| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Difficulty accepting my new reality. | helloredditjhere | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 10:58 AM |
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| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks, got a mate introducing me to a gym next week now. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.I am paying attention all the gym comments. Have just been in touch with a mate who lifts. He is going to take me to his gym show me about. He was quite excited about showing me some lifts that will help me bulk. Your right about the dumbbells though. After a couple of months my biceps are getting bigger, and I'm starting to remove the fat from around them so my arms don't look like sausages. I am hoping my wife is receptive to it, but time will tell. I know what you mean about kids growing up i… | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Short and to the point, I'll post again after Christmas. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Just wanted to say thanks for this reply, and your other. Both have made me think. I am have read and re read this one. You have very clearly stated where I need to put my thoughts at the moment. I think I need time to process it. I will write a more full reply when I get my thoughts in order. Again thanks. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks for the tip. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks for pointing this out. In that sense I very much do take ownership of my children. They are looked after, entertained, educated and disciplined well. I'm often complimented on their behavior and they are happy kids and well likes both among their peers and adults that know them. You have probably caught onto the fact that sometimes I do feel like I am her nanny taking care of her kids until she gets home. Also her cook, cleaner, builder, mechanic and the multitude of other jobs I do. Perh… | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks, use it for motivation and not for blowing my top. Got it. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks, that is how I have been going about my days now, ow can I be better than yesterday. Just make a small change. They are starting to add up already. I'm really interested to see where I'll end up in two years. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks, it great to read your thoughts on the situation. The line that really got me was the one about my wife never seeing me how I want to be seen. Something for me to chew and reflect on. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.That's where I'm aiming. I know its a long road though. Many a true word said in jest. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Still, it is a sad fact. At least I know that my marriage was heading that way anyway and I'm in a position to do something about it now. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks for the direct advice. I have been working under the stay plan = go plan assumption. Thanks for pointing out, its just the nature of women. It is not her fault I let her walk all over me for years. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks probably the most useful reply that I have had. It's good to know that the anger is transient and the real root of it. I don't think I can either, the pill is down now. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.I'm definitely in a better place than I was two months ago. I have seen improvements already. I really don't want my anger, which I can feel building inside me, to derail the process I have begun. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks can't hurt to give it a go. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Your right being a fat fuck, didn't bother me. They are MY children. I think the plow horse status will only go away with work. I am under no illusion that change will just happen by its self. Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. It is my family and if I end up going full Rambo on it, I am more than capable of fucking it over. I know more than most about society's feminine responsibility for the family after spending 8 years looking after MY children as the full time care giver. As for dest… | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.It is slowly dawning on me that it is me that made the decisions in my life. I know my health is on its way, but the rest needs a lot of work. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks, I've done the whole skinny runner and don't intend going back there. Two months of dumbbell has made a difference, your right its time for the gym now. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.Thanks probably all I need to hear. Stick to my MAP and it WILL work. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 11:25 AM |
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