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herculesuprising/r/seduction05/01/20 11:29 AM
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herculesuprising/r/seduction10/12/17 10:41 PM
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I think you did but there is no way to tell without any feedback on how they reacted and felt. Next step would be to invite Lucy out by herself, she's the one you want to date, right? :)
/r/seduction06/01/20 04:28 PM
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Thanks, more upfront sexualness, noted. I think I'm below slightly above average looking (lol for specificity), I noticed my online dating efforts are not up to par with the stories of my friends. So that's a bummer, but anyway. Also, I don't crave the pictures per se, it's not like I NEED to have them. It's just that this is such a mismatch between real life and internet. Also from the stories I hear women have, most men are also too pussy to properly take care of a woman. So don't trust the in…
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:43 PM
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Yeah even then I notice a huge reservation to be flirtatious over text. I guess the other replies are valid: I'm not very aggressive flirtatious myself either. I try to keep text game to a minimal and meet asap. But in the current online dating atmosphere that's really hard. I guess I'm below average looking apparently =/ Would you mind checking my profile out?
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:38 PM
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Cool. Yeah let me (us) know. Sorry for the roast but I'd rather be a tough teacher pushing you forward than an enabler.
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:34 PM
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You're 20 years old but sound like a 15yo. Yes it is fine, you had a fling once, 2 years ago! Nobody cares. Maybe the girl cares, but that's not your problem nor responsibility. Focus on the other girl for the first 6 minutes, then switch to Lucy. Classic
/r/seduction05/01/20 11:33 AM
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Just set up a date at your place, guaranteed sex. If you don't mess it up somehow, but I don't think you will
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:52 AM
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Some girls just have this. They are not ashamed of anything so they just keep looking. If you can, maintain as long as possible, one girl once told me hardly any guys do that. Enjoy the view, communicate with your expression, focus on the conversation while doing so and you'll build a great connection. She might get attracted or not, but at least it's a fun ride!
/r/seduction26/09/18 08:09 PM
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Cancel the date. Useless and a waste of your time. You don't want to be friends,so rip the bandaid off and move on.
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:00 AM
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Yes she's into you. Any more clues than this you won't get.
/r/seduction21/09/18 09:59 AM
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So first of all, talking about feelings is not seducing. Acting upon your feelings is. First of all, keep a strong frame by owning up to your drunk words. Don't try to explain your feelings and just ask her how she is feeling. Two things can happen: 1 she likes you and there will be this constant tension never getting resolved. She smiles and looks you in the eye. In this case, it is your job to make the move and resolve the tension. She wants you to! 2 she friendzones you. "I see you more as a …
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:27 PM
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Sounds like you were having what you wanted but gave it up, and you're still dealing with this.
/r/seduction31/08/18 06:00 AM
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Wow, nice boots! Sorry but my face is over here. That'll crack her up. PS, not creepy. The longer you wait though, the creepier it is.
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:50 PM
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Pretend she is like a good friend. Dont hold back, risk her not liking you. Don't ask questions, make statement. End your sentences with a low pitch.
/r/seduction24/08/18 08:06 AM
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Then change that, if you really feel that way. Also, being alone seems a lot more enjoyable than paying for a chick that doesn't put out. She's using you.
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:34 PM
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She doesn't sound like a catch at all. Next
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:29 PM
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1) you don't look that bad. 2) take pictures outside 3) drop the hoodie, start wearing some button shirts. 4) let friends take pictures, selfies look needy. If you don't have friends, get them. 5) let women dress you up. If you don't have female friends, get them, by applying above. We don't care that you feel sorry for yourself, only you do. Go out, perfect first step is the gym. Don't focus on meeting people. Just work out. Get used to the uncomfortable feeling of doing something new. Baby ste…
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:12 PM
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Oh and wrt your game yeah it is good but seal the deal already! I don't want to ruin our friendship,makes me puke. Sure it'll work, but it's a girls line, lol.
