatively impacted by false accusations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate?And that's fine. Just know that women who are picking the bear are doing it because they fear rape, violence, and murder fueled by hatred, selfishness, and contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:12 PM |
| 7 | Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate?Women criticize those men because we believe they are blowing it out of proportion ("oh so I can't even give my co-worker a high-5 anymore?") and we're concerned about their ability to self-regulate. It's not difficult, scary, or life-threatening not to touch people, to think before speaking, and to be self-aware. People do it all the time. However, that requires you to be sympathetic, patient, and adaptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate?That would still be valid because you're making this claim based on your experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:29 PM |
| – | True or False: A man with a high OR low body count (relative to age) is generally seen as more unattractiveI could see 0 being concerning, but an attractive man having a low body count would turn more women on than off. It show that he has standards and discipline, and that’ll make whatever women he’s with feel special. He’s picky and picked her. Women like to feel special, like we’re the only woman he has eyes for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:12 PM |
| – | True or False: A man with a high OR low body count (relative to age) is generally seen as more unattractiveThis analogy isn’t helping your case tbh How can you know if someone is a great in bed if you’ve only had a sample? If we’re using your example, how can someone describe the complex flavors and know how to cook the food if they’ve only had a spoonful? Someone who eats a lot food is not considered a food critic or a chef. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingThat’s what I was thinking too. What differentiates sex workers from red pill men other than that sex workers are at least paid for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy flair is a self-deprecating joke since I tend to be invisible to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy friend asked me which of his 2 friends would be the first to get into a relationship. I couldn't answer since I don't know either of them very well. I stupidly threw myself into the mix and tossed the question back at him. Why did he respond immediately with "Well you're going last, if at all. Obviously." WTF did I do 😭?!?! I could tell he was half joking and half serious. Either way that really hurt my ✨feelings✨ and hit reeeeeeeeal deep, like I was getting teary-eyed. So I guess I'll be thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 08:25 PM |
| 8 | What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps?Same, not a fan of beards or mustaches. They hide too much of the face and neck. Something about them also seems a bit unhygienic? I prefer clean shaven or stubble/facial hair that’s close to the skin. The same way men feel about makeup, I feel about facial hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with women making rules for some and breaking it for others? It's just common senseAnd if you love someone, you won’t think of it as “jumping through hoops”, you’ll think of it as getting to know them and spending quality time together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:08 PM |
| 12 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?How does her response not answer your question? Red pill people are usually on the conservative side and are often right leaning. So if I’m on a date with a man and I tell him I like going to Drag Queen Brunch, if he grimaces and says that stuff is weird and gross, well now I know we’re not compatible. You learn about people by talking to them and going on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:35 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitYou’re using strong language for something that is not that serious. Why would any person feel DISGUST and HATRED at the thought of having sex with someone they like? You said that, not anyone else. And yes, men also have sex with women they aren’t interested in or compatible with. How else would casual sex work? It wouldn’t exist if humans only had sex with people they really liked because then we’d all be in serious relationships. How do you decide who to have casual sex with and who to have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitI disagree, I believe it to be the opposite. If she doesn’t like him, she’ll have sex with him quickly because she doesn’t care if he ghosts her and never hears from him again. She’ll ignore the red flags because she’s never going see/talk to him again. To her it’s just some guy to have quick fun with. If she likes him, she’ll wait to have sex because she doesn’t want to risk him ghosting or breaking things off with her because she actually wants him to stick around. Sex is also more meaningful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:03 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitDoesn’t matter if he’s not participating in casual sex. If he does not agree with that dating style then they are not sexually compatible and therefore not a match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:36 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitBy communicating with them? Men are allowed to tell women they are just looking for casual sex, and women should be allowed to make an educated decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Serious talk - do women actually segregate men into 'alphafux' and 'betabux' at first glance?Having chemistry is not the same as being compatible. Hence why some people pursue a casual relationship instead of a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 01:48 PM |
| 34 | If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time?sexual discipline =/= horny When I’m ovulating, just the sight of a man makes me foam at the mouth, but that still doesn’t mean I’m going to jump on the first man I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:52 PM |
| 8 | If you let your girlfriend go on an all girls vacation, don't cry to anyone when she cheats on youYOUR boundaries are for YOU to follow. If your boundary is that you don't want your girlfriend to go on vacation, then you don't date girls who go on vacations. You don't date a girl who likes to travel and then tell her she's not allowed to travel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.Correct 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.You don’t understand. Saying “Hey, I’m looking for something casual with no strings attached, if you’re interested we should meet up and grab a coffee” is literally so cringe!!! Sarcasm btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.Then suffer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:41 PM |
