helluvamom Archive

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1	remaining a virgin until marriage. Sexual compatibility includes things like high vs low libidos, kinks, what you are/aren’t willing to do in the bedroom, etc. For example if youre in the mood to have sex a couple days a week and oral sex is a hard no for you, marrying a man who wants sex every day 2 times a day and wants BJs frequently means you’re probably not going to be sexually compatible. Sex is an important part of intimate LTRs and when partners are on totally different pages it can cause resentment. So figuring out sexua…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/20 11:13 PM
15	What is a RPW way to deal with an adulterous husband? I often get annoyed with Reddit because so many commenters say “leave” at the tiniest of infractions. This is not one of those. You have every red flag waving right in your face. Please respect yourself more than this and leave. If you need to get your shit in order first, do it. Play the nice game and smile and act cool if you have to, but get a lawyer and get yourself together. NO ONE deserves this. I’m 41, been married for 20 years and my life also came crashing down around me, completely out…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/08/20 02:08 AM
2	What is your least favourite household chore and how do you make it tolerable? Try a steam mop! I also detest mopping and it has made it so much easier for me. First I vacuum, then steam mop. No buckets, no soap, no rinsing. You just go over the floor once and you’re done. It works with water only, but sometimes I’ll spray some cleaner directly on the floor if there’s something gross there. Mop cover is terry cloth and it goes in the washing machine after use. The one I have is Shark brand and it’s been really sturdy and useful. Probably my favorite thing I’ve ever bought …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/20 11:40 PM
3	Will my past always make me be seen as less than to him? You’re obviously worried about this, which is what led you to watching those YouTube videos. Those videos are very specific and therefore attract a specific demographic. The comments are biased. It’s a small percentage of the population and even then it’s guys who already believe a certain way. This does not mean your bf thinks that way. Why would he be buying a house with you if he didn’t want to be with you for the long haul? Mortgages aren’t short term obligations. Instead of worrying yoursel…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/20 11:56 PM
1	Worrying that it’s too late? He’s likely “hmm”ing because he’s tired of hearing it only to have the same thing happen again over and over. Actions speak louder than words. If you want to keep him, show him.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/19 09:20 PM
2	Should i have kids first and then my career??? You do what you feel is right. I was actually going to suggest nursing as a career option for you and then saw your comment! I had 3 children. I went to nursing school after that and have been doing it for 8 yrs. Its actually possible to be an engaged mom and have a career at the same time if you so wish. You can do it in whatever order you want, but nursing allows for a lot of different scheduling options. I’ve always worked weekends so I could be home all week to do school drop offs, fix dinne…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/19 03:30 AM
1	How to avoid becoming an alpha widow? If he wants a relationship, he must see value in you. You need to work on your self esteem. If you think highly of yourself, you will project that and attract/keep a man that thinks highly of you. If you doubt your own worth, it will come out in the way you handle yourself. You want this man to think you are worth pursuing and keeping. Work on how you think about yourself. If this man sees you as high value, why would he dump you for someone better? You have to BE better than other women. Why wo…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/19 04:31 AM
2	How to manage a seemingly sudden libido difference? My first thought is testosterone. Going from 3-4/wk to 0-1 is a huge change. And yes, maybe he does have something going on at work etc. but I’ve never been with a man who would refuse sex days in a row just because they were stressed at work. Maybe here and there, maybe decrease slightly, but not a total 180. And not continuous. If men are feeling aroused, they’re gonna do something to get some. Sorry, but it’s true. If you have no reason to think he’s cheating etc then it could be a medical is…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/19 10:23 PM
5	When a LTR isn't worth saving / how much should I sacrifice for him? / Are these actually red flags or not? Your bf sounds like a typical young college dude who doesn’t know what he wants out of life at all. He’s just floating through life letting things happen to him. You are looking at him like he’s a man, but he’s a boy. You want grown man actions but he’s not there yet. You are holding things down, giving him stability in almost every way while not requiring him to give much to you. I’m glad you have a loyal guy, but that’s not the only requirement for a good relationship. He seems to not want to …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/19 12:37 AM
6	Woman offers a threesome with my husband and I. The threesome comment. 2. The singing. 3. Undermining your parenting. 3. Commenting on how you should appreciate your husband 4. Her kids need a dad like DH. 5. Playing stupid about fixing things around your house. 6. Gushing over the musician. I don’t think you need any more hints. She’s trying to tell you she’s gonna cause trouble. She basically laid it out for you: She’s gonna pretend to need help at her house, which your husband could do nicely offer to do. Then while he’s there, proposition…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/19 12:19 PM