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:25 PM
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I think she is testing the water to leave her BF for you. Tbh, you sound like an ass. What's your goal here? Fuck her? Make her your GF? I get the impression you're actually attention seeking from her. Ok cool so suppose she leaves him for you. Congratulations and enjoy the validation. But if you're just only gaming her, know that you are probably going to break her heart. It is up to you to decide whether you want to be that person.
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:22 PM
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I don't like dating either, it's a chore. So take matter in your own hands. Go hang out with people, both men and women, on your own terms. Do what you like, not the navel gazing bullshit you think is expected of you in dating. Having a demanding job myself too, is indeed a burden on your motivation to socialize in a new environment. Have a think about working one day less in the week, to save up that energy. Secondly think about activities that do not involve internal thinking, so you'll train …
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:32 PM
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She knows you're leaving, so escalate quickly to see if you can hook up, if you want that, obviously. Also, indeed, be wary of not being scammed, you'd never know
/r/seduction28/07/18 10:55 AM
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If the girl is drunk, high and reciprocates kino enthusiastically, she just wants it man. You could have gone for the kiss on that occasion. She probably dried up because of your indecisiveness. The flat out yes was a good attempt on her shit test, but apparently a wrong one. Maybe, no, I want you to take me to your room right now would have worked better. But I think it was already a lost cause because faster escalation was demanded. Cheers
/r/seduction22/07/18 06:14 PM
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This is a good idea. Make a date earlier with her. In that way you have already rapport between the two of you during the dinner. Perfect way of not having to go into the uphill battle with some other dude
/r/seduction18/07/18 05:59 AM
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Yeah thanks captain obvious, he already mentioned he knows he fucked up. Do you have any useful advice?
/r/seduction18/07/18 05:57 AM
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Yes it'll come of weird.... In your head. But ignore that, and own it! Because she likes the feeling. You know, would you care, if a woman you like touches you all of a sudden? No, right? you drop the weirdness and go for the excitement! She will do the same. She wants you to escalate, so that you can both give in to the urge to feel each other physically.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:45 PM
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Really cool, sounds like the two of you are really vibing together. Next thing now is to not get in the friendzone: you need to make your intentions clear. She might have wanted you to make a move already, or might not. If you wait too long now, she looses attraction,so go for it. Next time you see her, look into her eyes and touch her arms, shoulders, etc when you talk. If you're lying on the couch,tell her to come lie against you. Those types of physical contact will set the stage to more phys…
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:26 PM
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Yes default response to tinder number, hey its X from the thing. Don't think about it, this is your strategy from now on. Consistency is key, always say the same thing. Unless you get flakes, but you won't. Now next step is set up a date as quickly as possible. Be upfront and suggest a date and place. So "let's meet at the park tomorrow morning" is way better than "are you free some night upcoming week?" if she's not able tomorrow morning then go something like, "oh, let me know your schedule an…
/r/seduction12/07/18 06:05 PM
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Same specs, 30 smart good looking etc. I enjoyed listening to Models, by Mark Manson. Have a go at that. It is recommended quite often here.
/r/seduction08/07/18 06:45 PM
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Really nothing to lose indeed. Just say hi back and let her do some work before you start inviting her again. The fact whether she is now interested because you are cooler now, is actually, irrelevant.
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:19 PM
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It is gonna be fine, you can't help your parents are rich, and you don't boast. That is actually attractive. Just make her feel at home and welcome. You can do that by feeling relaxed yourself and demonstrate to her that it's OK to chill, to touch stuff, etc. Being rich doesn't change how she feels about you. I dated an fortune 500 heir, but didn't like the person so things didn't work out eventually. Same for girls, unless they're gold diggers. She's not, obviously.
/r/seduction01/07/18 09:38 AM
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Duuuuude, man. She tracks your social media. She'll love it when you make contact with her again.