| 8 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.Learn how to flirt and be sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:28 PM |
| 2 | If makeup were illegal, it might not entirely fix the current situation but it would change it significantlyMy theory is that everyone (men included) would look better if we all used a bit of concealer, mascara, blush, lip stain, and eyebrow pencil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADNot true! I have a lot of positive relationships with men (with no romantic or sexual interest on either side), who if they approached and were excited to see me in public, would most likely leave a long lasting positive impression on me. And this guy wasn't anymore special than my other male colleagues. Plus this guy isn't "conventionally attractive" - he's shorter than me, large hooked nose, imperfect teeth with a crooked smile, brown/middle eastern. Not ugly by any means, but not the typical … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:32 PM |
| 4 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI have a love-hate relationship with charismatic men. Because why you did you run up to me and tell me how happy and relieved you are to see me, and reminice on our time together all while smiling ear so hard it makes your eyes crinkle at the sides, but then didn't confess that you're in love with me??? This is friendly acquaintance I had a couple of classes with back in college 5 years ago who I hadn't thought about since then, and now he's on my mind. I just about folded right then and there. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 08:48 PM |
| 17 | What would porn made for the female gaze look like?The difference in your example is the power dynamic. She is the one in control, she has the power. She decides who she wants next and how she wants him. In a male gaze example, the men would be in control. They would be passing her around and deciding how to handle her. Female sexuality is just as varied and diverse as male sexuality. Some want plot, others just wanna get straight to business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 05:32 PM |
| 15 | What would porn made for the female gaze look like?Probably that as well. But also in straight porn, when the man is receiving a blow job, it’s focused on the women’s face/body and the noises she’s making. As a straight woman myself, I want to see the man’s face/body and hear his noises as he receives the BJ because I’m attracted to men, not women. In gay porn, you’re guaranteed to see and hear attractive men receive pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Thought experiment I've been struggling with.Maybe the commenter was exaggerating by using “murder.” Perhaps they mean very upset. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if it’s a ridiculous perception. Safety is more important than feelings. Women don’t like having to be cautious of men, but we don’t know if he’ll threaten to hurt us or actually go thru with doing it. If you have a problem with that, take it up with your fellow man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 10:56 PM |
| -2 | Thought experiment I've been struggling with.r/whenwomenrefuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNgl you had me until that last sentence 😂 That would be very out of character for her, but I live for drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDamn idk if my skin is thick enough yet. Thankfully I’m using this as motivation to improve my life by starting new hobbies, hanging out with new people, and figuring out where I wanna travel this year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m trying!!! 😩 Easier said than done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy best friend who I assumed was asexual and aromantic due to repulsion to both romance and sex, somehow managed to date probably one of the most romantic, patient, and considerate men I've ever met. I can't help but feel envious jealous of both of them. I'm envious of her because she only had to meet a couple of guys to find her person. He treats her like a princess, like how every woman wants to be treated by a man. She deserves it! She deserves to be in an amazing relationship. I'm jealous of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 06:21 AM |
| 8 | Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing?Who has the time to vet all these guys? I’ve had the displeasure of having sex with men who said they were experienced and would make me feel good, only to be mediocre and lazy. Is there a better way to vet partners for casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing?Well it has to be good sex, or what’s the point? It’s too difficult to find a man who can guarantee you a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenPerhaps we are both living in our own separate bubbles. What makes your lived experience more truthful than mine? Should I remove myself from his life because he has male friends? I have no value in his life due to the simple fact that I don’t touch his penis? I mean, according to him, he likes having female friends because it’s easier to engage in deep emotional talks. Most of the contributions from his male friends are along the lines of “Damn that’s crazy! So anyway…” Doesn’t mean that men ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:59 PM |
| 8 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenJust speaking from my own experience: The most emotional, petty, passive-aggressive, over dramatic cry babies I have ever met in my life have been men, whether it’s friends, family, or colleagues. You breathe funny in their direction and they’re sending you a 5 paragraph essay about how you offended them. Most if not all the women I’ve known are fairly stoic and self aware. My best friend is a man and we provide each other with emotional support, take care of each other (cooking and pay for the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:12 PM |
| 4 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.Of my female friends, I am the tallest and probably the strongest and I often take up the protector role. I’ll walk on the outside of the sidewalk, walk them to their car, lend them my scarf/jacket if they’re cold, etc. I don’t expect anything in return because I actually like and care about them. I don’t feel as if my health and safety are at risk, nor does it feel like huge sacrifice. My male friends do the same for me, because they like and care about me. I don’t expect the men in my life to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:39 AM |
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