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Most people wouldn't use that line as a test. She's not interested, I'd move on. And if she did mean it as a test, you don't want to date a person who will be throwing random fidelity tests your way. It screams insecure and you'll be dealing with little tests and stupid games and none of that is ever pleasant to be around, trust me.
/r/seduction24/02/26 12:21 PM
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Get a hobby. Meet people through that. And yea you could go to the gym, you can still build muscle but it just wont make you larger unless you got the genes for it, but youll still be muscular and appear strong.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:03 PM
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I mean, not taking no or thinking there could never be a reason why youd get ghosted....is a pretty valid reason. If someone feels like their date is super off or ringing off bells in their head, theyre allowed to not text you. Youre not entitled to a response or a reason.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:27 PM
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Usually there's a reason they ghosted you, whether you're aware of it or not. Sometimes it's a 'them' reason, sometimes it's a 'you' reason. Almost no one ghosts for the fun of it.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:35 PM
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You can talk about stuff that happens at your job and people will easily pick up on it if you like your job. Also, you're not the only one at your job (if it isn't remote), usually other women or men are there and you'll talk to them at one point or another. It gives you a talking point apart from "yea i go to the gym/play video games/sleep on my time" Not all seduction is pick up lines or flirting. Its holding someone's attention for the goal of either hooking up or dating
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:31 PM
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I wonder if maybe its how you asked her or if it was simply wrong timing/vibe to ask? My ex asked for my permission if he could kiss me the first few times while we were dating and let me tell you, i absolutely fucking loved it! That stuff had me smiling for dayssss on end! No one else has ever done it since we broke up and im slightly peeved about that but i wont ever admit that out loud and i absolutely love my current relationship. I guess it really depends on the type of girl she is. Does sh…
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:24 AM
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Dont push it, lay it in natural after a while Desperation stinks, and so does being a creep. Dont stare at her boobs, ass,etc
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:18 PM
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who doesnt enjoy some occasional necrophilia
/r/seduction21/08/21 09:51 PM
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That's when you casually slip in a "Hey, I've noticed you've got a ring on..." and you pray that the answer/reply is truthful and, if unfortunately it is commitment to someone else, then you walk away with a "Sorry, I can't do this/any other equivalent you deem acceptable" but all the better if the answer is something like a parent's ring or just a fashion accessory they've chosen. You do you, im just saying it doesn't hurt to ask.
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:50 PM
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but i mean before i had a boyfriend, i was wearing it. My point is, is that you should ask about it if there is one.
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:38 PM
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Ahh the Ring thing, I've encountered that many times because I wear one on my ring finger. It's my mother's old ring and it looks like an engagement/marriage ring, but im not married, im just in a relationship with my boyfriend. If you ask about the ring, then you'll get clarifications if there are some to be given. My boyfriend asked me about my ring before we started dating and i explained it was my mother's and he was cool with it, but often people think im married and i get odd looks for it …
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:24 PM
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This is cultural, so it may or may not be a red flag. The flag to search for in that, is if your partner offers to pay for part of bill when you offer to pay the whole thing. If they don't offer even once to pay/split/pitch-in, then its a small red flag.
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:20 PM
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and avoid the boys who go off about fem-nazis for the entirety of the date, even after you've tried to change the subject half a dozen times.
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:18 PM
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I get what you're saying and it's the case in atleast 90+% of the cases, but I wear my mother's old ring (silver with a small sapphire in the middle) it looks like a engagement/marriage ring but the only finger it actually stays on without slipping right off is my ring finger. I don't know how many people asked me about my husband, then i have to explain that its actually my mother's ring and its a cute little story i give, and people quickluy learn that i've got a bf/or don't. My boyfriend does…
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:16 PM
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