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:07 AM
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I can confirm, really good advice. You might learn that you like things you previously thought were not for you. Makes you a more well defined individual, building confidence, and attraction.
/r/seduction28/06/18 08:56 PM
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Check out the investment paradox, from that same Mark Manson, and how he solves it.
/r/seduction19/06/18 08:51 AM
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No, being upfront is the opposite of insecure. Agreeing to her created conditions and then not enjoying the date is even worse. It'll probably mean that she'll bounce you, but it means that she didn't see you in that way in the first place.
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:10 PM
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Bonus question : definitely go out with them and just expand your social circle. If they end up interested that's nice, but I'd say the upside here is getting something going when you're new. Forget about game on those two
/r/seduction01/06/18 05:03 PM
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You don't need advice, you wrote it all down already. Fuck those dudes and be honest to the girl. Also the hand holding and eye contact is a direct numberclose, right...
/r/seduction09/05/18 11:41 AM
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Get back the control by making up your mind. You say you didn't want a relationship, but then you say you're falling for her. So, what is it gonna be? Is she relationship material and do you want to commit? Act accordingly. She doesn't play you, you play her.
/r/seduction07/04/18 11:17 AM
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Good luck man, totally on board with the wow. Wish I could be of more help... So, supposedly, Russian / slavic girls like to be feminine, and like you to be masculine and dominant. When enough attraction is built, be bold and go for it. They want you to be confident under pressure and that you're going 100% for them, and not sneakily trying to trick them into anything. So strong direct masculine honesty is my advice. But yeah, holds for all girls to be honest :)
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:48 PM
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First of all, chill out. Enjoy yourself in the act, remarkably so it happens that what feels good to you, feels good for her too. Girls can be different to, some like it rough, some don't. They don't break, BTW, so don't be scared to be rough. Of course if you're hurting them and they say stop ,obviously tone down since then it is too rough. Other than that girls like to be touched everywhere, so run your nails over their backs, Stoke the back of their thigh over their ass and up the spine to th…
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:37 PM
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What do you even want? It is totally on topic, just look at the girl, the eye movement, the looks, the lip licking, the breathing pattern, the shoulders. It's like you don't want to hear the answer to your question.
/r/seduction26/02/18 09:12 AM
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Depending on their website setup they either know your password or don't. But I expect them to have the website design and maintenance outsourced, which will mean they don't have your password. That's an educated guess, though
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:47 AM
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Why not make a move directly? This seems passive?
/r/seduction21/02/18 08:58 AM
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"My bad" is apologetic and "I was busy" is explanatory,shows high investment tbh. Keep it even lower and say that you've had an awesome day or whatever.
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:44 PM
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The losing attraction over text is well known. That's why you try to keep texting to a minimum. Real life is where the magic happens. Just set up a date over text or phone now. There is nothing to be gained by continuing to text. She made a joke about making herself look pretty for you. She clearly wants the next date to happen. So make that "some time" specific, right now. In other feedback. Nice convo, you really seem into each other. The bit of neediness I spot is you fully explaining yoursel…
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:14 PM
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Just set up a date over text or phone now. There is nothing to be gained by continuing to text. She made a joke about making herself look pretty for you. She clearly wants the next date to happen. So make that "some time" specific, right now
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:13 PM
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What an awful advice. I literally disagree with everything you say. Comment 1: You're wrong, she was interested since she went for the semi-instadate. The rest is just you judging, no advisory value. Comment 2: Friendzoning her is ridiculous and manipulative. It does not show true intent. OP just has to keep frame and be upfront in his intentions. As stated above, he failed shit tests and did not show enough grit, and that's why he is second guessing himself now. Trying to mindgame her into bed …
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:43 AM
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Yeah, that too.
