hellright88 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless? I do not recommended doing this without a legitimate doctor-approved reason…but if you really want to kill your libido then antidepressants will do that.	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/22 08:48 PM
1	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? Yea, I agree with that.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 03:39 PM
2	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? I agree that fixating on appearance is toxic and I don’t want to extend that to men. I was just making an observation based on my personal experiences - that men and women exert different levels of effort into their profile pics.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 03:36 PM
1	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? I didn’t post that to prove any point, I just thought people here might find it interesting.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 03:33 PM
1	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? “OkCupid usage reach in the United States 2020, by gender” “Published by Statista Research Department, Jan 27, 2021” “According to April 2020 survey data of adults in the United States, 11 percent of male respondents were currently using OkCupid. Only six percent of female survey respondents confirmed being users of the social dating app.” https://www.statista.com/statistics/1114040/share-of-us-internet-users-who-use-okcupid-by-gender/	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 12:11 PM
6	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? Yea or like one weird super close up picture of their face where they are not smiling and it’s at a funny angle.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 12:06 PM
1	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? I’m not saying guys have to do this in real life. I’m saying that men in general put less effort into their profile pictures than women. This might be one reason why women in this study rated a lot of men’s profile pictures as “ugly.”	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 12:04 PM
17	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? The study also says “women don’t seem to be opposed to actually contacting these men that they’ve just deemed unattractive” whereas men “despite their fair ratings, they tend to ignore many of the women they find reasonably attractive and primarily target the most attractive females.” So it seems that, while men are more forgiving in their judgement, they also completely discount less attractive women as a viable romantic partner whereas women are willing to give less attractive guys a chance.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:17 PM
34	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? I completely agree with #2. Take all those “unattractive” men. Now wax the excessively hairy ones, give them manicures (maybe not nail polish but you know what I mean - nice looking cuticles and nails), haircuts, a skincare routine, attractive clothing for their body type, and then have them obsessively take dozens of pictures carefully practicing their most flattering angles in the mirror. Maybe some light concealer just to cover up any zits or even their skin tone. I bet those pics would get a…	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:07 PM
1	Are women even sexually attracted to men? I’m my experience I have swiped right on guys I don’t think are attractive because I get that some people are not photogenic or because they don’t have any dealbreakers in the looks department. Sure they might not be model hot but personality confidence and connection make up for a lot.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:45 PM
6	Red Pillers, you aren’t single because you’re too short, your face is ugly, or because you’re not making six figures, it’s because your personality is shit Sexual attraction is incredibly important in every relationship for it to function well - I agree with you on that part. But I don’t think you understand that people are attracted to a lot of physical traits that are not considered stereotypically beautiful.	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/22 04:53 PM
3	The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sides ROFL I agree and your phrasing is hilarious, take my upvote sir/madam!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 12:18 PM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Not 100% foolproof but it’s a good indicator that a woman likes you if she goes out of her way to make physical contact with you or spend her free time with you. But just being nice or friendly doesn’t necessarily mean anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 06:00 AM
1	How can I stop getting triggered because I don’t make enough money? Depends where you live. Check out ECPI.	/r/MGTOW2	15/07/21 04:18 AM
7	Thought I’d share this classic One of her quotes: “Women don't want equal treatment, they couldn't handle it if they got it. It's a tough world out there. What a lot of women are actually looking for is special treatment. What women need to realise is that they have to toughen up.”	/r/MGTOW	29/06/21 04:02 AM
2	Discussion about sexually successful deadbeats I think it’s a numbers game. Sure he’s a LVM but there are also LVW. If a man approaches enough women (especially if alcohol is involved) and easily bounces back from rejection then eventually he is going to find someone to have sex with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 10:06 AM
