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The mods actually messaged me after that exchange to suggest I act "more submissively" toward that male poster. Hilarious!
/r/RedPillWives17/06/18 11:37 PM
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even the mostly ignored guy who's only been with, say, 4 girls A lot of guys here will hate you now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 09:25 PM
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I want to be loved selfishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 02:21 PM
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You may know PPD culture better than I do, but how often does a woman say "we're not egalitarian, I make the decisions around here" or a man say "my wife calls the shots"? If they do, maybe I just tune it out...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 12:23 AM
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But the two mentioned are the most common for people to identify themselves by. Having an open slot leaves room for many possible answers: "I strive for egalitarian but my husband is too dominant", "We switch it up; we go through periods of traditional marriage, and others where she takes the wheel", "It depends on the definition. Mostly egalitarian, but traditional in comparison to our peers".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 11:47 PM
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Maybe if he suddenly decided to be a firefighter or do something really dangerous and often. I still can't really see an ultimatum as the position I would take, but I think something like that is closest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:50 PM
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I agree with most RP ideas, but think that they're distributed with utility in mind first and foremost. So I disagree mainly with how RP users sometimes apply the ideas, for example I'm behind awalt in general and to refer to a biological response, but object to awalt in terms of predicting behavior. And I suspect I'm BP about "disney love" or ideal love <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:21 PM
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Are you also talking about platonic relationships? Why don't incel men get together and be each others' friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:00 AM
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Examples: you don't feel heard, understood, or the conversation is one-sided. Like /u/Lyanina said a lack of meaningful connection. I'm never lonely when I am by myself, but if I talk to someone and we are just talking past each other, I feel a little more alone in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:53 AM
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To think women can't be involuntarily lonely is just wrong. It won't do to date any man that will have her if she can't mentally connect to him. It would just make her feel more alienated and more alone. I also generally agree low SMV women are able to get sex, but so what? It's not a primary female motivation. It doesn't help her feel less alone. If a guy leaves after sex women generally feel abandoned and lost. Plus if she lives in a populated area where sexual opportunity is abundant, men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:42 AM
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Maybe a woman can't be incel, but you can be lonely even if there exists people who 5want to talk with you. Notoriously, low SMV high IQ women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:18 AM
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Huh? Were you like, close with your parents or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:20 AM
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If a mouse is rewarded when it presses the right button its incentive remains the cheese. Chad is successful for accomplishing his own goal, not his dna's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:18 AM
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I think PPD is filtering for a certain lack of sensitivity - I can only speak for myself but my grumpy insomniac state is much better suited to conflict mileus than what I am otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:30 PM
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That's nonenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:20 PM
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http://www.sens.org/research/introduction-to-sens-research
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:00 PM
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If doing includes everything a person expresses then you perceive them the same. I suspect doing is about results? If you love a person who is capable of winning a marathon (as determined by you) more when he wins then you love him for what he does. Say the reason he doesn't try is lack of time or something that doesn't say much about his character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 02:24 AM
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Thank god I grew up watching westerns instead of romcoms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:02 PM
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He didn't make sure he had me before his mind ran off and made me feel like a stepping stone to his fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:19 AM
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There was a guy who started planning a future with me in a house on the country with 5-6 children. He meant it and it still turned me off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:57 AM
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My mistake, sorry, I didn't read all that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:41 AM
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Sphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:22 AM
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I've not been lied to, but when guys mention their share in the stock markets (no idea if I said that right) during the first 5 minutes, my bs feelers activate on the instant. I think it's more common with "sophisticated lies" ie painting a picture they can't necessarily fulfill as bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:59 PM
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I don't know anyone with BPD, but I have read about it, and I don't think you're overreacting by not getting involved with her. You're doing what is necessary for yourself. I would have kept my distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:43 PM
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The blue pill for dating is what is already commonly told.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:53 PM
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I know right away...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:44 PM
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I mean the model woman who jumped to give him boatloads of favors, since she also gave him "a hunch" something was up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:25 PM
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An anxious man makes me anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:48 PM
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True, what is sacrificed is one thing, but it can't be discussed properly without mentioning what is gained (or not gained).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:36 PM
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Dark hair or shaved, dark eyes, darker skin than me, stubble, no beard ever, strong brow bone, high cheekbones, broad shouldered/chested, happy intelligent eyes, strong hands, hairy arms and legs :p tattoes welcome (not silly ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:23 PM
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There weren't so much the same "those guys" every girl wanted. It was almost arbitrary who was liked by each girl. Yes many guys were ignored, but just as many girls were.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:20 AM
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I guess we were a decade behind in the more rural areas I knew and observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:16 AM
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Low self esteem? Not necessarily bad for a relationship, but it doesn't seem like sustainable behavior which makes it hard to see what she will be like in the future. How did it end?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:35 PM
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I don't actually see that men struggle to get women more than women struggle to get men. Where I grew up girls chased boys the same or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:28 PM
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Have you figured out why you don't stand up for yourself? That's a good first step. Don't you feel entitled to? Fearful of confrontation? Want to avood social costs? Prefer quiet social filtering? etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 07:57 PM
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I'm jealous - I mate guard like no ones business. Oh same here except sometimes I start out all tough and end up hyperventilating in the car 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 07:51 PM