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:15 AM
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Textbook case of AMOGing, google around. https://www.askjdog.com/what-is-amoging/ Options: Flat out ignore him (shows you are keeping frame and that you're deliberately interested in the girl). Make a validating comment like 'this guy is awesome' (showing high value as apparently you are in a place to judge) You can 'out-alpha' him by starting to ridicule him. I am not a big fan of this but it has been reported successful to my knowledge, I guess it is more of a personality thing that you have t…
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:15 AM
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Yeeehaaw!
/r/seduction16/02/18 10:55 AM
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Sounds like he is seeking more validation than a fuckbuddy.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:42 AM
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Oh boy, after threatening to give her what she deserves.. You better give her what she deserves. Seems that you overpromise underdeliver. Maybe next time, pull her hair when you're making the threat. If she likes it rough, you'll notice.
/r/seduction28/01/18 06:57 PM
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Make sure to make notes on a daily basis as you're going to forget. 30 days is a lot. Also try to do something out of your comfort zone every day to get the most out of the experience. Looking forward to the report. Have fun!
/r/seduction27/01/18 10:03 AM
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Congratulations! I feel the comments thusfar have not been positive enough for your situation right now, so here's my contribution. Whether she was creating the situation to make it as easy as possible for you or not, it doesn't matter, you did it! You have transformed this particular situation from one where you didn't act, to one in which you did. That makes a change of 95% already. At the "conversation was cut short part", that's where you say, "hey, what's your phonenumber, I would like to c…
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:34 AM
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Love that movie. Love Emma Stone. Thanks for making my day
/r/seduction14/01/18 12:32 AM
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Look at yourself in the mirror for a good 30 minutes, and let the current image drain into your self image. Is supposed to help.
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:16 PM
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Don't be in the net. Sounds like you are now. Go out with others and see if she starts qualifying herself to you.
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:04 PM
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Make him come so hard he'll fall asleep immediately :) On a more serious note, what might help is to tell him or guide him into doing stuff that you like. Tell him to suck your ear, bite your neck, whatever you're into. I second the other remark that it's a turn on for guys to have the girl like it.
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:43 PM
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"I'm hungry, let's go for food!" Maybe she was actually trying to pull you... As for the other friend: you bring it up as an excuse. Know that you can actually go for the kiss with her around, once you've already escalated kino enough. If you escalate physical touch, and the lady friend does not approve, you'll notice it straight away (girl gets pulled away from you). You might not end up with the desired result just yet, but you made your intentions very clear,which is a good thing
/r/seduction06/01/18 11:39 PM
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Yeah agreed, but a bit more elaboration: If you're good looking and funny, just entertain her with a non expensive date. During the date you can tell her about not being rich. Own it. Own the being broke situation. Be upfront and not insecure about it. This is who you are. You have an abundance of good qualities. Money is not one of them. This is a good way to not loose your (perceived) masculinity. Rich girls don't care, they'll pay if they like you and want to keep you around. Disclaimer: I'm …
/r/seduction06/01/18 10:29 AM
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Being overly honest
/r/seduction05/01/18 10:55 AM
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Yeah, i was kinda thinking about that too. How about "hey, long time no see, how have you been?" you show no sign of neediness / expectations from previous time. (good) If the girl thinks it was awkward between the two of you, you lead in that it's not. You define the frame AND solve the awkwardness problem. This is greatly appreciated and one of my favorites when it happens. (good) You demonstrate that her flaky behaviour is acceptable (bad). So in like a third or forth line you can playfully m…
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:27 PM
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"why haven't you messaged me" and "we should have had coffee together" sounds quite needy to me btw.
/r/seduction01/01/18 03:13 PM
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Complete bullshit. I am highly social but not ripped at all. My game is best when I'm slightly drunk, since I am having the best time then. Admitted, I am smooth, I kino and escalate naturally and quickly. Success rate? 2/3? 1/4? I have no idea and I don't care much either. It's their loss anyway.