7	Anyone else an ex member of another cult? You sound like a really self aware person. Don’t be too hard on yourself everyone goes through these learning experiences. If you come out stronger you are better than most.	/r/ExRedPill	24/04/21 10:49 AM
3	Are attractive guys actually less creepy? Sometimes men are seen as creepy because they give unwanted attention, not because they are doing anything wrong. The thing, is if you are attractive, people are more likely to want your attention, so you don’t come off as creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 09:24 AM
1	"Body positivity" excludes overweight guys in favor of normalizing BBW fetishism Maybe it’s just my personal experience but I know several couples where the guy is very overweight and the woman is thin. I don’t mean in shape - I don’t think these couples are focused on fitness - but the women are definitely thin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 02:53 AM
2	"Body positivity" excludes overweight guys in favor of normalizing BBW fetishism I think fat women see overweight men getting thin women and want to show that they can do the same. It’s normal for overweight to be together and it’s also relatively common to see an overweight guy with a thinner woman but it’s less common to see an overweight woman with a thin or fit guy. I don’t mean an overweight woman who was thin initially then gained the weight after marriage, I mean a woman who was fat from the get go but still attracted a fit guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 05:00 PM
0	If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class? Because in our parents generation you could get a highly educated working woman, who only went to school to find a husband and only got a job to support herself until she became a wife and stay at home mom. That kind of person is attractive to some men because she knows how to act in certain social circles, is more likely to be able to carry an educated conversation (generalizing here, obviously not true for everyone), and is more likely to come from the “right” kind of family and community. I h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 04:42 PM
6	I discovered that my brother is deep In the incel/ mgtow movement and don’t know how to help. What about female family members?	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/21 07:21 PM
3	I discovered that my brother is deep In the incel/ mgtow movement and don’t know how to help. You can’t change him but I recommend maintaining your connection with him, so you can be a lifeline if he ever wants to change his toxic mindset.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/21 07:19 PM
0	Husband redpilled, or at least he thinks he is...help? I don’t think it’s a stretch for OP to think her husband is unhappy, and I do think OP has the right to “sense if he’s going through some crap.” I’m just pointing out that these are assumptions about her husband’s emotional state and he might be more receptive to a conversation if she approaches him without preconceived ideas. Also, OP would not just be asking if her husband is happy, she would be asking if his newfound philosophies are the result of unhappiness, which immediately invalidates hi…	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 05:22 PM
0	Husband redpilled, or at least he thinks he is...help? Asking questions in general is fine specifically asking “why are you unsatisfied/unhappy,” will show that OP is entering in the conversation with preconceived judgments about her husband that are negative and that will likely put him on the defense.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 01:39 PM
-4	Husband redpilled, or at least he thinks he is...help? I disagree, that approach invalidates his feelings and opinions. From his perspective, if you say that, you infer he is damaged and has an emotional problem. From the get-go you come off as disregarding his “intellectual” arguments and philosophies.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 01:46 AM
-1	Husband redpilled, or at least he thinks he is...help? First and foremost, in spite of this erratic behavior, is he still a loving husband? Does he treat you right? Can you have a respectful exchange of ideas and emotions? If the answer is yes to all those questions then I think you need to figure out if his new philosophies are just a phase. If they are here to stay you need to decide if this is something you can live with. I would start by just listening no matter how bizarre his worldview sounds. Ask him what it means to be “red pill” and why he …	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 01:43 AM
0	84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality. Check out the article in the Harvard Business Review “when more women join the workforce we just rise including for men” by Amanda Weinstein	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 08:24 PM
2	84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality. I think the problem here is that you are generalizing. Maybe the woman in the study who resent their husbands are not the same woman who feel strongly about equal labor and pay. Also your logic makes no sense. If I understand correctly, you assume that wages for men would increase if women left the workforce or limited their hours. But that’s only true if the number of available jobs stay the same. The job market is not a zero-sum game, the number of jobs fluctuate all the time. It also seems li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 08:23 PM