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Inconsistency I think. One week being in perfect housewife mood, the next few days wanting complete and utter solitude immersed in reading or a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 07:23 PM
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I don't understand it either. The RP men were so unattractive that women cheated on them, so they tried becoming more attractive? Nothing ironic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:12 PM
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Sure I get you. It seemed like you meant they shouldn't get surgery ever. I do get not wanting to go through puberty as the gender you don't want to be though. Even if it is a mental illness there are loads of mentally ill people who can't be cured. Should they live their whole life as if they were healthy? I also wonder how many trans children do a 180 as they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:00 PM
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It doesn't seem true in general for the women in my peer groups, but it is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:07 PM
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What if therapy and medication doesn't work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:22 PM
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If there was any love its lack of exclusiveness would severely dilute its value in my eyes. An omega ex of mine wanted a one-sided poly relationship, and said he could probably love a million women if he had the time to get to know them and it didn't mean he loved me less. If I wasn't turned off already that did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 05:57 PM
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I'd rather have loved and lost as long as the legitimacy of that love be intact. Yes to Q1, no to Q2. It's also worse if a loved one goes missing, NO to Q3. It's better to be peak happy then miserable, if peak happy means being with your great love. Love is the meaning of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 05:20 PM
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Yes! Ms. Didion :3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:24 PM
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I would choose my soulmate, and encourage the other partner to do the same. Except "happiness" isn't much fuel for me, it would have to be for intensity or passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 09:08 AM
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A girlfriend of mine watched Titanic three times in a row (that's 9 hours) because she thought Leo was so handsome and dreamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 08:31 AM
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My dad only sometimes reluctantly paid child support after my parents divorced and there didn't seem to be anything forcing him to. I don't know the details but I thought this was weird. (He owned a house and the rest of the family needed food stamps.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:29 PM
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I don't know, good point. I guess it also showcases likely relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:24 AM
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I believe that the size of the breasts helps showcase youth, since larger sizes will look different more quickly as the woman ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:57 AM
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I don't think there is an objective moral policy, you just have to assess the care/sensitivity of the person you are thinking about. Many don't seem to care, but personally there are a lot of things I'd rather suffer than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:06 AM
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even if most people see it as a given when they enter a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:01 AM
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I think this is really romantic and we have both done this, except no oaths satanistic or other were made
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:52 PM
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There are loads of mature 25 year old men. Personally I would filter out any man who was a child at 30, no matter how mature he was today.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 04:29 PM
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There is a saying that wives want their husbands to change but husbands want their wives to always stay the same. Someone once suggested that a mid life crisis was the male response to menopause in his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:56 PM
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I was RPish when I found it in 2013 I read some manosphere blogs about how entitled women were and stopped letting men do me any favors and nice things. I thought it was taking advantage of them Ended up being taken advantage of Found a blog that talked about self-respect, receptivity etc Implemented that with great results There was no "effort" just new knowledge. I didn't enjoy the journey but it was worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:35 PM
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I enjoy photography, which reflects my love of aesthetics, and acting, which gives me the chance to live out sides of myself that I otherwise don't get a chance to.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 08:37 PM
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I think it has more to do with your chemical temperament, specifically it sounds like you may be an explorer/director. Alternatively, do you act this way with someone you are in love with? I'm asking because I used to be very challenging when some man made moves towards me; they were simply unwanted. When I fell in love I still enjoyed growth-focused conversations, but I didn't feel like phrasing things in a challenging way. You may be different! but it's worth it to ask. You can also consider i…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 08:30 PM
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I'm new to this sub, but the participants seem to also be TRP men, which makes it possible that some of the motivations between the subs could have accidentally leaked over?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 08:27 PM
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Distraction :D wear something slutty to bed
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 07:24 PM
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Gold potato
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:34 AM
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Exactly, if anything, feeling special on this basis is harder because of knowing how widespread this tendency is. It doesn't feel special to read on reddit how thirsty men are for all kinds of women. It is off-putting and unflattering as far as it devalues the attention you do get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:15 PM
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Girl you are very pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 12:17 AM
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It would hurt a lot if I were turned down in my relationship. I'm not bothered by not being approached by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:04 PM
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I must be strange because I tend to feel comfort and attraction from alpha traits. Betas make me nervous/anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 10:08 PM
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It is unwelcome when it doesn't seem like it's about her, specifically not the whole of her. Some may disagree, but I don't think rapid infatuation is undesirable. Yet I prefer if he still expressed it in a controlled and masculine way. Pedestalization, I don't know, it feels like he is trying to fit you into some ideal form he has in his head, instead of connecting with you at a human level. To get it is about understanding context, application, atmosphere, body language, subtext in actions or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:13 AM
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It is not as much about seeming dangerous as seeming to want something from others while not displaying enough value himself. I think it's creepy when a man is indiscriminate with his sexual attention. He is 360 degrees bug-eyed for the slightest hint of reciprocation, and perceives any basic act of kindness, or human recognition, as sexual. He is naive and childlike in his expectations. He gives in to powerlessness in the face of what he desires and abandons his self-respect out of lust. He app…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 12:04 AM
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Can you extrapolate? If he feels that way, they should filter each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 12:27 AM
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A man who sees it that way isn't in love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:18 PM
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