hepatitisY Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	“I’m not ready”	DISCUSSION	hepatitisY	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 12:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself! The language in this post is ableist imo. Instead of being frustrated with his “picky ness and bad habits” which is the worst most ableist description for a legitimate sensory processing disorder, allow him to cook for himself. It’s that’s simple. He shouldn’t be forced to try new foods. She shouldn’t be forced to eat meat or cook two meals. There’s a simple solution here that shouldn’t involve ableism. ASD people are quite straightforward and understanding so I find it hard to believe her sayin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 05:00 AM
26	50/50 is a scam Imagine going 50/50? Couldn’t be me 😂 my fiancé still pays for every single dinner out and Uber eats even tho it’s literally shared money at this point. It’s the principle of the thing - my spending money is for me, his money is for us. That being said my “spending money” is often spent on stuff for our house, like decor and kitchen utensils etc. It definitely balances out in the end. But it’s stuff I would have bought for myself anyways, and he benefits from living in a beautiful home.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 03:06 AM
16	Held off on sex, it was horrible I agree. I don’t wait long, it’s totally impossible to build a strong bond waiting after a certain point. It just hurts what could be in a normal, well-adjusted man. You should never be pressured, and no HVM will expect it within 3-5 dates. but after a certain point, a HVM used to success with women will start to think you have serious issues when you’re waiting over 10 dates and you’re connecting. Not gonna be a popular opinion on here, but just letting you know I agree with you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 12:20 AM
11	Held off on sex, it was horrible Lots of men use porn. It’s awful. And most HVM don’t cause they don’t need to, that’s the truth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 12:17 AM
1	Held off on sex, it was horrible I would straight up tel him you are morally against porn use and would never be in a relationship with man who uses porn regularly. See how he reacts. You’ll know if he likes you enough to quit it for you just from that. If he’s totally addicted, the trash will take itself out after that conversation and your dilemma is solved!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 12:16 AM
11	Held off on sex, it was horrible I do not wait too long for sex for this exact reason, I dislike wasting time. If you have the instincts to know when I guy is serious about wanting a relationship with you to blossom, you have nothing to gain for waiting. However if you don’t feel confident in those instincts, absolutely hold off. Having sex early has never prevented commitment for me, and helps me make decisions about who to next quicker. That advice, plus the avoiding OLD advice, are the only FDS strategies I disagree with. I …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 12:14 AM
1	How do you get a guy to put in more effort? No	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 11:51 PM
3	Not relating to dating but has anyone been able to fix their messy relationship with their father No. Check out “radical acceptance”. Radically accept who he is and that you cannot change him, and radically accept who you are and that you have no control over loving and wanting closeness to your own father. Accepting this as natural will make it easier to accept who he is. You will NOT change him, not an inch. But you can change your reactions and make it easier to live with this desire for closeness and find a way to make it work.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 11:50 PM
5	What does it feel like to be truly attracted to someone? I’m always attracted to my SO but I don’t always want to have sex with him. I want to have sex with him when I feel like sex, the same way you masturbate when you feel like masturbating. I never see him and think WOW YOU LOOK HOTTER THAN USUAL. He always looks the same anyways. When I first met him I found him objectively attractive by conventional standards, but I didn’t feel passionately attracted to him per se. Like when he asked to kiss me at the end of our first date I was like yes, and did…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 12:41 AM
9	Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis. I agree with a lot of this and how they made her a frog most of the movie left a terrible taste in my mouth... I still like her a lot though, I just would like to see a black princess more “worshipped” in a movie as we have with the others.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 02:22 PM
16	Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis. Leaving this here for women who have children. Rapunzel and Elsa are good too and the two most recent! Through 2 movies and 2 shorts Elsa has NO romantic interests. Her arcs are working through childhood trauma, finding herself, exploring/deepening her own powers, finding her destiny, saving her kingdom, and learning to trust her sisters love (a woman). Highly recommend Elsa. Rapunzel is also a surprising good more traditional female princess. The movie itself is meh, but they released a 3 seaso…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 02:18 PM
1	What makes a woman beautiful to you? Musical voice, medium to long hair curling around/framing the face, big bright “curious” eyes, with that eager spark. Calm, serene, warmth	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/20 03:40 AM
1	Mental Illness and RPW I am so happy to hear that!! Amazingly proud of you. 💛💛💛	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/20 03:36 AM
3	Dress and skirt recommendations? Gal Meets Glam is my new love. I’ve been slowly replacing my entire wardrobe with them. They are very pricey, but I buy them off of Poshmark and all are under 50 bucks. These dresses are worth every penny!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/20 03:33 AM
1	Have any of you been alpha widowed, yet managed to heal and find your significant other? Yes. I met another alpha. It took 2.5 years of hitting the online dating apps HARD. I was lonely. I thought about him every day. I compared every single man to him, even my current SO in the beginning. It didn’t matter. I allowed those feelings but practiced discipline. Dating and finding a high value man to marry was my JOB. It didn’t matter if I “didn’t feel like it”, if I was “tired”. 3 dates per week minimum for 2.5 years. I kept my standards sky high. Any man who met my standards, I allowed…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/20 03:22 AM
1	Mental Illness and RPW It is not your fault you have this. This cannot exist without some type of past trauma interacting with a genetic predisposition. But understand you are a 26yo adult and TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. Love yourself enough to put yourself first. Get into DBT. It WORKS. It 100% works, but it’s hard. It’s is not a “hope this works” type of situation. It’s as guaranteed as diet/exercise curing obesity. DBT cures BPD. Make any financial sacrifices you have to to start right away, and you will be cured. You did…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/20 03:13 AM