5	Most people aren’t unattractive or ugly instead they just don’t take care of themselves Being tall might be an advantage but that doesn’t mean short people are ugly. That’s like saying a woman with no tits is ugly.	/r/ExRedPill	12/02/21 06:39 AM
2	How do you deal with being single? I agree. People who have never been in a toxic relationship have trouble understanding that being lonely as a single person is infinitely better than being lonely as a married person.	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 05:16 AM
1	How should i go about controlling my anger? Do you by any chance have ADD? I’m asking because I’ve had uncontrollable angry outbursts my whole life and I never knew why. Many times when my rage subsided I thought back with a clear head and my wondered why I just snapped. Turns out ADD and ADHD makes it tough for some people to regulate emotion. Maybe you just need medication. You don’t need a therapist or psychiatrist, a general doctor can prescribe it and it’s covered by a lot of insurances.	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 05:13 AM
1	I mostly draw beautiful idealized exotic women. Is it subconsious weakness\simping? It’s fine to appreciate beauty. Women can look like works of art, just don’t be stupid enough to let them ruin your life.	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 05:06 AM
6	I"m mgtow in real life but a simp in sex The point of MGTOW is to protect yourself from women, do what makes YOU happy, and be self reliant. Getting your sexual freak on is a-ok, just don’t let your sexual fetish drain your bank account, steal your kids from you, or emotionally fuck with you, and you should be all good.	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 05:02 AM
2	How to have children as MGTOW? Man it’s hard to love kids that aren’t biologically yours and it’s expensive to father a surrogate kid. In both situations you are a single dad which is tough too. If I were you I would either give up on kids (like I did) or find a female partner willing to coparent. Doesn’t have to be a wife. There are no shortage of women out there who love their kids more than their partners. I’m sure you could find some baby crazy woman who you could baseline tolerate enough to have your kids without the yol…	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 04:52 AM
7	“How Women Can Ditch the Guilt When Juggling Careers and Family” - I would like to see a follow up article to this where they interview the now adult kids. In my opinion, most of the time getting outside the home and putting in a solid day of hard work makes a person mentally healthy and strong. A mentally healthy and strong adult is then capable of raising a healthy and strong kid. Would y’all honestly rather a dependa that just plays with your kids all day, spends all your $$ and doesn’t actually pull her weight? If you had a shit mom who worked then I wouldn’t immediately blame her career as the main issue. Idk for example maybe she had untreate…	/r/MGTOW2	08/02/21 12:07 AM
1	Promiscuity is bad for men and women I think promiscuity is not inherently bad. It depends how you use it. A lot of people think it’s inherently bad because it can complicate relationships, which I get. But still there is a mature and healthy way to be promiscuous, where it’s not just something fun to do but actually a very healthy experience that can help people grow and connect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 06:17 AM
0	Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality. I totally agree. Women don’t need to get hard to have sex, they can have sex anytime. Couple that with a male sex drive and men would never be able to keep up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/21 04:32 AM
4	If a woman is rejected by an attractive male, she becomes more bitter towards an accepting male who is unattractive. I think you’re overthinking this. What’s going on here is: 1) If a person feels bad about themselves they will put others down to make themselves feel better. 2) The negatives we see in others are sometimes a projection of the negatives we see in ourselves These ideas aren’t specific to women, it’s human nature. So in this scenario for example, the women feels bad about her looks, so she rejects the less attractive guy to make herself feel better. Also, accepting advances from the less attractiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/20 11:26 AM
2	I cringe so hard anytime I hear someone say “my wife won’t let me....” Honestly, most men I know just blame their wives because they don’t actually want to do something but are just too beta to own up to it. For example I once knew this guy who was on a diet but was embarrassed to order a salad while everyone else got burgers or steak or whatever. Blamed his wife every time and bitched about her for a bit but still ordered the salad.	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/20 11:05 AM
1	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women? The TRP ideology is sexist because they cant handle reality so they choose to see women as the responsible party. They complain because women want an attractive partner who is financially stable. Well fuck, isn’t that what men want too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/20 09:52 AM