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You don't have to do anything. But it is the only way I'd believe you aren't confused. But Im over it. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:41 AM
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No answer. Ok. Nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:38 AM
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You do, indeed. It's entirely possible for a man in a polycupe to be jealous that his partners get more sex than him. Or to not care. What do you think the word polycule means....??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:33 AM
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I am discussing your comments. Which lead me to believe you are confused about what polycule means and how polyamory works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:31 AM
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Actually, you said "They are messy but there usually isn’t a man stomping his feet because one of his woman partners has an easier time finding someone else to fuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:28 AM
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Generally people I have known in polycules are not preoccupied with the amount of sex they get compared to others in that insecure way that is discussed here frequently That has nothing to do with them being in a polycule. Thats just how they are. Again, Im still skeptical that you even understand what a polycule is. Some people in polycules are asexual. Some may be preoccupied with how much sex they get compared to their partner. Some are not preoccupied with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:27 AM
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They are messy but there usually isn’t a man stomping his feet because one of his woman partners has an easier time finding someone else to fuck. A polycule is just you + your partners + your partners other partners who you don't date and may never meet. There is nothing inherently messy about them. Mine isnt messy. None of my friends polycules are messy. There may or may not be any men involved. There may very well be a man who is stopping his feet because one of his partners has an easier time…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:20 AM
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I still think you are confused about what a polycule is for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:13 AM
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A polycule is just you + your partners + your partners other partners who you arent dating. If you have two partners or if your partner has another partner, you are in a polycule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:07 AM
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Those people are pretty confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:03 AM
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Their definitions are oxymoronic. "Demi" generally implies a level of loyalty to one person that "poly" simply doesn't. Does it? I've never heard it used that way.I've heard it used to imply some level of emotional connection (which varies widely person to person) is required to feel sexual attraction. Eta: It's like so many of the people using the "demi" label want to claim traditional monogamy without actually saying they're monogamous (and without even acting like it, in most cases.) Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:18 AM
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Why in earth can't someone be demisexual and poly? Im truly stumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:20 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:48 PM
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Im not asexual. Im just explaining how it works. Asexual people may or may not have sex with their romantic partners. Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:13 PM
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You make an agreement with your romantic partners that each of you is free to have other sexual and romantic partners. Bam! Now your relationship is polyamorous making you....polyamorous! Just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:07 PM
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If you are interested in polyamory, you will need to actively pursue it with others who are polyamorous and seeking partners. Otherwise, the majority of polyamorous people and dating will remain invisible to you. There is also an overlap in swinging and casual threesome seeking (couples who play together for casual sex) and polyamory. Since swinging sounds old fashioned to some younger people and polyamory sounds cool, they describe seeking couples and threesomes as polyamory when that's really …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:57 PM
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I'm telling you not what I think should happen, but my real.world experience practicing polyamory for over 20 years and being part of an active and large poly social scene that includes people if all ages and orientations. But I'm sorry ugly people hit on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:47 PM
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Sounds like you just travel in circles with weird and unattractive people. I'm sorry. But it's rare for poly couples to date as a package. You likely have no idea a polyamorous person is poly 90% of the time you meet them. Normal poly couples will never approach you. It won't happen. We aren't dating as a couple first of all. We very well may already have a full plate with existing partners. A person only has so much free time. And if we are dating, we are doing it as individuals in spaces desig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:36 PM
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I'd say 99% of mono couples I meet are totally and absolutely composed of folks who are unattractive to me. I'm guessing it's the same for.you too, but you don't dwell on it. I'm a conventionally attractive person who starts all my relationships as polyamorous/ENM. I tend to date other conventionally attractive men and women. I haven't felt a sliver of desire for monogamy yet. Nor do either of us have any trouble attracting other partners for romance, casual sex, threesomes or swinging. We are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:21 PM
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