herbstzeit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Man Sexualizes Other Women And “Gifts” It To Wife this is so tiresome "He made this for me!" that makes me think of an actual gift, like he baked a cake or made some kind of handicraft. No. He typed text over womens butts in a low-effort meme. And of course all the people that subscribe to r / memes just eat it up. The bar is in hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 05:08 PM
36	It really is hard out here 😣 I'd be more okay with a poor guy, if he was actually responsible with what funds he did have. I don't make a lot of money, so I get it. But you save your money, live within your means best you can. The job market where I live sucks, nothing pays well, even before COVID. But so many poor LVM here spend any extra money they have on weed or video games, while complaining about having no money. It is not attractive at all. A self-sufficient lower-income guy is another story.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 06:51 PM
21	How many of you ladies are childfree? I (early 20s) used to want children really bad, like 3+ children, but now I'm undecided and angling towards not wanting kids ever unless I find a man who would share responsibilities well and be an actual partner. Which seems... very unlikely. I honestly have given up on men for now lol. I started dating after 18 and realized that a lot of men want kids, but do not want to contribute at all. They're just concerned about "muh legacy" or having a son. I wanted kids until I saw multiple women in my…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 02:33 AM
5	How do I process a “relationship” I had with a 35 yr old man when I was 18-19 ? Cut both of them off-- block him, block her. It's not worth your mental energy. I had a couple of older (mid-twenties) boyfriends before I was 20 and they were not worth the energy. I deal with anger from it still, once in a while, but put your energy into something else. He doesn't define you. Your friend is likely being groomed too, but if she doesn't believe you, and will not listen, she's not worth your friendship or support either. It's not your job to make other people see your truth. Be t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 04:01 AM
41	Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children. he's not getting tricked by those evil women who would lead him astray from her mothering bosom :-( he's SAFE~	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 07:21 PM
33	Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children. LMAO I saw this dumb shit on FB. All these guys are tagging their girlfriends... if my bf ever tagged me in something like that I would legit dump him on the spot. So pathetic and trashy. These guys straight up want a foreverMommy. "hE's SaFE" stoooppppp	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 07:19 PM
2	How to deal with depression from male depravity? I genuinely think reddit/twitter/etc. meme culture contributes a lot to disgusting attitudes. dating someone removed from meme/internet culture takes a certain weight off	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/20 06:29 AM
18	Ladies, take every threat against you as a promise I remember I blocked a guy a while back who I was getting to know on Snapchat because he sent me a r*pe joke meme. I was worried I was too extreme-- but now I realize that when they try to push boundaries like this, they're seeing what else you will tolerate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/20 11:29 PM
24	The dangers of a "hoe phase" men barely get checked to begin with. They lie about it too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 11:47 PM
35	Woman reveals speeding/car crash fears to BF... he decides to drive 85 mph, making her cry. She ghosts him. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! My ex used to do this. Shortly before the end of our relationship, he insisted on driving, and fast at 100mph on a highway despite me begging him to slow down... in my car. A year before that I actually yelled at him to slow down in his car (he was "racing someone") and nearly cried. His idiot druggie friends thought I was the crazy one. LVMs all around with bad credit scores. He had no respect for me at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 04:57 PM
33	Women has height preference on dating app. Man decides to shame her, tell her she is ugly, ginger, old and 'dosen't deserve a man'. Same here (5'9''). I'm hesitant to date a guy shorter than me after a couple of bad first dates in which they got SUPER insecure really quickly. Especially once when I wore heels 🥴 dude took it as an offense. clowns all around	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 02:17 AM
23	I treated my ex girlfriend like shit but muh I miss her BJs according to his posts they were only together for 6 MONTHS and he put her through all this crazy shit. I hope she's ran far away	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/20 11:26 PM