/r/seduction01/01/18 02:45 PM
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Hey, good initiative, would love to follow it. One point of feedback to your post; no i was not thinking "PATHETIC" reading that. I was feeling for you as me and most other people generally wish the best for any person. So please refrain from thinking my thoughts for me, I can do that perfectly fine by myself. Also if anyone actually thinks judgemental thoughts about you being honest about this, actually is more of a signal to me that they are the persons to disregard and avoid. Not you. Cheers …
/r/seduction01/01/18 02:29 PM
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Good read, thanks. Good suggestion to go for house / techno / real partying rather than a club. Those are not really gaming areas though (please prove me wrong if so). My best take on new years eve is to go to a big party a friend of a friend is throwing, and get that social circle expanded. Have fun, and if you happen to get game going, good! But don't count on it.
/r/seduction31/12/17 02:25 PM
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Please elaborate.
/r/seduction30/12/17 05:20 PM
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I also disagree with the whole "dating" thing. The goal here is sex, right? Do you look forward to talking to her over some coffee? She is already in her underwear in front of you. Just come into the house and kino a bit. She'll rip you apart if this was her intention all along and will push you away if you turn out to be wrong in your assessment. Least effort, most results.
/r/seduction26/12/17 09:13 PM
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Yes please! Sounds awesome. Would love to have a place to pitch my ideas and questions to a group of like-minded people.
/r/seduction26/12/17 03:54 PM
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She clearly was dtf from the start. Care to share your tinder bio, for our calibration?
/r/seduction26/12/17 10:56 AM
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How is the rest of your life going? Happy with work / school /study? Frustrating friendships? Sleeping enough lately, working out enough? Try to see the bigger picture. If all is fine, chill the fuck out. Things get rusty every now and then, just let it be. You'll improve, since you're awesome.
/r/seduction24/12/17 01:54 PM
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Dude, that's fucking awesome. Did you enjoy yourself? Did she? Fine, go from there. Be outcome independent, and consider this a win. Actually sometimes girls do not allow for escalation since they're in their period or whatever. As for texting back, you can tell her you had a good time with her and invite her over to finally really watch that movie with her. Ofcourse this is not going to happen. What is going to happen is exactly what happened the first time, but now you're both more confident w…
/r/seduction24/12/17 01:48 PM
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Sorry to hear that. So turns out you actually have two problems then. First of all, make sure you will go to college asap. I must say, in an ironic way it must be motivating you to not fuck up school. So that's healthy. Secondly, I have to argue that confrontation with your parents is not per se a bad thing. After taking away the frustration from your side and the anxiety from their side, it opens up a space of negotiation. This is a somewhat emotional path, but to my knowledge better than leavi…
/r/seduction18/12/17 11:42 PM
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How about telling them you want to go out to meet a girl, not to get drunk. It is even true.
/r/seduction18/12/17 10:13 PM
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After such grinding and touching each other, a simple "want to come in for another drink?" would probably have been enough.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:00 PM
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Yes, girls bumping into you is an IOI. Don't confuse this in a full club where everyone is just close anyway. Girls want you to open them so they'll slide shoulders and arms against your back to let you know they're there. If they do it with their breasts it's an even stronger ioi
/r/seduction16/12/17 04:09 PM
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Congratulations man! This is a huge leap that a lot of people never dare to make. Also glad that you liked it. It sounds as well that your friends were actually keeping you back in a way, since you mention "to talk about whatever you want, leave whenever you want" etc. I have had it at times as well. As mentioned above, find the right balance and keep contact too since you don't want to get depressed either.
/r/seduction12/12/17 01:16 PM
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If anything the bail excuse sounds legit, and it is your best bet to be genuine here and assume her genuinity too. Girls vary greatly in the amount of assertiveness in setting a date up, and it sounds like she might be really passive / traditional in this aspect. Lead the two of you into the future date, and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction27/11/17 11:05 AM
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This, sir, is a limiting belief. Good luck!
/r/seduction27/11/17 09:58 AM
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